Jacob Elordi: ‘In America, I feel like I’m killing time waiting for my real life to begin’

Jacob Elordi is GQ’s Man of the Year, mostly for his dual awards-season performances in Priscilla and Saltburn. Saltburn barely gets a mention in this GQ piece, so it looks like Priscilla will be his calling card for a while. This interview was done during the strike because Sofia Coppola got a waiver for the film, so Elordi and the cast already have a big leg up on promotion and awards-season stuff. I have never paid much attention to Elordi and I only recently learned that he is, in fact, Australian and not American or British. He’s really funny and charming in this interview – sort of like a tall, Aussie version of Timothee Chalamet (Elordi is only one year younger than Chalamet). Some highlights:

He didn’t want to copy Austin Butler’s Elvis: “It certainly crossed my mind briefly before I’d read the script. I don’t want to tell the same story over, especially because he did such a fine job of portraying this man. It’s a completely different thing. And it’s terribly exciting, too, running into the fire a little bit. I can’t think of anything more exhilarating.”

He kept the Elvis voice the whole time during filming. “There’s all these layers and hoops that you have to jump through to get to that voice. So for me personally to be dropping out my voice and then coming in, it’s not going to work.” Priscilla, for one, approved. “She said I got the voice right,” Elordi says, “which was everything I needed to get.” (His voice bears no traces of Elvis-speak today.)

He did try to become “bloated Elvis.” “It was the first time in my life that I ever had a gut. Bacon. It was about a pound of bacon every day. And then when I’d go to Canada…it was poutine and hamburgers…. It’s really my pleasure. I could order Uber Eats and be like, ‘Should I get that burger after I’ve just had Italian? Yeah. Yeah, I will.’ ”

He’s been working on an American accent since he was 14. “I think I just wanted to be able to mimic the people that I thought were cool,” he says. “Like who?” I ask, thinking of any number of the classic actors he had spoken of admiring. “Probably Vin Diesel.”

The Kissing Booth movies: “I didn’t want to make those movies before I made those movies. Those movies are ridiculous. They’re not universal. They’re an escape.”

Australia & LA do not have similar vibes: “If Australians are like freshwater fish, Americans are saltwater fish. It kind of looks the same. The water is water, you’re swimming around, but you can’t breathe. The isolation is a big thing [in America]. When I first moved here, everyone was very closed in on themselves. It seemed like ordering a coffee was like a standoff. You know? Everyone. With people in line, walking into the coffee shop, the barista. It was very guarded. Everything’s very guarded,” he says. In Australia, “a coffee shop is sacred. When I’m in America, I feel like I’m killing time waiting for my real life to begin. And I spend all my time here.”

The latest movie he saw: “Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles: Mutant Mayhem. I’ve seen that movie four times. That movie is so funny. Those kids, I think they’re so hilarious. It’s super, super meticulous and well thought-out. In the hotels, it’s been my comfort movie.”

Superhero movies: “Well, they asked me to read for Superman. That was immediately, ‘No, thank you.’ That’s too much. That’s too dark for me.”

When he’s called pretentious. “How is caring about your output pretentious? But not caring, and knowingly feeding people sh-t, knowing that you’re making money off of people’s time, which is literally the most valuable thing that they have. How is that the cool thing?”

He loves carrying petite handbags. “It’s not so deliberate. I lose stuff a lot. Where I grew up, we had a culture where you wore bum bags, fanny packs…. When I leave home, I need to have a certain thing from every category with me in case I get bored—a book, a notepad, rolls of film, a camera, a pen. My mom just bought me a pocket watch that I keep to Australia time, so I always have that. I never bought a bag. Maybe that should be something that is exposed about Hollywood. All these people think, I wish I had that lifestyle. I mean, yes, to get them for free—that’s great. What a great lifestyle. But people that have all this money aren’t spending it. You just get sent stuff. It blows my mind.”

[From GQ]

There’s a real “charming himbo” vibe here and I’m into it. He’s funny, he carries a purse, he wants Vin Diesel’s American accent, he loves bacon, and CB said that TMNT movie is great. GQ makes it clear that Elordi kind of wanders through his life and good sh-t just happens to him. Like, he’ll randomly run into a good friend on the street, the timing of things just works out for him, things come very easily to him at every level. Some of it is typical “handsome white man” stuff, but he just seems to live an exceptionally charmed life.

Photos courtesy of Avalon Red, IG courtesy of GQ.

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  1. Chaine says:

    I don’t understand… how are Australian coffee shops different? Do the customers waiting in line suddenly break into song and begin dancing salsa with the baristas?

    • Eurydice says:

      I can’t speak for LA coffee shops, but maybe he means people are only there to get coffee and not to be friendly – like, give me my coffee now because I have somewhere else to be

      • orangeowl says:

        That’s how I took it. We do have those coffee shops in the US, too, but I would imagine an LA Starbucks doesn’t have a real laid back vibe.

