Britney’s former assistant says she wishes she could save her

britneyassistant.jpgAmid pictures of Britney partying in a borrowed bra and panties after news that she puked the previous night comes a letter from her former assistant, Felicia Culotta, to a fan site webmaster who’s more than willing to share it with you. Ruben at World of Britney previously posted a supposed IM conversation with Britney’s manager, and now he has a letter from her assistant of 9 years. The woman comes off as quite sweet and thoughtful in her letter, saying she can’t force Britney into a treatment facility and can only pray for her dear friend. She also hints that Britney treated her like shit withough coming out and saying so, stating “I’m so Southern, and the BEST way for me to tell you how I feel is to say—You can just kick an old Dog so many times before he gets off the porch. I, FELICIA, am OFF the porch!!”

Good for her. Here’s the full letter:

Once again–I commend you for your Honesty and Integrity. I have been reading your new website daily and am grateful to have that to go to, to check on the antics of Britney. Britney doesn’t have a Publicist for me to clear this thru first, so it will come directly from my heart to you!

I am writing in response to “Where is Felicia?” on your editorial.I am home–in Mississippi…….I am now a trained Corporate Flight Attendant and fly with a tiny jet company out of Georgia. I am also a substitute Preschool Teacher at the Church Preschool in my town. I LOVED being with Britney for the past 9 1/2 years. I enjoyed being a part of HER dream, but now, am living my own dream.

I cherish ALL the incredible opportunities that came my way thru my job with Britney and am crushed/saddened/heart sick by the way her life is unfolding…….

I want you to know Ruben that WE (as in her Family and nearest and dearest—ALL of whom are NOT on the payroll anymore!!) are doing EVERYTHING in our power to get help for Britney and all in our power to NOT pad the bottom or move the bottom, so when she does indeed hit rock bottom, she’ll stand up and walk away from this whole fiasco a new, confident, changed, career driven Britney like we all knew and loved.

There’s just so much you can do to help a person—I don’t dare want to be an enabler, and I cannot love her enough for the both of us. I cannot convince her in ANY way to love herself. All I can do is be a friend, someone that loved her for MANY years unconditionally, and PRAY. That, I have decided is the most and best I can do for my friend. I cannot save her from herself, nor can I commit her to any type of treatment program against her wishes and will. I am throwing my hands up and realizing that I am helpless over another—ANYONE!

It’s been a hard reality for me to face. I have lived my best example daily, and that is ALL I’m capable of. To see what’s transpiring now, makes me feel a failure, defeated. I LOVED and BELIEVED in what I was a part of for the past 10 years and was so incredibly proud of Britney and all she’d become.

All that to say this Ruben–I’m so Southern, and the BEST way for me to tell you how I feel is to say—You can just kick an old Dog so many times before he gets off the porch. I, FELICIA, am OFF the porch!!

Thank you for ALL you’ve done–ALL the love and support over the years. ALL the non-judgement and ALL the Honesty!

PLEASE let me know if there’s ANYTHING I can do to repay your kindness. With as much sincerity as I can Muster,


Damn. I guess when the rest of us are making fun of her there are people that are really worried about her and care what happens. It does indeed seem serious when viewed through this kind woman’s eyes.

I mean, I don’t want her to OD or get hurt or anything, but she’s richer than sin and it seems like she could clean up her act and have any kind of life she wants. She has all the resources in the world at her disposal and could travel all over and have all sorts of non-drug enhanced adventures. She’s choosing to hang out with stippers in her underwear now, though, and I guess that would be worrying to me if I actually cared about her.

Thanks to Gossip Momma via Lipstick for this story and picture.

And here’s a video featuring more of Britney’s partying and an US Weekly commentator who says her career is shit now:

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  1. Iva says:

    Someone needs to have some backbone and get those kids away from her.

    Can you imagine when those poor babies wake up in the middle of the night crying – they are in some strange place with a nanny, because their mom is out partying at some club. They wake up to a woman that is supposed to be their mother, protector and care giver who smells of stale cigarettes, booze, and puke! This is what the family wants for those 2 young boys?

    Screw Britney and her new album and her future – someone needs to stand up for those 2 little boys.

    Britney is done for – people don’t like Mom’s who act the way she does and neglects the welfare of her children. She has all the money in the world and so many single mom’s would kill to have the advantages she does.

  2. AC says:

    justin didn’t hang out with K Fed thats ridiuclous. JT has more class than that. I saw pictures of the man hug and it looked like justin got out of it pretty fast.

  3. anonymous says:

    First off, just because you are rich enough to afford a nanny doesn’t not mean you are not devoted to your children. I was a nanny years ago and I was with those kids more than their parents but those children were not neglected or unloved by their parents.

