Shakira: My boyfriend says to shut my ‘little mouth’ about him in interviews

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Shakira is still busily promoting her upcoming Shakira album. We’ve discussed her Billboard interview where Shakira admitted that Gerard Pique is “very territorial” and won’t let her do videos with men. He didn’t mind Shakira and Rihanna groping each other and having a booty contest in the video to “Can’t Remember to Forget You.” Many of you rightfully commented that most of Shakira’s videos usually feature her dancing with a crowd (or alone). It’s odd that Gerard would care about random male dancers. Oh well. Shakira also keeps her weight where Gerard likes it. She talks more about Gerard’s territorial nature in this interview. He didn’t have the greatest reaction to her talking about him in Billboard. Fortunately, there’s plenty of talk of Shakira’s philanthropy to balance things out. Here are some excerpts:

She feels responsibility to speak for her culture: “I do. I do feel that I have to use my voice for those that don’t have one. I have to do the best I can in my own work to represent my culture, represent the women of my country, of Latin America. What we stand for. What we’re made of. I feel like there is a part of me that represents a minority in the US, a minority around the world. People who struggle, people who want to succeed with drive and ambition. People who want to try – yeah, I do feel in a way like an ambassador, for all of those.”

She insists her corporate sponsors commit themselves ethically: “It’s what is called philanthro-capitalism. It’s the private sector caring enough to help find solutions to our common problems. It’s the private sector getting involved the way they should in today’s world. So that’s the kind of commitment I need from commercial brands like Oral-B and Crest. And that’s one of the biggest incentives I can have for me to sign a contract with one of these multi-nationals — to see this kind of commitment.”

She uses her celebrity for good: “That’s what it is. I always felt that there had to be much more [than] just… shaking it, you know, eternally. Or just making music. Or more even than the pure enjoyment of entertaining someone — being on stage, which is a tremendous rush of adrenaline. But there had to be something else to my life. And I feel that with this work that I do, that’s how my life gets fulfilled. And how I find a purpose to my own existence. And I do feel that music is the platform. It’s become the vehicle that allows me to use my voice to speak about those issues that need urgent attention. I can take the spotlight that shines on me and shift it towards those issues that are infinitely more important than my own issues.”

Squaring her sexy videos with feminism: “Ah-ha ha! Em… I don’t… I… I feel like I don’t have to choose, really. I don’t have to be one thing or the other. I’m a multi-faceted woman, and person, like all women are — there’s no black and white. We have shades of grey in the middle. And even many more colours that other people don’t see! I don’t think that… that I put myself in any situation in which I am objectified. But I do take advantage of, you know, feeling sensual and feeling sexy. And I think that is tremendously empowering and is not diminishing in any way. I fell that any woman who is in control, who is in touch with her femininity and sensuality, is a woman that is empowered. Is a woman who is comfortable in her own skin. Which is so important as well.”

More on Gerard Pique not letting her do videos with men: “I’ll tell you something: he said, ‘can you please shut your little mouth next time you’re doing interviews — because you’re making me sound terrible!’ And I said: ‘Isn’t it true? Can I go and do video with men?’ And he’s like, ‘no!’ He is definitely territorial. He’s a Spanish man. But I like that. He’s protecting his turf. He is a defender — the last person before the goalie.”

[From Independent]

I’m sort of laughing at Shakira’s notion that she doesn’t allow herself to ever be objectified. Her stage act and videos are all pretty sexy. In her “She Wolf” video, she gropes herself, rolls around in a cage, and makes humping gestures. Not that there’s anything wrong with that, and she doesn’t have to choose between feminism and being sexy. But to claim that she doesn’t allow herself to be objectified? Ha.

As far as Gerard telling Shakira to “shut your little mouth” … that seems disrespectful at best. I guess she must enjoy that kind of relationship dynamic, or she wouldn’t be with him.

