David Boreanaz claims serial cheating helped his marriage, “a bonding experience”

It was about a year and a half ago that “Bones” actor David Boreanaz admitted to the public that he had cheated on his wife. That was in response to the news that Tiger mistress Rachel Uchitel was about to go to the press with details and text messages revealing an affair with him. Back then Boreanaz said “Our marriage has been tainted with my infidelities. I just want to be open and honest… I was associated with a woman who I was involved with and had a relationship with. She asked for money. I felt as though I was being blackmailed or there was some sort of extortion.”

Somehow he tried to make it sound noble that he was coming out with this information and as if he were doing the right thing and the cheating wasn’t entirely his fault. “We’re working on repairing what has been damaged so badly.” Boreanaz sounded so much to me like Jesse James, who made it sound like he was brave and manly by admitting that he’d cheated. And, like Jesse, we inevitably heard of a sexual harassment lawsuit and a stripper that Boreanaz had banged. Surely there were more than those three women.

Boreanaz’s wife forgave him, though, and I’m sure the $30,000 diamond and gold bracelet he gave her didn’t hurt matters. The 42 year-old actor spoke to TV Week about his cheating, and he spewed a bunch of crap that made it sound like sending dick pics to random women ended up helping his marriage.

David Boreanaz clearly believes in the power of positive thinking.

The actor, who came clean about cheating on wife Jaime Bergman with Rachel Uchitel in May 2010, tells TV Week that his affair has been “a bonding experience, in the long run.”

“In a sacred ground like marriage, you find yourself out of it at certain times for reasons unknown that can be destructive,” the 42-year-old actor explains. “There could be a demon that kind of comes out and overtakes you.”

In any relationship, there are “fantastic” moments and “extremely rocky” moments, Boreanaz adds.

The New York native and Bergman, a former Playboy Playmate, wed in November 2001, just nine months after they met during a Valentine’s Day party at the Playboy Mansion.

“Do I believe in giving up?” Boreanaz asks TV Week. “No, I don’t. I’m a fighter. I’m a lover.”

Bergman and Boreanz are parents to son Jaden, 9, and daughter Bella, 2.

[From US Weekly]

It sounds like this ass went to therapy with his wife and learned to talk around the fact that he was picking up any chick that would have him and that he was trolling for strange at work, and at strip clubs. He probably never admitted the amount of women he was sleeping with, (just like Jesse James) and he probably doesn’t think it matters anyway. In his mind, it all worked out for the best since his wife and the mother of his kids didn’t leave him for it. She probably loves him, believed most of his lies and didn’t want to break up her family over this. It’s typical and it’s sad.

These photos are from the Emmy Awards on 9/18/11. Look at his hair!



photo credit: WENN.com

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  1. brin says:

    What a load of crap. He got caught plain and simple. Change the word “demon” for “dong” and that’s all there is to say. Except: keep it zipped!

  2. Kit says:

    wow, he’s quite a catch isn’t he? Douche!

  3. Hautie says:

    Well I give him credit for shutting down the blackmail/extortion.

    I bet Gloria Allred was pissed that she missed out getting her fee.

    Geez, Tiger could have saved a lot of money had he just said, “So what!? I shagged a few ugly hookers!”

    He probably still have some of his game left, if he had. And Allred would not been able to extort that $10 million out of him.

  4. searching4grace says:

    *sighs* I used to love him before all of this.

  5. Iggles says:

    Ugh. What a douche!

  6. Celebitchy says:

    @Hautie – he did pay off Allred for the chick he sexually harassed though. So he didn’t shut her down on both counts.

  7. Mitch Buchanan Rocks says:

    What size are this dudes feet?

  8. embertine says:

    I love how all of these celebrities types who are usually all “Me me me, I did this, I want that!” switch immediately to passive language as soon as they’re trying to shift blame. They’re no better than politicians.

