Barack Obama covers Out 100: ‘I was proud to say that love is love’

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I love this cover! Instantly iconic. Ally. Hero. Icon. That’s our Barry! 2015 has been a remarkable year of progress for the LGBT community, and while there is still so much work to be done, I think it’s great that Out Magazine wanted to honor President Obama as the cover story for their annual Out 100 (the 100 people influencing and advancing LGBT issues in the world). I love that Obama sat down for an in-depth interview/conversation about LGBT rights, the progress that has been made, and what else has to be done. Would Obama sit down for this kind of interview if he wasn’t a lame duck who was all out of f—ks? Maybe not. But still… he’s remarkably candid and lovely in this interview – you can read the full piece here. Some highlights:

The generational difference in how people view LGBT people: “To Malia and Sasha and their friends, discrimination in any form against anyone doesn’t make sense. It doesn’t dawn on them that friends who are gay or friends’ parents who are same-sex couples should be treated differently than anyone else. That’s powerful. My sense is that a lot of parents across the country aren’t going to want to sit around the dinner table and try to justify to their kids why a gay teacher or a transgender best friend isn’t quite as equal as someone else. That’s also why it’s so important to end harmful practices like conversion therapy for young people and allow them to be who they are. The next generation is spurring change not just for future generations, but for my generation, too. As president, and as a dad, that makes me proud. It makes me hopeful.”

An AIDS-free generation: “In Chicago in the 1980s, as was the case across the country, Americans living with HIV/AIDS were unfairly evicted from their homes, fired from their jobs, and forced to face social, economic, and personal atrocities — which is to say nothing of the health problems they were dealing with. That’s one of the reasons that my administration developed the first-ever comprehensive National HIV/AIDS Strategy for the United States. People living with HIV are benefiting from more effective collaboration across the federal government. By the way, they’re also benefiting from the implementation of the Affordable Care Act, which allows for funding increases and groundbreaking new work towards an AIDS-free generation.”

Citing Stonewall in his 2013 inaugural speech: “Part of being American is having a responsibility to stand up for freedom — not just our own freedom, but for everybody’s freedom. Our individual stories come together to make one large American story. Just like Seneca Falls is part of the American story, and Selma is part of the American story, Stonewall is part of the American story, and I thought it was important to say so.

The SCOTUS decision in Obergefell v. Hodges: “Even before the decision came down, one thing was clear: There had been a remarkable attitude shift — in hearts and minds — across America. The ruling reflected that. It reflected our values as a nation founded on the principle that we are all created equal. And, by the way, it was decades of our brothers and sisters fighting for recognition and equality — and too frequently risking their lives or facing rejection from family, friends, and co-workers — that got us to that moment. So I wasn’t surprised by the Supreme Court’s decision, but, like millions of Americans, I was proud and happy that it came down the way it did — and I was honored to stand in the Rose Garden and reiterate for every American that we are strongest, that we are most free, when all of us are treated equally. I was proud to say that love is love.

His advice to the Kim Davises of the world: “I am a man of faith and believe deeply in religious freedom, but at the end of the day, nobody is above the rule of law — especially someone who voluntarily takes an oath to uphold that law. That’s something we’ve got to respect.

[From Out Magazine]

God, I wish he had gone hard on Kim Davis, the Kentucky clerk who went to jail rather than do her GD job and issue marriage licenses. I wish he had said, “nobody is above the rule of law — especially someone who voluntarily takes an oath to uphold that law. So BYE FELICIA.” Now that we’re in the final 14 months of Obama’s presidency, I’m starting to get that sad, nostalgic feeling. I’m really going to miss this guy.

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Photos courtesy of Out Magazine.

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  1. Nancy says:

    Tell them Mr. President, but most of your words will fall on deaf ears. This is a man who unlike most of his predecessors has walked the walk and lived through situations an average American can relate to. I will definitely miss him as POTUS. Please please don’t let the trump card win or even get on the Republican ticket. If he does, God bless us all.

