Casper Smart: Jennifer Lopez & I ‘are just having a good time… that’s all’


On Friday, we discussed the “rumor” from In Touch Weekly that Casper Smart is cheating on his girlfriend Jennifer Lopez… again. Casper memorably cheated on J.Lo last year, and she half-heartedly broke up with him for about two seconds, then got back together with him “secretly” and they’ve been together ever since. Except Jennifer Lopez is ruining Casper’s game, yo. HE doesn’t want to acknowledge that SHE is his girlfriend. Think about that. Casper doesn’t want to get tied down with some beautiful, rich, successful, serious girlfriend. So just as In Touch Weekly’s report came out, Casper went to People Magazine to define his relationship with J.Lo.

Whether or not they’re officially back together is still unclear, but Jennifer Lopez and Beau Casper Smart are definitely enjoying each other’s company.

“We’re just having a good time, just being ourselves, that’s all,” the choreographer, 28, told PEOPLE.

Smart has recently taken his talents from behind the scenes to in front of the stage, appearing as a judge on Fake Off, a talent competition show featuring theater, acrobatics, aerial stunts and illusion.

“It’s very unique,” he says of truTV’s Wednesday night reality show. “It’s almost like a mini, 90-second awards show for amateurs. It’s nice to see what they come up with, how much they can do with what they have, and being able to help guide them a little bit.”

Off the show’s set, Smart and Lopez, 45, have been spotted together quite frequently recently, holding hands and even sharing a kiss. While the creative director was tight-lipped about their romantic status, Smart wasn’t shy about gushing about Lopez’s work ethic.

“She’s one of the hardest-working people I’ve ever seen or met in my life,” says Smart, who recently choreographed Lopez’s sexy music video with Prince Royce for “Back It Up.” “She crushes everything that you give to her, and she knows what she wants. She’s just great.”

[From People]

Casper Smart is like Kellan Lutz, only I’d like to think that even Kellan Lutz is smart enough to know that if he ever hooked a girlfriend like J.Lo, he should just shut up and behave. But not Casper. Casper wants all of his sidepieces to know that sure, he sees Jennifer… but it’s not like serious-serious. She’s just a “good time.” They’re just hanging out. Ain’t nothin’. That’s his line. That’s what he tells his sidepieces.



Photos courtesy of WENN.

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  1. V1 says:

    He is so GROSS.

    • minx says:

      Ugh, yes. Nothing wrong with having a boy toy, but he wouldn’t be my choice.

    • Juliette says:

      Totally gross and those sunglasses look like budget lady glasses. Just creepy looking, he must have a wonder dong or something.

    • mytbean says:

      It doesn’t bother me that they’re just “having a good time”. But it definitely bothers me that he made a public announcement of it. It feels like he’s announcing to the world that his dong is available. Maybe it would have come across differently if J. Lo had been the one interviewed.

      Maybe she likes the fact that he’s so noncommittal. Maybe she doesn’t want a “partner” in life that is exclusively hers and hers alone because she wants the freedom to shrug him off when she’s as busy as she likes to be in her professional life. Maybe he’s sort of the mistress to her career and she prefers an open relationship for him so as to balance that out. And maybe she gave him the go ahead to tell the world that they’re not an item.

      Still… the way he announced it just feels gross… like she’s just one of his many ho’s or something. ugh.

  2. MelissaManifesto says:

    There is a level of self-confidence and self-worth, the one that helps a woman get rid of someone who has grossly cheated on them many times, that money and fame just can’t buy.

    • Boston Green Eyes says:

      I agree with you 200%, Melissa. But it also comes down to a society that bases a woman’s worth with whom they are with. In a society that internalizes single women = worthlessness, then being with anyone is far better than being alone. I see this all the time being a single woman, myself. I feel that I have to explain/defend myself with my choice to remain single. People are always like, what’s an attractive woman like you doing alone. Well, for one, I prefer it that way – I’d rather be alone than be with a bozo like Casper Smart!

      • Naddie says:

        Tell me about it. “What, you don’t have a boyfriend? Why girl, WHY?” And then they start to enumerate my adjectives and so on… One even implyed I might’ve being sexually assaulted in the past.

      • Sarah says:

        Boston, totally agree! As a single woman in my mid-30’s, I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been interrogated about my choice not to get married or have kids. People can’t understand that I have no desire to do either. I’m constantly expected to defend my decisions, as if my decision to stay single and childless affects anyone else!

