Tiger Woods: ‘I was living a lie,’ ‘didn’t know it was that bad’

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Tiger Woods has done two interviews, his first since the scandal, in which he attempts to mend his battered image after what was the biggest sex scandal of 2009. The interviews, with The Golf Channel and ESPN, were likely planned out ahead of time to precede his return to golf in The Masters, which start today. They also serve to distract from some pretty raunchy sex texts from Tiger that were just released from one of his porn star mistresses, Joslyn James. (As many of you have pointed out, it’s not that Tiger was being freaky – what happens between two consenting adults is their own business – it’s that he did these things with multiple other women who were not his wife while presenting a wholesome image for sponsorship purposes.)

Many of you will roll your eyes at me, but I think Tiger has gone through a lot of soul searching and therapy, and that he’s taken some of it to heart. He seemed believable to me while he described how he was living a lie and in denial about it. The guy looked genuinely sad and remorseful, and I doubt he’s that good of an actor. I don’t know if it’s enough to save his marriage, but ultimately that’s between him and Elin. (Although of course we’d like to hear the details.) The guy did some unforgivable things, and saying he’s sorry and was in denial doesn’t explain months if not years of banging every random woman he could line up to meet him on tour.

In contrast to his televised apology, I didn’t get a lot of anger from him, just sadness. (He did shake his head “no” while saying he hurt people, but I’ll wait for Eyes For Lies’ assessment to see if she thinks he’s being arrogant about it. She did find his initial apology sincere.)

Here are some of the highlights, thanks to People, which has more. Radar Online has also put together a transcript of Tiger’s Golf Channel interview. You can watch the Golf Channel interview on their website, although it wasn’t loading for me when I tried. (I’m on a slower connection.)

Tiger Woods granted his first interview since his November car crash – and subsequent sex scandal – admitting that he has “done some pretty bad things” in [his] life and that he was “a little nervous” about his upcoming return to professional golf in April.

“I was living a life of a lie, I really was,” a sober-sounding Woods told ESPN at Isleworth, a golf club near his Windermere, Fla., home. The five-minute interview aired Sunday night during SportsCenter. He also gave five minutes to the Golf Channel.

“Stripping away denial and rationalization you start coming to the truth of who you really are and that can be very ugly,” he said.

Part of the recovery process was acknowledging his indiscretions both to his family and to the public. On Feb. 19, Woods appeared at press conference during which he apologized for his behavior during a 13-minute speech. “My real apology will not come in the form of words, but my behavior over time,” he said at the time.

During Sunday’s interview, the golfer said making that public statement has ultimately given him strength. “When you face it and you start conquering it and you start living up to it, the strength that I feel now, I’ve never felt that type of strength,” Woods said.

The Low Points
Apologizing to his wife Elin and mother Kultida about his multiple affairs was one of the “low points” for Woods.

“I hurt them the most,” he said Sunday. “Those are the two people in my life who I’m closest to – and to say the things that I’ve done truthfully to them was very painful.”

As for Elin’s reaction, Woods said, “She was hurt. Very hurt. Shocked and angry – and she had every right to be.”

Woods also confirmed that he sought treatment at a clinic from Dec. 31 through Feb. 11, and that he underwent family counseling for a week in following his public statement in February. He did not, however, specify the type of treatment he was receiving.

“It was really tough to look at yourself in a light you never want to look at yourself,” Woods said. “That’s pretty brutal.”

[From People]

Interestingly, Tiger wouldn’t disclose the details of his accident on the day after Thanksgiving, just saying “it’s all in the police report. Beyond that, everything’s between Elin and myself and that’s private.” When pressed as to why he lost control of the car, he again said “that’s between Elin and myself.” He also described how he had hurt Elin, and how much he loved her despite everything he did. On why he married Elin he explained “Because I loved her. I loved Elin with everything I have. And that’s something that makes me feel even worse, that I did this to someone I loved that much.”

Love and a lot of therapy and regret may not be enough to save Tiger’s marriage. Things have taken a turn for the worse, according to Radar Online. I’ve heard that relationships can be a rollercoaster after one of the parties commits infidelity, and from the stories we’ve been hearing about these two that’s probably the case. Elin is said to be annoyed that Tiger is returning to golf so soon, and she headed to Tiger’s yacht in Palm Beach with the kids over the weekend. Did she get wind of the sex texts that James just released?

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  1. Fluffy Kitten Tail says:

    So. Tired. Of. Him. And. His. Excuses.

  2. Sudini says:

    I saw his Golf Channel interview this morning on the Today Show and I thought he looked absolutely emotionless.

    It was nothing more than a commercial for himself that, of course, the Golf Channel was more than happy to facilitate.

