Did Kristen Stewart break up with Alicia Cargile so she could date St. Vincent?


Here are some photos of Kristen Stewart out and about in New York this week. She was in town for the New York Film Festival to promote some of her new films. Judging solely by the paparazzi photos of Kristen out on the street, Alicia Cargile did not make the trip to NYC. Alicia and Kristen have been on-and-off for several years. They were notably “off” this spring when Kristen took up with French actress Soko, although the whirlwind romance died out before the Cannes Film Festival, which is where we learned that Kristen had rekindled her romance with Alicia. Alicia and Kristen were seemingly loved-up throughout the summer. But now… maybe not? Because it’s looking more and more like Kristen has a new girlfriend: 34-year-old singer St. Vincent (Annie Clark).

You can see more photos of Kristen and St. Vincent here and here. I don’t mind that Kristen is young and having fun and dating different people. But I do feel sorry for Alicia Cargile. I feel like Alicia is Kristen’s placeholder girlfriend, the one Kristen goes to in between flings and crazier relationships. Alicia is the steady one, the one who will always be a shoulder to cry on. And if that’s true (I have no idea if it is), Alicia needs to cut her loses and start afresh with someone else. While St. Vincent doesn’t seem as crazy as Soko, St. Vincent’s last relationship was with Cara Delevingne and… I don’t know, that doesn’t really speak in her favor. Kristen will run back to Alicia in a few months and I hope Alicia has already moved on by then.


Photos courtesy of Fame/Flynet.

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  1. Lex says:

    Love her look in the pantsless running pic. The dark eye makeup combined with that hair is perfection!

    • Carmen says:

      That dyed platinum hair is the worst mistake she ever made

      • Zuzus Girl says:

        And here I thought messing around with a married (yes, he was more of an ass) producer was one of her worst mistakes. It’s only hair. She’s in her twenties. Dye away!

      • Lex says:

        Ahahha if hair colour is one’s worst mistake, the person is living pretty dmn well

  2. Mushymoo says:

    Or they’re just friends. Us queers can hang out with each other without it being sexual.

    • QueenB says:

      in that sense its progress. they also speculate with every male/female talking to each other.

    • FF says:

      It’s not about her being queer though, it’s about her being an established serial cheater.

      • TotallyOld says:

        Amen to that. If Kristen was a man or straight woman she would be crucified (again) for being a cheater but because she’s with women now, everyone seems to find it okay for her to cheat on her girlfriends. How is any different from her cheating with the director?

        Kristen is an adult, grown woman and this kind of behavior is not attractive no matter who she is cheating on but one thing is clear – Kristen Stewart is a cheater and she shouldn’t receive a pass just because it’s with another woman.

  3. Artemis says:

    Can she for once not cheat? What is it with this girl? Only a few months ago she was gushing over Alicia and now she’s with St. Vincent? I hope Alicia stops being a doormat and moves on.

    As for St. Vincent, I love her as a musician but St. Vincent is not Annie Clark. Annie can be very messy herself (see Carrie Browntein break-up and her dating Taylor Schilling). She can bring the crazy too. Maybe it’s her looks that got people fooled but I think she’s a perfect match for Stewart, let’s see who cheats first.

    Cara is not perfect but still better than Stewart. I feel like Annie is trying to coattail more famous people. It’s weird how she started these these high-profile younger women who have a flair for drama all of a sudden. I’m sure the PR of dating these women is a nice extra hmm.

    • Little Darling says:

      You nailed it. They are both more perfectly suited for each other because of all of those very reasons. The messiness.

      • Artemis says:

        I’m kinda living for it? Actor Stewart leaves me cold. But lover/cheater Stewart is fascinating.

  4. Luca76 says:

    I mean at least Kristen at least acknowledged Alicia’s existence and place in her life finally but she seems like such a jerk towards her. Not cool.

    • Annie says:

      She has no respect for her, and Alicia has no respect for herself either. The way Kristen dumped her for Soko, the way she flaunted that relationship every day in front of papz, and did all those things she never did with her (hold hands in public, kiss in public, allowed to be on her social media) that should have been her final straw. That was humiliating. But like every person Kristen has around her, Alicia is a Hollywood hanger on and she’s not going anywhere.
      Part of me thinks Kristen knows this. She knows she is needed in more ways than just romantic.

      • Artemis says:

        You’re forgetting Agathe Moguin. When I found out she cheated on Cargile first with Moguin and then cheated on her with Soko, I was shocked at the extent of her need to overlap and then return back to Cargile when she needs stability.

  5. CTgirl says:

    People who serially “overlap” relationships (i.e. be a cheater) make me wonder if they hate themselves so much that they can’t stand to be alone, if they need constant validation of their worth and they need that validation from someone else or if they are just so ruled by their hormones that they are emotional messes.

    • Shambles says:

      Yeah I dated one of those, and everything you said is spot on. Unbeknownst to me, I was in the picture right after (or as, idk) his ex was exiting. And three days after we broke up after almost two years together, he was out in public with someone else and they’re still together. Also unbeknownst to me, he was cheating the entire time.
      Just like you said, he’s such a dark and nasty person that he can’t stand to be alone with himself, so he just fills the void with toxic relationships.

