Maisie Williams on being called ‘cute’: ‘I felt it was really patronizing’

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Maisie Williams – little Arya Stark on Game of Thrones – has been doing interviews this week as part of the Always #LikeAGirl campaign. The campaign was started months ago, and the objective is to reclaim the “like a girl” phrase from a negative to a positive. Like, saying someone does something “like a girl” is often meant in a negative way. I’m over-explaining this, I know. Nevermind. In any case, Maisie has been doing interviews and of course she’s been asked about GoT and Jon Snow and tons of other stuff. Some highlights from her assorted comments (some SPOILERS for the past season of GoT):

On Jon Snow’s “death”: “I think people are trying to be very positive about this, like, ‘It’s fine. He’s coming back. He’s totally coming back, right? He’s going to come back?’ I’m like, ‘I don’t think so. I’m very sorry!’ I don’t know, maybe he wanted to keep the hair in the end. We saw him get stabbed like five times in the chest. I think he’s gone. I mean, I could be wrong, but I really don’t think so. And people are like, ‘He’s going to come back as White Walker!’ I’m like, ‘Really, we’d bring back Jon Snow as a White Walker?!’ OK, you can believe what you’d like. If it makes you feel better, then, yes there’s hope but . . . there’s no hope.”

Whether Melisandre will resurrect Jon: “I feel like she’s far too selfish for all of that.”

Who should claim the Iron Throne: “It’s such a wonderful thought, how this is all going to end. It’s something that we all think about so much, I’m so glad I don’t have to make the decision because I would never be able to make it as epic as it’s supposed to be. I’d love to see someone like Sansa on the Iron Throne. I feel like she would be a great leader. Not that she’s really in the battles of the Iron Throne at the moment at all, but she’s a really, really great character and one that would do it fantastically.

She’s unstoppable, like a girl: “The hardest thing was to do everything left handed. My character in the book is written left handed and I learned all of my sword training left handed. It’s been difficult, but I think I was very eager and determined. So many people said, “You don’t have to do this,” but it’s something I wanted to do. I didn’t let anyone hold me back. I’m unstoppable, like a girl.”

Stop calling her cute: “The way we describe boys is ‘Oh you’re so strong, you’re so good at sport’. With girls we say oh you’re so pretty, you’re so adorable’ – and it does limit you. I remember being told I was cute and feeling it was really patronising – what if I wanted to get muddy and play with the boys? I felt like I was boxed in by this one word”.

Her earlier dismissal of Emma Watson’s first-world feminism: “I actually emailed her saying ‘I want to apologise for how this turned out’. She said to me that it’s going to happen and was really supportive. And I thought, actually this is what it’s all about – women supporting each other in this industry, where it’s like being thrown to a pack of wolves and it’s really scary. When she said that to me it made me feel so confident – which is what I’m doing here in New York right now for other girls. That’s what she did for me”.

[From E! News, Parade & The Telegraph]

Maisie is a dream-killer about Jon Snow, isn’t she? I wonder if she knows what’s really going to happen and she’s just gleefully lying about it, or if she doesn’t know and really believes Jon is gone. SOB! As for the rest of it… I give her some credit. She’s been famous because of Game of Thrones for years now and she’s managed to grow up a lot in public, and sometimes it’s been messy and sometimes we’ve rolled our eyes at her, but she’s trying. And she is a cool young person – I’d much rather have more Maisies in this world than, like, Kylie Jenners.

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  1. Jen43 says:

    She needs to stop carrying purses that say chocolate milk if she doesn’t want to be called cute. Ha. And Sansa on the IronThrone? She is trolling us. She is too smart to give anything away. I like Arya and I like her too. I think she’ll be one of those child actors who transitions smoothly to adult roles.

    • Froggy says:

      Came here to comment on the ‘anything but cute’ purse too.

    • ell says:

      oh come on, that’s not what she’s saying and it has little to do with her fashion choices. she’s saying that women&girls should warrant all of those adjectives usually reserved to men, and she’s right.

  2. Naddie says:

    “There’s no hope”, lol.
    I understand her dislike of being called “cute”, but she’s very cute (no patronizing, it’s just that I’ve never watched GOT.

    • Lindy79 says:

      And having seen some of her panels over the years she comes across really sweet and cute (the one she did with Jason Momoa and Rory McCann being a personal favourite) , but also having a good head on her shoulders, but I suppose as she’s getting older maybe it’s not as fun.

      The panel at this years SDCC will be so hilarious, no one will be able to say anything.

    • Luca76 says:

      Yeah that’s my opinion too she might not like it but she’s adorable it’s the cheeks.

  3. Aussie girl says:

    I think she would say that about Jon snow, I mean she is on the show , perhaps it’s my own denial. As far as been cute, well she should get together with kit, perhaps they can meet at peer support meetings, called been labeled anonymous. I joke!!! I do love her as Arya stark and I adore her name Maisie, it’s so cute….. Lol

  4. Lilacflowers says:

    Love Maisie! Yes, more Maisie than Kylie Jenner. She’s so much healthier and natural and yes, she makes mistakes but she learns from them without drama.

    Her NERDist podcast Saturday night with Guillermo del Toro and Tom Hiddleston is going to be hilarious.

  5. Seán says:

    A girl can come across quite bratty in print but if a person watches video interviews with her or listens to Game of Thrones audio commentaries, a girl seems quite sweet and sensible with a good head on her shoulders.