    • Cindy says:

      “He has walked the walk and lived through situations average Americans can relate to”
      Yes, a thousand times. I admire him so much and I will miss him so much when he leaves office. I actually get kind of teared up thinking about it. I could go on and on, but I will say this-the good news, is that when he leaves he can speak more freely about his experiences as president. THAT would be fascinating…..

      • notsoanonymous says:

        Exactly. I think what he will do AFTER being POTUS has the potential to eclipse what he did as President.

  2. PunkyMomma says:

    I’m going to miss him, too.

  3. NewWester says:

    It will be sad to see President Obama leave office. But I look forward to reading his memoirs of his time in the White House. I am sure that will be a good read!!

    • smcollins says:

      Absolutely, Newwester! I would buy his memoirs in a heartbeat (Audacity of Hope is such a wonderful book). His life story is so interesting and inspiring, and I for one can’t wait to see what he does post-presidency.

    • Lilacflowers says:

      I’m looking forward to the book tour.

  4. anniefannie says:

    When you compare Obamas words/actions to the current Republicans running for his office, the question is…who’d self describe as a GOP’er!?!?

  5. GoodNamesAllTaken says:

    I’m really happy that Obama was elected, and I’ll miss him, too. And when I think about who might replace him, I shudder. But I’m disappointed in everybody, even him, for the divisiveness of his presidency. I bought into his hope to bring people together and things have never been more divided. I’m not blaming him for it – when your opposition makes it their goal to see that you don’t get anything accomplished there’s not too much you can do. And I don’t have much hope that anything will change. But we can’t go on as we have been. It’s time for a change. I just wish I thought it would be a change for the better. And I’ll miss all of the Obamas.

    • smcollins says:

      Well said, GNAT. I couldn’t agree more.

    • Sixer says:

      Don’t generally like to pass comment on the leaders of other countries but yours is a sad comment, GNAT, and I can see that there is a lot of truth in it. FWIW, sitting thousands of miles away, Obama has always struck me as a decent, cosmopolitan and intelligent man trying to do a good job against the impossible odds stacked against him by powerful vested interests and lobby groups.

      I wish him well for his post-office life. Also Michelle, because I am a fully paid up member of her fan club.

      • GoodNamesAllTaken says:

        Yes, I think he’s a decent man with good intentions who was handed a huge mess and an uncooperative congress. He did the best he could. He’s not perfect, and I don’t agree with his every decision, but I like and respect him. I love Michelle, too, and will miss seeing those lovely girls grow up.

      • notasugarhere says:

        I’m hoping FLOTUS gets her chance to shine after his presidency.

      • wolfie says:

        Powerful vested interest groups all presidents inherit. An uncooperative government, largely because of a group of racists in Congress (particularly from the South), is what I saw as Obama’s greatest challenge, beginning the night he gave his first State of the Union in 2008. The Republican’s could barely manage to look at him. It was a huge cultural shift to have a black man in the plantation home that is our White House. He studiously did not use the race card during all the years of nonsensical obstructionist politics, and I am very looking forward to hearing his tales. He is such a great, elegant man.

        Expanding social change has occurred during his presidency. He is optimistic, and so am I. I worked on his election campaign, and these methods continue to be possible in the next cycle for all of us – there’s no giving in to despair about silly Trump or any GOP’er. Politics can be great fun! I believe in the American people, and the few years that I’ve read and posted on CB have given me great hope in the new generation up and coming. It’s been marvelous to watch our country change for the better over the course of my life. Equality is the last frontier for us all. (Actually, It would be nice if any Republican’s elected might possible just believe in SCIENCE and all that it implies).

        I hope that people from other countries continue to inform us as to who they want to be the next president. I always listen to foreigners,, because they have a unique point of view, and I put great value on their input.

