Kirsten Dunst on meeting Jesse Plemons: ‘Immediately I felt safe… and free’

Before Kirsten Dunst met Jesse Plemons, she had a good sense of what she wanted. I remember her interviews from the pre-Jesse era very well – she was actively looking for a man to “settle down.” She wanted to get married and have babies and she was very clear about it. Then in 2015-ish, she was cast in a season of Fargo and Jesse was cast as her character’s husband. The rest is history. They ended up dating after filming Fargo, and everything came together. She gave birth to their two sons Ennis and James, and Kirsten and Jesse reportedly married in 2022. They seem really happy and they seem like they really “get” each other. Well, it turns out, they both just “knew.”

The connection between Kirsten Dunst and Jesse Plemons was instant. In a recent cover profile for Texas Monthly highlighting Plemons, 35, Dunst recalled first meeting her now-husband on the set of FX’s Fargo series almost a decade ago.

“Immediately I felt safe, and he did too,” said the actress, 41. “And free.”

Dunst also referred to her husband as “one of the kindest humans I’ve ever met” during the couple’s chat with the magazine.

“I think that sensitivity makes him very astute when it comes to other people,” she added.

The couple first met when they played a married couple on season 2 of Fargo in 2015, though their romantic relationship didn’t develop until about a year and a half later. And Plemons and Dunst’s onscreen collaboration didn’t stop at Fargo. They were later both nominated for Academy Awards in the Best Supporting Actress and Actor categories, respectively, for their roles in 2021’s The Power of the Dog. They will also star together in the upcoming movie Civil War, which follows a group of people in a “race to the White House in a near-future America balanced on the razor’s edge.”

In a 2020 interview with The New York Times, Dunst said they bonded over being former child stars: “We laugh about the fact that we were two child actors, and we both made it out okay.” About working with Dunst for the first time, Plemons added, “I knew that she would be in my life for a long time.”

[From People]

I love these kinds of couples, the “we just knew” couples who meet and everything just falls into place. It’s sweet and you can just feel how they make so much sense together. No drama, no chaos. I love how they constantly work with each other too, like they’re a package deal. Whenever Dunst gets cast in anything, she suggests Jesse for other available parts. She did that with her latest film, Civil War – she suggested Jesse to director Alex Garland. She’s done that a few times.

Here are some photos of Kirsten at a London screening of Civil War on March 26th. I really dislike this Dice Kayek dress!

Photos courtesy of Cover Images.

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13 Responses to “Kirsten Dunst on meeting Jesse Plemons: ‘Immediately I felt safe… and free’”

  1. GrnieWnie says:

    I actually like the dress…it kind of recalls the style of the Civil War era (1860s). Like I’m kind of recalling Gone With the Wind styling. Not a huge fan of the colour though.

  2. Charlotte says:

    I have one of those relationships. Felt like walking through a door I didn’t even know was there. Fifteen years on, we’re still keeping one another company, still have eachother’s backs, still just our favorite person to eachother. It came very late for me, and I’m so grateful.

  3. Flamingo says:

    That’s a great story, sadly I spent my youth trying to convince people I was worthy and to love me. Nothing worked.

    Then I realized the only one I need to impress, and love is myself. Not everyone gets a happy ending love story. Just love yourself first. If it happens one day great. If not, I am content with me.

  4. Aimee says:

    It’s good to see that she made it out of child stardom fairly intact. I’m happy for her.

  5. Kebbie says:

    They’re one of my favorite celebrity couples. They’re both so talented and likable.

  6. Jen says:

    Getting to know my husband was like that. We were loosely acquainted for quite some time before we properly started to get to know each other, but once we started dating, it was quickly clear, not just to us, but also to people close to us who saw us together, that we right for each other. We felt super sheepish at the quick courtship/engagement, but our close friends and family also “just knew,” the same way we did.

    I have a bit of an idea of what that looks like from the outside from seeing it with a couple of my friends and their now husbands, but from the inside, for me it feels much like what Kiki said: a feeling of safety and freedom. Safety and freedom to be myself.

  7. Ciotog says:

    I’ve loved him since Friday Night Lights.

  8. I'mphlyfiremama says:

    It took me 37 years to find the man who was MADE for me to come into my life. We were at a regional Burning Mane event (Flip side) and we’re just getting to vibe with each other when I fell and severely hurt my ankle on a trampoline. He helped carry me back to our mutual camp, and we talked for the rest of the night. I was in love from that morning on, and 20 years later we are still going strong. Sometimes you have to know exactly what you DON’T want to understand what you do.

  9. Sasha says:

    Love this couple. So happy she found her (hopefully) happily ever after with a great man. Jesse seems solid. He’s also (in my opinion) one of the absolute best actors of his generation. He’s fantastic in everything I’ve seen him. Kirsten is also brilliant. A real power couple!

  10. JFerber says:

    Sasha, I love this couple, too. Just adore them.

  11. AngryJayne says:

    I love her and as time goes on I appreciate his versatility (like in Date Night) more.
    I saw Civil War and let me tell you… they both were incredible in it.
    She might be suggesting him for parts in her projects but holy $#¡t was he creepy AF in that movie

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