    • sally says:

      I wonder if someone of J.Lo’s wealth, fame, etc. is even hit on by ‘regular’ men a lot. I would assume that someone worthy of dating her, (stable businessman etc) would ever approach her? It’s the scumbags that have the balls to talk to her and so her dating pool is actually limited to these horrible men. Plus, she was with Ben Affleck, P. Diddy, Marc Anthony and they didn’t stay faithful or treat her right. She probably doesn’t believe that there’s such a thing as a healthy relationship.

    • Babalon says:

      The assumption being that he’s cheating.

      Some people are poly. Some people are bisexual.

      I’m no fan of Casper Smart, but some of you show an appalling lack of acknowledgement of different lifestyles.

      • MP says:

        Jennifer had stated more than once that the reason for at least some of her break-ups were the mans infidelity so no, she’s clearly not poly.

      • Mila says:

        that Jennifer dumped all her exes after they cheated could be seen as evidence against being poly.

      • mytbean says:

        even if they are poly – I don’t think it’s the possible life style choice that’s put people off. I think it has more to do with Casper’s way of regarding J. Lo… as though she’s “just” another woman. Even in poly relationships most people want respect and a recognition that they are special – not just another lay.

        And that’s how he keeps coming across. Like she’s just another girl and that she’s lucky to be with him when most people here recognize that in comparison to J. Lo’s appearance, wealth and ambition, he is the lucky one.

  3. Sabrine says:

    She’s got three failed marriages and has her family, so Casper fits the bill. When she’s older and not performing anymore, they’ll go their separate ways. What he’s telling the press is exactly what she wants him to tell them. Downplay the relationship even if there is more to it, which probably isn’t too likely anyway.

    • atrain says:

      That’s how I read it, too. He’s only saying what she wants him to say about it.

  4. Elfie says:

    She just seems so desperate for a man, any man will do, whomever is there the very second she clicks her fingers. She can’t be alone for a minute, that’s a level of neediness that’s extremely unappealing and people like that never have genuine relationships because they’re never alone long enough to figure out what they want and find the right person who fits that bill.

  5. Jayna says:

    Jennifer Lopez is not capable of just chilling and having a good time with a guy. It has to be mad love for her or she has to convince herself it is. So I’m not buying what they are spinning.

  6. TOPgirl says:

    Something is seriously mentally wrong with JLo. Britney Spears, Mariah, and Jlo should get together and have group therapy. They all have some form of daddy issues.

    • Easypeasy123 says:

      Ummm Britney DOES have real serious mental issues. That’s why someone is legally appointed to make decisions for her

    • Kylie says:

      There is a good article on Jezebel about the concept of “daddy issues” and why it is b.s..

  7. Victoria1 says:

    Pure speculation: but maybe he’s doing this to make her dump him for good? Because he’s embarrassing her by saying “I’m not that into you, you’re just a placeholder for now? ” that’s how I took it, she needs an intervention. Aye dios!!!!!!

    • lisa2 says:

      I feel she is doing what a lot of women do. She is trying to paint the picture that she is free and flirty. That this is just a fun relationship. I would have bought that before that cheating thing happened. She ‘broke it off” and then went on a I’m free and not looking tour.. Then we find that this was not the case at all; that she was still involved with him. That is not free and flirty. She is in it and in it deep.. and he knows it. Her having more power and status doesn’t equal having the power in the relationship. He knows how into him she is and that gives him some serious power over her.

      Being a strong woman doesn’t mean you are not going to attract a strong man. There are other couples that have power and clout and are making it work. This is the kind of man she wants; so that is why she is with him.

  8. jen2 says:

    I think it is kind of sad to see two articles about two successful and talented women (in their 40s, which may have something to do with it) who can’t seem to be alone for any length of time. This one with a young stud who seems to have more going on below the belt than above the neck and Mariah who just seems to need some rich dude to do whatever. Both of these women seem to have show little self worth or awareness, at least on the surface. I hope neither is hurt and know how to handle themselves and keep what is theirs safe.

    But they are also two grown women, who want to live this way. So, if they are happy, then not much else can be said.

  9. kri says:

    He looks just like one of the Flying Monkey guards from the Wizard of Oz.

  10. Lissie says:

    To be fair, she said this exact same thing on Ellen in her last interview…
    Maybe it just is what it is? A super casual relationship between two consenting adults…

    • ozmom says:

      Oh, Lissie, stop making sense. 😉 If people can’t cut her down by calling her a fool for being with this guy how are they supposed to feel better about themselves?