      • tessy says:

        @Wolfie, I’m from Canada, and one of my hobbies is observing your American politics. My pick is Bernie Sanders all the way, he’s not in the pocket of corporations, and he wants to govern for the people. This bunch of Republicans, although some are highly entertaining they are all just too batsh*t crazy. It would be a scary world if any of them got elected. Same with Hills. I’d love to see a woman prez but Hillary makes me cringe, she’s too tied up with corporate interests and banksters; and way WAY too hawkish. We came, we saw, he died HAHAHA. No. Just no.

      • wolfie says:

        tessy, I am FULLY in your camp. There are some that say the Bern is not electable – but why not? There is a powerful conversation moving, concerning him.

        http://www.huffingtonpost.com/h-a-goodman/10-reasons-im-only-voting-for-bernie-sanders-and-will-not-support-hillary-clinton_b_8508172.html

    • Betti says:

      He struck me as one of those rare statesmen; someone who really believed in what he was saying and who really wanted to change his country for the better. Not many of them in politics. And yes i look forward to reading his books about his time in office.

      And Michelle is a fine FL. Saw her in person once and she is tall with presence of her own.

      PS he’s quite the silver fox 🙂

      • Shambles says:

        Betti, the man is foxy as all get out. I have the most massive crush on him. That smile, that voice, that mind… Excuse me, I need a moment.

      • doofus says:

        Shambles, the voice gets me every time. so deep and melodic…

    • lucy2 says:

      I finally just got around to listening to his interview by Marc Maron, and he kind of touched on that sort of thing, dealing with uncooperative politicians, and also about how difficult it is to overhaul huge government systems like healthcare. He seemed to understand the criticism, but honestly I think did the best he could, in a very stagnant and difficult system.
      I’m going to be sad to see him leave office, mostly out of fear of who is coming next, but I hope he stays active in trying to improve things. I could see him picking up Carter’s mantle, working on things he cares about and be available to help when needed.

  6. Lilacflowers says:

    I am fervently hoping that some future President has the intelligence to nominate Barack Obama to the Supreme Court of the United States and the Senate drops its current stupidity long enough to approve the nomination.

  7. Nev says:

    Yayyyyy Bammy!!!!!

  8. Lucy says:

    Great interview. I’m not from the USA but it’ll be sad to see this guy leave for me too. He really was/is a great leader.

  9. Shambles says:

    I cried reading his thoughts on the SCOTUS decision. You can tell he’s a passionate man with so much heart, and I, too will miss him. Screw term limits, run again, Barry!

  10. Esmom says:

    Love this, and love him. Sadly, though, I don’t think all teens today abhor discrimination. I’ve witnessed numerous incidents among the teens in our supposedly evolved community of bullying based on race, sexuality and religion. We still have a long way to go. In the meantime we have a new generation of intolerants, who learned from the previous one. Sigh.

  11. vauvert says:

    Although I am not American, being next door neighbours, US policies affect Canada a lot… and I really wish he could run for a third term. I will miss him, he is intelligent, compassionate, well spoken and what I think of when the term “great American” gets used.
    How anyone can look at the current clown car that the GOP is and think that any of them resemble a statesman sufficiently to replace this man is beyond me.

    And while I agree wholeheartedly with his sentiments, and I do hope he is right about changing attitudes, I am horrified every time I read the comments on entertainment sites (not this one, obviously) when show runners announce a gay romance, like the recent Once Upon a Time news. The comments were absolutely vile, and the least offensive was “our kids won’t be allowed to watch anymore, stop pushing a gay agenda, these are fairy tales.” Not only do they exhibit the worst form of homophobia, they are also as uneducated as f*ck, with zero knowledge of the actual source or original version of fairy tales before they got Disney-fied.
    Sorry.. rant over… got to remember we got lucky and got Justin, and he chose a balanced cabinet.

