At this point, I don’t even have words for the tragedy that is Khloe Kardashian. She’s arguably the biggest clinger we’ve ever seen. She’s a doormat. She’s absolutely delusional about the state of her relationships, consistently, over and over. I don’t know about you guys, but I knew a lot of girls like Khloe in my teenage years – all melodrama, meltdowns and hysterics, always dating compulsive cheaters and always blaming “the other woman,” and always going back for more and more because they were addicted to the cycle. It’s bad enough when you have an addiction to that when you’re 19, but Khloe is 34 and a mother. Speaking of, True turns one year old on April 12. About five weeks away. And now Khloe is manufacturing another round of clingy, doormat melodrama about inviting Tristan to True’s birthday party. For the love of God.
As Khloé Kardashian prepares for her daughter True‘s first birthday next month, it’s unclear whether the baby girl’s father Tristan Thompson will be included in the festivities. A source tells PEOPLE that Khloé, 33, is trying to work out the best way to celebrate True’s April 12 birthday after Thompson, 27, was accused of hooking up with Jordyn Woods, a longtime friend of the famous family.
According to the source, Khloé’s family members — in particular sister Kim Kardashian West — are furious with the basketball player, who was first caught allegedly cheating on Khloé last year when photos and videos surfaced of him getting close to other women just days before she gave birth to their daughter.
“Kim never trusted Tristan after he cheated on Khloé right before True was born,” the source says. “Ever since, it’s been very difficult for Kim to even tolerate Tristan. But she really tried her best because it was important for Khloé.” Indeed, Kim, 38, was the most outspoken member of the family about Thompson’s alleged infidelities last year, calling the situation “so f—ed up” and predicting he would “never change.” Now, Kim “says she never even wants to see Tristan,” the source says. “She feels there is no chance she will keep it together and not lose it on him. Kim is beyond angry with him.”
So for True’s birthday, “Khloé is figuring out how to get Tristan involved,” the source continues. “She can’t see how he can be around her family at a party, though. Everyone is just too upset with him.”
Bitch, why. Why run to People with this f–king story? Why worry about something that’s five weeks away? Why is Khloe making a BFD about this just a few weeks after he “cheated” on her? Some will make the argument that Khloe is trying to be “mature” and she’s already thinking about how to coparent. But here’s the thing… Tristan doesn’t give a sh-t. He never did. And Khloe is just manufacturing this sh-t so she can have an excuse to call him, etc. It gives her a storyline.
Oh, and Tristan is already out and about with a new lady friend.
Photos courtesy of Backgrid, Avalon Red.
After Stormi’s super first birthday party (like it or loathe it, the party was big), just drama to get some attention.
Why can’t she just wait to see if he even wants to come? He knows when his daughter was born. Maybe he thinks the whole idea of a big bash for a one year old is as stupid as I do…
Assuming he even knows or remembers her birthday lmao.
Ugh, why does she need to throw a big bash for a one-year-old? Celebrate at home with a cake and let True get messy eating it.
These poor women have a fd up, modern day Stockholm syndrome because of their mom
For sure, but they’re also millionaires because of their Mom – I wonder if they think the trade-off is worth it?
The best thing I can say about this family is that their show is occassionally a nice, mindless background when I’m cleaning.
I have these “chloe” tendencies as well, admittedly. In this era of #metoo, I feel it’s an unresolved childhood abuse reaction. I know for myself, having been “groomed”, I get creeped out by “overly nice” men, so I choose the “distant” guys. Of course the “distant” men are that way for a reason, they’re not really available. Then the “unavailable” men put me into a drama addiction cycle that baffles/bores my friends. I just figured this all out late in life; right now I don’t want ANY man because I realize I need peace, but I’m lonely & trying to figure it out!
Good for you! Stay strong on your journey.
@BchyYogi
I’m the same way, and it is totally a result of childhood abuse. It is really hard to trust anyone but if someone is nice, I am out of there because they must have a motive. I am married to a person who can be emotionally unavailable but he is a good man. I have two girls too, so I’m desperate to break the cycle of abuse and the cycle of distrust.
