Brooke Shields upset that Enquirer journalists had lunch with her mom

Brooke Shields, Grier Hammond Henchy, Teri Shields
In 2008, Teri blasted daughter Brooke Shields and her husband in The Enquirer
The National Enquirer ran a story in the February 28, 2008 edition featuring an interview with Brooke Shields’ mother and former manager, Teri. Teri told The Enquirer that Brooke refused to let her babysit her granddaughters and said that her daughter and the girls would only visit her occasionally for a short while. She added that she doesn’t like Brooke’s husband, Chris Henchy, and claimed he is too demanding of her granddaughters and controlling towards Brooke. Teri approved of her daughter’s first husband, Andre Agassi.

In Teri’s 2008 interview with The Enquirer, she told a story that made it clear why Brooke would no longer let her babysit her grandchildren. She also said that she’s an alcoholic and that she still struggles with drinking. It seems there are good reasons for her strained relationship with her daughter:

In an exclusive Enquirer interview, a bitter Teri lashed out at her famous daughter for turning her back on her – and blasted Brooke’s husband Chris Henchy for his “Svengali-like” control.

She also admitted that she has continued to struggle with her alcoholism.

“I don’t see Brooke or my granddaughters much, and if they do come over, it’s only for a little while and then they’re gone,” 74-year-old Teri lamented.

“I wish I could see Brooke, but all she does is work. They were here over Christmas, dropped off some packages and were gone.

“But Brooke always makes time to visit her friends no matter how busy she is.

“I’m often disappointed in her, like the times she snaps, ‘What do you ever do for me?’ That’s what her husband tells her to say.

“I preferred Brooke’s first husband Andre Agassi over Chris.”

Teri says the contempt she holds for TV writer Chris stems from his treatment of her – as well as an incident she witnessed that involved the couple’s first-born daughter Rowan.

“A few years back during a meal in her high chair, Rowan started crying and decided she didn’t want to eat anymore,” Teri told The Enquirer.

“So in a fit, Rowan threw her dishes and food onto the floor. Just then, Chris walks in and in a raised voice says: ‘What’s this?’ He was so angry he made that poor little girl get down on the floor and pick up every last thing. Can you imagine?

“Brooke goes along with whatever he says – that’s the kind of Svengali-like influence he has over her.”

An Enquirer reporter visited with the legendary stage mom at her rambling home in Haworth, NJ.

Teri revealed Brooked banned her from being alone with her daughters because of an incident a few years back when Teri was baby-sitting for Rowan at the couple’s New York City apartment house.

Teri book Rowan in a rocker and left to pick up a food delivery in the lobby – but got stuck in the couple’s private elevator for hours.

“Rowan got out of her rocker and wandered around the apartment, crying and unsupervised,” Teri told The Enquirer.

“Fortunately, nothing happened to her. But that was the end for me – and it breaks my heart.”

[From The National Enquirer, print edition, February 28, 2008]

There’s definitely some bad blood there between Brooke and her mom. It’s also apparent that Teri has a relationship with the National Enquirer and knows at least one journalist there.

Brooke Shields: Tabloid took advantage of mom; Enquirer: we’ve known Teri for over 10 years
Fast forward to over a year later and Teri is staying in a nursing home in New Jersey. A reporter from The Enquirer came to visit her and took her out to run some errands and then to a restaurant next door. Of course they were trying to get some updated dirt on her relationship with her famous daughter, but they clearly know her and have a relationship with her. Brooke Shields was so livid that The Enquirer journalist was allowed to visit her mom she told People Magazine that a tabloid “checked her mother out of a nursing home.” They were only taking her for errands she asked them to run and for lunch down the block. While the Enquirer reporter may have been taking advantage of the situation it’s not like they didn’t know her:

Brooke Shields’s mother, who suffers from dementia, was checked out of a New Jersey nursing home Thursday by a journalist seeking a “tabloid story,” the outraged actress tells PEOPLE.

Teri Shields, 75, was later found unharmed at a restaurant next door to an assisted living center in Old Tappan, N.J., talking to a freelance reporter, according to police, who say no arrests have been made but that the case remains under investigation.

“I intend to take every lawful action against all who were involved or who authorized this despicable act,” Brooke Shields says in a statement to PEOPLE.

The actress claims her mother was targeted by the National Enquirer.

“My mother Teri Shields has been diagnosed with dementia. For her safety, she has temporarily been in a senior living facility, a very difficult decision for me,” she says. “Late Thursday afternoon, I was alerted by Old Tappan Police that my mother had been signed out of the facility by two reporters of the National Enquirer … who falsely claimed they were friends of hers.”

She adds: “They then drove my 75-year-old mother around looking for a tabloid story. As anyone knows who has a parent who suffers from dementia or Alzheimer’s, it is one of the most difficult experiences you can go through as a son or daughter. The idea that the National Enquirer took advantage of her state is reprehensible and disgusting.”

In a statement, the National Enquirer responds: “A freelance reporter who has known Teri Shields for more than 10 years visited her Thursday at the assisted living facility where Brooke says she moved her. Teri asked the reporter to take her out to lunch and to run some errands. The freelance reporter then got permission from the facility to do so.”