  12. QQ says:

    i will miss him when he is gone, i’m pre-missing him already cause I love love love his entire family, they seem like kind people, involved, raising well adjusted young ladies in extraordinary circumstances, I also kinda Mourn a little that for POC in this country possibly til I’m near the end of my lifetime a person of this sort of background won’t easily be seen again, both because it won’t be “allowed” and because no one will pass the “respectability/Are you American enough test” men and women of color seem to be subjected to to be in office, which when they do, we have Sleepy Crazy F*cks Like Ben Carson which is just a troll

    • Santia says:

      You know what, QQ? Barack broke a glass ceiling that simply cannot be pieced back together. Whether THEY like it or not, that barrier is gone. There WILL be a woman president and a Latino/a president and a Muslim president and so on. We’ve turned a corner in our history. And although it was miserable for President O, he’s done a great thing for this country.

      • QQ says:

        From your mouth to God’s ears, Girl! most of my friends are despairing to think at the choices we face down the pike or the possibilities of something so Amazing happening again…Like….can you imagine all those little kids ( and not so little!) that have SEEN themselves in this president?, his Daughters?, his Wife?? Like kids that are little still but have known no other President yet?? That is to me like … a feeling impossible to describe.

      • Jaded says:

        QQ and Santia – thanks for your wonderful comments. We have turned a corner in history, both in the US and here in Canada with our recent election of Justin Trudeau as Prime Minister. It will continue to be a long march but on this Remembrance Day, as I listen to the military bands playing in the distance, I hope with every shred of my being that Obama’s legacy of inclusiveness and equality stands strong against the GOP madness and war becomes redundant.

    • Goo says:

      ” we have Sleepy Crazy F*cks Like Ben Carson which is just a troll”….. Really QQ! Dr. Ben Carson is the real deal. One thing about Carson, nothing has been sealed. Nothing! Unlike someone else who was elected, and many followed blindly!

      • doofus says:

        the real deal?…

        yeah, really crazy, a real liar, a real homophobe, a real idiot…

        as for BO’s “sealed” records, I will direct you to factcheck.org. there are no “sealed” records.

        (I tried a link but it didn’t go through)

      • Jaded says:

        Oh? Well it so happens he lied about being offered entrance to Westpoint in 1969. He also lied about meeting with General Westmoreland after the Memorial Day Parade in Detroit in May of 1969. Westmoreland was not there, he was in Vietnam. He lied about not having an involvement with nutritional supplement company Mannatech. In comparing the success of his Carson Scholars Fund to other nonprofits, he’s repeatedly claimed that “nine out of 10 nonprofits fail,” a claim that The Washington Post Fact Checker has rated false with four Pinocchios, the worst rating — what the newspaper simply calls “whoppers.”

        The “real deal”? I think not.

      • Goo says:

        Both if you, Doofus, befitting name btw, and Jaded, also a befitting name, might want to do a little “fact” checking of your own. But then, that’s how he got elected. Knowledge is power….

      • Jaded says:

        @Goo, the same applies for yourself, please fact check, especially before you make insulting comments about someone’s name – you’ll find most commenters here don’t lower themselves to such immature behaviour.

      • doofus says:

        that’s not really an answer, Goo. did you visit the site I directed you to? you know, since “knowledge is power” and all.

        I’ve done the fact checking. clearly, you have not.

  13. Colette says:

    President Donald Trump sends chills through body.

  14. FingerBinger says:

    I admire and respect the president but he’s flip flopped on gay marriage. I suppose he deserves a pat on the back for coming around.

    • Santia says:

      I think it’s better to do the right thing at the end than not do it at all. We all evolve.

      • lucy2 says:

        I agree, though I suspect he was always in favor of equal marriage rights, but for political reasons didn’t feel he could say it in the first election. If so, part of me wishes he’d stood up for it right from the start, but the other part of me thinks him getting elected and appointing the Supreme Court judges he did was more important.

  15. aims says:

    I have never lost my faith in Obama. I’m so proud of him and his legacy. He is such a great man and I’m getting sad that his time as president is coming to a close. He is a man of integrity and it’s been an absolute pleasure to hear his thoughts on important issues. He is going to be missed dearly.

    • Goo says:

      It will take years to undo all the damage he has done to this Country…..

      • doofus says:

        what “damage” do you speak of?

