Kelsey Grammer claims he waited for sex while cheating “I hadn’t had sex for a decade”

A few weeks ago I caught a rerun of Frasier and kind of marveled at how Kelsey Grammer has ruined his image over the past couple of years. Sure he cheated on his wife, but a lot of actors and actresses do that and he could have recovered without an issue. It’s the fact that he continues to talk about his personal life extensively in every interview, along with how consistently and thoroughly he trashes his ex, Camille. This guy used to have a kind of aristocratic, snobbish but admirable image thanks to his Frasier character and his formal way of talking. Now he’s just seen as a total a-hole, at least in gossip circles. Maybe that hasn’t extended to the public, which doesn’t have as much interest in him at this point. The more he talks in interviews, the more I think he’s dug himself a very deep hole (where he belongs) and he just keeps on digging.

Anyway, remember how Kelsey pretty much admitted cheating on Camille for over six months while he was away in New York? He told Jimmy Kimmel early this year that he met his current fourth wife Kayte when she was working as a flight attendant in December, 2009, around Christmastime. He said “We actually met in the air on a plane to England. It was very romantic, she was working on the plane. We went out for coffee several days later and had this magical night in the snow in London around Christmastime.” On RHOBH, We saw Kelsey take his unknowing wife, Camille, with him to the Tony Awards on June 13, 2010. He broke the news to her that he wanted out after he made her go with him as his date. So that’s six months he’d been seeing this other woman and Camille was none the wiser.

Well on a new appearance on Conan O’Brien’s show, Kelsey claims that he didn’t sleep with Kayte on the first night, and that he waited “months” to have sex with her. He then managed to get a dig in at his ex, of course, in the process.

I did want to clear this up…it said something about how Kayte and I met, and then hooked up in London, and then she spent the night with me. Well that’s not true. We kissed that night, and that was it. We didn’t do anything much more than kiss for several months. I just wanted to clear that up… I hadn’t had sex for a decade. It’s not that hard.” – via Team Coco

What. An. Ass. To be fair to a guy who in no way deserves it, Camille did admit on The View that she hadn’t had sex with Kelsey in about two years when they split. The way she explained it, the whole thing was Kelsey’s fault. She said “it was more on his end” and added that Kelsey was more interested in watching Fox News. She also had political differences with him, which we know he takes personally.

Getting back to this story, does it matter if Kelsey didn’t sleep with his jumpoff the first damn night, or if he waited to have sex with her “for several months”? She was living with him and had quit her job months before he dumped Camille. But Kelsey was being deprived at home and instead of actually talking to his wife and trying to work it out, he went behind her back and cheated. He’s so noble because he waited to have sex with his mistress, though. This guy lives in a world where he’s always right.

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  1. Jen says:

    I don’t have a problem with him.

    • NeNe says:

      I do not have a problem with him either. Now, as far as, I am concerned, Camille got exactly what she wanted…. fame and money!!

    • beyonce's bump says:

      Me neither…I guess if Camille was not on the receiving end I would have felt a tad different, but the truth is I really cannot hate on him. I detest Cam THAT much shrugs

  2. RobN says:

    Don’t care; I still like him. People have completely forgotten what a royal bitch Camille was. “Gossip circles” delighted in going on and on about all the nasty, bitchy stuff she did, and then when he finally left, it all turned to “Oh poor Camille, what did she ever do to deserve this!”

    And a note to wives, of which I’m one, if you haven’t had sex with your husband in two years, he’s seeing somebody else. Don’t kid yourself, and don’t act all surprised when it finally comes out.

    • Lacie says:

      Man I really don’t like him, but that second paragraph of yours was spot on. Because duh.

    • Jayna says:

      Camille was pretentious as they come. And I hate hate hate women that play the “All women are jealous of me, so I only have male friends” card. Spare me. I am better looking than Camille and I have stunning friends and we all have great girlfriends.

      I don’t like Kelsey, but I do love his talent and enjoy him in TV projects. I don’t really like Camille as I believe the first season was who she was most of her marriage. She did state she came back the second season only to rehabiliate her image, so I like her fine now. I enjoy her on the show even though she rarely opens her mouth anymore, haha.

