Ethan Slater and Ariana Grande have only been seen out and about a handful of times in the past six months. They got together in 2023, while filming the Wicked movies, and their affair destroyed both of their marriages. During Wicked’s promotion last year and the awards season earlier this year, Ethan and Ariana were often together at events, although they studiously avoided walking red carpets together. It felt like they were making a near-constant effort to have a light footprint because, well, both of them knew their relationship was not built to last. Ariana spends at most two years with a guy, and she’s also a serial cheater/other woman. Well, it’s looking more and more like Ari and Spongebob have been winding down their relationship in recent months. From the Daily Mail:
‘Ariana and Ethan have been on and off for most of this year,’ an insider told us. ‘He chose not to attend the MTV VMAs with her because they’d had an argument just days before. But they made up soon after. They’ve both been running hot and cold with each other.’
Critics have been feeding on signs their romance is not built to last and have long speculated that they have in fact silently split. Many have suggested they will not make it known until after Wicked 2 premieres and the hype dies down so as not to overshadow the release and the run up to the 2026 awards season.
Such predictions were further fueled earlier this month when a blind item claimed ‘Spongebob will not be allowed to do solo press for the upcoming movie. He will be allowed to do group events.’ It went on to claim that in ‘protest’ the man in question was planning to bring his ex. Another blind claimed an unnamed star has ‘given strict instructions that no one can ask about her significant other’ during interviews.
‘What they have going is more than a little toxic but they’re keeping it together for now,’ our insider said. ‘At least until after Wicked: For Good opens. After that it’s doubtful they’ll stay together. The relationship is unhealthy for both. At one time they discussed marriage but that is no longer on the table. They fell head over heels in love when they first hooked up. But those days are over.’
Another insider echoed: ‘The infatuation has worn off, some of the novelty. So they’re having to decide what’s left. Maybe she sees something that goes beyond the crush. But if there’s nothing more than what there was, it won’t last.’
So, they’re saying that Ethan is possibly back with his ex-wife Dr. Lilly Jay? Honestly, I hope that’s not the case because Dr. Jay is amazing and she deserves a lot better. But yes, I believe everything else in this report. I think Ari and Ethan have been on-and-off this year. I believe they’ve mostly been “off” in recent months, and I believe they’re holding off on any breakup announcements until after they finish promoting Wicked – For Good. It’s about to get awkward AF on the promotional trail too. But whatever. Everyone knew this would happen. My question: do you think Ari already has a jumpoff? Because that’s her M.O.
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She doesn’t need a jump off, she needs a cheeseburger.
😂😂 yes she does need to eat something. Yes I believe she is dabbling on the side.
I really hope that Lilly Jay did not take him back. The cruelty and casual disregard of their marriage he showed was just disgusting.
I hope Lilly and her son are safe and happy.
And he treated her that way less than a year after she gave birth to their child.
He needs to stay away from Dr. Jay.
I’ve known people in DR. L Jay’s position, and I hate to pile on by stating that I hope they don’t get back with a cheating ex- especially if a child is involved. If people can work through it, forgive, and move forward as a family with love, then good on them- that’s courageous.
Agree, I hope Dr Jay is doing what is right for her and has peace and joy in her life.
“… when a blind item claimed ‘Spongebob will not be allowed to do solo press …'”
Well, that’s about as blind as Hawkeye! 😂 🤣
That ‘Spongebob” out of nowhere killed me. How embarrassing to be recognized only as Spongebob cheater side-piece, but entirely deserved.
In an ocean of obnoxious celebrity couples, they reign at the top. Ugh. She needs therapy for so, so many reasons. I can’t stand her, but seeing her look so anorexic with her pretend fey face, it’s alarming.
And please NO, Lilly Jay, don’t take SpongeBob back.
Off I go to google fey face
Did anybody think it would last this long in the first place? Good for them, I guess. I hope it was worth it.
Right? In what world was Ariana Grande marry and have babies with spongebob? I think she’ll be more of a JLO type who never has a successful marriage, but all the men she actually does marry will look good in photos.
Wow the ex wife is BEAUTIFUL!!
He persistently punches above his weight, but they’ve been together since they were kids, so maybe his charm was enough to win her over at an awkward adolescent stage. What he did to her was cruel and hurtful, but she’s unquestionably out of his league, and will likely (if not yet) find someone much better than him. He will never find someone better than her.
Every time I see that photo all I can see is that she looks almost exactly like my daughter’s girlfriend. So I have an immediate soft spot for her anyway.