@BchyYogi @knotslaning you have both given me some deep perspective on my own abuse/dating choices. Thanks so much for opening up and being vulnerable. Stay strong! We can do this 🙂
@btcyyogi, you can get through it and overcome it. I had it, too, for the same reasons as you did. My abuser’s extreme behavior forced me to go into therapy for 10 years. After bring in therapy for 5 years and after being treated for PTSD with EMDR based on something that occurred with a family member when I was in high school, I was able to be angry and learn to protect myself emotionally. It changed everything for me. After the first PTSD treatment and about 5 years of therapy, I met my husband. I thought it would just be a fling because of my stalker/abuser. I used to wonder why women who seemed so mean and awful had men following them around like love-struck puppies. Now I know: they stand up for themselves. On our first real date, I was honest and factual about my abuser’s campaign against me, because I didn’t want him to suffer if he stayed, but I didn’t want him to stay if he couldn’t be supportive of me. We’ve been married for seven years now, and we are happy.
All this to say, everybody won’t understand, but that’s okay. Keep looking inward. You can love yourself enough to heal, and that will help you see who is really appropriate for you, and it will teach you to push people away who are bad for you. I thought I’d never get over the “love” of my life, a man who was distant to me and who I allowed to use me. No more. And I pushed men like him away who wanted to be near me before I met my husband, but AFTER the PTSD treatment.
Sending you a big hug.
So super of you to open up like this! Generally speaking, we’re all awful to each other, and have limited capacity to stop and think: “Hmmm, I wonder why this person is behaving this way?” Instead, we automatically jump on the judgment train — poke and gossip and sneer. (FYI: I think there’s a different thing between more light-hearted “celebrity gossip” and real-life nasty gossip.)
So kudos to you for opening up and your vulnerability. May we all follow in your footsteps. It may make the world a better place.
OMG BchyYogi, your response is so spot on how I feel. I hate admitting it, but I can identify with Khloe because I have been that woman. I am also now taking time to figure myself out. Your post totally resonated with me!
Thank you for being so candid. You have really seriously offered an entirely new perspective on not just this drama but the ‘overly dramatic’ women caught in toxic dating cycles. Like I think most frequent users of this site would label themselves feminists yet it’s shocking to see (myself very heavily included here) how deeply conditioned we are to always blame women. Khloe is a drama queen addicted to clinging to toxic relationships, so we all roll our eyes, now ok, the woman’s livelihood is based on drama but how often have we dismissed women in these situations without considering anything deeper? In fact, thanks to your comment, I’m seriously reexamining a lot of my own dating and relationship patterns. Thank you.
Thanks so much for the support, here, awesome CB postRs. I did’nt want to admit to the “chloe” in me, but had to divulge! I have my kids full time now, ‘cuz their “distant dad” disappeared. I’m so ready for -effective therapy- I need it, my family needs it! I, for one, do NOT get $$ for drama! Ha! Between the MJ documentary and Oprah’s show on sexual abuse, so much has been unlocked. I have a lead on the PTSD & EMD therapy as I did a course on human sexuality last yr w a professor of psychology who works w a safe house. That’s my rainy day project- thanks again CBrs!
Was going to ask if he would be allowed to bring a plus 1. Also, I get their anger at him but be mature enough to handle it for the party. I didn’t really want my ex at my mom’s wake but she was part of his life for 25 years and he had a right to be there or not (as far as I was concerned).
After reading the Great Khloe Twitter Dragging of 2019, I can only think of Tristan as “Groupon peen” every time I see him.
I also enjoyed ‘community dick’.
@Jamie, for real! Group on peen and Khloe being a pteradacyl. Not even a bird, but a prehistoric bird. OMG.
OMG, I laughed way too hard at this!
I mean Scott still goes go every family event. He’s messed up plenty. I feel he’s often more apologetic than TT tho.
Tristan is still out with other girls living his dream.
Scott seems to be interested in his kids at least.
Good point! Scott is super involved with the kids.
Scott has a real relationship with his kids and was with Kourtney a long time. That’s a different situation from Tristan, who was always pretty casual about any type of relationship with Khloe.
i don’t think what kourtney and scott is all that positive. they are also addicted to the drama of one another and their obsession with being “together” but not together ISN’T about their kids. there is a way to be a good, present parent without having a codependent dysfunctional relationship with your ex.
