Hailey Glassman: Jon Gosselin emotionally abusive, lies to me, but I love him

Jon Gosselin’s number one girlfriend, Hailey Glassman, will appear on the panel of “The Insider” for two nights, starting tonight. It will be Glassman’s second televised interview following her E! interview with Giuliana Rancic in mid August. Radar has an advance clip of the interview, and Hailey breaks down crying and says things like “I can’t take this anymore,” “If you really love me, let me go.” She also reveals that Jon emotionally abuses her and lies to her. People has more details, and apparently Glassman isn’t ready to leave Jon despite the way he treats her, and says “I don’t want to leave him all alone… I love him.” I get a feeling that the Porsche SUV Jon is leasing for Hailey and the expensive jewelry he reportedly bought her are factoring heavily in that decision.


Jon Gosselin has more relationship drama on his hands.

Hailey Glassman says her reality star boyfriend is emotionally abusive – and she’s sick of it. “He’ll call me and take his anger out on me,” Glassman, 22, says in a two-part interview scheduled to air on The Insider beginning Thursday. “He has ‘mantrums.’ I shouldn’t have to put up with being emotionally abused. I cry and say, ‘Why are you so mean to me?’ ”

But she may not get a straight answer. “Sometimes he has trouble with the truth,” she says, “and he will dance and dance around his lies. He’s like Jekyll and Hyde. But I still love him.”

RELATED: Hailey Calls Jon Her ‘First Love’

Ever since she started dating Gosselin, Glassman says her life has changed – and not necessarily for the better. “I met Jon in a bubble,” she says. “I’d never seen the show. I had no idea.” After their trip to France in July, she says she’s faced harsh criticism. “People judge me before they meet me. I get threats everyday. I get called a home wrecker and a fat whore. People will stare or point. It gets worse everyday.”

She admits their relationship is “not normal,” but Glassman says she can’t imagine leaving Gosselin. “I don’t want to leave him all alone,” she says. “At the end of the day, I love him but I dislike him at times. When I love someone I would never hurt them.”

A source close to Jon says, “He was very supportive of her doing the interview. He wants her to clear her name.” As for Gosselin’s anger, the source says, “He has a lot of on his plate and he gets frustrated but he’s supportive of her.”

[From People]

Someone needs to tell these pseudo-stars that celebrity talk shows should not serve as a substitute for therapy. I do feel for her, it’s kind of an automatic response to seeing someone crying like that. If she’s that torn up about it she should walk away from Jon though and not go on talk shows. I know it’s not that simple to leave a relationship, but it is comparatively simple not to grant interviews about it.

It’s pretty obvious that Jon is a terrible boyfriend based on just the things he’s said about his ex wife, not to mention all the women who have come out to say he’s duped them. If Hailey wants a normal life, though, she needs to keep her pain private. She’s only reminding the world that she exists by going on a talk show. We heard a lot of stories this summer about how Hailey was seeking the spotlight by hooking up with Jon. They’re definitely ringing true, no matter how genuinely distraught she may be.

All images are screenshots from the video available on Radar Online

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  1. DD says:

    And she’s going on national tv to out her problems with her current boyfriend. Either they just broke up and she’s milking every minute of fame, or Jon set her up to do this so they could both continue to get this pathetic media coverage.

  2. Firestarter says:

    Oh but all the Jon supporters will come out saying “He is just acting out due to the “stress” evil Kate has put him through, when really, the guy is and always has been a Grade A jackass. Let’s call a spade a spade, as much as everyone says Kate works the camera, and acts, well perhaps Jon, on the infamous show , allowed himself to be brow beat, in order to gain a following and sympathy? He is not the poor, put upon husband of a shrew that everyone likes to view him as.

    As for the gf, I wonder how this will all play out, as far as their relationship goes. She is like any emotionally abuased woman “He treats me like shit, but I still love him!” Trust me, when emotional abuse starts, it usually escalates into something much worse.

  3. birdie says:

    Well looky here… Jon’s soulmate confirms everything we already knew about him. He’s a child, with the emotional maturity of a toddler, and he is a big fat stinking Liar.

    I wonder if Jon’s lawyer will come out with some asinine statement of denial later today.