Here’s a photo of Shakira attending a school inauguration for her foundation. When she commits herself to opening a school, it happens — unlike with Madonna.

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Shakira

Photos courtesy of WENN

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  1. Nympha says:

    I really like what she has to say about charity work. She seems truly commited to it and humble. As for Gerard… well, I wouldn’t want to be with someone like that.

    • GoodNamesAllTaken says:

      Ditto and ditto.

    • Me too. I was surprised to read about her charitable work-I really respect that about her.

      Still don’t see what she sees in this dude though.

      @Goodnames-click on my link to see the baby in a St. Paddy’s bowtie 😉

      • We Are All Made of Stars says:

        Yeah… she donated $149 million of her own money to help the tsunami victims. Out of all the popstars whose PR machines promote them as singers, musicians, songwriters, beauties, brainiacs, and charitable in nature to boot, Shakira is the real deal.

      • GoodNamesAllTaken says:

        Oh. My. God!!!! How adorable! That was the best St. Paddy’s Day present ever! Thank you!

  2. lucy2 says:

    She seems like a really nice, generous, and caring woman. I hope he isn’t as controlling as he sounds.

    • danielle says:

      we’ll, he has a point, she makes him sound like a dick. Of course, he could stop being/saying dickish things, and that would help too.

  3. lisa2 says:

    Their son is just adorable.

    Does anyone else notice besides me that the women who are real feminist who are really breaking down walls and doing it for themselves are not the ones constantly screaming how they are empowered. You know they are by how they walk through life and what they do. If you have to scream it then you are not projecting it enough that it can be seen; even when you are silent.

    • lisa2 says:

      meant to add

      I liked her comment regarding charity as well. It is why many people do it. Even those of us that don’t make millions.

    • OhDear says:

      It seems like a lot of celebrities talk about feminism as if it were a fad (meaning they talk about feminism because they’re catering to what they think is popular now). Then there are people who use it as an excuse (e.g. Lena Dunham and any criticism she gets).

  4. Mouse says:

    I would love to see her go back to her natural hair colour. I’m tired of the blonde.

  5. mom2two says:

    Gerard would not be the one for me but if she is okay with it, then that’s her gig.

  6. cr says:

    ” “I’ll tell you something: he said, ‘can you please shut your little mouth next time you’re doing interviews — because you’re making me sound terrible!’ ”

    Oh, Shakira, Shakira.

    He doesn’t sound like a winner.

    OTOH, she does keep talking about it, so maybe it’s a passive aggressive response? Or she actually enjoys ‘poking’ at him a bit?

    • Tatjana says:

      I think she’s teasing him. If he was so bad she wouldn’t keep talking about him. Or maybe something got lost in translation.

    • lenje says:

      I do think she’s been constantly teasing him about him. Not sure until when he can withstand it 😉

  7. MrsBPitt says:

    It would be one thing if she said that she didn’t do video’s with men anymore because SHE felt it disrespected her relationship…but it’s sending a wrong message to young girls when her boyfriend ORDERS her not to…I love her attitude about using her fame to do good things…but, if my boyfriend told me to shut my “little mouth” you would bet he would be hearing some choice words coming from my “big mouth”…

    • Kaylah says:

      Exactly, if she was the one that said she wants to stop doing that because she respects her relationship then that’s her prerogative, but these quotes about her not being “allowed” (I hate that word) like he’s her father or something & shut your little mouth up like she’s a ditzy dumb blonde that only good for cooking, cleaning & popping kids out just make it seem like she’s being controlled.

      • deehunny says:

        yes, interesting. would have even went over if he said, “can you shut your big mouth” since that would imply that she talks too much. this just implies that a paternal belittling. not a fan.

    • danielle says:

      Yeah, I can’t imagine how ballistic I’d go if my bf said that! Its a bit different from “I’d appreciate if you’d not talk about me in interviews…”

  8. Stephanie says:

    Isn’t this the way that abusive relationships start?