        I did like his fish analogy, American and Australian culture similar in some way but different entirely in others. I agree that Americans are pretty closed off in general, the political division seems to have a lot of people living in fear of their fellow humans, even outright hating them. 🙁

      • BeanieBean says:

        @orangeowl: I find that so interesting. My experience has been the opposite. We Americans are so open & gosh-darned friendly people! I’ve never had a problem talking with strangers or with strangers talking to me; every coffee shop I’ve ever been in has its regulars–who sit & read or chat–and its chatty, friendly baristas. I’ve traveled a fair amount, too–different states, different countries. I think maybe his experience is different, because he’s here in the US for his career, he’s in LA where nothing is walkable & you have fewer opportunities for chance encounters, and so on.

      • Eurydice says:

        @BeanieBean – I think it depends on the the coffee shops, too. Starbucks in my city is very corporate and assembly-line. The customers are impatient, the employees hate everyone and the set-up actively discourages lingering. But there are other shops, especially independent ones, that are more welcoming.

  2. LeaTheFrench says:

    I must be in a terrible mood, or maybe it’s the language barrier. He comes across as very entitled in my eyes, and a bit too prone to criticising those who are generous to him, from his host country (US) to those who gave him a chance in the industry (the kissing Booth). I don’t find that charming, I find that bratty and childish…

    • Debbie says:

      I must say I agree with you most heartily. Apparently, in addition to all the opportunities he’s received, now he’s named GQ’s Man of the Year. Jee, how horrible, poor fellow.

    • elle says:

      Scoot over on the cranky bench. That article lost me with “…the brunette” and “…the blond.” And it reads like the perils of asking young people to philosophize (like the legendary Scarlett Johannson interview after “Lost in Translation”). Hard pass.

  3. M says:

    I always confuse him with some other actor. That GQ cover is giving Zachary Quinto. I’ve also thought he was Josh Hutcherson, Zac Efron and R Pattz. I guess that means he’s a chameleon lol

  4. girl_ninja says:

    Didn’t he cheat on Zendaya? I think that’s why they broke up.

    Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles: Mutant Mayhem is really a fantastic movie.

  5. Libra says:

    He dated Kaia Gerber back when she was really young.

  6. NJGR says:

    It’s always amusing when people make generalizations like this about the US – I assume this person has been to LA and maybe NYC and now thinks he understands the entire country.

    • BeanieBean says:

      Right? Plus, he’s an actor on the rise where everyone is kissing his *ss.

      • hmm says:

        Honestly he’s not wrong though. I’m half American, half European, and it is so so much easier to make friends and build a community outside of the United States. Americans are the kings and queens of ending conversations with “let’s grab a drink or coffee!” sometime and never meaning it, whereas if someone says that to you in a different country, they generally mean it.

  7. AC says:

    Having lived in LA all my life, I’ve had small talk conversations with people at different places – grocery stores, bakeries, etc. . It’s very laid back here but LA is a big/busy city so you won’t get a small-town feel here . He also has said negative things about Kissing Booth which made him a bit well-known(should be thankful that was his stepping stone).
    So we have people out of the country who say we say hello to strangers and smile too much which makes them feel weird and now they say we’re too guarded . OK…

  8. LT says:

    His Kissing Booth comments are incredibly rude. Now that he’s “made it” and is taken seriously, he’s taking shots at the films that opened doors to him? Maybe they were terrible (I didn’t see them, so I wouldn’t know) but it’s so ungracious to sneer at his past work that is now “beneath him” (not to mention all the people involved in those projects).

    Apropos of that, Variety literally just ran this article quoting Joey King as saying it’s “unfortunate” Elordi feels that way: https://variety.com/2023/scene/columns/kissing-booth-joey-king-jacob-elordi-1235820036/

  9. Becca says:

    I’m not against actors being critical of their old work but I think he’s being unnecessarily harsh about The Kissing Booth movies to make himself seem like a serious actor. He’s only a few years removed from them and it seems too soon to be trash talking to me. Also, how can you complain about them and be a fan of Vin Diesel and TMNT?!

    Side note, I’ve only recently realised that he & Taylor Zakhar Perez are not the same person!

  10. GrnieWnie says:

    Cue the “how dare he criticize us!” as opposed to, idk, actual curiosity about how other cultures experience the United States and what that could say about American culture.

    I had enormous culture shock when I moved to the US and it took me decades to realize it bc I came from a similar (yet distinct) culture. I’m always especially curious how other anglophone cultures experience the US and how our experiences might compare.

  11. Bumblebee says:

    To find ‘super friendly to strangers’, ya’ll need to go Southeast.
    To find ‘super friendly to strangers’ AND will stay out of your business, go to West Virginia.
    Signed, former military brat who’s lived all over this big country