  4. loca says:

    Oh please. If he treats her that badly she should just LEAVE him. They’re SUCH publicity whores. This is disgusting. Does anybody even care about these people anymore? I think they’re nearing the end of their 15 minutes….(we can only hope!)

  5. Beth says:

    I’m confused. Are they still dating? Usually the bashing doesn’t happen until after the breakup. Ironic how Jon’s lawyer wanted Kate to shut up and stop crying to only get stabbed in the back by Jon’s (ex)girlfriend.

  6. nAynAy says:

    As for the gf, I wonder how this will all play out, as far as their relationship goes. She is like any emotionally abuased woman “He treats me like shit, but I still love him!” Trust me, when emotional abuse starts, it usually escalates into something much worse. Firestarter: I completely agree with you on this.

    Is it me, or has she had some work done to her face?

  7. Bodhi says:

    “Sometimes he has trouble with the truth”

    Um… red flag #1…

  8. sarah says:

    Soft lighting can make anyone look good. It cracks me up that in the beginning Hayley was pointing out how very different she was from Kate by not asking anything of Jon or being controlling like Kate. Hum, it’s easy to be fun and different from a man’s wife when you don’t have 8 children, a home and a real life with him. I have absolutely no sympathy for her. If Jon loves her and his way of showing love is to cheat on her with at least 3 other women, but apologize by buying her a porsche SUV, so be it. I really couldn’t care less. They are both so worthless.

  9. mollyb says:

    It seems to me that Jon must really be getting off on having someone to dominate (after years of Kate being dominate over him). Too bad that someone is a 22 year old who seems willing to be his (emotional) punching bag. What a douchebag loser.

  10. birdie says:

    @ Bodhi… lol – but for most of us Red Flag #1 would be “Married with 8 Kids and a Reality Show”

  11. stacy says:

    I vote to never hear about these stupid people again. It worked for Speidi, why not them….Please!!!!!!

  12. iced opal says:

    I agree with loca. They’re both tota losers. She’s only staying with him for the media attention and whatever stuff he buys her. Actually, she should keep her mouth shut, get him to buy her as much stuff as she can and then dump his nasty a$$!

    Losers. I just don’t understand the lack of self respect.

  13. MSat says:


  14. Bodhi says:

    very true, birdie!

  15. Jazz says:

    She’s not doing a tell all as well? God save us all!!

  16. TaylorB says:

    Let’s see here… he is emotionally abusive and lies to you, but you love him so that makes it ok?

    Kate always came across as such a b*tch on that show, I am starting to wonder how much editing and self-editing in Jons case, for the viewing public, was involved there. I highly doubt that he just suddenly turned into an abusive liar.

  17. Kayleigh says:

    Yeah naynay that is what I was thinking, that or they plastered that foundation on to rebuild her face.
    And those shots to me look like “Start crying…NOW! And… NOW!”

  18. Persistent Cat says:

    “When I love someone I would never hurt them.”

    So I take it she doesn’t love herself then if she doesn’t have the self-respect enough to leave this ass.

    Assuming of course that all this is true.

  19. Feebee says:

    their 15 minutes is up, why are they still here?

  20. NIKKI says:

    I am actually comment-less…ok no, no…wait for it….

    what on earth is she on? why do people go on tv to air their dirt? she should just deal with this behind closed doors, disappear, go to school in iowa or something, and concentrate on herself.

  21. Karen says:

    I can’t believe nobody else has commented about this yet: I think Hailey looks so much like Kate. Whatever The Insider used to light Hailey’s face (soft lighting, a tub of Vaseline on the camera lens, etc) is making her look like Kate 2.0

  22. Taya says:

    Jon was abused by Kate for 10 years, so I could see Jon becoming an abuser.

    The abused become the abuser. Common sense people.

  23. GatsbyGal says:

    I guess getting emotionally abused and lied to is worth TV time, a new car, and fancy jewelry. What a fucking idiot.

  24. thedomesticgoddess says:

    Gross … just gross. Sewer rat materal.

  25. OKhero says:

    I totally object to the word “mantrums”.

    Excuse me, are tantrums exclusive to females? Are men in general so calm and collected (unlike the entire female race) that the English language does not even contain a single word to describe a man’s anger?

