When Robert DeNiro has sex with you, he will look into your eyes the whole time

Bear with me! There’s a woman named Carole Mallory. She used to be a model and an actress and now she’s a professor/teacher. She used to be Norman Mailer’s mistress, and she wrote a book about it (Loving Mailer). Now she’s written a new book about all of the other famous men she boned, including Robert DeNiro, Richard Gere, Peter Sellers and Pablo Picasso’s son Claude. Page Six has some early excerpts of the book (Picasso’s Ghost – horrible title), and CB & I just thought there were some interesting details….

Carole Mallory, the actress and model who wrote “Loving Mailer” about her eight-year affair with Norman Mailer, has penned another book about her exploits with famous men — including Robert De Niro, whom she alleges wore socks in bed.

“Picasso’s Ghost” chronicles Mallory’s relationship and broken engagement to Pablo Picasso’s son Claude, as well as affairs with Peter Sellers and Richard Gere. “I was jilted by Claude Picasso, and I spent most of my life trying to shore up my bad feelings about myself,” she tells us. “A lot of my seeking out famous men was to prove I was OK. I felt terribly wounded when he jilted me. I felt validated by celebrities.”

Mallory, who starred in “The Stepford Wives,” met De Niro in 1975 at the Chateau Marmont, and the pair had a 14-day affair. “During lovemaking, he never stopped looking in my eyes,” she writes. She continues, “He had a butterfly tattoo that I later realized matched his flighty spirit. So did the fact he left his socks on.” She added, “The following year he married Diahnne Abbott . . . I would have appreciated a phone call.”

Of Mallory’s romance with “Pink Panther” star Sellers, she writes in the book from Amazon’s CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform, “I kissed him all over his hairy body. He had hair everywhere. He even had it on his back. I liked it. He reminded me of a giant panda bear.”

But she adds of the enigmatic actor who struggled with depression, “I think maybe he was too filled with self-loathing. Alcohol temporarily masked that and freed him from his demonic thoughts about himself.”

Mallory, 71, who now teaches writing at Rosemont College and Temple University in Philly, breathlessly describes a one-night stand with Gere in the late ’70s: “His gymnastic skills were apparent. He made love his way . . . He didn’t withhold. He was Valentino in the flesh. A sex symbol not to be forgotten. Not to be lumped in with all the others, but to be remembered for his uniqueness. His thoughtfulness. His caring.”

Reps for De Niro and Gere didn’t get back to us.

[From Page Six]

The DeNiro details are… interesting. I mean, you have to admit, the description is kind of hot…? We’re talking about young DeNiro here too – this would have been 1970s DeNiro I think. And Bobby DeNiro was GORGEOUS in the 70s. He was all dark hair and intensity and raw sexuality. Mmm. Where was I? As for Peter Sellers – as a Sellers fan-girl, I think it’s kind of douche to talk about his back hair, you know? In fact, this whole endeavor seems like some woman trying to profit from her wild & crazy youth now that she’s old and doesn’t give a damn.

Photos courtesy of WENN.

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    • V4Real says:

      I’m looking into his eyes and having sex with him right now!

      • Alexandra Bananarama says:

        You’re making the call that his eyes were endearing and sensual. Not a creepy stare searching your expression for how you’re enjoying it. It’s up to the interpreter.

        This is all too common with women (and men) from that era. Be it rock stars or actors they love to kiss and tell if it will earn them a buck.

        I won’t slut shame her, but she shouldn’t kiss and tell for the sake of profit. I couldn’t shame her if I wanted. She seems without moral.

      • ILLNana says:


    • ILLNana says:

      he’s a sexy ass leo and what’s wrong with that??????

  1. RocketMerry says:

    I believe the part on DeNiro (HOT MAN!), I don’t believe the part on Gere (always gave me the impression of being the most asexual man on the planet; kind and sweet, though, probably).

    • Azurea says:

      Are you kidding??! Go watch Looking for Mr. Goodbar. Wowser! Granted, for the past several years he’s looked like an ageing hamster.

      • RocketMerry says:

        Eh, sorry, Gere never really did it for me. Not in “Pretty woman”, not in “American gigolò”, nor in any of his other movies.
        He’s very cute, though! Seems sweet, too.

  2. TheOriginalKitten says:

    Oh noes! This happened to me once-a dude INSISTED on staring into my eyes the whole time we were doing it. It was terrible. I’d try to look away and he’d tilt my head back to face him…man, that was creepy. I had to shut my eyes tight and go to my happy place just to keep from freaking out.

    I snuck out of his apartment post-bone for fear he’d want to do it again in the AM.
    Some sexual experiences are so traumatic they are relegated to the recesses of my mind, only to be resurrected by a De Niro post.