      • aims says:

        If there’s been any “damage ” it was done by the president before him. The disrespect and resistance that Obama has received through out his presidency has been disgusting. Instead of thinking about our country and the greater good, people were more invested in their party and ideology.

      • Goo says:

        7 years and still blaming GW Bush… How’s that kool aid tasting?

      • JP says:

        Agree with Aims–the damage by Bush was the Iraq war and housing/mortgage crisis. HUGE damage!

      • doofus says:

        still no specific examples of “damage”, Goo? just empty rhetoric?…

    • DarkSparkle says:

      I too eagerly await this list of damages. Did they take your guns? Take Grandpa to his Death Panel farm out in the country? Sharia law in your town? Gay people can legally get married, and this is destroying your marriage somehow?

      Oh, is this about the Starbucks cups? Obama stole Christmas?

      *replied in wrong spot, sorry. But I’m really and truly curious, I hear this from some family members but seems concrete examples of “damage” are either incredibly vague or flat out wrong, if they can actually come up with an answer.

  16. Jayna says:

    Speaking of that, this is such a heartwarming story, and it is also beyond sad that a group of moms made it into being about two gay fathers, not about a father and his daughter, both from the foster care system, making a huge difference in foster chidren’s lives who have to carry their meager belongings in garbage bags when shifted from foster family to foster family. Yet, the Million Moms group instead focused on this horrible role model family being in American Girl magazine and called for a ban of the magazine to its members

    Maybe they should be focusing on the little girl in the article, Amaya, and glad they shining a light on the children in foster care. Such hate in this world. But this family warmed my heart, two gay men adopting four foster children. The little girl had been in three foster care homes in three months, with her belongings in a trash bag.

    http://abcnews.go.com/US/american-girl-magazine-faces-backlash-photo-adopted-daughter/story?id=35101761

  17. Girlinbayou says:

    Ugh. I wish they hadn’t used a 35mm lens for this shot. *cringes*

    Otherwise, great interview.

    • Lucrezia says:

      Oh, is that why these pics look “wrong” to me?

      I thought Obama looked almost like a caricature here, but I didn’t know quite how to say it without it sounding like I was a troll trying to insulting his looks. (Which is totally not my intent. There’s just something about these shots that looks … wrong.)

      • Girlinbayou says:

        Yes, the wider the lens, like a 24mm or 35mm or even a 50mm the more barrel distortion there is. That’s why sometimes when you take a selfie you look nothing like yourself. Usually whatever is closest (in distance) to the center of the lens gets puffed out. And lenses on phones for example are very wide.

  18. The Original Mia says:

    That’s my President!

  19. EN says:

    Perhaps an unpopular opinion here, but he says all the right words, and he is a great motivational speaker but when it comes to doing the right things he fails. He is either incompetent or worse. But that is pretty much the norm in the politics today.

    • Girlinbayou says:

      Yep. That happens when you have congress run by a bunch of gridlocking a-holes. There is virtually no bi-partisanship anymore, which leads to serious stalls or an all out blocking of basically any bill that has tried to pass.

      So, Congress has essentially foreshadowed a self-fulfilling prophecy.

  20. Kath says:

    I was a little disappointed in his first four years – not his fault, but due to the ridiculous amount of obstruction he faced while not being ever allowed to seem like the “angry black man”.

    But now… as a “lame duck” president… he is truly kicking ass. Marriage equality, the Iran deal, the China-US emissions deal, getting universal healthcare bedded down… he truly is all out of f-cks to give and it is glorious to see.

    For all that Obama couldn’t risk being seen as “angry” for all the racists in Congress etc. – he is at his most eloquent and impressive when he’s truly angry (e.g. inability to get gun control happening).

    I will miss him. Can’t believe how fast the past 7 years have gone.

  21. Me too says:

    Despite where you stand on the political spectrum, I must say, Obama will stand as one of the most bold, influential, and effective presidents in america’s history. Change wasn’t just a slogan,