Scott was more of a problem when he and Kourtney were together. His drunken binges and the sadness when his parents died within months of each other brought almost a season worth of shows. They hated Scott, yet he was the one who convinced Kourtney not to have an abortion back in the Miami days. He’s all in now, even with Sofia, since those children are well cared for and it shows, unlike Kim. Time will tell with the others. Tristan is just an embarrassment and if he’s missing from the kid’s first bd photos, 18 years from now, I doubt it will matter to her. Khloe needs help – not another man, not another baller and most certainly not Tristan. I don’t care for weak women like Khloe, but wouldn’t wish him on any woman.
Yeeeah, TT also has a job independent of Kris Jenner as opposed to Scott whose testicles are sitting in a jar on her shelf behind PMK’s fake Koontz sculpture.
I checked out the link on Tristan’s “new woman.” The woman who is linked to Tristan currently was previously linked to Chris Brown. Most of us have dated people we probably shouldn’t have but…dang that girl’s got a bad picker. Her and Khloe both.
Yup! Karizma dated Breezy. Yikes.
She’s absolutely stunning and could likely get whoever she wanted but she ends up with these turds. Sad.
I don’t understand any woman who would want to be with this dude after everything he’s been caught doing unless they just want to get into the tabloids.
I thought that too, but her insta is PRIVATE! That’s against rule #1 in the fame whore bible.
i actually think his pattern as an emotionally abusive man are apparent. if he continually wrecks shop and upsets the apple cart to the point of no one being able to be in the same room – DON’T INVITE HIM! he’s rich AF – he can throw his own birthday party. here’s the plain truth – if he wanted to be there, he wouldn’t have gone out of his way to constantly cheat and to implode a deep family relationship by cheating with Jordyn. if he wanted to be a good father, he wouldn’t have cheated on the mothers of his children. he’s trash – put him by the curb.
@Lizzie, EXACTLY!!! That’s a healthy reaction to his crap. But Khloe lacks the self esteem to just stop and take care of herself for True.
thanks. its not to say exclude him from True’s life but she needs to exclude him from her life. not inviting him to a party doesn’t equal him being shut out as a parent! he can have his own party with his own family on his own time. she is trying to manipulate him into showing up and it is just sad.
If he wants to be a good father, he can be involved with True. It’s just stupid to try to force him to go to Khloe’s events. She’s a baby, not an elementary schooler. This isn’t the second grade play where all of the parents whose kids are in the class show up and have to play nice. She needs to stop using True as a way to get his attention.
As for Karizma, she is just like Khloe: no self esteem. Plenty of women in the entertainment business want a man who wants, or has, that kind of success, too. Women working on their own success don’t have time for the Triatan’s of the world. But the Hollywood-baller game is all about women whose value to the men in that world is their beauty and ability to take massive amounts of crap. When you start to think, you get tossed to the curb.
Since when is Khloe 33? Her DOB is July 1984, which would make her almost 35.
Wiki says 34 haha. So you’re right.
Rebel Wilson is celebrating her 39th for the third or fourth time, why not let Khloe be 33?
The fact we’re the same age is so mind boggling to me. She’s like a 16 year old in comparison.
Exactly, why go to People? He doesn’t care! She needs a few therapists daily helping her to focus on herself and her daughter. Girl spend your money on not looking pathetic instead of plastic.
Kim should have ZERO say in the relationship between Tristan Thompson and his daughter.
It’s always Kim that’s ‘super pissed’ about any situation involving her family. It’s always Kim who ‘straightens things out’ It’s always Kim that has to be front and center of any story involving a family member. Kylie’s new billionaire status must be just killing her. Someone said yesterday that Kim would get naked to counter the Kylie news and lo and behold, look who’s half naked in Paris.
Been there, done that a lot. She and her two sisters could walk naked through the meadow and even the deer would cover their eyes. Now if Kylie were to do same, it would bring the headlines Kim had in 08. Hopefully, being the “billionaire” that she is has taught her to have a little more klass than Kim. Kylie is trying to look like the young Kim, but I’m not looking for a tape anytime soon.
Khloe needs to give it up and let him go. Let.him.GO.
