Kim Zolciak-Biermann fights with woman who asked her to keep kids quiet

Kim Zolciak-Biermann tussled with a fellow vacationer during her recent getaway to the Turks and Caicos. Kim and husband Kroy Biermann slipped away for a little romantic rendezvous. While there, their four oldest children “surprised” them by arriving unexpectedly to join in the fun. I have to pause here because if I went away without my children, the point would likely be to be without my children. So if they showed up to surprise me on my dime, I’m not sure I would be as elated as Kim and Kroy were. But I digress because the point of this post is that Kim and crew were just enjoying themselves on the beach, being model tourists, when some horrible, wretched witch told them to shush! So Kim, with her usual diplomacy, basically told her to f–k off.

Kim Zolciak-Biermann‘s idyllic Turks and Caicos vacation with her husband Kroy Biermann turned into a family affair after four of their six kids joined them as a surprise.

The Don’t Be Tardy star took to Instagram and Snapchat to document the family fun on Sunday with kids Brielle, 19, Ariana, 15, KJ, 5, and Kash, 4 — and a little oceanfront drama that unfolded.

“This lady on the beach came up to me and said: ‘Could you keep you and your kids quiet? It’s a very quiet peaceful beach,’ ” Zolciak-Biermann, 38, recounted on Snapchat. “Bitch, what? They’re 4 and 5.”

“We’ve been nothing but respectful,” she continued. “I told her: ‘Well, why are you always sitting next to me? Move your f—ing chair to the other end of the beach!’ ”

The argument appeared to escalate, as Zolciak-Biermann explained she told the fellow beachgoer they would be checking out of the hotel soon enough.

“I said: ‘That’s ok, bitch, because we’re leaving.’ She’s like: ‘I’m not asking you to leave.’ I honestly told her: ‘You might want to f—ing loosen up, lady,’ ” she continued. ” ‘This is a beach that a lot of people pay a lot of money to stay here and enjoy the beach and if you don’t like it, f—ing go somewhere else. It’s life.’ ”

“So KJ’s trying to be really quiet and respectful, but his feelings are hurt, which makes me really mad,” she said in another video of her son looking downcast on the beach — to which her eldest daughter, Brielle, shouted, “F— her!”

[From People]

So it’s Kim’s word against the lady’s. Either Kim’s kids were so raucous and unchecked that they were bothering the people around them or they were just being kids and the lady is overly sensitive. I am basing my opinion solely off what I have read here (and the fact that Kim’s version of the truth can be less than truthful) but I’m inclined to think the lady was probably on to something. If someone told me my kids were being too loud, my defense would be, ‘no they aren’t,’ not cite their age as justification for their actions. My favorite part is where Kim backs up her claim that they were being nothing but respectful by calling this woman a b—ch and telling her to, “Move your f—ing chair to the other end of the beach!” For me, it boils down to where they were staying. This was a romantic trip, right? So if the kids showing up was a surprise, it’s likely Kim and Kroy chose and intimate resort that probably was more kisses and champagne in the cabana as opposed to fart noises and water noodles to the noggin. In every pic Kim posted there’s not a person in sight, let alone a kid. I am sorry KJ’s feeling got hurt because it isn’t his fault that someone other than his parents had to ask him to be quiet but my assumption is that maybe it was high time he heard it? Feel free to correct me in the comments if you watch their show and KJ is a saint. Also explain to me why these kids keep crashing their parents vacations, Brielle did the same thing last May.

Oh, and Kim very much wants us to know that she and Kroy are going strong with this oh-so-subtle love note:



Photo credit: Instagram and Fame/Flynet Photos

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  1. detritus says:

    This all sounds like nonsense.
    Of course the little one will be hurt, it’s his momma who should be enforcing rules and boundaries. It sounds like the lady approached Kim privately, she didn’t take the littlest to task, which would be out of line.

    It’s easy to get excited and loud and rude, I get pumped up and my outdoor voice comes out. My partner has to shush me, and I usually immediately quiet the f down. No one else wants to hear your conversation, you aren’t that interesting and it shows you think you are more important than them.

    Also, Kroy is a stupid name unless you are a cromagnon.

    • kimbers says:


      Wouldnt u be pissed if you’re at some romantic expensive resort trying to have a moment with your love, and a half drunk lady,with a group of kids, and a man with a ridiculous name are running around kicking up sand while acting all loud?

      I’d tell her where the local burger king play ground was, so i could go back to my sexy beach foreplay.

