Denise Richards filed for a domestic violence restraining order against Aaron Phypers

Eleven days ago, Aaron Phypers filed for divorce from Denise Richards. I admitted at the time that I didn’t know much about them or their marriage, but from what little I knew, Aaron seemed completely bonkers. His own statements about his Malibu healing center and his ability to “regenerate” body parts with his mind were enough to convince me that he has serious issues. But I didn’t suspect that he was and is a garden-variety psycho and a violent domestic assailant. Denise has now gone to court to seek a temporary domestic violence restraining order. She provided the court with documentation of her injuries (inflicted by Phypers) as well a lengthy statement detailing the years of physical and emotional abuse:

Denise Richards is making shocking new accusations against her ex Aaron Phypers. In court documents obtained by PEOPLE, Richards, 54, requested a temporary domestic violence restraining order against Phypers, 49, sharing alleged details and photos accusing her ex of physical assault.

“Aaron would frequently violently choke me, violently squeeze my head with both hands, tightly squeeze my arms, violently slap me in my face and head, aggressively slam my head into the bathroom towel rack, threaten to kill me, hold me down with his knee on my back to the point where I would have to plead with him to get off me so that he would not kill me and hack into my laptop and phone and download all of my text messages,” Richards alleged in the court documents. “Aaron regularly threatened to ‘break my jaw’ and would cry, beg me to stay, and promise to get help — none of which ever happened.”

She also alleged, that her ex “has caused me at least three concussions.” Richards said she has been “afraid” to report Phypers’ alleged behavior to the police “because he has repeatedly threatened to kill himself and me if I reported him to the police, among his other threats of harm to me and himself if he is reported for his abuse to anyone.”

She cited July 4-14 as the date of the most recent alleged assault, claiming that she asked Phypers and his family to move out of townhomes she had leased. In the documents, Richards alleged that on July 4, Phypers “got within two inches of my face” and “screamed degrading profanities” including calling her a “c— w—-” and a “piece of s—.” Richards also alleged that the next day her ex made the same comments in the presence of his father, Steven Phypers. Richards claimed that Steven also “began yelling at me” and threatened to tell the internet that she was a “w—-.”

The Bravo star alleged that later that same day Phyphers “grabbed both of my arms forcefully and pushed me and dragged me to the ground. I landed hard on the stairs causing me immense pain.” She also claimed that when she threatened to call the police on July 5, Phypers said, “I would like to see the cops take me away, I will blow everything up if they try.”

She alleged in the documents that “throughout our marriage, Aaron threatened to kill me and himself and the police.” She also claimed that Phypers “owns at least eight unregistered guns” and “multiple bullet proof vests.”

Richards also claimed that Phypers “threatened that I would ‘disappear’ if I called the police.” She said he “repeatedly abused” her throughout their marriage. The former couple tied the knot in 2018.

She also accused her ex of going through her phone and laptop while she slept and putting her messages on his laptop.

[From People]

Good lord, this is awful. Poor Denise. I believe her, and I believe Phypers is this violent. This in particular caught my eye: “‘Aaron threatened to kill me and himself and the police.’ She also claimed that Phypers ‘owns at least eight unregistered guns’ and ‘multiple bullet proof vests.’” A picture has emerged (for me) – I suspect that he’s armed to the teeth and fully prepared to shoot his way out if he’s cornered. I would also guess that he has money (Denise’s money, probably), guns and drugs stashed away somewhere. I hope Denise gets the restraining order and I hope she has people around her, because this is an extremely delicate situation.

Photos courtesy of Avalon Red.

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13 Responses to “Denise Richards filed for a domestic violence restraining order against Aaron Phypers”

  1. Chaine says:

    This is really sad and scary. I hope she can be free of him.

    • Libra says:

      Cue the classic defence, it’s her fault. She made me do it.

      • FYI says:

        omg, he doesn’t even need to say that — people are saying it FOR him online. They’re accusing her of faking this black eye because her eye isn’t bloodshot. It’s unreal.

  2. Bqm says:

    I watch RHOBH and the women there tried to out her for a premarital fling with Brandi Granville. This despite Denise being with Aaron at the time and them already gossiping about his control issues. And they just wouldn’t let up. It’s why she left. I’ve thought they were trash since then because they knew darn well that they were endangering her.

    • Krista says:

      They were abusive toward Denise. This was my final straw w/Kyle – Kyle was the ring leader of the bullying.

  3. I believe her!! I wonder why he filed for divorce first? Is it because he wanted to get ahead of her finally getting out ? That’s my guess but usually the abuser wants to stay in the situation to keep control. Now she feels safe enough to say what’s been going on for years. I hope she will be safe!

    • Lauryn says:

      I think he’s ready to finish the financial abuse and abuse her emotionally and financially through divorce proceedings. She might have been getting stronger and starting to stand up to his abuse so he initiated divorce proceedings to try to cash out in the divorce. Such a scumbag.

  4. Grant says:

    There’s an episode of RHOBH from a few years ago when Denise was a housewife… Denise is fighting with Rinna and Kyle at a barbecue or something. Eventually Denise and Phypers get up to leave. He starts yelling back at Rinna and Kyle, Denise tells him to stop, and he tells her that if she doesn’t stop telling him what to do, he’s going to crush her hand. I think he forgot that he was mic’d because his threat is loud and clear. I was incredibly disturbed when I heard the comment.

    • Lola09 says:

      Thank you!!! I have been looking for this comment – I thought I was losing my mind because nobody was mentioning this incredibly disturbing red flag of YEARS ago. When I saw it on RHOBH I was horrified and thought if this is what he will say and do on camera, you better believe there is serious abuse going on at home. I found the clip and yep, crystal clear – Denise says ‘baby, don’t say a word, we’re on camera’ and he replies ‘don’t tell me what to do, I’m gonna crush your fucking hand’. Vile man.

    • BeanieBean says:

      I remember that, too! That was awful. What a vile, manipulative POS. This is the most dangerous time for her–as demonstrated by her affidavit–I hope she & her girls are in a safe place & that they stay safe.

  5. Ashley says:

    Oh I am so sad for her. This is brutal. I’ve been learning more about coercive control on the Crime Analyst podcast and it’s way more endemic than many people realise. I’ve experienced similar threats in my life, but this is much worse than my own lived experience.

    My heart goes out to Denise and her children.

  6. Lil Soleil says:

    So so sad for her. She’s had absolutely awful men in her life. Charlie Sheen and now this. Hope she heals physically and emotionally.

  7. Libra says:

    From a young age, she was rumored to be one of Heidi Fleisses girls, so the only men she was exposed to were abusive users who took advantage of young women who were just trying to survive. This is the only kind of guy she knows and unconsciously chooses.

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