This mess is still too raw. He really doesn’t need to be at her first birthday party with that family.
I have no idea what kind of custody arrangements have been made, if any. He can take the baby for an afternoon himself and celebrate her birthday.
Maybe someday in the future they will be able to coexist for their daughter, but now is definitely not the time!
But then Khloe couldn’t force him to spend time with her and play happy family.
Ridiculous. She shouldn’t give him another thought. If he cares, he’ll plan his own party for his daughter.
Maybe Khloe should of thought of this before she got with him. She met him when he was with his pregnant fiancee. If they cheat with you, they’ll cheat on you. Her family will have to learn to deal with it. Wonder if he’ll bring his son to the birthday. I just hope he’s in his daughter’s life and going forward use condoms.
If she doesn’t know how to proceed with a 1 year birthday party for True with Tristan because he has gone MIA…maybe she should reach out to his first baby mama Jordie and ask for some advice.
She needs therapy
This article boils the situation down perfectly in my opinion. I know/knew girls like that as well. It’s disheartening. I, too, have put up with more than I should have in a past relationship or two so I get it. To a degree. I try to empathize and get to the core and objective of what makes a person stay past the expiration humiliation date. It’s never easy to decipher as we all have our issues one way or another.
There’s a difference between ride or die; Stay for the ride but leave if you’ll die. And death comes in many forms.
I believe Khloe was always the “loyal” one who “fought ” for love and that became her natural response past the point where it was considerably healthy.
There is strength in staying sometimes but leaving does not make one any less strong. It’s what you can put up with and honestly admit when you can’t without losing your own self.
And sadly, yeah, to me he looks 10000 percent in DGAF mode. We really do teach people how to treat us…in all relationships.
I clicked on the link to see who Tristan was seeing this week and lo and behold, it’s a WOC. I wonder if it drives Khloe nuts that after all her dieting, excersice, and plastic surgery, she will never be or look anything as beautiful and (relatively) natural as these women do. And Tristan as a type and it’s NOT YOU. Jordyn Craig, this new woman, Jordan Woods.
At the end of the day, everything points to the fact that Khloe needs to move on with her life. What does she even see in him? Why does she want to be with someone so badly that doesnt want her back? She needs to stop using the baby as weapon to keep Tristan in her life.
I feel bad for True. She deserves to have both parents in her life and showing her love. Khloe needs to step back and understand she and True are not a package deal.
Reading comments from Christina, Knotslanding, Bchyyogi, Hotsauce and so many others on this site has been invaluable for me. I don’t know if you realise it, @Kaiser, @Hecate et al, but victims of domestic abuse, childhood abuse, emotional cruelty often feel so terribly alone – so without community, but unwilling to share personal information with those in our own lives be they friends or acquaintances – that this forum provides the best kind of support. Even though we’re behind avatars, our stories are real – perhaps even more real than they would be out in the world, because we have less need to self censor. The knowledge that we’re not alone in our suffering, that other readers can truly empathise and do truly care – do you know how powerful that is?!
I’m a whole heap of mess at present – c-PTSD, anxiety, depression, agoraphobia – and CBs’ readers provide a daily lifeline, even if I’m not up to commenting. *This* is what I call sisterhood.
Sending virtual hugs! I am so glad you have found a community. This is a great space to share and vent when needed.
This is true, especially our conversations around Narcs. i cannot share a lot of my personal journey with close friends and family for fear of judgement and I dont want to burden them with my problems that they wouldnt understand.
Hugs to our community!
This all day. celebitchy.com is the most legit and Kaiser and CB and the writers are everything. A great community!! ❤️😉🖖🏽
this place can be very comforting, I agree.
stay strong and vent here when you need to.
Jadedbrit, hugs to you and to everybody here. CB and Kaiser have created a world that I adore, and you have created a space where it is safe to just be. Thank you, and thank you, ladies here, for keeping it real AF!
Here, here 🙂 100 percent agree, I find the sisterhood vibe here awesome and lovely.
Hugs to you, JB.
Khloe? Sounds like Kim is making the BFD.
Right? She’s making her niece’s birthday all about herself.
Seriously? the kid is 1. Wont’ remember the party. Have him do his own 1st year birthday party if you are estranged and worried about drama. Think of the child, not your ego. That whole family is a mess.