    He kept saying that he took full responsibility and “owns” his wrong-doing, then contradicted that by saying if his father was still alive, he wouldn’t have done these things b/c he would have had better guidance. He’s such a liar and it literally turned my stomach watching him.

    He knew right from wrong when he did these things. He just didn’t give a f*ck until his career was suddenly in trouble.

  3. MK says:

    >> ‘didn’t know it was that bad’ <<

    Oh heavens, what a crock!

  4. snowball says:

    I watched both of the interviews and I thought he came across pretty well and sincere. I would have answered, “It’s between me and Elin,” for a lot of the questions too. It doesn’t serve the marriage any good for some of that stuff to get answered and as much as we’d like to know, some of it isn’t our business anymore, especially the details of what happened Thanksgiving. That reporter was annoying.

    I don’t blame Elin for being ticked off about him going back to golf because I suspect he always intended to go back for the Masters, no matter where they were in terms of therapy. I do think he’s that cold when it comes to his career. But she has to have always known that, I suppose this is just sort of a really, really bad time to be reminded of it.

    I don’t think the whole porn star text things were anything more than just another blip on the ‘ho radar.

  5. lucy2 says:

    I think it’s going to be a LOOOOONG time before he can prove he has changed. No matter what he says no, how he acts in the future is going to be the determining factor.
    Honestly I don’t know if I buy it. I still think he’s mostly sorry he got caught, it wasn’t like he realized on his own what he was doing and decided to stop. For his kids’ sake I hope he can be a better person.

  6. bellaluna says:

    I think it’s very interesting that he says he “loved” Elin, past tense, not “love” her, present tense.

    What is his IQ? Because it would have to be around 60 for him to not know how bad it was.

  7. GatsbyGal says:

    Ehh, I still hope she leaves his ass.

  8. meme says:

    he didn’t know it was that bad. STFU Cheetah and play golf.

  9. Carol says:

    I would have an easier time believing Tiger’s mea culpa if he had actually skipped the Masters. He announced that he was taking time away from golf to work on his family issues; pretty convenient that his sabbatical only happened when there were no important tournaments to play. If he had skipped a major, I might have thought he was sincere. Now, not so much.

  10. DoMaJoReMc says:

    bellaluna- I picked up on that RIGHT away. IMO, it compares to Scott Peterson asking the cops (before they found his wife and son dead) if they were going to bring in the cadaver dogs. What the hell is THAT?

  11. “the biggest sex scandal of 2009.” Um, of like EVER – I mean, come on – Eddie Murphy and a tranie hooker, not that off. Heidi Floss and her hookers, ok. Charlie Sheen and all the coked up sex, yep that’s about it. But this little goodie-goody, nerd bomber golf boy and hookers and a pancake waitress and sleeping pill sex! This is the stuff rabid housewives with a taste for gossip dream about as they starch the whites and weed the garden. (Or watch the pool boy…)

  12. snowball says:

    Well, at least none of his ho’s have posed in Nazi stuff….

    yet.

  13. bellaluna says:

    snowball – that we know of! 🙂

  14. ogechi says:

    @Sudini:

    Pls i want to ask, did Tiger woods cheat on you? Are u his wife? Did he kill your dog? Has Elin complained to you about the father of his children? Why all the hate and name calling? Has he directly hurt you? Since you hate him that much, why do you derive pleasure in commenting?

    Am just wondering really.

  15. princess pea says:

    @ ogechi, if you thought that Sudini’s post was hate-filled you obviously don’t read here much. I’ve seen Sudini get much more heated. If you have a problem with people commenting on the Tiger situation at all, take it up with the site.

    @ Carol – I’m right there with you. If he is sincere about having lost perspective and control of himself, how in the world does he think going straight back into the glory and the power will be a help? If all the attention was what drove him to infidelity in the first place then this is likely to be a terrible situation. But I guess he doesn’t really care about fixing anything other than his endorsements.

  16. christina says:

    Get over it already. The healthcare bill just passed and the media is still talking about Tiger…Is he really that important?

  17. Sincerity says:

    Nobody is perfect and it’s very unrealistic to believe that people are anything more than what they want you to see. Some of you can hate on Tiger Woods all you want, but HE’S STILL THE MAN!!!

    Last night, he displayed his “A-game”, took care of business and played the game like “A REAL WINNER”. He’s a realist and survivor. There’s no point in him continuing to be “PUNKED” by that “COLLECTION OF REJECTS” he chose to freak with. What’s done is done! He’s simply going to pick himself up, wash himself off and continue to do what he does best, WIN!!! He misses the game and if he’s ready to return to golf in full force, MORE POWER TO HIM!!! As far as his marriage is concerned, only time well tell if he can salvage it but in the meantime, the man has to keep on keeping on!