    Second, give the girl some space she is coming out of disasterous marriage in front of the entire world. the Emotional trauma of divorce is bad enough even when you aren’t under such intense public scrutiny.

    Third, we really are some fickle people. We HATED her married to K-fed because we could all see he was using her and IMO abusing her emotionally. We all rejoiced when she kicked he sorry A$$ to the curb. Now all of a sudden the douche has no sugar momma to front his partying so we don’t see him very much and he suddenly becomes the stable one? WTF is that. Do we ever see him with his boys? Are there any pictures of him with them…? NONE as far as I know. Well isn’t he the top candidate for father of the year.

  4. kailie2 says:

    I don’t care one way or the other but she’s destroying what’s left of people’s goodwill towards her.. many women in the public eye faced marriage disasters, public humiliation etc. but only Brit makes herself look like a *** by partying EVERY night, wearing slutty outfits and getting drunk in public. She has two tiny boys at home and there is no excuse for her behavior. Only the most delusional Brit fans are still in denial and trying to excuse this horrific spectacle. I don’t think that Kfed is a good father or even a good person but at least he has the sense not to make a fool of himself right now. She’s obviously heading for disaster and if you’re “giving her space”, you’re giving her rope to hang herself as well. Someone should stage an intervention, get her into therapy and a treatment center STAT.

  5. Toubrouk says:

    I am not the type of guy who wish ill-will to someone. I think everybody deserve to be happy and to live the life they want.

    This being said, I have no sympathy for Britney watsoever. In the real world that the masses are living in, the attitude she got would send her to ruin in a matter of weeks. Since she got a truckload of money, she can do that for a lifetime (limited, of course, by her body’s ability to cope).

    Right now, I just think about the kids home. If she can’t keep her act straight for herself, can she do it for her kids?

    This is sad, real sad.

  6. Iva says:

    Emotional Trauma of a divorce??? Give me a break – people unfortunately get divorced all the time – this gives a mother a right to become the biggest tramp of the century. She shouldn’t have had kids then and if she wants to live her life in a toliet, boozing it up everynight, then she should have the decency to put her children in a safe environment away from her nasty actions.

    She needs to take a lesson from Reese Witherspoon – suck it up and be the ADULT and PARENT to your children – after all, you made the decision to bring them into this world and they are your responsibility.

  7. Poor Boopie says:

    I didn’t realize that Felicia was no longer with Britney. But there it is – Britney’s disaster of a life straight from the person who was her personal assistant for 9 years. She would probably know better than anybody what a shitbag trainwrecked hose monster she’s become.
    Someone save the children!!!!

  8. FF says:

    Okay, why the hell does everyone still care for/about Britney? I mean, what’s her secret? She by all accounts treats people like shit and they still come back for more, while wishing her the best.

    I mean, playing dumb can’t have that many benefits, so what the hell is it about her?

    It’s like the Kate Moss and Pete Doherty effect. The girl gets six million second chances.

    It doesn’t seem fair to me. One good sharp kick up the backside might do her well.

  9. FF says:

    Btw, to the anonymous poster.

    Be real.

    Britney CHOSE that ‘disasterous marriage’. She was told by all and sundry not to do it. She also knew the guy had another woman pregnant and she still married him.

    It was not the first time she’d moved and another woman’s babyfather.

    So the ’emotional trauma’ line is bullshit. She’s not traumatised at all. She’s utterly spoilt and doesn’t feel the need to consider anyone but herself.

    This is exactly why she hasn’t considered her children’s welfare in all of this.

    As for people slacking on their K-Fed hate. Well to be honest, people are starting to realise that he wasn’t the reason for Britney’s behaviour; he was a SYMPTOM of Britney’s behaviour.

    That’s why people are starting to view him as the stable one.

    Britney, after all, chose this douchebag to be her husband. And since she left him, she’s happily chosen several other douchebags – Paris Hilton included – pretty much proving it’s not an isolated error in judgement.

    If Britney was happy to accept K-Fed while his gf was pregnant then I’m pretty sure she must of known at the time he wasn’t ‘father of the year’.

    Sorry, but it’s called karma. And if it’s biting Britney in the ass now, I don’t see why she deserves any sympathy when she’s shown none to anyone else.

  10. frewtloop says:

    I must be missing something – you thought that letter was sincere CB? It reeked of sarcasm and facetiousness to me. Maybe I’m too cynical.

  11. Now everybody speak of Britney to make money

  12. vdantev says:

    Brit’s on my Death Watch list, who you got ?

  13. solitaryangel says:

    You guys think this letter was from a KIND woman?! Here’s a newsflash for you–Fe Culotta is a selfish bitch; she was a selfish, conceited snobby bitch in high school and she’s a bitch now. Those of us who experienced that bitchiness and manipulation had a saying, “If you believe her shit, you deserve what you get”. Get real, people!