According to Old Tappan Police Department Capt. Thomas Shine, officers were called to the assisted living facility at 3 p.m. Thursday to look for Teri Shields. A supervisor at the facility said the elder Shields had been checked out.

“It was more along the lines that she had been allowed to leave, based upon their protocol or policy,” Shine tells PEOPLE. “It had been an extended period of time” since she left.

“Our officer located her with some form of a journalist, I think a freelance journalist, in an eatery right next door,” Shine continues. “She wasn’t harmed in any way shape or form. She was fine. The officers discussed the circumstances with her. And she literally walked with one of my officers next door to the assisted living center.”

Shine did not identify the journalist or a media outlet.

The journalist was interviewed by police, as was a photographer who was working with the reporter but wasn’t on the scene at the time officer arrived.

No charges have been filed, and the Shields family had not yet sought a criminal complaint, says Shine.

[From People]

People will be quick to condemn the National Enquirer, but there are two sides to every story. Having read some of The Enquirer’s coverage of Brooke’s relationship with her mom, it’s hard to know who to side with. They posted a very plausible account of events on their website, and from their perspective they were just doing their job and weren’t exploiting an elderly lady. If their reporter has known Teri for ten years he may not be aware that she’s less coherent now than she was a year ago or if she’s unable to make her own decisions. You wonder if Brooke was more upset over the way her mom has trashed her in the tabloid in the past and less about the fact that journalists visited her. On the other hand, since Brooke’s mom suffers from dementia you can understand why she is so protective of her and outraged over what happened. It’s not as if they were there to help her out without getting a story. The Enquirer’s account sounds believable to me. At the same time you also question whether Teri is able to make her own decisions at this point and if the facility had the authority to approve the visit.

Here is Brooke out with her mother, Teri, and daughter Grier, three, in NY on 5/10/09. It looks like they’re at least visiting. Credit: Daniel/INFphoto.com

Grier Hammond Henchy, Brooke Shields, Teri Shields

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  1. happymom says:

    Poor Brooke. I completely get why she limits her contact with her mom.

  2. RAN says:

    See… I’m taking the opposite perspective. If she were that worried about her mother, she’d set her up in a wing of one of her houses and pay for private care. I ‘get’ that the mom is mean and crazy, but there’s obviously a reason for it. Dementia doesn’t show up overnight, so the woman has had problems for a while.

    But… in defense of Brooke and hubby, I didn’t think making the kid pick the dishes up off the floor was a big deal (not even remotely), and leaving the kid alone for that long, accident or no, is completely irresponsible. I wouldn’t let momma watch my kids either.

  3. someone says:

    I hope she gets all those responsible for taking her mom out of the facility..That..in my opinion, is stepping waaaay over the line…And whoever let her leave with strangers from that place, needs to be prosecuted also..

  4. j. ferber says:

    This story reminds me so much of a plot line from She-Devil with the comedian Rosanne and Meryl Streep. I think Brooke is more upset that the Enquirer might get dirt on her than that her mother was exploited. The woman obviously wants company and if Brooke is limiting contact with her, it’s understandable that Teri would want to shmooze with a reporter she’s known for ten years. A tough situation.

  5. saintdevil says:

    Brookes mom seems like any bitter old woman who has to live in a home and blames her daughter for not seeing her grandchildren more often.

    But putting children through the ordeal of being babysitted by a demented woman is not something I would recommend.

  6. Ro says:

    Who cares? Why does Brooke care? Every mean and nasty story that this woman could tell was already told before she had dementia.
    When someone becomes ederly and infirmed the first instinct at times is to try and change them, more to the point try to make them something they never were. The fact that I haven’t heard anyone dispute is that this woman has had a “relationship” with the Enquirer for ten years. She has obviously lived off of her daughter’s fame and this is no different. She was with the Enquirer person because she wanted to be. I could understand the hoopla if this was someone’s mother who never sought out attention but it isn’t.
    I think Brooke is grabbing at straws trying to be the wounded party, which I believe she is. However, her wounds come more from her mother than some Enquirer reporter.

  7. gee_gee says:

    No excuse. These people had no right to take this woman out of her nursing home. If you have ever known anyone with dementia it can be very scary. My husband’s grandmother, when she was suffering from dementia, used to sneak out of the house in her nightgown and scream in the driveway about people trying to attack her and kill her. This while no one was in the house with her but the family. Take with a grain of salt anything that is said. And don’t exploit someone’s family misery just for a story.

  8. missy says:

    how sleazy that the NE is visiting her mom at the nursing home, trying to get her to dish. Yuck.

  9. Darya says:

    People with little information on the subject fling out comments about Brooke having her mother live in the same house with her. Talk is cheap obviously. It’s not easy to have a parent with dementia living in the same house with you. This has brought negative publicity to the failing National Enquirer but as sales drop, they are obviously using more deseprate methods to try and obtain stories including luring a celebrity’s mother with demential out of a nursing home to try and get information, even if the mind providing it is not functioning properly.