    • Lexie says:


      I’m not a “children should be seen and not heard” advocate, but it didn’t seem like it was a family beach and Kim should have been the one to make sure her kids respected everyone else’s time on the “expensive beach that a lot of people (um… like the lady who approached you, Kim?) to visit.”

  2. RussianBlueCat says:

    That Instagram post seems to be a bit too much. Like they have to “prove to the world” they are so happy and in love with each other. I am thinking Kroy and Kim might have gone away to work on problems in their marriage. Separation or divorce announcement in the near future

  3. Bubbles says:

    She lies and exaggerates everything. She even lied about having cancer. I call bullshit. She loves drama, fake or otherwise.

    • naomipaige says:

      Everything about her is fake. She’s beyond pathetic. I’m not quite sure why she’s still famous.

  4. mellie says:

    This is just me, one person’s opinion and it could be total BS, but I wonder if this entire family is just a big loud raucous, “look at us, here we are bunch”? If this is a private, romantic get-away type of vacation, there probably aren’t a lot of little kids around (for a reason) and then you bring in a bunch of reality stars with some spoiled kids who probably never have to pick up after themselves, let alone follow rules because their mother is too busy worrying about her looks and what she’s wearing, well then maybe you do have a loud mess that would cause others to complain. Yes, I’m judging because I’m jealous that I’m sitting at work and they are on that dam beach! :)

    • Erinn says:

      I’m willing to bet that a lot of people at that resort are taking a vacation AWAY from their kids just for themselves. Not that they don’t love kids, or anything, but sometimes it’s nice to have a break and a romantic getaway.

      I’m also willing to bet that this place IS a pricey, quiet, romantic kind of retreat. A lot of people save up to go on vacations like that – they don’t all have Bravo money – and it would be kind of annoying if you had one really loud family there with kids running around unchecked. I’m not even saying that her kids were little terrors – but these people aren’t the kind of quiet, zen, kind of people. She gets paid to be loud and dramatic. So I tend to doubt that her kids are perfect little angels – and at that age it’s not their fault. It’s lack of guidance from the parents.

      I will say I’m pretty jealous of the beach as well. I’m sitting in the office shivering. We’re getting a bunch of snow and freezing rain today, and I’m not down for it. One thing that’s an improvement is that we recently bought and had a heat pump system installed. HALLELUJAH for this machine! I had a nasty cold all week last week, and I didn’t have to go out in the cold while sick to bring wood in for the stove for the first time – ever. I guess I could put some ocean sounds on youtube and crank that heatpump temperature, and set the fan up to pretend I’m on a beach hahah.

    • naomipaige says:

      Pure white trash if you ask me!

  5. Redgrl says:

    Lovely example she set for her kids by swearing and yelling. What classless trash.

    • cd says:

      “We’ve been nothing but respectful” This kills me! No self-awareness whatsoever.

    • Kosmos says:

      Exactly what I thought–talking trashy like that just turns me off to her big time. She’s crude and could have used better words to tell the woman off if she had a brain……I probably would have said I was sorry the children bothered her, to start with.

  6. original kay says:

    what in the world is he wearing?

    talk about burying the lead! :)

    • V4Real says:

      I guess he has a lot of time on his hands for vacation since the Falcons released him in 2015.

      Oh, and that speedo, aw hell no.

      • Birdix says:

        I thought it was polka dots at first. And those poor teens who clearly don’t want to hug their parents in their bikinis.

  7. Tan says:

    Who are thesepeople and why they act so entitled?

    If you are so special buy your own island and do whatever you want there

  8. Talie says:

    Well, it’s a good thing all the kids are following her into reality show land because their vocabulary is clearly confined to 4-letter words.

  9. Louise177 says:

    Agree they probably went to a more adult, couples resort than a family one. Young kids is probably not what most vacationers want. But considering how defensive and abusive Kim was to the woman, I wouldn’t be surprised if the kids were overly loud.

  10. Natalia says:

    Couldn’t finish reading the tweet or look at her posing. Ugh.

  11. Prairiegirl says:

    High end resorts have designated ‘quiet areas’ of their property- beaches, pools – often labeled adults only. The kids probably barged into one of those areas. Pro tip: management’s pretty quick to follow up on complaints of this nature if you bring it to their attention especially if you’ve paid big bucks to start there.

    • Prairiegirl says:

      *stay there*

    • NotSoSocialButterfy says:

      This would be the proper way to handle it. Since the guest chose not to go that route, I’m guessing that both the kids’ presence was unwelcome at the resort and the guest was irritable.

