Sandra Bullock filed for divorce last week under a pseudonym

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The divorce papers in the epic Sandra Bullock Jesse James cheating scandal have been unearthed by TMZ. Bullock has filed for divorce from Jesse, as she’s set to announce in the very surprising new issue of People featuring her posing with her adorable secret son that she’s in the process of adopting. It all went down last week in Texas, Bullock’s home state, under the initials B.A.S (Sandra’s initials backwards) and J.J.G (James’ initials mixed – he’s Jesse Gregory James.) While the paperwork isn’t that interesting and is mostly legalese, it does contain some details that may be revealing.

On whether there’s a prenup
There are no details in the paperwork about the alleged prenup that the National Enquirer claims exists (and which provides nothing to Jesse in the event of infidelity). The divorce decree just says that they believe this will be settled. On the “division of property” section, it says “Petitioner [B.A.S/Sandra Bullock] believes that Petitioner and Respondent will enter into an agreement for the division of their estate. Petitioner will request the court to approve the agreement and to make order consistent with the agreement.” They also reference “separate property that is not part of the community estate.” I’m keeping my fingers crossed that the prenup story is true.

Grounds for divorce
Under the grounds, it states “The marriage between Petitioner and Respondent has become insupportable because of discord or conflict of personalities that destroys the legitimate ends of the marriage relationship and prevents any reasonable expectations of reconciliation.”

Children
Sandra is a step mother to Jesse’s three children from two other relationships, but she has no legal rights. The divorce decree states that “There is no child under eighteen years of age or otherwise entitled to support who was born or adopted of this marriage and none is expected.” That means that Sandra is indeed adopting baby Louis without James.

Infidelity counts in a divorce in Texas more than in California
I’m no legal expert and don’t know if I’m understanding this correctly, but from what I understand, California is a “no fault” divorce state in that it doesn’t really matter if one of the parties significantly wronged the other one, i.e. cheated. It won’t make a difference in the property settlement and it doesn’t matter if one person wants a divorce and the other one doesn’t. In Texas, however, you can state that one of the other parties is at fault and use it as grounds for divorce. Sandra didn’t use Jesse’s cheating as the grounds for filing, but since it matters more in Texas that may explain why she chose to file there instead of in California. Please comment and correct me if you have a better understanding of this. Here’s an explanation from Divorcenet:

Texas law allows for “no-fault” divorces. However, if one party is at “fault” for the breakup of the marriage, the court may take that into consideration in determining what is an “equitable” division of the property. For that reason, the other spouse may want to plead fault grounds in their petition. The statutory grounds for divorce are: Adultery, Cruel treatment (that renders further living together insupportable), Abandonment (for at least one year with the intent to abandon), Long-term incarceration (more than one year), Confinement to a mental hospital for at least 3 years, Living apart for at least 3 years, or Insupportability (which is the no-fault ground), defined as discord or conflict of personalities that destroys the legitimate ends of the marriage and prevents any reasonable expectation of reconciliation.

[From Divorcenet]

Looking at the grounds for divorce, it doesn’t sound like Sandra is stating that Jesse is at fault as it comes across as mutual. Will it still count, then, that he cheated on her, and does this figure into the property settlement? I guess I’m just trying to figure out why she filed in Texas, and this might explain it. Again, let me know if you have more information about it.

Sandra filed relatively quickly considering everything she went through. A friend who works in the public relations industry told me earlier today that her People cover with her new baby was a truly genius PR move, and one that really shows how it’s done. She’s been able to distract from the fact that she filed for divorce, and show how happy and thriving she is, with this great news. We didn’t hear anything about Sandra’s pending adoption and it comes as a huge surprise. I’m so interested in reading her interview and this People issue is going to fly off the shelves.

Sandra Bullock and her husband Jesse James look a little glum as they leave their home

Sandra Bullock and Jesse James arrive at the 16th Screen Actors Guild Awards in Los Angeles

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  1. bite me says:

    wonder how long its will take for the NYT to write an article about sandy pr manipulation, oh wait nevermind, shes just really savy 😀

  2. lucy2 says:

    I think Sandra’s a smart cookie, and she’s been around Hollywood long enough to know to protect herself and her assets. I’m sure there’s a good pre-nup, which might be why there’s not a lot of language about him being at fault.

  3. benny says:

    I’m guessing she has a pretty iron-clad prenup, which is why she didn’t feel the need to cite the infidelity or other “fault” on her husband’s part (because he won’t be getting anything under the pre-nup anyway, so no need for court to decide “fault”).

