Is Joaquin Phoenix really a ‘recluse’, or is he just an offbeat, socially awkward guy?

Truly, I was going to cover Joaquin Phoenix’s Interview Magazine profile when it first came out, but every time I went to Interview’s site that week, it was down. So I guess I just sort of forgot about it, my bad. But if you’d like to spend a very pleasant 10 minutes of your time, please read the full piece – Joaquin was interviewed by Will Ferrell, and it’s awkward and funny and a surprisingly good read.

Joaquin is really leaning into his “socially awkward” persona these days. It feels like he’s in a different headspace right now though – like, in past years, I would genuinely have worries about whether he was too emotionally fragile to really function in the world. But it seems like getting together with Rooney Mara has really helped him. They can be aloof together, and he honestly just seems vaguely happy now that he has a live-in girlfriend. Which brings me to this Page Six piece called “Inside Joaquin Phoenix’s Life As Recluse.” It’s sort of concern-trolly, especially since Joaquin has always been a genuinely offbeat guy. You can read the full piece here. Some highlights:

He was super-uncomfortable at his “You Were Never Really Here” premiere: When he finally came in, sporting a grizzled beard and silver-tinged man bun, Joaquin Phoenix retreated to a shadowy corner with actor pal John C. Reilly and two other scruffy dudes. “He’s really outside his comfort zone tonight,” observed a longtime Phoenix friend. “And his comfort zone doesn’t go too far to begin with.”

This year is going to be a torment for him: Although he’s been nominated for three Oscars over the years, Phoenix has always seemed adrift — even miserable — in the trappings of Hollywood. (He once called the awards “total, utter bulls – – t.”) And some are saying Hollywood’s most tortured star has a year of torment on the horizon. Besides “You Were Never Really Here,” Phoenix has three other films slated: playing a paraplegic in “Don’t Worry, He Won’t Get Far on Foot,” a traumatized assassin in “The Sisters Brothers” and Jesus Christ in “Mary Magdalene” (which co-stars Mara and is looking for a new distributor since the Weinstein Company went bankrupt).

A producer friend talks about Joaquin’s damage: “The reason he’s good at playing traumatized is that he was traumatized. He grew up . . . in a cult. His brother died in front of him. None of that presupposes someone who’s going to turn out normal. He’s better at being a character than being himself. He really thinks he’s boring. Hiding is just a natural state for him,” added the producer.

He doesn’t live the LA Life: Phoenix eschews LA’s favored lifestyle: he reportedly doesn’t hike, go to the beach or hit major restaurants — preferring a strict vegan diet of vegetables from his own garden. “His circle of friends is as tight as he can keep it,” adds the friend. “Not a lot of people are going to get him . . . [and] he’s good with that.”

His relationship with Rooney: “They’re meant for each other,” said the friend. “Both [are] shy homebodies, both loathe press.” When the two have ventured out, they’ve been spotted at vegan restaurants and a colonics spa.

He really is that weird: “God forbid he gets an Oscar this year,” said a publicity exec who has worked with Phoenix. “He may not make it to the stage. Everyone wonders, ‘Is he really that sensitive — or does he just want you to think he’s weird?’ You’ll always be confused about him. Which actually is kind of weird.”

[From Page Six]

This piece just reads as kind of a standard-issue reintroduction to Joaquin by some awards-season publicist. It feels like someone – not Joaquin – is going to be pushing him for an Oscar campaign for at least one of his upcoming films. Hell, it might happen. He’s been nominated before and he’s mostly refused to campaign, although I remember that time someone convinced him to go on Oprah to promote Walk the Line and he was basically so nervous and scared that he became a hermit crab. Here’s my advice to the Hollywood publicists trying to get Joaquin out of his shell: just ask him to do a lot of print interviews. He’ll probably be easier to “manage” when he’s one-on-one in interviews. Don’t expect him to do Ellen or Kimmel. He’ll HATE that. And ask Rooney to help out – they can look morose and aloof together on every red carpet. I’m actually looking forward to that.

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  1. Lahdidahbaby says:

    Both.

  2. QueenB says:

    It doesnt sound too weird for a non Hollywood guy. Most people dont like that much attention and awards are BS.

    “Reclusive” stars often live very normal lives they just dont appear at every event. Its not like they are living in their own trash in a hut in the forrest.

    • laulau says:

      Seriously. The idea of having more than 5 friends stresses me out and I picked university courses based on not having to do public speaking. Being shy and an artist isn’t unusual outside of acting and I feel genuinely bad for this guy having to sit down with those vapid entertainment journalists.

    • Milla says:

      Especially considering what he went through. He cannot be a Hollywood guy, good or bad. He lost his brother due to fame and everything that goes with it

      • LB says:

        He lost his brother bc he was raised in a sexually, physically and mentally abusive cult. That’s on the parents. Who later took him to HW to work and support the family.

  3. Parigo says:

    Rooney was with him when he won best actor at Cannes last year. He couldn’t believe he won, and she was very supportive. He gave a shy but gracious speech and she was smiling and not looking goth for once. They seem good for each other.

  4. Merritt says:

    I think it is all an act. He was and possibly still is really tight with former BIL Casey Affleck. According to the allegations against Affleck, Phoenix helped intimidate the women by locking them out of their hotel room and having sex with other women in that hotel room.

    • Parigo says:

      Are they still friends? That stuff is really gross since Casey was married to his sister.

  5. Pandora says:

    I thought it was funny that the Page Six piece came out the same day he was at the Arclight in Hollywood, introducing every screening of You Were Never Really Here. Apparently he was really friendly, took photos, talked to people, and was not especially reclusive. He seems to not only be doing a lot of press for this film, but actively enjoying it too. That seems new for him, but it’s fun to watch.