  10. Pufft says:

    I didn’t get why the granny had a problem with her son-in-law making his (yes, HIS OWN) daughter pick up her plate on the floor after what can clearly be defined as a tantrum.

    It’s called DISAPLINING your children and not letting them walk all over you, regardless of their age or the parents’ celebrity status. I wish more celebrity parents and rich folks would follow suit and rid the world of spoiled rich brats.

  11. boomchakaboom says:

    My father suffered from dementia for the last few years of his life. The idea that anyone other than family would be allowed to take Brooke’s mother out for any reason is just beyond belief, in my opinion. The day my dad walked over to the neighbor’s to tell them he had witnessed a murder in their home the night before gave us all a shocking idea of just how quickly his mental state had deteriorated.

    No, it doesn’t show up “overnight”, but loved ones find all kinds of justification for odd behavior because the reality is so incredibly difficult to accept. It’s also fearful, as you get
    a glimpse into how your own life may very well end. It’s not surprising that a family has such a terrible time figuring out how to best deal with this situation. It’s hard for me to read comments from people who obviously have had no first hand experience but feel perfectly okay passing judgment on those who DO have to make tough choices.

    Some day you may very well find yourself having to make such a call, so don’t get too flippant about it.

  12. Tess says:

    Brooke will find peace if she lets go of her issues with her mother.

    Life is short. Move the mother closer to where Brooke and the kids live and let her mother see the kids more often, with Brooke supervising.

    Her mother’s not fully competent, but still her mother, her responsibility….and there are many benefits in taking the higher road, rather than living small and with bitterness.

  13. Cinderella says:

    I feel bad for Brooke’s mom since she isn’t well, but in Brooke’s defense, she’s had to put up with her raging alcoholic mother all of her life.

    Teri is in no position of accusing Chris Henchy of being controlling. Teri was the epitome of a stage mom and controlled Brooke for many, many years.

    I often wonder how much of Brooke’s childhood attributed to her depression. I think it went beyond PPD.

  14. jm says:

    Who cares if the National Enquirer had a previous relationship with Teri Shields? The woman is in a NURSING HOME, which means she obviously isn’t in top condition. Besides which, are you telling me the reporter just went for a friendly visit? No way, he went there to dig dirt.
    That is called taking advantage, and I agree that it is just despicable.

  15. Annie says:

    I guess you can find sympathy for both sides.

    If it’s true that Teri’s suffering from mild-dementia, then it is a very difficult thing for all people involved and I sympathize with both.

    On the other hand, coupling that with alcoholism makes me want to lean towards Brooke.

    Either way, I don’t blame her for having limited and controlled contact with her mother. Sometimes, it’s for the best.

    As for the enquirer, are we surprised at all that they’re sleazy, sneaky and underhanded?

  16. Ggirl says:

    Kathy Griffin talked about Brooke’s Mom a little bit in one of her Bravo comedy specials. Even though Teri’s alcoholism is tragic, Kathy managed to find humor in it. It really wasn’t any different than any other family that has an alcoholic family member. In short, if they (the alcoholic) gets a few drinks in them, everyone better run for cover because you never know what is going to come out of the person’s mouth. Sometimes the words strike a little too close for comfort. That is what Kathy Griffin described about Teri attending Brook’s wedding. Kathy also makes fun of her parents drinking a lot of wine. Sometimes finding humor in sad situations is the best way to deal. I hope Kathy had Brooke’s permission to cover that in her stand up. She probably did.

    • Carpool Cookie says:

      Re: “It really wasn’t any different than any other family that has an alcoholic family member.”

      It’s more than that, though. When they were still on pretty good terms, Shields once said something (pre-wedding) in an interview about a plate of spaghetti “accidentally” hitting the wall beside her head (!) The journalist wrote: “The Face Of The 80’s meets the Word Of The 90’s: Denial.”

  17. Trillion says:

    Unfortunately the most interesting thing about Brook Shields is her mother. (IMO)

  18. Jag says:

    When I first heard about this, I was livid and wanted Brooke to prosecute them for kidnapping. After reading this article, my mind is changed. The mother still shouldn’t have been allowed to be checked out by strangers without alerting Brooke – if her mom really is unable to make good decisions, but it doesn’t sound as much like the reporters were unknown rats. As for Brooke moving her mom into her house, I agree with other posters that living with a person with dementia – or Alzheimer’s in my family’s case – can be too much of a struggle for the family and layperson, so putting them where they are supposed to be watched and cared for 24/7 is best.

  19. Gigohead says:

    I’m on Brooke’s side. The reporters are a bunch of hood rats looking for meal.This woman is clearly ill. there was nothing wrong with Chris disciplining his daughter. Teri is clearly mentally incapacitated and should not be going out with anyone.

  20. K McFarlane says:

    I completely agree with Jag.

    Incidentally, I found it interesting when I read Brooke’s book about post-partum depression how normal her life sounded. It’s easy to assume that because someone is famous, they are also mega-rich, live in an enormous house and have lots of staff. Brooke’s life didn’t sound like that at all. She was talking about justifying the cost of a part time nanny for example. It came across as genuine, not PR spin.