    I’ll bet she makes a great mom to her little boy, even without the jerk being in their lives. She seems pretty devoted to kids.

  4. irl says:

    go ahead girl and GET DOWN with yer bad self!

  5. Lenore says:

    I couldn’t care less about the divorce but I LOVE that dress she’s wearing, with the mesh top and the branch and birds – yum.

    Um, yeah, go Sandy.

  6. K-in-Texas says:

    She may have filed in texas because we do not require alimony in Texas. My guess is she makes more money and doesn’t want to pay him any $$. I wish her all the best and think she will make a great mom.

  7. simplicity says:

    Agree, good PR move, all the little ducks lined up to make it clean.

    I don’t know about Texas divorce law, but CA is no fault, irreconcilable differences, and you can file easly in Pro Per, (do it yourself).

    I thought I’d read somewhere James had a pre-nup with a former wife.

    Sandy had the power in negotiations, whatever the terms of the agreement are.

  8. Maritimer says:

    Love Sandra.
    Hate the third dress. I cringe every time this picture pops up somewhere.
    While I don’t mind the color contrast (the blue is pretty) – it is just so cheap looking and plain (just IMHO, many others disagree).

    Really like the one she wore to the Oscars though (silver, pic #1), and I am still on the fence regarding the one in the second pic.

  9. Sumodo1 says:

    I once saw a comment Jesse James made about “four kids” and did a quick head count, then I thought, oh, maybe there was another kid with some bimbo.

    The fourth was Louis.

  10. Hautie says:

    As a resident of Texas I know we do not have to pay State income tax.

    Where as in California not only do you pay a federal income tax you also have to pay the state income tax. (And somehow California is still broke.)

    It is why so many large companies and the very wealthy, move here. It is cheaper to work and live in Texas.

    Especially if you make an incredible income and don’t want to have to give a huge chunk of it to state of California in taxes, that they mismanage. 🙂

    And I believe, Sandra has been a legal resident of Texas since the early-mid 1990’s.

  11. CC says:

    I bet she ends up giving him something, she seems to want to make this divorce very much in the spirit of good will, so I bet she throws a mil or a couple mil at him, nothing close to half, but more than nothing. or she’ll do it in a way that’s for the kids.

  12. bellaluna says:

    California is a “no fault” state, which means it doesn’t matter what your husband did to you, it doesn’t count in a divorce ruling, custody ruling, or divorce settlement. I don’t know about Texas, but after reading what K-in-Texas wrote it makes sense to me. I wouldn’t want to pay Jesse alimony either.

    She may have filed in Texas for more privacy, as well: Hollyweird is a fishbowl as it is, so if I felt I’d be a little more protected from the spotlight (and it benefited me to do so), I’d file in Texas too.

  13. Feebee says:

    Good on her. A) for filing divorce in the first place and B) for doing it under the radar with the bonus of having a lovely baby boy and making THAT the story. Genius! Go Sandy.

  14. Beth says:

    Why is everybody so consumed by a pre-nup? I don’t know his worth but Jesse is by no means poor. He’s not a Kevin Federline or Jon Gossling where he’s a step away from poverty without his wife. The house they lived in while married was Jesse’s before he even met Sandra which probably cost at least a couple of million. Other sites have said his bike shop is doing well. Although since his reputation has cost him some tv deals, he may go after her money. His other business interest may fall apart.

    I liked the way all of this played out. All of the tabloids were saying how devestated Sandra was, how sad it was she wouldn’t have kids, how in fear of her life and reputation she was because of Jesse. All along she was taking care of business and making the tabs and blogs look stupid. Another reason why I don’t understand why people believe tabloids 100%.

  15. Missmilly says:

    Boy, he sure messed up! He had it good for awhile.

  16. Team Bethenny says:

    Wait a g-d minute…

    A month ago, everyone was all “poor Sandy” and “he fooled her for years!”

    Now…NOW…she’s savvy, PR shrewd, “a smart cookie” and “genius”??

    That was the fastest IQ improvement I’ve ever seen.

  17. Jackson says:

    How are people allowed to file a legal document like this under a pseudonym?

  18. Miranda Ann says:

    Jackson, a person can file under a pseudonym for the sake of privacy because the Court knows the real name. Another way to do it is to file “under seal.” As long as the Court knows who you really are, it’s okay. In this case, it was so the people who work on these things won’t go blabbering to their friends about Sandra Bullock filing for divorce. I have no idea how TMZ found out. One of the lawyers or paralegals must have blabbed (for a few dollars, of course).