    Guy: what you said about me makes me look like an asshole!

    Lace that bitch up and wear it, then. Jerk.

  9. Anna says:

    A few of the dudes on the Spanish National Football Team seem to kind of have this attitude that they can have a committed relationship and then when they’re in competiton can do whatever they want (at least that’s what I’ve gotten from the tabloids and gossip) so maybe that contributes to that.. I guess if Shakira likes this than good for her but it gives me a bad vibe. Like she’s being controlled but she doesn’t know it and secretly thinks she’s being “empowered” and making her own choices when really they’re all his…

    I wish she would go back to the brown hair too..

  10. QQ says:

    Once again she succeeds at making this guy sound like a massive asshole

    • Dani2 says:

      Right? I’d be very surprised if it’s just how she’s worded the last few interviews. He really does sound like a douche of epic proportions.

    • Hiddles forever says:

      Exactly.

      Her boyfriend comes across as abusive and controlling.

      Good luck with that, Shakira!

      • Pinky says:

        Agree. SHE makes him look like a really bad boyfriend.True or not we don’t know. But that gets her lot of headlines, isn’t it? A respectful relationship is not newsworthy. And her music is so bad lately better not talk about that.

      • Pinky says:

        my comment was a reply to QQ. I did wrong, sorry for the confusion.

  11. Miss M says:

    I don’t recall Shakira objectifying herself in the beginning of her career. I think it all started when she tried to break through the US market. But… What do I know?

    • Tapioca says:

      Indeed. Brunette “Pies Descawhatever” Shakira would have punched out any record exec who dared suggest she danced round a pole in her underwear for a rapper or indulged in any faux-lesbianism for a video. Or hit him over the head with her guitar!

      The quality of the music has not improved in line with the increased expanse of unclothed flesh either…

      • Diana says:

        Yes Tapioca, that’s exactly how it is. She just became another ditzy blond pop act, as generic as the next diva waiting to come out. So sad.

        It angers me when she says she represents anything. No Colombian in their right mind feels represented by this woman. She has left that building a long time ago. Give us Juanes and now we’re talking.

  12. smee says:

    Classic controller talk – run woman.

  13. lambchops says:

    Is boquita just diminuative? Not really the same in English.

  14. Kaylah says:

    Lol @ that entire quote! Is that meant to redeem him from the previous one cause this one makes him sound worse. She seems really passionate about her charity work & it’s not just a photo op to her.

  15. babythestarsshinebrite says:

    Her baby is the handsomest/ness.

  16. Nroth Wset says:

    I get a very bad vibe from Shakira & her man..It seems like he is controlling maybe hitting her…There is something really odd, about this relationship.

    • Sarah says:

      woah, calm down. how can you imply that he is hitting her? thats extremely far reaching and libelous. based on two sentences in an interview that say he doesnt like somthing which most people in the world dont like.

      domestic violence is an extremely sensitive topic and you cant just throw around things like that.

      • Nroth Wset says:

        i just get that vibe from them..A feeling, that i feel.
        And the way she is defending him…’he’s a Spanish man?’…And so what?i read between the lines..not the lines themselff.

  17. Pinky says:

    “He is definitely territorial. He’s a Spanish man.”
    What a stupid affirmation.
    Yes honey, you’re a woman in love and your man is a macho and we all have forgotten his photos with Zlatan Ibrahimovic.

  18. Kelly says:

    I love you Shakira, but really, time to shut up now.
    I guess she’s the typical Latina catholic woman who’s all fire and passion yet submissive and accepting of being put in her place by the man. This isn’t prejudice, this is just my experience of knowing many who are like that. Makes me sad, especially when they go “but that is the natural order of things”…

  19. Marianne says:

    Wow, that guy sounds like a real prize.

  20. OhDear says:

    I hope for her sake that something got lost in translation, but this relationship does not seem like it’ll end well.