    If I wasn’t at work, I would smoke a bowl right now to forget about it…

    • Amelia says:

      I had an image of Bradley Cooper just pop into my head, standing in the doorway with a breakfast tray asking “How did you sleep?!”
      Breeeeathe, O. Kitt, think happy, ginger, Damian Lewis-y thoughts 🙂
      I can barely do extended eye contact *out* of bed!! It’s a strange quirk. If I’m talking to someone I don’t know particularly well I always look at a spot on their eyelid so I don’t seem rude. But I feel quite uncomfortable if I don’t consider them a close friend. Thankfully my bf is my best friend.
      And he’s French, so if I freak out at eye contact I can quite happily listen to him ramble on about random things. I think he was talking about drains once, and I was blissfully unaware until he told me afterwards.

      • TheOriginalKitten says:

        Ahhhhhh…thank you Amelia. Just picturing my hot ginge relaxes me…;)

        But YES! I am completely like you about the eye contact. I find it very unnerving and can only do it for short periods of time.

        I’ve had people complain about my lack of eye contact before and I never realized how odd it was until I met my friend Jason who also doesn’t do direct eye contact. Sometimes when we go out for a beer, we’ll just start cracking up because while we’re having a conversation, one of us is staring at the game on the TV and the other is staring at the glass of beer.

        But yeah-I could do eye contact during sex ONLY if I was super-into the guy. Then I could *maybe* see how it might be hot. Otherwise, it scares me.

      • V4Real says:

        Oh Kitty and Amelia, the only guy(S) eyes I would want to look into are RDJ, Chris Evans, Idris Elba or Hiddleston.

        If it was Bradley Cooper I think I would guage my eyes out.

        But then that wouldn’t last to long for me because I like to switch up positions and some positions calls for no eye contact at all.

        I guess back then missionary was the standard go to position.

    • FassDaActor says:

      I had a similar experience. If we’re familiar with each other and the sex is hot n nasty, I can have extended eye contact. It has to be sponaneous. I was seeing this guy who looks and sounds like C. Bale. It was hot and heavy. He was a little too mysterious for me so I had 1 foot out the door. I’m not one to keep her eyes closed the whole time but it wasn’t enough for this dude. He would demand more eye contact. I slipped out early one morning. He was starting to creep me out. Enjoy your bowl tonight lol

    • MeMyself says:

      Oh Kitten, I have such a thing for you.

      • TheOriginalKitten says:

        Well, as long as you don’t mind the no eye contact thing then maybe we can make this thing work!

    • Azurea says:

      Y’all are too funny! The creepiest sex I ever had was with a guy who was COMPLETELY silent the whole time…not even any breathing. It was truly bizarre. I thought he was really cute before, but after — HUGE ICK.

      • V4Real says:

        Damn so he gave you no indication if you were doing it right. How did you know if he um you know, if he was completely quiet.

      • Azurea says:

        @V4Real….Let’s just say I had to dump HIM. How did I know…um…that’s why it was ICK. lol

    • Minnie says:

      Lol! I’ll meet u out back with the bowl!!

  3. Marissa says:

    The title of this post is just…gross. But I do have to admit, having that intense eye contact during sex, IS pretty hot. Uh, not so much from DeNiro from way back then, or now. I still don’t get why she’d put her dirty laundry out there like that. Yeah, “she’s old now,” and “freedom of speech” and whatnot, but…no. Just…no.

  4. Nev says:

    for SURE Gere is a great lover…he exudes it.

  5. Loulou says:

    At least with Peter Sellers you wouldn’t really have to pass to the act to be fully aroused – he was a genius. Claude Picasso IMO is not a catch. A mama’s boy who was suckered into the century’s biggest larceny and murder of all the legitimate Picasso heirs so his crazy talentless mother would get back at Picasso – clearly, he’s guilty of moral patricide by complicity. He doesn’t bear the right name. His name would be Claude Ruiz. Pablo Ruiz Picasso never was a French citizen nor changed his name. According to Spanish custom, the name is Ruiz. Idiots.

  6. stellalovejoydiver says:

    “The following year he married Diahnne Abbott . . . I would have appreciated a phone call.”
    It was an affair not a deep long term relationship?! She seems pretty whacky.

    • FassDaActor says:

      ^^She sounds a little looney. Why would he need to call her?

    • Claudia says:

      Ha! I felt compelled to leave a comment on that very quote, and saw that you covered it.

      She was a two week fling! Why the hell would she think it would be appropriate for DeNiro, a year later, to give her a heads up he was getting married? In the grand (and even small) scheme of things, she was barely a blip on his radar. He was a sexy, in-demand star back then. According to her logic, he probably would have had to make tons of heads-up phone calls.

      • Claire says:

        Hahhaa I was about to say the same as you all.

        What a psycho… I understand why she ‘needs validation’….. She does not sound very desirable!

    • Sandy Pandy says:

      LOL – I was scrolling down to post on this too. You got humped for two weeks and then a year later, hear he married someone and you think he owed you a call?? Whack job is right.

    • Beatriz says:

      That’s exactly what I thought the moment I read that line! Dude, you f***ed for 2 weeks, that doesn’t entitle you to anything. Constant eye-contact is a little weird for me, BUT for De Niro I would do anything xD.

    • ORLY says:

      I’d like to think this woman used that line as filler for her book. Perhaps she was below her word count? Otherwise, what the heck is she on about with wanting a phone call?