  11. Size Does Matter says:

    I can’t take any more JLo stories. She’s just one in a series of beautiful, successful, famous women to get “minimized” by her partner. See also: Christie Brinkley, Elizabeth Hurley, Halle Berry (before the model whose name I have forgotten). Beauty and money can’t buy you everything.

  12. Lucy says:

    Oh, look, he knows how to talk!!

  13. Jaded says:

    Some men, like Caspar, have a weird dichotomy in their need to pursue and win over gorgeous, successful women because it’s a huge ego-boost, then simultaneously treat them badly (cheating, diminishing the seriousness of the relationship, acting disinterested). She really is a fool to continue seeing him.

  14. Artemis says:

    If Jlo didn’t give him control by giving him a legit paid high position en provide for him since the start of their relationship, then he wouldn’t be so brazen about basically saying he has control over the relationship.

    We all know that JLo does not think straight when it comes to relationships. Everybody has a weakness/flaw. If only she was as smart in relationships as she is in business she would be in a powercouple situation a la Brangelina. She almost had it with Affleck but then Affleck wasn’t able to balance his career.

    However, she also cheated in the past, multiple times so maybe somebody else will come along, she’ll overlap with that person and be able to move on from Smart?

  15. Nicolette says:

    She’s just biding her time with Casper the friendly ghost until Ben becomes unchained from his marriage.

  16. anne_000 says:

    JLo told Wendy Williams that she goes back to former lovers and has casual sex with them when she’s horny. Also, she’s the type of woman who has to have at least one man in her life. even while hunting for another man. That’s just the way she is, imo.

    Even when she was pretending to the public that she was single, she wasn’t. She probably knows that people think she’s incapable of being alone for even a split second so she kept up that ruse until the tabloids found out about her continuing trysts with Casper.

    I don’t blame Casper. I’m thinking she’s the type of very image-conscious person that would have rehearsed what he would say when asked.

    And I think he described their relationship correctly. She’s in it for sex and part-time companionship. Same with him. I think it would be unfair of her to expect him to play-pretend real boyfriend.

  17. JM01 says:

    Maybe I’m missing something here, but…I just don’t get it. How good can the sex be???

    Is there really nobody else JLo can have such hot sexy-times with? Noone out there at all? Really?

    It’s baffling.

  18. Jayna says:

    Poor Jen. She’s fooling no one.

  19. Janet Jingle says:

    … “the choreographer”? The “creative director”?? Come on.
    He was one of her little dancers who managed to f*** the boss.
    And Jennifer Lopez – she needs the attention, painting the picture of a covetable woman with a young, cool bad boy by her side (if only he would fit that image *vomit*) and it doesn’t occur to her that she’s making a fool of herself. Those two seem to work as one of the symbiosis you often see when it comes to money, fame and bootlickers.
    A ‘reputable + age appropriate’ partner probably won’t be interested to be CS’s successor. 😉

  20. Dirty Martini says:

    Look I don’t like this guy on general principle, but I think the headline takes his quote out of context……it overemphasizes the “that’s all” I don’t think he meant it in a way that put boundaries up. He meant it in a way of “we’re happy where we are right now.” I don’t find that he tried to denigrate her or diminish her with his words.

    He basically said they are together and enjoying life and each other.

    I’m not going to overanalyze or overthink his comment. Goodness knows, I don’t think he’s capable of overthinking anything himself.

    As for her…..well, its her life. If she’s cool with their relationships, so be it.

  21. Frosty says:

    Ugh. This guy. And he’s not even hot.

  22. Lygeia says:

    If he is cheating on her, isn’t she worried about catching a sexually-transmitted disease (STD)?

  23. Well, I know who Jennifer is, but this Caspar guy..what does he do for a living?

  24. Madly says:

    She wants him because he doesn’t want her. She’s getting played.

  25. LAK says:

    The brazen cheek….

  26. The Other Katherine says:

    Why is she still with this insignificant little toad person? DOES. NOT. MAKE. SENSE.

  27. Cara says:

    I would have a roomful of HOT guys waiting at my beck and call if I were JLo…Leonardo would be calling me for advice.
    I would use some of my wealth to have the perfect Lee Pace android designed…Lord, I would seriously be doing singlehood right!!

    And she wastes her time with Casper Smart.
    Geesh. The lack of imagination bothers me most.

  28. Helen says:

    I think if she’s happy with her dumb dumb baby bear, who I’m sure says what she tells him in interviews, good for her.

    Lots of older rich men just like a cute little bimbo who does whatever they want, so what’s sauce for the goose etc.

    He’s probably up to snuff on whatever turns her on, who can be bothered to train up a new guy?