  21. Sarah says:

    “It’s odd that Gerard would care about random male dancers”
    Madonna, Jlo, Britney (multiple times), the celebs on Dancing with the Stars, Natalie Portman…the list of women banging the guy they are professionally dancing with is endless. he should be worried.

    why is it considered so normal that a musician does love scenes in a music video? it does not make any sense. who would like it if their partner gets raunchy with other people for all the world to see?

  22. Mitch Buchanan Rocks! says:

    It comes across like they are having a passive-aggressive fight in the public eye – not being able to communicate seriously sucks – use the talking stick people!

  23. Pumpkin Pie says:

    OkK, I used to like her music until the 2010 World Wup in South Africa, she sang the anthem. And right after the Wc started got this email saying how Shakira lied about writing the song herself – there was also an interview with her at a press conference saying how she wrote the song on the way from the barn to the house – she had/has this ranch somewhere in Uruguay or Paraguay. And then there were maybe 2 links, well at least 2 links to songs very similar to her song (It’s time for Africa?) that were performed like in the 80s or 90s by other people. Very, very, incredibly similar – just the music, not the lyrics. I can’t get over that. I just can’t. But that’s ok, she’s got many fans.
    Other than that, the baby is the cutest baby boy ever!
    (I don’t have that email anymore, I would have posted the links)

  24. Damaris says:

    Just stop talking, Shakira.

  25. Miss M says:

    I think she wants to give the impression her man protects her and she is really desired by him.
    As a Latin, I get that. But I also get that comes off the wrong way. I am in no way justifying her remarks about him, but I can see why he is concerned about other men since in Hollywood (in her artistical world), relationships are so volatile.

  26. Scarlett says:

    Ok, I am seriously sick of women not getting to just have blonde hair if they want to. Kim Kardashian, whom I honestly can’t stand, was trashed on this site for having blonde hair. Beyonce, another one whom I hate with the heat of a thousand suns, also heavily criticized, for her blonde hair. Shakira has had the blonde for years. I think all of them look amazing with blonde hair. It complements their skin tones beautifully. For God’s sake let a woman choose to be none if they want to. They’re not trying whitewash themselves, they just like how it looks on them. We don’t all have to have the hair color that we’re born with. It’s fun to choose our hair color people!

  27. Kiki says:

    Shakira really disappoints me. And she got the nerve to say is a feminist. Oh sure, expressing your sexuality in a bit of a sleeve is very strong prospect to us women. I will take you seriously Shakira is you sang about female empowerment and love for yourself. As for her relationship for her significant other who needs to grow a pair, SHAKIRA You do not have a man, YOU HAVE A MANAGER.

  28. Miss Pasión says:

    As a conniseur of Latin entertainment please believe me when I say it’s a ploy played by many Latina artists to keep their sex symbol status. They have to make their boyfriends/husbands come off as having a lot machismo and kind of like a d**k because it keeps the men who desire them inerested and gives them a damsel in distress persona that the men want to save and women can empathize with. In reality, the guy is probably a pussy cat and knows what she is doing this because her career and sex status symbol are so intertwined. If she came off as a happy mother/wife, she’d lose her fan base really fast. I’ve seen it happen to other women. Trust me, if you read half of the stuff some have said you’d think all of these female Latin superstars were going home to get abused on a regular basis. Most just avoid talking about being married and try to make people forget they are attached. That seems more honest to me and it doesn’t hurt anyone. I am saddened that Shakira has gone down this route.

  29. Spaniard says:

    I used to love her but now not so much. I am sorry for her but it is hard to believe pique said that. Pique is a brat who has fun with his friends, loves partying and is not as crazy for her as she wants us to believe. I live in Barcelona and in the moment she is not in town he cant wait to go partying. So, Pique , territorial….eh….not really

  30. Corey says:

    Regarding some of her comments about her bf.she lives a different culture and english is not her first language. It really sounds to me like some of the expressions get lost in translation