Ryan Gosling wants to propose to Eva Mendes, but she’s all “Meh.”

As we keep hearing, Ryan Gosling is completely IN LOVE with Eva Mendes, his girlfriend of about six months or so. Eva has met his mother. They spent the holidays together. They did a pap-friendly walk together in Paris. He records himself singing Eva’s favorite songs and then gifts her with the tapes. All in all, this relationship does seem to be moving fast, and Eva has managed to last much longer than Ryan’s usual Disneyland-Dong-and-Done relationships. How did Eva managed to avoid the fast track to become one of Ryan’s longer relationships since he and Rachel McAdams split? Is it because her PR game is really good and every week we hear more and more about how Ryan is SO in love with her? Unknown. But here’s this week’s story – according to sources, Ryan wants to propose! And Eva isn’t into it.

Ryan Gosling and Eva Mendes were hanging out with friends at the Bowery Hotel in NYC on New Year’s. When Eva got up from the table, Ryan was overheard telling a friend his real feelings for Eva – “Ryan said he thinks Eva is ‘the one.’ He couldn’t stop smiling.”

Ryan has finally met the woman he wants to settle down with, and insiders say he can’t wait to pop the question. But Eva may very well be the one woman on the planet who’d say “No.” Though she’s all for long-term relationships, Eva has no interest in getting hitched, calling marriage “very old-fashioned.” And a friend admits it’s doubtful that even super sexy Ryan can get her to think differently.

“Eva’s a great girlfriend,” says the friend. “But she has no intention of being anyone’s wife.”

Making matters worse, Ryan is desperate to start a family – but Eva has no desire to be a mom.

“Eva told Ryan that she loves him but will never change her mind about getting married or having kids.”

But despite all of the warning signs, Ryan is forging ahead with his plan to put a ring on it. “Ryan really wants this to work,” another pal tells In Touch.

[From In Touch Weekly, print edition]

The last time we discussed this couple, I blasted Ryan as the self-styled “cool RA” type. To clarify (for the non-Americans), in American colleges and universities, the RA (resident assistant) is the older student who gets paid to basically be a friend/advisor/baby-sitter to, say, a floor of younger students. Ryan lives in a small fishbowl where he is the “cool RA” – younger girls worship him and think that he’s the romantic hero (or anti-hero) of their dreams. Older gals see Ryan as an adorable boy-toy with substance. Now, do I think Eva would really turn Ryan down if he proposed? Probably not. That being said, I don’t think he’s going to propose. This is just a phase for him. I hope.

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  1. Lady_Luck says:

    I’ll believe it when I see it!

  2. Fay says:

    He just doesn’t look as if he’s into her. That blind item about them, her the lesbian milking this fake relationship, is more believable.

  3. gee_gee says:

    So,she feels the same way about the Baby Goose as I do?

  4. podzol says:

    It’s so obvious that it’s either Mendes herself or a friend of hers who is constantly feeding info to the press. Of course it’ll spin anything into a “Mendes-centric” light.

    • Olli says:

      ….why are they still together then?
      Why does he still put up with it/her if its all PR hype from her side.

      • Kit says:

        I think podzol just means that all the tabloid stories are saying how he is so into Eva while the photos seem to be telling a different story.
        i don’t think she meant that they are a fake couple or whatever(correct me if I’m wrong podzol).
        And I agree that Eva’s PR is earning their keep. How many times did you see BS like this about him before they got together? Or pap friendly outings? It stinks of fish dear (as my granny used to say)

      • podzol says:

        Yep, that’s exactly what I meant Kit! I mean, at this point, I’m really not denying they’re schtupping each other but all the tabloid stories are fed by someone in the Mendes clan because their spin is so transparently obvious.

  5. serena says:

    Really? ‘Cause he feels so gay to me..

  6. Marjalane says:

    Sounds like Eva’s publicist and In Touch are milking this for all it’s worth.

  7. eyeroll says:

    They are such a strange looking couple. Ryan really is a little weirdo i think he became mad after the death of Heath Ledger.

  8. Deja says:

    OMG he is so FREAKING HOT i can’t TAKE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    On a side note – I don’t think that Eva is good enough for him. Him and Jesica Alba would be cute together.

  9. Talie says:

    I think marrying him would be a good career move for her, but he seems like the type to fall in love easily. He kind of takes on the persona of whatever character he is playing.

    I do totally believe that she doesn’t want kids–she’s said that a lot in interviews.

  10. Asli says:

    Lol! That title made me imagine Mendez as the road runner – Meh Meh :P

  11. Amanda says:

    Didn’t even know they were dating. They seem a bit mismatched to me.