    • the original bellaluna says:

      I haven’t forgotten what a colossal bitch Camille was! And her whole “had to use a surrogate due to IBS” was utter BS. She didn’t want to “wreck” her body, but at least she didn’t have a pillow pregnancy.

      People also seem to forget that she danced on MTV and did Playboy. She was a money-grubbing ho who got exactly what she wanted: A rich, famous husband. And all the crap that comes along with him.

  3. Jezi says:

    He’s disgusting. I’m not a fan of either but he is gross.

  4. wonderwoman21 says:

    I don’t believe him for a minute! He hit that the second Kayte let him; which I’m sure was fast because she needed to seal the deal! And I absolutely do not believe he spent a decade celibate, not THIS geezer!

  5. Jennifer says:

    HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! That is all.

  6. Sirsnarksalot says:

    This guy is as deluded as Jessica Simpson thinking he can just rewrite his reality to suit himself. Own it, Kelsey. You’re a cheater, your new wife is a cheap former mistress, and your children have every right to be ashamed of you. Keep digging, the pit only gets deeper.

  7. Reece says:

    Hmmm Coffee Bean…

  8. Jayna says:

    His image may be ruined but not his career. I have to say he is brilliant on his new TV show and he won a Golden Globe or Emmy for it.

    Camille on Howard Stern said they never had sex the last few years and rarely even early on in their marriage and that they didn’t seem work sexually together. She said she married him because she respected him, not necessarily passionate about him (paraphrasing). She even stated two years before they separated he had suggested they date outside their marriage to meet their sexual needs but as a way to still stay married for the kids, and that she said okay but it just never happened.

    So none of this is news as Camille has talked about it several times. I have sympathy for neither of them. They were in a sexless marriage and it seemed to work for them, I guess, or they would have left long before. He is narcissistic and had a beautiful companion on his arm who took care of him and she had the cache’ of being with an A Lister and being wealthy, leaving her MTV dancer career as she was getting too old and leaving her soft core porn past behind.

    • Chatcat says:

      Oh I think he is a typical womanizing Hollywood male celeb … he uses and let’s himself be used for sure = scuzbag. But in Boss he plays a great part and the show is awesome!

    • DreamyK says:

      I won’t watch anything he’s in. Same with Leanne and Eddie, same with Halle Berry, Ryan Phillipe, Arnold SnotsnBooger, Charlie Sheen and yes, Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie too.

      It’s my time and my money, I choose to not spend it on people that time and again place their own selfish desires ahead of doing what is right i.e., do the best you can to save your marriage, if it’s over, get a separation and file for divorce because that’s the right thing to do.

      It is completely gross and disgusting the way Kelsey keeps vomiting out personal information about his life. Get some dignity dude and zip it.

  9. Elizabeth says:

    He is such a super douche. Also, his enormous head scares me.

  10. nancypants says:

    I used to be a fan of him years and years ago.

    I knew he had some issues with substance abuse and all but it seemed that he had gotten a handle on it and I liked him for the most part.

    Now, not so much. Actually, I don’t care for him or Camille but that’s neither here nor there.

    They both need to shut the f**k UP for their kids’ sake if nothing else.

    Good gawd! Can either of them act like adults at this point?
    I don’t think so and aren’t they both getting a little too old to be none the wiser?

  11. Izzy says:

    Neither of them are prizes, but this guy doesn’t even think about his children with his ex-wife. How does he think they’d feel reading this crap? Oh, right, he must’ve borrowed Evil Mendes’ turban of IDGAF.

    As for the newer model trophy wife, she’d better watch her back. You reap what you sow, and she’s married to a complete narcissist.

  12. dorothy says:

    Not sure why he’s still talking about his previous marriage. Ok, we get it, you were unhappy, now your divorced and remarried. Curious though, why is he trying to convince everyone how miserable it all was? Stop talking about it for the sake of your kids.

  13. V4Real says:

    Well boohoo, poor Kelsey,be for real. What did he think when he married Camille, that she was with him because she fell so deeply in love with him and his knockout looks,no she saw $$$ signs. Would she really have married him if he was just Kelsey the guy who worked at the corner store. I say the same thing about Donald Trump, do you think his current wife would be with him if he was just Donald the man who made less than a hundred grand a year working in some small accountants office? Their wives were brought and paid for. Camille got the brass ring and the doe and I’m not mad at her.