    YOU GO, TIGER!!!

  18. Sudini says:

    Thank you Princess Pea 🙂 I have definitely been known to get more p*ssed off in some of my posts, lol.

    Which makes me wonder, Ogechi – why did my post today come across to you as so hatefilled? I was merely expressing my observations of Tiger’s behavior during his interview, and of the fact that I truly believe him to be a sociopath (ie. he has no conscience and will continue to try to manipulate public opinion in order to save his own arse).

    If anything, your post shows much more hostility, even though it’s more passive-aggressive in nature.

  19. Bee says:

    We’ll at least he didn’t call the female reporter his “dirty whore” and ask her to beg for his c*ck. He must be growing.

  20. Mirdeb says:

    Tiger = Scumbag

  21. JM says:

    If he hadn’t gotten caught, he’d still be out prowling around as we speak.

    He’s just sorry he got caught.

  22. scotchy says:

    @sudini
    i agree, he has sociopath written all over him.
    just looking at his face makes me feel ill.
    wait and frightened, and then ill again.

  23. Feebee says:

    he got caught, he’s pissed about that… he had to go to therapy, he’s pissed about that… he’s had to publicly apologise and tell people he’s changed or is at least trying to, he’s pissed about that. The only thing he can do for himself is to play golf and go back to his control-freak nature as much as possible… 5 minute interviews? His inner control-freak is back. And in a couple of weeks so will his golf.

    It’s disappointing that he cheated on his wife. Because of the way and with whom he cheated this will get uglier before it goes away, he might as well get back to golf.

    As for the latest sexting relevations, I’m not judging him… we didn’t see what she was saying to perhaps elicit those statements and let’s face it, he was talking to a porn star, she’d hardly be blushing.

  24. gg says:

    That was very wooden, rehearsed, rushed through and contrived. He’s still got work to do. He doesn’t love his wife anymore apparently with the “loved her” response.

    And wasn’t his dad a big playboy too? How would his playboy dad react to him screwing everything with a hole? Probably clap him on the back.

  25. moo says:

    Oh Shut UP Tiger!!!

  26. canadianchick says:

    I hope he will recover and Elin will do what is right for her. I know lots of recovering addicts vs. Lipservice addicts, he sounds like he’s trying to recover. The real test will be the pressure of working on his marriage, his career and dealing with women that will tempt him along the way. I agree he got help because he got caught, but I think the reasons that motivate us to change matter less than change itself. He’s got a long road ahead of him if he really is going to change for the better.

  27. Mistral says:

    I just don’t think I could take someone back after THAT MUCH betrayal! –Especially since they didn’t use condoms!

  28. Jag says:

    I don’t believe him for a second. He’s sad he got caught and that his empire started to crumble. He’s saying the “right” things to pull the wool back over the public’s eyes, so that he regains the sponsorships and he can go back to his whoring ways. I give him no more than 5 years and Elin will be divorcing him for cheating on her yet again. (If she doesn’t divorce him soon.)

  29. Meanie says:

    When I watched this interview yesterday, I thought he was hiding through a flat affect. Then he lets out a noticeable smile right before the word “horrific.”

    “Yeah, I tried to stop and I couldn’t stop. It was just, it was horrific.”

    Uh huh. I expect to see his smiling smug mug on Lie to Me next season.

  30. Katie from Boston says:

    Elin should leave him because if this is his nature, this is his nature. Men don’t change, probably can’t change, what they’re turned on by. He’s into some nasty, degrading sh#t and she should run, run, run.

  31. Maritza says:

    Enough already!Just go back to playing golf and treat your wife with respect for a change.

  32. TG says:

    I’m with Sudini. Is everyone else really falling for this guys apology? I’m calling BS too. I think his handlers finally have been reading the blogs and they told him this “heartfelt” interview would be good and judging by Celebitcy’s article and a few others people are actually buying this guy. I hope none of you have teenagers at home. Or you are in for a few surprises.

  33. prissa says:

    I don’t know how Elin can look at his cheating, lying face and not be repulsed. He is sick and disgusting to me. For the life of me I can’t fathom how Elin does it. YUCK

  34. Kirsten says:

    What? He blacked out and suddenly realized his dick had been in 300000 women?

    That’s probably the only thing black he’ll own up to.

  35. Lway says:

    “I was living a lie,’ ‘didn’t know it was that bad” – you were having anal sex with a hooker and you didn’t know it was that bad?

    Tiger woods is SO pathetic. I really hope Elin dumps his cheating ass

  36. malame says:

    I don’t think that he’s sorry for cheating on his wife I think he’s just worried about his career and endorsments

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