  12. EmmaStoneWannabe says:

    I do not see this happening, but I agree w #9, he seems to fall easily. I think he is sensitive. Would have been great if he was still with McAdams or could make something happen w Michelle Williams. Blue Valentine was sad, but the two of them together was pure chemistry.

  13. Roxy750 says:

    Nice try, this is another “sham”..these are the only pictures I ever see,

  14. maemay says:

    Is’nt there a blind item about this?

  15. TheOriginalKitten says:

    Bitch please. This is all lies…

  16. ToastedSkin says:

    He doesnt seem like the type of guy who would propose so early in the relationship. a “romantic” sappy guy sure, but not jumping into marriage right away like that. I mean, look how long was he with Rachel McAdams and i dont think they were ever engaged..
    He’s too good looking for her though

  17. Danielle says:

    He proposed 5 months into his relationship with Rachel too back in 2005 but we didn’t hear anything because they kept it quiet. They were “supposedly” to get married in 2007 but they broke up instead.

  18. Obvious says:

    You hit it on the head. RA. It makes perfect sense, i had a wonderful amazing super hot RA when i dormed in college. He was gorgeous, friendly, there when you needed him but completely unattainable.

  19. pat says:

    Why is he SO “in love” with her? Isn’t she a mean and bitchy person? Sure she’s gorgeous, but I haven’t heard anything positive said about her personality. I’m disappointed in Ryan. What does that say about him if this is the type of person he wants to marry? Besides, I thought he said he was too busy for a relationship and was “married” to his job? He said that just a few months ago. Why does he say one thing and then do the complete opposite?

  20. kara says:

    Supposedly his friends don’t like Eva. I wonder how this will all turn out?

  21. I Choose Me says:

    Still think this is a showmance. I’m no body language expert but there seems to be no physical chemistry between them at all. Eh, whatever. Will ignore these two until they do something interesting.

  22. skuddles says:

    Funny :) First I hear reports he’s all meh over her… she’s clinging on and he’s busy looking around for the exit, now suddenly he’s ready to propose and she’s all “yeah don’t think so dude”. Regardless of the true story, I fail to see any true chemistry between these two… just seems like a weird mismatch.

  23. Sab says:

    I don’t get what’s so attractive about him. He reminds me of “Alfalfa” from The Little Rascals.

  24. Original Chloe says:

    I’m totally not buying it.
    The whole thing, actually.

  25. vivien says:

    They would have the weirdest looking kid.

  26. AnnieC says:

    OMG, she can do better! That’s all I can say.

  27. hanna says:

    He sure proposes quickly, if it’s true he also proposed to Rachel only a few months into the relationship. I think people should wait at least a year before deciding to marry someone. I honestly don’t think you can really get to know someone in only 6 months. I wonder if he’s seen her crazy bitch side yet?

  28. Jess says:

    I would entertain the notion IF the guy looked madly in love in ANY of the photos over the last few months. But he just looks semi-interested and his body language is telling a different story. Secondly, In Touch is a joke. People closest enough to either of them to know this type of intimate information wouldnt talk to In Touch. In Touch, Star, etc. are the bottom feeders of that industry and create stories week to week to keep people interested and buying their gossip rags. One week, he’s meh about her, the next week she’s meh about him. It’s all bull****. Yes, they’re dating, yes, they’re obviously sleeping together. But it’s not some EPIC romance. He’s in a huge upswing career-wise. He’s said very recently that his wanting children was taken out of context, he doesn’t want them now and he’s very focused right now on his work. So of course he’s going to date a hot chick whose willing and able and is in the same line of work. These two aren’t getting hitched, they’re spending time together. For now.

  29. Thelma says:

    Hanna: it happens. My husband proposed a month after we met each other. I waited one more month before we got engaged. We were married four months after we met. We just celebrated our 20 th anniversary and 2 kids heading to college soon!

  30. Mary says:

    People, I am glad I found this blog and all your comments, because, the first time I saw the photos, i was thinking how totally mismatched they look together. And body language is telling completely different story than Eva’s PR. And the chemistry between them is ZERO.

    By the way, I really like the comments from “celebitchy2, you are such a good observer and funny.

  31. orrr says:

    Dear PR team, if you’re going to lie, lie well.

  32. Bianca says:

    People! We all need to get a life, don’t you agree? Who gives a sh– if they’re together or not. What does it mean to any of us? I know…ur thinking…why are you responding…you must need to get a life as well…No, I have a life, but look at your replies, so evil! Life is so short, lets wish them well & call it a day? lmao