Ryan Gosling & Eva Mendes are still together and loved up in Paris

Is it okay if I forgot that Ryan Gosling and Eva Mendes were together? It just slipped my mind. To be fair, there hasn’t been much gossip about them in the past month and a half. Ryan and Eva got together in September, when they were working together on some film. Ryan took Eva to Disneyland, which is how we knew that they were bangin’ (he takes EVERY hookup to Disneyland). Later, there were some tabloid reports that Ryan was actually serious about Eva, and that it wasn’t just a quickie wham-bam-Disneyland adventure. Now things are looking even more serious – these are photos of Eva and Ryan in Paris during the long Thanksgiving holiday. Eva is filming in Paris, and Ryan came to visit her, and they went on a romantic/gothic stroll in a cemetery.

Ryan Gosling sure knows how to make a girl feel special! The 31-year-old actor surprised love of two months Eva Mendes on the set of Holly Motors in Paris, France Friday, two insiders confirm to Us Weekly.

“Ryan flew out to be with Eva as soon as she wrapped Holly Motors,” one source says. “The film was a fairly small production and Eva was good about being focused and without many distractions on set.”

A second insider adds that Mendes, 37, “was totally shocked” when Gosling showed up unannounced.

“They were talking all the time so she had no hints that he was coming,” the second insider tells Us. “She was really homesick and missed him, even though she practically just left to shoot!”

The following day, the paramours snuck in a few kisses while strolling arm-in-arm through Pere Lachaise cemetery. The Beyond the Pines costars first began dating in September.

Gosling’s exes include Rachel McAdams, Sandra Bullock and Kirsten Dunst. Mendes quietly ended her long-term relationship with producer George Gargurevich over the summer.

[From Us Weekly]

So… they’re really together, aren’t they? And they’ve been together for three months now, at least. Well, part of me is glad to see that Ryan is still capable of having a three-month long relationship with a woman. I was starting to think that The Gosdong was like a more boyish version of Gerard Butler – both men seemed to have a constant stream of hookups that never went anywhere, but Gerard just takes ladies back to his hotel room, where Ryan takes them to Disneyland. Anyway, Ryan in a relationship with Eva Mendes… I’m still not seeing the relationship potential, and they don’t really make me hot as a couple. She always seems so drunk and so full of herself, and Ryan seems so “sensitive”. Meh.

Photos courtesy of Pacific Coast News.

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  1. Jenn says:

    Is it rude to say… I think he can do better. Way better.

    • gloaming says:


    • emma says:

      He’s an ok looking actor who does poorly to mediocre at the box office. She could do better as well. His fake PR hype doesn’t change the this.

    • StrawberryGirl says:

      He can do much better. I used to like her, but I’ve heard what a nightmare she is. Apparently, she is bizarre and just outright rude to people.

      I remember a blind item that was revealed about how she was in a Starbucks and said what drink she wanted, but wouldn’t say what size or anything. Then, she stood like a flamingo or something while she waited for it.

    • Hmmm says:

      A person is known by the company they keep. Oh, Ryan. Now we know.

    • allie says:

      Ha. He could at least date somebody of his talent level!

  2. dave says:

    are they together for real? or is it some kind of chemistry preparation for the movie?

    • Platynum says:

      I was just about to say that this looks like the set of a movie….lol.
      He looks like he is so uncomfortable…lol

    • jinni says:

      Until proven otherwise, I always assume these co-star hook-ups are publicity for their up coming movie.

      • Manuela says:

        like Fassbender and Kravitz
        only promotion of X men

      • Alexis says:

        I agree that these relationships are generally movie publicity fodder. I see very little chemistry between Gosling and Mendez, and their “relationship” has been one loud pap-a-rific stunt after another. (Disneyworld? Really?) Gosling doesn’t seem like Mendez’s type, anyway. I remember she said in an interview that she finds smart guys hot. Gosling seems a bit dumb-blondy. I see her with a businessman, a producer or a director if she can swing it. You know his people are leading on this story, too.