    Also, since Sandra is a resident of Texas and they both apparently lived at some point together in Texas, then filing there makes more sense. Of course, if James objected to that and wanted to file in L.A., he could have fought for it but I’m guessing he didn’t want to cause any more people to hate his guts.

    I don’t know if there was a prenup (probably there is) but, really, it is highly likely they will end up settling out of court and Sandra won’t have to pay a dime to James. (He has his own money anyway.)

  19. Momof2 says:

    I work for a family law attorney in Texas. You have to be a resident of that county for at least 3 months and a resident of Texas for at least 6 months. Once you file, you have to wait 60 days by Texas law before proceeding. Once the 60 days are up and spouse signed waiver and was filed with the court, a final decree was signed by both parties, you can then request a final court date. It can be done in less than 90 days if its agreed. Also, here in Texas, if one person commits adultry there is a strong possibility (no guarantee) that the other person will receive more than half of their community property. There is a lot more and I can go on and on…Also, as long as the Courts know what’s going on, abbreviated names are okay. I’ve seen first hand of what all this can do to a person, not just here at work but personally, and I really feel for her and everyone involved. It takes a long time to get over and worse when people tell you that you should get over it. Its one thing to say but another to actually do. I wish her and her family all the best.

  20. snowball says:

    And of course, remember his statement this morning that he was “letting” Sandra do this. At the time (and now) it sounded like he wasn’t contesting a thing, meaning no alimony, no settlement, no fighting whatever cause she was stating for the divorce and he wasn’t going to interfere with her adoption of Louis.

    Jesse’s got his own boatload of money, not as much as her, but he’s not hurting. He had a couple of television shows, at least two hugely successful bike shops and I doubt all this notoriety is going to hurt those with that crowd. Yeah, they definitely had a pre-nup, Sandra’s not that stupid, as we can see today.

    I don’t think the filing in Texas had anything special to do with it other than it was away from California and Hollywood and gave her a modicum of privacy.

    She managed to keep it all a secret until today until she released 90% of it on her own terms, didn’t she?

  21. lucy2 says:

    Team Bethenny – what I, and I think others, mean by that is yes, he fooled her, but she’s handling it wisely now that she knows. I don’t think him cheating on her makes her stupid – I think she simply loved and trusted him.
    I feel that she’s been smart in the way she’s dealt with the media and released the story on her terms. She could be on morning shows every day crying and complaining a la Kate Gosselin, but instead has controlled the press releases, the first photos, and now the news about the adoption.

  22. Dawnfire says:

    Good on her for being savvy but then again she has always had a good head on her shoulders.
    I’m happy Louis is in her life and she is not sitting around wondering what went wrong. I’ve been there done that and apart from being a fantastic mother, Louis will help ground her during this upheaval.
    Good on her for the pseudonym and I honestly hope it is sorted out fast.

  23. Team Bethenny says:

    Lucy2, I’m just sayin’ that she didn’t turn savvy overnight.

    Which implies she was aware of far more than people would like to believe, such as his Nazi tendencies, his preference for tattooed skanks, his inappropriate texting/emailing, etc.

    Someone who shrewdly keeps an adoption secret until she can use it to downplay the divorce (using the most star-sympathetic magazine on the market) and is savvy enough to file in a state that advantages her is not someone who is fooled by a dirtbag like him. Sorry…I’m not buyin’ it.

  24. YT says:

    Yep, genius PR on Sandy’s part, though JJ had to agree with how she is handling everything. The folk at People must be dancing and singing while those at all the other tabs must be wondering what happened. At least there are some bright spots in this sad situation.

  25. Reason says:

    It’s my understanding that he has more money than her. I doubt money will be an issue.

  26. Chico says:

    Good for her! I’m glad she didn’t try to make it work with this loser. I would have lost so much respect for her. I congratulate her on her freedom and her new child. Best of luck, Sandy!

  27. Vi says:

    i hope she will still be involved in her step childrens lives even if she doesn’t have a legal claim to them.

  28. julie says:

    Ive lived in Austin for over 30 years. My ex husband was the Tiger Woods of the insurance biz, but he had the money, so it didnt matter if he committed adultery or mishandled community property – and yes i had a crap lawyer – he came out on top, and ten years later i am still struggling. I think she filed in texas because its much quicker than california and she wants to get on with her life. I would not let him (MR NAZI) anywhere near this adorable african american baby – I think hes made his opinion loud and clear.