  26. Meimei says:

    Relationship drama makes “good” TV. is Jon and Haley Show in the works?

    Aaaaaand… Even toddlers can cry on a cue if it ensures they’ll get attention; ever seen a kid bump into something, go “uh-oh” and continue as they were until a parent sees them, only then starting to scream like someone’s pulling their head off?

  27. HarbinsMom says:

    Firestarter, you are so spot-on. Poor Jon, again. It’s all Kate’s fault he’s so mean. GMAB. Maybe Kate was controlling because she HAD to be. Maybe Kate took charge because she HAD to. This guy is a complete loser. He acted like a spoiled child on many of the episodes. Hailey knows what a loser he is , she just won’t give up all the money/gifts flowing her way. He is the manipulative one and now the truth is starting to come out.

  28. C-DUB says:

    That’s what bitches get! NEXT!!!!!

  29. RAMONA says:

    The reason he is treating her so badly is because he is a strung out junkie and alcoholic, and when he comes down, he flies into a D.T. rage and she is the one who is his primary target. The reason he does it to her is because she is the only one that will allow him to regurgitate his noxious spew all over her…This is what happens when Kate let go of his tightly scrunched up little balls that she held in her hand for so long…Hailey is very sadly disillusioned if she thinks her relationship with Jon will end with happily ever after….Those few tears that she shed on TV is only just the beginning of a very long hard road if she stays with this Rattlesnake!!

  30. Oy Vey says:

    Your 15 minutes of fame are over you “stupid cow”

  31. RobN says:

    Eventually he will hit her just to see how far he can push this. He never did it to Kate because she would have kicked his ass, but he will with this one, and it’ll be “her fault” because she wasn’t supportive or pushed him too far. Age old story of douchebags and their women.

  32. daisyfly says:

    Dear God, she looks like a young Kate.

    Apparently Jon has a type.

  33. crash2GO2 says:

    I don’t know about you guys, but those look like fake cry faces to me. And I don’t see any tears.

  34. Giz says:

    okay, now when does she get her own show and/OR a bundle of un-earned money? [YAWN]

  35. original kate says:

    hmm…i doubt that jon is her “first” anything.

  36. Cheyenne says:

    Memo to Hailey: if he lies to you, is emotionally abusive to you, and you still love him, you deserve whatever you get.

  37. Lauren says:

    This confirms why Kate has been so frustrated with him on the show, being snappy instead of crying like all these other pathetic chicks. I used to dislike Kate, but imagine trying to have a family of 8 with Jon..all his lying & selfish ways burned their family to ashes. I hope Kate has a successful career to support her 8 incredible children.

  38. Kathie says:

    Celebusluts, both of them!

  39. moopsie says:

    seriously, I think they’re both hooked on crack and looking for any publicity stunt to pull in more crack money.

  40. Merridith says:

    I am starting to think Hailey is mentally challenged how can anyone be such an idiot and not have a brain condition???

  41. Goddess711 says:

    Thank you Hailey, your testimony in court will definitely benefit Kate. Less for you, more for the kids – y’done good!

  42. Andrea says:

    This girl is only 22 is she’s wasting the start of her 20s with this loser of a man. She needs to find something better to do like go to school and get a job.

  43. I watched the first minute of this interview, and then I changed the channel. Whoever at The Insider decided to put this woman on TV should be summarily fired. Actually – whoever came up with the ridiculous “panel” idea for that show should be fired because I have not liked any of those “discussions”.

    Oh – and Jon needs to dump this girl for airing out their private business on TV.

  44. Kerri says:

    I really didn’t see this coming …. NOT.

    if Hailey decides to stay with Jon after all this “emotional abuse” well then common sense isn’t so common after all.

  45. jadesgrama says:

    PLEEASSE. I really don’t want to hear anything that comes out of your nasty mouth. You are just as bad as he is, you did meet Kate as you were introduced to her and Jon by your father. Maybe you have a problem with memory, must be the drinking. One more thing, you can stop the crocodile tears, you don’t fool anyone.

  46. JEMMA says:

    Okay, is Jon aware he is going out with the dumbest woman on the planet??? what a joke she is to watch…..she doesnt even know when she is offending him…

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