    I think a girl is very opinionated and may not be able to articulate some of her scathing points in an eloquent manner but a girl can mature. A girl can learn.

    In regards to the man Jon Snow, the God of Many Faces will not take his life for long – I am confident of that! However, some of the theories regarding his return are laughable like the changing eye colour or coming back as a White Walker.

    • Julie says:

      Hodor!

    • Kaiser says:

      I love you, Seán. Perfect comment is perfect.

    • Lilacflowers says:

      WunWun! A girl can hope that the Many Faced God still has plans for Jon Snow

    • Liv says:

      Best comment ever!

      Oh and I’m sure Jon is not dead. The whole story centers around him!

    • minime says:

      your comment is just too good! 😉

    • Sixer says:

      HODOR! I love you too, Sean.

    • Abbott says:

      Ha!

    • Seán says:

      My thanks for the kind responses to a man’s comment!

      A man broke character with his last sentence however. That should be: A person is reaching when they presume a man’s changing eye colour or a transformation into another creature means that a man will live. This man cannot see how Jon Snow can survive but knows that he will survive simehow. Perhaps a red woman will have some involvement.

      A man is not No-One yet. A man must continue his training.

      *changes face and slinks into shadows*

    • ell says:

      i disagree. and it annoys me that women with strong opinions are immediately labelled as “difficult” (or bratty in this case).

      • Seán says:

        @Ell;

        A man only calls a girl bratty because commentators on previous Celebitchy articles regarding the girl have called her a brat. A man does not share this opinion. A man simply points out that some of the girl’s comments can come across quite brittle and snotty in print; but watching her in motion, a person can hopefully see that a girl is decent of character.

        A man does not discourage a girl from speaking her mind or standing up for herself. A man simply remembers being a teenager himself and finding himself riled up over many topics. Like the girl, a man had many valid points but may have lacked the tools to always share these opinions in a non-confrontational manner. A man is not being patronisingly because a girl is a girl, a man is being patronising because he was also a teenager. But a man recognises this and a man is not worried that a girl will grow up to be a wonderful Faceless Ma— forgive me, actress — and relatively down-to-earth person.

        (Despite my jokey Jaqen speech – which I’m using based on my avatar and this GoT article – I am being serious with this comment)

      • Liv says:

        😉

    • QQ says:

      A Man Gave Us everything we Needed to see in Comment!

      I Too agree, A Girl Is Excellent

    • Alex says:

      Spot on comment

    • RhoSue says:

      That girl is wearing the ugliest dress I have ever seen.

  6. Elfie says:

    Maybe she was a cute child but that is in the past. She dresses like a granny and looks very silly and childish with that purse, what is the point of carrying around an advertisement for chocolate milk?

  7. Eleonor says:

    I want that purse.

  8. Kiddo says:

    I don’t know, you guys. I don’t know her from Adam, but this seems to be a theme for players on that show. The one skinny jeans guy is put-off by the word ‘hunky’, and she doesn’t fancy ‘cute’.
    I’m smelling a GoT trend of self-seriousness that far exceeds Gyllenhaal.

    Maybe it’s just me, but I have actually called guys and women ‘cute’, and it was never said to diminish abilities, it spoke more about appearance or personality. Shrugs. I wonder if being called ‘beautiful’ might have offended her as well.

    • Lindy79 says:

      I don’t think she’s on Kit level whinging yet but this is why they need to bring back some of the more affable cast members they killed off who seemed just grateful to be there and enjoyed it.

      *coughTheHoundcough*

    • Kitten says:

      I’m with you 100%, Kiddo. I also don’t watch the show so maybe we can sit in the corner and play cards while everyone else carries on.

    • GoodNamesAllTaken says:

      Why we need to always comment on women’s appearance is a good question that she’s asking, but I think we comment on men’s appearance just as much, at least on here. I just read an article about meeting a young (4-7) year old girl for the first time, and it suggested that you not say “oh, don’t you look pretty,” or “I love your dress” but instead ask them what they are reading now or what’s their favorite thing to do. In other words, try not to reinforce the idea that appearance is the most important thing about them. So I think she makes a point, but I also think if you’re in her business, people are going to comment on your appearance.

  9. Stephanie says:

    I don’t think her issue is with being cute, it’s with the compliments stopping there. Her success isn’t bc she is cute. Her growth isn’t bc she is cute. She is intelligent and hard working. And talented.

  10. meme says:

    oh please! All these whining young actors. I don’t even think she’s cute. She may be talented and smart but she needs to stop whining.

    • GoodNamesAllTaken says:

      This is mean, but I think when people call her cute, they are trying to be nice. I like her, but she is not very pretty, so they just use “cute.”

      • elle says:

        HA. I came to say, it’s not patronizing, it’s prevaricating. Kid ain’t cute.

      • KBeth says:

        Have to agree with this!
        I think she is very talented, excellent on GOT but as far as appearances go…”cute” sort of covers it.
        Also, the cutesy chocolate milk purse is ridiculous.

  11. Lucy says:

    I love her!

  12. kimbers says:

    Didnt we already change “like a girl” back in 2007? maybe some ppl were slow to the conversation and they’re finally here (welcome my friends)! It’s cute when kids are trying to be politically correct.

  13. Josefa says:

    I love the last paragraph of this. You can roll your eyes at Maisie, but she’s a teenager. Its okay. And at least shes talented and professional and makes an attempt at using her brain, unlike the Arianas and Biebers of the world.