    • manta says:

      I think he can do good in the promo department. The best for him is to be paired with a co star like Reese Witherspoon.
      You let the bubbly, chatty blonde in charge of sitting on night show hosts coaches, sharing the cute and funny anecdotes. And he does prints and premieres.
      He seemed very friendly and at ease with her (to my surprise) during the Walk The Line tour.

  6. smcollins says:

    I’ve had a soft spot for JP since he was originally known as Leaf (anyone else remember the movie Space Camp?). Maybe because we’re the same age and I’ve sort of grown up “with” him, kind of like the way I feel about Drew Barrymore. He’s always seemed so sweet & sensitive, to the point that you want to protect him. He hasn’t been immune to his share of controversy (that crazy mockumentary/performance art he made with Casey Afflek and the sexual harassment accusations surrounding it), but overall he’s led a pretty quiet life. River’s death undoubtedly had a profound and lifelong effect on him and is most likely the main reason he shuns the HW lifestyle. He’s a phenomenal actor, though, and deserves to be recognized for his talent. I want good things for him and for him to be happy, which he seems to be in his own unique Joaquin way.

    • Spicecake38 says:

      I remember the name Leaf,I just turned 42,thinking he’s about my age or a bit older.I remember his brother River being a talked about heartthrob in his day and I remember his overdose but barely.I think Joaquin in fantastically talented I couldn’t believe his voice when he played Johnny Cash. I don’t know what to make of the whole Casey Affleck thing,but I never heard of it until reading this website. I think if I were famous I would live a reclusive lifestyle too,not much good that I can see living the Hollywood lifestyle

  7. Lindy says:

    I can’t believe that someone like casey affleck has won an Academy award and someone like joaquin hasn’t. He is an amazing actor, i’m just about ready to fogive him for his asshat stupid cray cray time with the short affeck brother.

    • Flipper says:

      ^ This.

    • Marley31 says:

      I haven’t heard anything bad about Joaquin and just because your friends with someone doesn’t mean you roll the same or agree with how they done or what they do. My close friend have did things I don’t agree or believe in but there grown and as long as it doesn’t take me down with them. In still gonna be ride or die. That being said I’m a fan of the actor and I can’t help but feel sadness for the man because of what he went through and what he may have gone through and may still be going through. River was a star you knew he was and could shine and you knew just by watching him that he could be had it all what ever all was. He was that good of an actor and that good looking. His death was tragic and to soon. I remember the day he died and what I was doing when I heard the news. And I can’t imagine the affect of watching your brother pass in front of you let alone period. I’m sure it has some affect on his life. Joaquin is a star in his on right and is also a good actor and talented and is a star and in my option good looking as well. He and River are to different people who should not be compared but I just hope as I do with anyone who has seen a love one die or tragically die in front of them that he can find peace in whatever peace may be for him.

  8. mannori says:

    I really start losing my patience with the stunt “I’m such a tormented artist and I suffer by fame and money yet I need to share my Art”….if it’s so painful and you hate fame, money, awards and recognition feel free to go and find yourself a f*cking real job…I’m sorry for the rant but I think is all stunt, no matter how talented they are…yes, I include the great DDL (“I quit, oh no, wait, I’ll come back if you really really need my talent this much”) in this group also . I’ve always thought that acting does not require any particular great skill or preparation, other than just choosing the right projects and have a lot of luck. I think basically any person with in the right circumstances, with the right direction, script, prep is able to “perform” a character with more or less success, and more or less continuity, actually there’s no actor in the world who has never had a bad performance. So yes, Joaquin and all you whiny b*tches, I love some of your work, but you’re not doing anything exceptional and tremendously great, so go away. Sorry and end rant. This is a particularly bad day for me to read these kind of out of touch nonsense from rich, lucky people.

  9. Anastasia says:

    If you’ve ever read about how he grew up, it would all make a lot of sense.

    • Millenial says:

      Yes, the Phoenix kids and Rose McGowan grew up in the same cult I think. If the stuff I’ve read about it is true, they all had really messed up childhoods.

  10. Anare says:

    I find Joaquin Phoenix fascinating and same with Rooney Mara. So perfect together. Hope they stay together forever.

  11. Lizzie says:

    i died laughed at this:

    When you worked with M. Night Shyamalan, did you ever just once call him M. Night Shyamalamadingdong?

  12. Hikaru says:

    I’m not so sure it’s a good idea for two maladapted individuals to live together and enable one another. It has been a sad experience to observe Rooney descend into this hobo individual who turns away from all projects and just follows Phoenix and his family around and only does what they do when she should be at her peak physically mentally and professionally. The contrast between her when she was dating her ex boyfriend and now is very telling.

  13. aerohead21 says:

    Over the last decade I’ve really struggled with my love for him. I’ve been a fan of his for a very, very long time and I’ve always rooted for him. I did almost give up on him when he did his mockumentary with his then brother in law Casey Affleck, however I just couldn’t leave him behind. He is so conflicted and for obviously good reason. I am glad that he’s with Rooney Mara though. They seem like a good fit. And I agree, the man deserved an Oscar 100 years ago but Hollywood is elitist and doesn’t like underdogs and outcasts, so there you go. Joaquin is truly gifted and talented, but he’s not the cool kid.

  14. nikzilla says:

    Interesting career choice.

  15. Lisa says:

    He needs to make a movie with Andy Garcia where we have to keep trying to tell them apart. They look so much alike now!