  14. skuddles says:

    What a megadouche. Does he not realize his children will read his comments?? Just STFU already Kelsey.

  15. Tifygodess24 says:

    There is no excuse for cheating , no matter how big of a bitch people think he’s ex wife is. That excuse is sick and cant believe people Even say it. Cheating shows a lack of character and caring for any human being other than themselves plan and simple. Get out of a relationship before you start a new one. Geez. And this guy I have no words….

  16. Scarlet Vixen says:

    Okay, I will try to be as delicate and diplomatic as I can be. But…if you don’t have ANY sex with your spouse–husband OR wife–for YEARS, you can’t really be that surprised when they find someone who will. I’m not saying that it’s Camille’s fault or Kelsey’s fault. I don’t know the intimacies of their relationship and who was not ‘putting out.’ But, a big part of any relationship is physical intimacy, and if you withhold it then you’re not sharing a part of yourself with your spouse. This was the #1 disagreement between my ex and myself–he was often ‘too tired’ or ‘too busy’ and it really took a toll on my self-esteem, confidence, and our relationship. I will fully admit that after awhile I was awfully tempted to look for that intimacy and desirability elsewhere.

    I’m now married and currently pregnant with baby #3, and even tho I’m exhausted and sore much of the time, it’s important to BOTH my husband and myself to be intimate with each other in whatever way we can. It makes us both feel much more desired, loved and connected. It’s also helps remind us that we’re a romantic couple and not just parents.

    All that being said, I’m not saying that people who cheat are justified. I think it’s every partner’s responsibility to do their very best to make sure that they’re getting what they need out of their current relationship. But I can also say that if one person is intentionally witholding something they know their partner needs from the relationship they shouldn’t be surprised if the other person starts to look elsewhere–whether it’s conversation, shared activities, sex, religion, whatever…

    • Kate (newer one) says:

      I agree.

      I think not telling Camille more or less as soon as he realised he was very keen on Kayte is awful of him. But really, years of a celibate marriage?

      The sad thing is that neither/both had what it took to convert the relationship to a friendship so both could move on elsewhere. The way they talk about one another when they share young children is just painful. Total abdication of personal responsibility, and complete failure to parent.

    • crtb says:

      ITA.. If you are not having sex with your spouse for YEARS then you can’t be all that surprized that he is getting it someplace else. Not saying it is alright just stating the truth.

  17. Bobby says:

    I think he is wrong, deceptive, and doesn’t take any responsibility for his own misdeeds .. Which is simply gross. I used to enjoy Frasier, but now anything with him involved makes me cringe.

    • KellyinSeattle says:

      I used to watch Frasier and loved it – sometimes I still watch it but only because of David Hyde Pierce. I wouldn’t go near Kelsey’s old, used up penis.

  18. Nilber says:

    While I don’t feel that either of them is the pinnacle of sainthood. Kelsey is the one continuing to speak out. He is just making himself look petty. If he is truly over it, he should move on. Their children are in school but I guess he wants to make his point known so much that he doesn’t care. Ugh… I can’t even watch Frasier anymore and I loved that show.

  19. says:

    I wouldn’t have sex with him either. He’s lucky someone has a thing for douche bags.

  20. TheTruthHurts says:

    I thought I understood him more after his Oprah interview, but once again, he proves he is just classless…

  21. Marie Antoinette Jr. says:

    I never really thought of him as anyone else but goofy Frasier; so I can’t get too worked up about his personal life. He just has always seemed like not a very “manly” man—on Frasier/Cheers and in real life. (Which is probably why he was so believable as that caricature of a character.)
    I have a feeling that he is probably spot on with all the stuff he says about Camille; but *real men* don’t talk smack about the ex in public.

    His new gal is probably just what he needs though…someone young, needy, grateful. But she will need to power through his perversions when newness of the upscale lifestyle fades. Otherwise, she will become the next Camille!