        Oddly enough, I think of Kravitz and Fassbender as one of the few exceptions to this rule…they appeared to be hiding it because it was so sketchy-looking, since she looks so young for her age. Their characters aren’t love interests in the movie either, so there’s no chemistry to look for in the movie, which is part of the purpose of these sham romances.

      • normades says:

        Yes, I remember that article. She said that as she didn’t have much education herself she liked men who were cultivated and well read. Mendes seems like a ScarJo type who thinks dating/working with talented people will make the talent rub off on her. She should date Sean Penn.

      • Manuela says:

        maybe my radar doesnt work)))
        but i really didnt see any chemistry between Fass and Zoe – they looked absurdly a bit. and the same situation for me with Ryan and Eva.
        of course i could be wrong just thoughts

  3. joy says:

    Completely staged. He doesn’t look at her at all.

    • kit says:

      I thought that too.
      And I just saw a picture on another site where it looks like there’s at least 5 paps there.
      Hope its real though, I get the crazy vibe from her and it could be great gossip when it all goes horribly wrong (does that make me a bad person lol)

      • carrie says:

        the paps followed them during all the day and they even waited them in front of the restaurant L’AMI LOUIS during their dinner
        Gosling and Mendes can’t say they didn’t see them
        (LePère Lachaise cemetery is almost as famous and visited as Eiffel tower)

  4. lisa says:

    It is always weird when two attractive people are together and they don’t give off any chemistry.

    oh well

    Ryan is a good looking guy. but I never get HEAT from him with any of the women he is with. Just like Bradley Cooper, Leo, Ryan R.. all of them have this quality. I don’t understand what is missing. But something is missing. It’s not about having a good body or looking good in clothes. So what? lots of guys are in great shape. The sexy is missing. They don’t have that swagger that power of the room. I can’t put it into the right words. That IT is missing.

    I know many will call me crazy, but I just don’t get the sexy wet from any of them.

    • jinni says:

      You’re not crazy. I completely understand. I’m sure for a lot of people Ryan and the guys you listed are super sexy, but not for everyone. For example, I don’t get why anyone thinks Alex Skarsgard (sp?)is sexy. The way I see it is that just like beauty, chemistry and sexiness is in the eye of the beholder.

    • Nessa says:

      I agree about Coop and Ryan Reynolds. Those two definitely don’t have the ‘it’ factor. But If you watch Ryan G’s interviews, he is super adorable and funny. And, Leo is… Mother F’ing Leo. He is not as hot as some of the other guys, but he is like a God in Hollywood. He is the man. JMO…

      • lisa says:

        Other than Leo dating models I don’t get the HE IS THE MAN thing. I have a lot of guy friends and they never talk about LEO in a guy envy way. I could name a few they do but will stay on focus here They note the young models but they don’t think of him as a guy ideal to be or envy. but like jinni said it is all in the eye of the beholder. But I don’t find Leo sexy in any way.

        @jinni.. ITAWY regarding Alex, he does nothing for me either.

        @nessa. yes he is adorable in interviews, but unfortunately he is not being interviewed 24/7

      • Hmmm says:

        Leo always looks like a babyman to me.

    • Rach says:

      I completely agree..He doesnt have the michael fassbender affect

      • Chrissy says:

        You just named it perfectly…the ‘it’ discussed above is definitely the Michael Fassbender effect. Michael is not exceptionally ‘pretty’/good looking compared to Ryan Gosling. But he gets me more excited than a hundred Ryan Goslings…

    • Snowpea says:

      TOTALLY agree!

      The guys that make me all hot and bothered are Clive Owens, Daniel Day Lewis, Billy Conolly and Patrick Dempsey.

      They’re all kinda kooky and smart and look like they would push you up against the wall and f*&k you senseless.

      Those pretty boys look like they’re always thinking about their next manicure.

    • DarkEmpress says:

      Weird was the first thing that came to mind when I saw a pic of them together!

  5. emma says:

    So many fake PR romances in hollywood. Fake wannabe heartthrob needs to have a woman hanging on. Gosling is getting sad now. I thought he wanted to be a serious actor. Rolling my eyes at him right now.

  6. retyah says:

    I’ve been to that cemetery, its actually very cool.