    • Little Darling says:

      Me too!! I think overlapping is one of the most destructive things. Even if you know you’re going to be with that person, why not just take a little breather and be with yourself for a hot flash before jumping down the lane with someone else. I really wonder why it is that some people seem to be incapable of being along for any length of time. I am a true believer that you need a recouping period before entering into any new relationship.

    • Aren says:

      It can also be that she thinks she can’t do any better.
      My ex was a musician, he wasn’t rich but he was super talented, also very bright. For years I accepted to be his rebound because I thought he was the best guy I could ever find.
      Eventually I moved on, it was true that I didn’t find anybody like him (or at all), but I’m happy and don’t care about anything else.
      He still messaged me years ago, a few days before getting engaged, I didn’t reply.

    • Christianna says:

      This. It’s not your fault if your partner cheats on you. It’s the cheater’s problem.

  6. Ellie66 says:

    What a stupid name “St. Vincent” her real name is cute Annie Clark she should have stuck with that.

    • Lynnie says:

      It’s not as catchy or memorable for what she does though (Indie Music). In that sense I think St. Vincent is a better fit.

    • Arpeggi says:

      St. Vincent is the hospital where Dylan Thomas died. That’s why she chose that name (and, apparently, because it’s name-checked in a Nick Cave song (but then again, what author/poet/thinker/Miley Cyrus hasn’t been in a Nick Cave song?), and why not go with that? It fits her scene.

    • crazydaisy says:

      Maybe the poet Edna St. Vincent Millay is another possible reference? (She went by “Vincent”, was the first female to win the Pulitzer prize in poetry, was hugely popular in the 20’s and 30’s and was also famously bisexual.)

  7. mia girl says:

    The matching skirts in the picture with St Vincent – weird how Stewart always seems to take on the style of person she is dating.

  8. perplexed says:

    I thought this was the lady she was dating previously before she broke up with the old girlfriend for the umpteenth time. The lady’s name looks familiar. I can’t keep up.

  9. Maria says:

    Kstew must be co dependent. She literally can’t be alone for two seconds.

  10. JustJen says:

    Kind of reminds me of Danielle Spencer and Russell Crowe. He (supposedly) boned everything with legs then went back to her and had kids. Look where that got them. Move on, Alicia.

  11. Annie says:

    Alicia is the biggest doormat in the world. She was waiting around when Kristen was with Rob, always right there between them for years (although knowing what we know now, it was probably never that innocent) and she continues to let her play with her feelings. The last break up had Alicia posting depressing thoughts all over social media for months.

    How many times has Kristen dumped her to be with other people? I know the salary of an assistant is not great, and maybe she’s not equipped to do much else in life so she definitely needs Kristen in more ways than just romantic, but sitting around waiting for her to come back and acknowledge their relationship seems like such a depressing life. Alicia, you’re 30. Stand up for yourself. Kristen FLAUNTS every single new girl. It’s not even private. The media captures it all and Kristen loves it. She has no respect for Alicia. She knows how much she loves her and she still flaunts every new hook up.

    Dignity and self-respect are two things you should never lose no matter how much you love a person. You must always love yourself more.

    • Artemis says:

      Yeah, I was reading the tea on L Chat. She’s much worse than I initially thought. The Rupert scandal didn’t teach her a thing about treating people with respect. I think that scandal was the start of her becoming who she truly is: a careless lover who gets bored easilty and has no qualms about cheating. She didn’t make a mistake back then, she was being 100% herself.

      She doesn’t even cheat longterm or tries to hide it, she literally will meet somebody else and kick her current lover to the curb on the same day if she feels like it and flaunt the new relationship like it’s no big deal (except for Agathe, then she tried to keep it on the DL). It’s unbelievable! She spoke the truth when she said she’s starting to become less anxious about herself and her life, she’s so bold and confident in cheating in public. Damn.

    • fiji says:

      Oh Annie, you pretend to know so much about Kstew yet you just said Alicia is Kristen’s assistant which has been debunked over and over. She’s a graphic effects producer, her job has nothing to do with Kristen. Now carry on with your little fanfiction.

  12. Nibbi says:

    Kristen starts to seem like a boss to me. Like just kind of a badass, don’t-care, gettin’ it, cut all my hair off, look killer in a pantsuit.

  13. anonymous says:

    all these celebs at the Bowery hotel…..i love that place. (ask for the rooms in the rear, with patio’s). you wouldn’t know you’re in NY

  14. geekychick says:

    Maybe they have an open relationship. Lainey always claimed the Twilight one was open, so maybe this one is also.

  15. flybaby says:

    The new look is amazing. I always used to worry about her because she was so obviously uncomfortable all the time. This is the poer of not having to hide who you are.

  16. Bread and Circuses says:

    I really like that pantsuit she’s wearing in the final shot. I also think she’s so pale naturally that she pulls off the platinum blond very well.

    But I have so little interest in her love life because I assume it’s just chronic, selfish messiness and the details are not important.