  22. Jay says:

    Just a minor objection, but my parents are currently divorcing (no cheating involved) and it is quite clear that “trying to work it out” would’ve been futile and have done them no favors. So if Kelsey and Camille hadn’t been intimate for a couple years, they were probably already “done” and just hadn’t separated aleady due to inertia more than anything. It’s not uncommon that one partner is oblivious to how unfulfilling the relationship has become while the other is not. I’m sounding like more of an apologist than I mean to. I do agree he should stop talking about it and move on.

  23. Peg says:

    The only interesting thing about Grammar was Camille, and she is much more interesting without him.

  24. Thalia says:

    He is a lowlife scumbag! Cheating is one thing; bragging about it and being truly nasty to your ex-wife is something else. He seems more OBSESSED with hurting Camille, than he seems committed to the current wife. It makes you wonder if he only married the current wife to hurt Camille, because he never stops talking about Camille. He cares more about Camille (since she is obviously renting space in his head 24/7) than he does Kayte.

  25. Chrissy says:

    I don’t think he’s that bad. Yes, it was wrong to cheat on his wife and he does have a sort of bad reputation in that area, but I think that Camille is a real pain in the you know what and I don’t think there could have ever been any talking to her and working it out. She married him for his money. I do think it’s time for him to stop discussing it in detail, though.

  26. Andrea says:

    My current bf rarely wants to have sex but he’s been like that since 6 months into the relationship. I’ve had to accept that that is who he is, a once a week if I’m lucky kind of guy. It sucks. He’s VERY fit, in his early 30’s , but has zippo sex drive. Would rather play video games. I dunno if I should dump him or not, he is so good in every other aspect and we’ve been together 5+ years.

    • crtb says:

      Sounds like he is your roommate or brother. If that is all you want for yourself then settle for him. Otherwise a healthy loving relationship has a healthy sex life.

      • Andrea says:

        What is a healthy sex life as in how many times a week? I’ve learned most of my girlfriends loathe sex and avoid it at all costs and I am the weird one who wants it more than once a week!

    • Jayna says:

      Oh, honey, please run. I had friends who dated men with zero or low sex drive. I dated a gorgeous, charming guy with a low sex drive. Beyond your needs not being met, it does a number on your self esteem. Women want to be desired and lusted after. Guys who aren’t sexual tend not to be affectionate. Mine was and was very complimentary and flirty out and always grabbing on me,, so that’s why it was confusing. but I left after a year when I realized his work stress excuses were bull. My friend who is
      stunning dated a guy who rarely wanted sex and didn’t even look at her body. She hated who she became, begging for sex, self-doubt about her beauty, body. She had an affair and left him.

      He probably has low testosterone. I would make an ultimatum that he get that checked out. But different strokes for different folks. I couldn’t live like that. It will only get worse.

      • Andrea says:

        I’ve thought about the low testosterone bit and have mentioned it to him in the past. I just may do it again soon. It sucks because my self esteem does falter, but in all other aspects he is great compared to my exes who were verbally abusive and/or moochers. He is great with his money, always pays 50/50 of everything, very affectionate (which is very confusing)just not overly sexual.

  27. Amy says:

    I think both Camille and Kelsey are at fault for the divorce. Camille for just being an all around crazy lady and Kelsey for being very cold and uncaring.

    I watched the Jimmy Kimmel interview last night and I did learn something new: Kelsey Grammer does the voice of Sideshow Bob on the Simpsons! I had no idea that was him.

  28. Kosmos says:

    I’m not sure if I really like who he is, but then Camille seems like a very insecure, self-centered, fearful woman. They both were probably right to move on, but the moving on part doesn’t always come out to benefit both parties equally at the same time. However, Camille now has her $$ and her extensive plastic surgery and he has his new conquest.

    • TrustMeOnThis says:

      Right? They kinda seem equally messed up. Which I guess is the best thing I can say about them.

  29. Atxlife says:

    Frasier dresses like a lesbian

  30. Atxlife says:

    I think Frasier has some serious anger issues bc he keeps trying to drag Camille down . If this is any glimpse into how he treats women then i expect the same for Kayte .
    I look to how my exes talk about their exes to figure out how they will talk about me

  31. Jachiem says:

    Are you sure Camille didn’t write this article?