    They don’t seem like they *match* together though. Kind of a weird couple imho.

  7. sesame says:

    Ryan, why are you still in character as “Driver”? The movie wrapped up a year ago!
    And yeah, these two look uberbored with one another.

  8. brin says:

    I agree with the majority of comments these two are such a mismatch.

  9. Jb says:

    That hat on her is all kinds of wrong. Her jaw looks positively manly.

  10. normades says:

    Pere Lachaise cemetery is beautiful. It’s more like a park. It’s where Jim Morrison, Edith Piaf, Oscar Wilde and a ton of other famous people are burried. @ Kaiser: It’s also near Vincent Cassel’s home.

    That said I HATE this couple. They just do not go together imo. He is hipsterish and she seems gold diggerish.

    And when did he date Kirsten Dunst????

  11. Turtle Dove says:

    It’s like they wanted the pap pictures to look cool and went on a stroll through a cemetery. I know that Ryan digs sculls, but…..

    If this is not staged I’ll eat my keyboard. I can understand that they might be snapped on the street, a restaurant, etc., but a cemetery does not have the paparazzi hanging out waiting for random celebs.

    I was developing a bit of fan-crush for Ryan, but he’s killed it with the odd pap photos and showmances.

  12. Marjalane says:

    Is it just me, or is the Gosdong looking less hot than usual? It’s as if her presence in the pictures is sucking the “fuck yeah” out of him. sigh.

    • Estella says:

      I kinda get what you are saying only I thought the opposite. Ryan looks prettier than Eva here. When did she lose her sex appeal? I agree with all who are giving this “couple” the side-eye. I just don’t see any chemistry/sparks between the two.

  13. Jenn12 says:

    Ryan looked his happiest when with Rachel McAdams. However, he strikes me as the kind of guy who keeps himself back, even when with someone he loves. He reminds me of George Clooney, actually. I remember McAdams and Gosling on the MTV stage and the chemistry was obvious, but even then, he was putting on a big show and strutting around, and I remember McAdams quipping, “Love ’em and leave ’em, huh?” when he then refused to come forward with her after trying his hardest when recreating the scene from “Notebook”. McAdams was too smart for him to handle for long. There’s something pompous and self centered about him.

    • Intercontinential says:

      OMG! SNAP! We were just discussing how much these two remind us of the GC/Clingon void of any emotion whatsoever showmance and were wondering whether RG has been taking advice from GC. Dear God, hope for his sake not! RG & EM both look so bored! It is so obvious there is nothing happening here..!

  14. truthful says:

    wonder if Eva got rid of her coke habit..

  15. Sigh. says:

    I’m probably more interested in his injury, than he appears to be with her. He actually looks like he regrets the surprise trip, IMHO. Maybe because it IS a cemetery, however popular of a tourist spot it may be??

    But I don’t think either is that sexy separately (Yes, he’s done fine movies and interviews, and she has a nice body, but still a “no” for me), so…

    • Intercontinential says:

      OMG! Didn’t even spot that! Well done you! Yep, he’s definitely been taking advice from GC! The symapthy vote, the new injury, new girl… Wonder where he’ll hurt next? 🙂

  16. Sigh. says:

    I’m probably more interested in his injury, than he appears to be in her. He actually looks like he regrets the surprise trip, IMHO. Maybe because it IS a cemetery, however popular of a tourist spot it may be??

    But I don’t think either is that sexy separately (Yes, he’s done fine movies and interviews, and she has a nice body, but still a “no” for me), so…

    • sesame says:

      I bet those sustained injuries are similar to the ones Clooney had … wink wink. Seems Georgie boy taught the Gosdong a thing or two about women and S&M during the Ides of March shoot, haha!

  17. French reader says:

    Guys, I live in Paris and that cemetery is a block away from my apartment, so I can say STAGED photo op right here. There are never any paps in the Père Lachaise cemetery. Even if they followed them there all the way from their hotel, that place is huge and full of nooks and crooked little pathways; it would have been very easy for them to lose the paparazzi… if they had wanted to. Lame Hollywood PR romance.