  9. Jezi says:

    You know, I think his wife figured that most men in Hollywood cheat and that at least he went to therapy with her. She loves him and at least he said I was an asshole and maybe he actually meant it. He obviously wants to stay with his wife so I won’t judge him. I just hope he learned his lesson and treats her better going forward. Only she knows what she’s willing to put up with. It must suck for her to go through it publicly and be judged.

  10. lucy2 says:

    He sounds like a total ass, especially the way he’s deflecting the blame.
    This is his second marriage, and there were rumors about him cheating to end the first one too, so his wife must have known what she was getting into. Perhaps it should be a Hollywood golden rule – don’t marry anyone you meet at the Playboy mansion!

  11. anne_000 says:

    I have a hard time believing his wife is a victim of any kind, naive or not, especially after the first time he was caught. After the umpteenth time, one has to realize that the wife DOESN’T MIND. She’s staying cuz she’s getting something from the marriage, and she’s not going to leave just cuz he has affairs.

  12. Lindy says:

    Ugh, I used to love him, too. Now I just want him to shut the hell up and look pretty on tv while I attempt to forget what a douchecanoe he is in reality.

  13. atlantapug says:

    “In a sacred ground like marriage…”

    Um, yeh. So sacred you banged, groped and paid off a bunch of skanks.
    Another day, another douche.

  14. DreamyK says:

    He’s got a strange definition of bonding. No woman wants to “bond” with her husband over his inability to keep his dick in his pants around other women.

  15. smh says:

    how would you feel if she cheated on you? what a loser i can’t believe i used to think of him as a decent dude

  16. Jules says:

    Why don’t they just admit he is unable to be monogamous, that she accepts that as the price of being married to him (and rich) and just move on? All the BS he keeps spewing about marriage just makes him sound more douchey.

  17. Kim says:

    Yeah im sure she is really happy to have bonded over his serial cheating. This guy is such a doucebag!

    He hit on me right in front of his wife and she gave me the stink eye! I felt bad for her but HELLO shouldnt you be giving your HUSBAND the stink eye not me who was doing nothing but standing in a store.

    I was mortified for both of them.

  18. Violet says:

    He’s a disgusting pig and his wife is a complete fool for staying with him. There’s nothing “sacred” about their joke of a marriage.

  19. ladyanne says:

    He used to be so cute and sexy. Stupid ass ! Sacred, really.

  20. Becky says:

    He’s gross and full of shit. I agree with @Brin-the “demon” was dong. Glad he’s gotten some therapy but I don’t know how he can call having an affair as a bonding experience with his wife. What a joke!

  21. lin234 says:

    I used to love Bones but it’s so irritating seeing him play this good guy when he’s such a douche in real life.

  22. penguin says:

    Childhood memories of buffy and angel shattered lol.

  23. I Choose Me says:

    “There could be a demon that kind of comes out and overtakes you.”

    Mmhmm. The devil made him do it. What a f-ckwad!

    @Kim. This happens all the time, women hating other women for their man’s bad behaviour and I’ve never understood why. SMH.

  24. Rachael says:

    What a complete and utter sleazeball. I’m so glad I don’t watch Bones because knowing that the lead actor was such a douchebag would somewhat ruin my enjoyment of the show.

  25. blasted1 says:

    #17 and #23…It’s always been a complete mystery to me, too, why chicks get pissed at the girl their boyfriend is flirting with! I wonder what kind of pathetic logic is put together in some women’s minds that this attitude makes sense to them. Well, that 20k bracelet he gave her as a make-up present seems to do the trick. Hey, it worked for Kobe Bryant!

  26. Nikki Girl says:


  27. Kushkins says:

    I have been watching all the seasons of Bones, and I’m just perplexed at how he turned out, and these hollywood wives, just a new breed of naivety, my goodness! My memories of Angel are crushed! Pervy Douchebag! Prefer Booth than David!

  28. S says:

    OK. She is a playboy centerfold who has been in playboy films. They met at the Playboy Mansion on Valentines Day. Did either of them think that they would be the Cosbys? The best she can hope for is that he will be discreet and wear a condom.