To the poster calling our Khole for her dieting , surgery,etc, that’s none of your business and certainly is not the reason her baby daddy cheated. That ‘s his problem/issue not hers. He is the problem, not the way she looks/acts/dresses etc.
I mean, these people are all jackasses, and I feel no pity for them – EXCEPT
Baby True. And whatever the name of the child Tristan screwed over when he hooked up with Khloe. Use a goddamn condom and stop making children you don’t want, pig.
YES to all of this, Veronica!!! God, birth control – try it!!!
Absolutely this.
Prince Oliver is his first kid. Yeah, he’s a tool for going bareback, but both of these women were aware of the fact. Khloe wanted a kid at any cost and has one. I guess she “ass u me d ” the father would be part of the package. Her history has taught her nothing.
In Jordan’s defense I think they were engaged when she was pregnant
I’m not arguing the point about the awful taste of these women when it comes to men. I’m discussing the statistical likelihood of fertility. Women are fertile at absolute maximum 72 days a year. Men are capable of fertilizing eggs 365 days a year. Therefore, all pregnancies are conceivably more likely the result of irresponsible ejaculations than an ovulation. We only think the former entails more responsibility because we’ve been socially conditioned to think that way.
Tristan wants to f*ck around with God knows how many women, I could care less. I could also care less about Khloe’s feelings when it comes to the results of her own stupidity. But I certainly feel for these children who will grow up having embarrassingly easy access to the drama that played out surrounding their conception, which could have been most easily prevented by the use of the condom or even pulling out.
@Lynnie: I’m not dissing Jordan. I’m from Cle and was a fan of TT and Jordan. He seemed to be a likeable guy and decent baller. He has a championship ring. It wasn’t until Khloe was added on that I/we realized how much of a player he was.
@Veronica S.: I feel bad for the kids as well. Now that they’re little, he posts their pics and does mention them, but what will happen in the future. I have a feeling these two little ones will have many half-siblings. Yes, eventually they will know how it all began. If you read the news today, Paris Jackson is still fervently defending her dad. It’s just a big pile of sad. People don’t stop and think about the consequences of their poor behavior.
Why? Because manufacturing melodrama is literally her job. Why do people still watch this show? It’s soooo boring!
Always the victim. Anything for a bullsh*t storyline.
She doesn’t need to have a party for a 1 year old. And she could bypass drama by skipping it…but of course drama fuels the series storylines so why are we thinking of what could be healthy for her baby.
She and Tristan could probably have a quiet celebration with their daughter if Khloe is flexible and makes it a no paparazzi zone.
Pretty sure “no paparazzi zone” are fighting words in the K’s world. She would get disowned by PMK for even saying that.
He is putting pedal to the metal and using his get out of jail card.
Nope , he’s not going to be visiting any time soon.
Pls. invite Spandau Ballet to sing at your kid’s bday.
I used to root for Khloe but now I can’t stand her. And Pls. stop with the Revenge Body show if it still airing. Having a skinnier body does not make your man not stray. Tristan cheated Khloe with a women heavier than her.
Gah!!! Her plastic surgery choices are as bad as her relationship decisions…her face is jacked.
I know! I see her photo and can’t focus on the story, her face is so shockingly bad.
Meanwhile TT is out on whole dates with women in NY and not giving an F about anyone. Ugh, this man is trash.
Guys.. of course she need to start now. khloe about to create a reconciliation storyline. she is a doormat and addicted to groupon peen, remember? or else why she bother with this leak. after all it is jordyn fault, not him~
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Khloe is probably in denial that TT totally used her for fame and notoriety. This is the first time I can remember where the Ks got the short end of the stick (not positive because I don’t follow them too closely). They weren’t able to control the narrative with media attacks, TT just dgaf. They also weren’t able to control the narrative that their breakup was Jordyn’s fault, thanks to the Smith’s, and the truth about themselves. I honestly think she’s in shock but still trying to get back control of her sad storyline.
I think he was ever ‘coupled’ with her. They arranged with jordyn to take a fall so klogar could blame someone for wrecking her family and then she could say that she dumped him. Gave her an exit which he took a looooong time ago.