    Edit: and if any of you happen to go there, the western part of the cemetery is the one full of those nice crooked little pathways, and it is so much nicer (and more romantic) than the eastern part which is as symmetric as an NYC neighbourhood.

    • Nanz says:

      Thanks for the info. My mind thought “staged” too. In fact, they look like a clothing commercial.

  18. Dani says:

    Don’t like them as a couple. I haven’t really liked Ryan Gosling with anyone since Rachel McAdams.

    I don’t see the appeal in Eva Mendes.

    I wonder how George Gargurevich is handling all of this. They dated for upwards of 8 years.

    • Stellax2 says:

      Wasn’t Mendes involved with Joaquin Phoenix at one point during filming “We Own The Night” or is it my imagination or the tabloids?

      I don’t feel the sexy with these two. I think Gosling is a decent actor but like someone stated above he’s like Skarsgard to me. If I ever hung with them (yeah right), I would want to have a drink and chat and that’s it, end of story.

      Now, Timothy Olyphant-different story. He gives me the shivers.

    • allie says:

      I don’t understand her relationship with George whoever (on many sites, I read that his last name was Augusto). Did they have an open relationship or something? Because I’m either reading about all her hook ups with co-stars or that she was in a long-term committed relationship. Those two things seem very contradictory!

  19. thinkaboutit says:

    They seem so sad. Maybe she had big plans to hook up with some co-star and here comes Ryan all “hey girl, surprise!!” I can’t imagine not having a big old permanent grin on my face if my movie star boyfriend surprised me by coming to Paris to keep me company for the holiday!

    • podzol says:

      Word. Isn’t it sad that Lively+Reynolds comparatively out-acted Gosling+Mendes in happy romance believability?

  20. Julia says:

    Am I the only one that loves this couple?? At first I thought it was a bizarre match, but now I think it’s really sweet! I’ve always thought Eva was beautiful and hilarious, and Ryan… well, he’s just perfect 🙂 good luck to the random-but-adorable couple!

  21. bea says:

    Did he forget his coat and borrow hers?

    He’s taking a pic of just himself – odd.

    I don’t know how old she is, but she looks too old and kinda frumpy next to him.

    I agree – looks fake.

  22. Lady_Luck says:

    Yep, agree with all the above comments. Body language is odd and very cool on the part of Gosling. She seems much more into him than he into her. You can sense the ‘cray cray’ vibe off her a mile away.

    Personally, I would like to see Gosling hook up with Jennifer Love-Hewitt or perhaps Minka Kelly or Leighton Meister(hot)?

    • Dani says:

      I like the choices you gave, Lady_Luck.

      J Love and Ryan Gosling.

      • Stellax2 says:

        J. Love would drug him and have him down the aisle in an hour flat, no doubt.

      • Lady_Luck says:

        @Stellax2 that might be the case, yet I still do see them working for some reason. I think they would share the same s.o.h, and at least J.Love isn’t afraid to smile and beam at the world once in a while. J-Love just needs to tone down the Cray Cray and stop acting so needy, then she’ll be fine. Eva has a serious pole permanently wedged up her backside. That’s her problem, she never smiles and just looks permanently bitchy. In any case, isn’t that what we wish to see all these philandering and promiscuous eternal bachelors do? Be conquered once and for all by ONE woman! 😀 well good luck to her, whether it be Eva, J.Love or some other token femme fatale.

  23. Stella says:

    Seems to me they are being respectful by not laughing and carrying on in a cemetery. Also, what a drag being followed by the parasitic paparazzi. It must be difficult to be yourself with that craziness going on and even more frustrating to not be able to explode on them. Ryan and Eva do have the sexy going on. It’s just subdued and in control when out in public. As it should be.

  24. Maria says:

    I never liked her. in her eyes i see wickedness. I prefer Rachel McAdams. Anyway ,he knows better. But guys FOR GOD SAKE ,what is he doing!?