      • Agnes says:

        That’s what I thought too – “filler”. No one can be crazy enough to think that they are owed a phonecall after 2 weeks of boning, right?

  7. FassDaActor says:

    Idk if I believe her but I’ll go for it for entertainment purposes. De Niro looking at you the whole time? I love eye contact but it sounds sort of scary coming from De Niro. He never did it for me in that way. Same with Gere. I’ve always been fascinated by Peter Sellers. I would imagine lots of fun in the sack…minus the fur bodysuit

  8. T.Fanty says:

    I am not well today and a post like this isn’t helping. All I can see is the words combined with the pics of old DeNiro and it’s making me (more) nauseous.

  9. MsAubra says:

    I could see eye contact while “blessing the mic”, but not during anything else…

  10. Jayna says:

    Gere in his heyday just looks like he would be very sexual. The way he walks says it all.

  11. TQB says:

    Gross. What happened to a wry smile and “a woman never tells”? Notable that this POS is self-published.

  12. faun says:

    This classless woman will just not let it rest. I feel terribly sorry for Norris Church Mailer.

  13. Reece says:

    Sorry but I cannot stand walking V’s that can’t keep their mouth shut. I follow the “Kiss & Don’t Tell” school of thought.
    Groupies don’t get phone calls.

  14. Hubbahun says:

    Creeper :S

  15. KJ says:

    I don’t believe her. It’s been said that the only thing a white woman can show Robert Dinero is where a black woman lives. The man has a type. Maybe she was a one-off.

  16. Lee says:

    no one has commented on the butterfly tattoo revelation? did we already know this about Deniro? The mental image of Deniro with a butterfly tramp stamp is cracking me up!

  17. fabgrrl says:

    Please please please, post a photo of young DeNiro. Especially from Godfather 2, he was sooooo hot in that!

  18. fabgrrl says:

    While I’m sure boning a young DeNiro and young Gere were incredibly thrilling experiences, I would hope one would have better things to write about! She wasn’t a wife or girlfriend, just a hook-up. She didn’t “know” them and can’t provide any insight. Hey, look at me, I was a party girl in the 1970s and f’ed with some guys who became major stars! I’m famous!

  19. Violet says:

    I can’t even imagine what those days were like. I’m not even talking about her boning all those celebrities, but about the whole era of having sex without health consequences — they had the pill and all STDs could be cured by antibiotics. I have to admit that I’m totally jealous.

    • FassDaActor says:

      I’ve been saying that for years. It would have been nice to explose…have more freedom. They had it good before the big monster showed up.

    • Violet says:


      And I forgot to mention another thing I’m jealous about — in the 70s, it was totally acceptable for women not to remove body hair or wear makeup.

      Honestly, it must’ve been like heaven.

      • Trashaddict says:

        Yeah, heavenly. Pre: legalization of abortion (’73), the herp, love and random sex, car rides with Ted Bundy, Nixon as President….nostalgia always makes me laugh.

  20. lucy2 says:

    Filing this under things I did not need to know.

  21. ladybert62 says:

    He is gross and has not aged well.

  22. Bijlee says:

    Did he say “you talking to me?” while they did it. I would just burst out laughing.

  23. Bella says:

    He is the hottest sexiest man to this day!Where can I sign up……

  24. Stacia says:

    Sounds like this chic ‘got around’ (famewhore). Seems like she only sought out famous guys to bone. Now who wants to here about a geriatric slut and her kiss and tell sexual escapades? What a classless broad.

  25. Eleonor says:

    OH MY that’s hot. A man looking into your eyes during sex… it’ something so strong, I love it!!!

  26. Anoni Mus says:

    He has not aged well, but De Niro in the 70s? Hot damn, I would’ve been all over that, creepy eye-lock sex or not.

    I feel guilty enjoying this type of gossip, it feels trashy for her to air her sexual history like that, probably only for the profit$$$.

  27. Green is Good says:

    Why can’t high paid whores keep their mouths shut? And that’s what this woman is.

    Mazel Tov. You’re a ho-bag.

  28. KellyinSeattle says:

    I find it CREEPY! Sometimes it’s best not to kiss and tell, as in almost all the time.

  29. Maritza says:

    I predict many more women like her will come out with tell all books as well. God knows there are plenty fan crazed women dedicated to just sleep with celebrities.

  30. Ms Kay says:

    Well, it depends on the partner, some are creepy because they want to see your face and not exactly connect per se so it can be very uncomfortable, others well the chemistry is intense that whilst having sex it makes it even more orgasmic when you make eye contact, it’s like a complicity…

    That said, Bob De Niro back from Deer Hunter days… Hmmm-mmm come to Mama oh yes!

  31. Dee says:

    Know for a FACT the De Niro part is NOT true. She wishes.

  32. Dcat says:

    This is my first time commenting (I love it here) and I went to Rosemont! It doesn’t take much to get me exited

  33. serena says:

    You want a phonecall after a 14days affair? Sure she was and is delusional.