  12. daisyfly says:

    Yeah, being polite doesn’t involve cussing the woman out. Being a good mom also doesn’t involve cussing the woman out in front of your young children and equating that with being polite.

  13. Margo S. says:

    I’ve always like Kim in a weird way. Yeah she’s crazy and loud but I do like her all the same.

  14. Kat says:

    I’ve seen their show and the kids are out of control and always cursing. Kim said in an episode she doesn’t know where they hear that language. So clearly I think her version of events is fabricated. They are shameless famewhores who think they are A listers.

    • Bubbles says:

      I used to love her when she was on RHOA. I loved her flashiness and no apologies attitude but now she is downright ridiculous. All the photo shop/plastic surgery lies bother me so much for some reason. I guess b/c she admittedly denies it and cusses people out for even mentioning it while it’s so obvious she does it. I mean, just look at her! I would like her a lot more if she were just a bit more honest. She’s gorgeous, she doesn’t need to lie about it and be so mean.

    • BJ says:

      I don’t need to read the article and I am Team Other Lady.Their kids are brats expecially those two boys.They curse more than she does.They don’t behave.

  15. It'sJustBlanche says:

    Turks is super high end. Unless they are at Beaches, which I doubt is expensive enougj for her, her kids were probably out of line.

    Also her face and boobs are so fake she looks like an alien.

  16. Emily says:

    I don’t know. Maybe I’m crazy, but…they’re outside. Unless this was the private beach of an adults only resort (in which case, it seems like talking to someone at the resort would be the better option), shouldn’t kids be allowed to run around, being loud and crazy while they’re outside? And the beach does look empty. If Kim & fam were so loud, why didn’t they move? I know that’s a pain in the butt, but being in public means you have to deal with pain in the butt people.

    • paolanqar says:

      I still think kids should be respectful of other people around them and this is their parents’ responsibility.
      You just have to teach your kids to have a little bit of consideration for the people around and it’s the kids’ holidays as much as he other families’ around.
      I hate parents who just let their kids run wild because they want to relax and don’t think of anything while on holiday. You still have to follow the rule of common sense and politeness.

      On a slightly different subject I can’t wait for Kim’s husband to go broke so she’ll finally have some humble pie and shut that foul hole.

  17. TyrantDestroyed says:

    Why is this woman famous? Besides relying on cosmetic tricks for her physical appearance I find no other talent to be a reason for her to be in TV.

  18. S says:

    I’ve never seen their show, but these people seem like the Beverly Hillbillies with F-bombs. It’s the sort of thing you might be expected to endure if you’re going tubing down at the waterin’ hole, but I’d be appalled to be exposed to this classless brood, especially if I’d paid mega bucks at an exclusive resort.

    Honestly, even if her kids were perfect, this woman’s self-confessed description of how she handled a polite request (because, yes, if your kids are being obnoxiously loud and rowdy in a public space it is 100% not OK) — which is almost certainly toned down, and more favorable to her side, than what actually occurred — is disgusting, bordering on criminal. I certainly know that if someone chases me out of the expensive vacation locale I’m paying to be at with threats and curse words, it’s not going to be the end of it. Security, or the police, if needed, would be immediately involved.

    Instead, it appears this self-involved, ignorant, klassy-with-a-K, D-lister commandeered the entire beach for her and her family’s use with zero respect to any other guest. How anyone is even vaguely OK with such selfish, self-centered and arrogant behavior is beyond me. I’ve had the great fortune to vacation at some truly 5-star locales, and have never once seen anything approaching such hideous, self-entitled behavior, even when I know that basically 100% of the other guests were far wealthier than I could ever dream of being.

  19. Cel2495 says:

    38? Ha! Kim has a complicated relationship with the truth… very hard to believe her.

  20. Linda Simon says:

    Sorry Kim kroy isn’t that nurturing.

  21. M says:

    I hate mothers like her.

  22. Italy says:

    I wonder why they are spending so much money when he’s unemployed. I think they should watch the spending because reality TV is not likely going to last forever….?

  23. Libby says:

    Cussing at people on the beach, you’re a classy peach..

  24. Amanda says:

    It’s a beach! Kids are going to be noisy, take your towel and move away.

  25. Oliviajoy says:

    I’m sure if Kim’s kids were decent and respectful nobody would have asked her to quiet down. But her kids are brats (which Kroy and Kim seem to think is cute and funny) and are always yelling and swearing. Which clearly they get from their mother.