  29. Ruffian9 says:

    Atta girl

  30. Wholesome1 says:

    How on earth can you be MARRIED to someone and not know they are a Nazi. Sorry, it’s just not possible. Any one with a brain in their head might start to wonder why/how Sandy would marry someone who doesn’t share her views and values. Oh, but now that I see her soon-to-be adopted infant is a person of color, it’s totally clear to me that Jesse completely pulled the wool over her eyes. P.R. move is right.

  31. Aussie Mama says:

    and, and adopted a 3 month old african baby boy! now that’s a nice media clean up.for what would have been a tarnished image. people that were wondering how she could not have known about jessies nazi collector crap, white supremacy etc. what a lovely media/career save this is of sandy.
    well done.

  32. stylefile says:

    For everyone saying it’s a pr move, please take note that they started adoption proceeding FOUR years ago. The baby just got “awarded” to them this January. I think it was a mixture of privacy and of them not wanting people to say adopting an african-american baby was a ploy for the oscars that they kept it under wraps. You never know when an adoption will push through and it did for them at the height of Oscar season…where she played a woman who adopted an african-american.

    I don’t think they started adoption proceedings because they knew that four years down the line Sandy would need a positive story to deal with a cheating scandal. 😛

    Hindsight is always 20/20, and I still think Jesse pulled the wool over Sandy’s eyes. What she does have is a great team to handle the fallout from what JESSE did. Soooo, the baby is a perfect way to add to Sandy’s goodwill from the public but was obviously NOT adopted because of this debacle.

  33. Jackson says:

    @Miranda Ann – Thank you! I think if I worked in the courthouse and I saw initials or some obviously made-up name, I’d be awfully curious to find out who it was. Then again, I can be a neb-nose. 🙂

  34. Eye Opener says:

    Congrats to her on her new GORGEOUS baby!!

    However, I can’t help but see the ironic part in this that this reminds me of Angelina with Billy Bob. BUT, the difference is, SHE AIN’T CRAZY LIKE AJ!

  35. gg says:

    It’s not really been cleared beyond a doubt that Jessie actually IS a nazi, you know …

  36. g says:

    Sorry, but sandra bullock is just that a bull#@*t!!! artist and locks her cash up where no other nose but her big one can get to it!!

    Vacuous, shallow & now with her recent diatribe of a movie a sanctimonious over-paid half-wit, that too many think is the best thing to come outa hollywood since the nose-ometer.

    She bugs me to say the least. He’s not much either by the way.

  37. Feebee says:

    A little off topic but if JJ really is a Nazi/White Supremist etc, how is it he agreed to adopt an African American child?

  38. goldy says:

    C’mon — she is so nice she goes easy on the guy who plummeted her from her proudest moments? Is that commendable I think not — being “high road” and “nice” WTF he stripped her of the moon that surrounded her with her OSCAR and embarassed her when she said “loving him made her a better person” …….GIMME a break Sandra stop being an ENABLER and trounce him and then forgive him…

  39. canadianchick says:

    @g interesting sanctimonious diatribe you’ve shared with us. Maybe go get a massage and chill for a bit.

  40. Taya says:

    I don’t think JJ is a racist at all. It was a WW1 symbol that most bikers have. It is not a Nazi symbol. I think that SB is till seeing JJ. JJ knows that her public image is important and he is not shocked by her divorce filing. I think these two had all this figured out before SB even left. SB knew about JJ all this time and she knows that she has to file for divorce to save her career. Just because JJ is not on those adoption papers does not mean that he is not part of the babies life.
    Like a few mentioned before, this is just a PR move.

  41. Jane Doe says:

    G: Bombshell is that you?

  42. Mac says:

    April: tell us how you really feel!? I have to agree – I think she’s played this well but not ‘cuz she’s heroic but because she’s shrewd and kind of a bitch. Which isn’t necessarily a bad thing. But just ‘cuz JJ is a total ass, doesn’t mean Sandy is a total angel.

  43. Team Bethenny says:

    @Mac, I’m with you on this one. Right on.

  44. barbara gee says:

    Stylefile, if the adoption was initiated four years ago and approved in January, why would the divorce papers state there are no children, adopted or natural? They would both be noted as parents in the adoption initiated long ago, and there wouldn’t be time to ‘undo’ all that in a month.

    Supposedly they were on good terms until the mistress exposure after the Oscars.

    Makes zero sense.