  25. Steph says:

    I agree with Kaiser, I just dont see “it”. Them as a couple seem so mismatched in a way. Maybe that might be a good thing but who knows. It’s just weird to see them together though

  26. Karolina says:

    weird couple. she is old, haggard looking and has that constant bitch face. he could do waaay better…

  27. Lucy says:

    Not buying it….just another movie PR stunt romance…

  28. Leigh says:

    it really does looked staged.. I mean, would it kill her to smile? even at him??? …. geesh..

  29. Shy says:

    I feel like Ryan wants to sleep with all B-list actresses in Hollywood 🙂

  30. Zoe says:

    ::He’s an ok looking actor who does poorly to mediocre at the box office. She could do better as well.::

    Ryan Gosling is an Oscar-nominated actor and one of the best of his generation. He tends to do independent films, so those generally don’t hit the mainstream though he has ventured outside of that and had some mainstream success, which is certainly growing.

  31. LuckyLilGem says:

    She needs to botox the muscles that pull the corners of her mouth downward. She has this constant frown going on. She’s gorgeous regardless.

  32. jules says:

    I haven’t made a comment in a long time, though I still read daily. Yet, this feels so wrong that I feel the need to say it: yuck!

  33. stephanie says:

    i think he’s really overrated.

  34. lucy2 says:

    I like him a lot as an actor, and find him more attractive than the Ryan R, Cooper mentions earlier too, but not crazy hot. He’s very talented though, amazing in Blue Valentine.

    I don’t get her. I don’t think she’s pretty, or a good actor, but she seems to be constantly working. Wonder how that happens.

  35. Messenger says:

    I think eva m. looks like cindy crawford in her heyday…much more so than the equine canalis. ryan is dreamy and he had me when he said he thinks like a girl…i was just asking myself where are all the men who understand women? eva has one.

  36. Emma says:

    Ugh! Where is Emma Stone? Now that would be a hot couple. Pick her!

  37. DG says:

    She looks old next to him and for that reason alone they shouldn’t be together.

  38. Lady_Luck says:

    Still liking the J-love idea! The only thing necessary would be for J-love to tone down the cray cray. What about Kirstin Kreutz? That would be hot.

  39. I Choose Me says:

    Love him, meh on her and I’m with everyone else who doesn’t buy them as a couple. The Gos is a strange bird (imo it’s part of his appeal) and she’s a bit what’s the term? Cray-cray? Anyway he does not seem into her AT ALL. Methinks he’s uncomfortable with the showmancing but he’s committed to doing it for whatever reason.

  40. JaneWonderfalls says:

    I don’t like them as a couple. It’s something off…

  41. allie says:

    I’m still in the PR-romance camp. They’re probably banging, but anything more than that is smoke and mirrors.

    First, has there ever been ANY sightings of them without the paps around? All signs point to: One of their publicists is calling for the cameras. They seem very, very self-aware. Also, they only appear once every month or so in some big public place (Disneyland, LA observatory, Eiffel Tower, etc.). I recently read that Ryan was hanging out with Michelle Williams and Matilda, but that obviously didn’t get any attention.

    Secondly, and perhaps most importantly, I feel like Ryan is such good friends with Derek Cianfrance (director of Blue Valentine and Place Behind the Pines) that he’ll do anything to promote this movie. That’s why he’s going to these lengths. Unfortunately for them, this is making me want to see that film even less. Hah. Unfortunately for me, there will probably be more of these sightings next month. Brace yourself.

    I’ve tried to like her (honestly), but she’s not a great actress nor does she seem to have a great reputation. I wish Ryan the best – just wish he chose one of his other recent co-stars to date!

  42. Andrea says:


    Come on, Ryan!!!!

    Can’t believe these 2 are an item… She looks so cheap! If I met her on the corner of a street, I’d mistake her for a hooker.

    Ryan & Rachel looked so cute together!! And when he was promoting ‘Blue Valentine’ with Michelle Williams, I thought they had great chemestry. They looked really cute as well.

  43. grace says:

    I don’t understand this couple. I don’t like them together at all. But it’s his life, I guess he can date who he wants, but I have a bad feeling about Eva. I hear she’s not a very nice person. What happened to Ryan being private? Maybe Eva’s the one who desperately wants to be seen with Ryan?