Jennifer Aniston slams the ‘narcissists’ who think every woman wants to sleep with them

The Morning Show New York Premiere by APPLE TV

I have not subscribed to Apple+ and I don’t plan to. So I will not be watching The Morning Show. I’ve read some reviews which make it sound pretty good, or at the very least, very watchable. Most of the advance press about the show was about how the series had to be completely rewritten and reworked as #MeToo exploded and they wanted everything to be more about that. Reese Witherspoon has been more involved with Time’s Up than Jennifer Aniston, and Reese has been able to talk about those issues with more clarity… but even then, Reese still tends to talk around a lot of the nitty-gritty stuff. Which becomes clear as soon as a journalist presses her to talk about something more than vague rah-rah-feminism. Enter the Guardian – Reese and Jennifer sat down together for a joint interview and the result was fascinating. Reese managed to avoid the harder questions while Jennifer mostly avoided saying much of anything. Some highlights:

Jennifer on how #MeToo isn’t just about rape & assault, it’s about power imbalance: “There’s this absolute denial – ‘It was consensual, it was consensual’ – if you’re a narcissist to the degree a lot of these guys are. They think, of course every woman wants to sleep with me.”

Reese on the show not being an “echo chamber”: “This is not an echo chamber of women talking about #MeToo. It’s actually a very gender-balanced conversation because we need men watching the show. Real change doesn’t happen unless the incumbent power structure accepts it.”

Reese on being a #MeToo victim: “I wish I could tell you that was an isolated incident in my career but, sadly, it wasn’t. I’ve had multiple experiences of harassment and sexual assault,” she said. She felt, she added, “guilt for not speaking up earlier”. So does she wish she could have spoken out sooner? The temperature in the room drops palpably. “Ummm no. It was a culture of silence and silence was a condition of my employment. That’s what I was told.”

On Harvey Weinstein: “I was never alone in a room with him,” says Aniston. “I was never alone with him either. But I didn’t know why,” adds Witherspoon. “Me neither. But always someone would stand in the room,” Aniston echoes.

Jennifer on Instagram: “I find it very odd. I don’t understand it – it doesn’t make sense to me. I’d love for someone to break it down, but there it is and now it has to keep going.” She admits she joined Instagram mainly to promote the show. “But also, I think I had this idea … I don’t want to be the only person … Let’s see, what do I want to say here? I thought, ‘Why would I do this? People are already in my panty drawers all the time.’ And I want them out of my panty drawers. But now I can decide which pair to show them.”

[From The Guardian]

Regarding Reese and the icy chill in the room when the Guardian journalist asked if Reese wishes she could speak out sooner… I think it depends on how the Guardian journalist (a woman) phrased the question. It feels like perhaps Reese felt like she was being blamed for not speaking up BEFORE Me Too made it possible. Which… again, don’t blame women for the actions of men. That being said, Reese and her connection to CAA – an agency which seemed to actively procure women for Harvey Weinstein – throws everything into question for me. I’m also really tired of the undercurrent from Reese about how men desperately need to be included in all of these conversations. It bugs.

I agree with Jennifer about the narcissism of predators and extending the conversation to power imbalance even within “consensual” relationships.

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  1. Sierra says:

    I have more respect for women who keep silent and help behind the scenes than women who vaguely talk about it but don’t do anything.

    Reese is married to a powerful CAA agent so she is not going to answer serious deep questions.

    Jennifer talked a bit but again, not really taking a stand.

    • perplexed says:

      What stand are they supposed to take? I’m confused as to what they’re expected to say. They’re not saying anything stupid like Matt Damon did.

      • Peaches says:

        Right? I don’t understand the criticism behind her answer. To say she’s not taking a stand or she avoided talking much about anything…what do people want from her? I get the argument people are saying about Reese’s connection to that agency. But Jennifer can never just live huh.

  2. Gina says:

    I do agree with her comment about men and I don’t think they have to be super narcissists to think all woman want them.

    I think it’s part of the male ego and how so many men have been raised to think they are these amazing gods of people who can do no wrong.

    • Oc says:

      I agree. There are men that if you say a simple “good morning” or smile and be polite, they think you are flirting with them.

      • whatWHAT? says:

        OMG, this.

        I treat people, male and female, the same…that is, a salesperson, the UPS delivery person, bartender…etc. I am polite, but try to be funny/jokey and not standoffish. MOST of the males in this situation ABSOLUTLEY read that as flirting. it’s like, I’m just being a NICE POLITE PERSON, I am not coming on to you or trying to get you to ask me out. I had to ask one of my coworkers (about the UPS guy) “was he flirting with me?” and she was like “OH MY GOD YES”. The next time he came in, and we were chatting, and I deliberately mentioned the BF to see how he’d react. suddenly, he was no longer the funny friendly guy I had come to know. he wasn’t rude, but he was cold and standoffish. I mean, WTF? can’t we just be nice to each other, FFS?!

    • frenchtoast says:

      lol I friendzoned a guy once by text I wanted to write he was chill in a good way to cheer him up. I made a typo mistake and wrote “chill in a god way”. He got super smug and tried to ask me out again :/

  3. DenG says:

    Yes, not all women want (desire, crave) narcissist men, but vice versa–not all men want (desire, crave) narcissist women.

  4. frenchtoast says:

    Even the so-called “nice guys” still think they’re entitled to sex and that’s a problem.

    • lanne says:

      nice guys are the worst. Anyone who calls himself a “nice guy” has either a) been living off the grid and genuinely means it, and shows it with his polite behavior toward everyone or b) an entitled jerk who thinks doing a good deed of any kind (opening a door, buying a drink, paying for a date, helping you with a problem) automatically means they are entitled to have sex with you.

      Run away from the “nice guys!”

      • whatWHAT? says:

        it’s funny…my BF is truly a nice guy. people say that to me all the time. “he’s so nice, you’re so lucky!” and I am, I recognize that…

        …but to speak to what you said…he IS nice, and he treats me well, but he’s often worrying that he’s not being nice ENOUGH…or enough of a gentleman…”I don’t know why you put up with my oafishness”, etc. the truly nice guys NEVER say “but I’m a nice guy!” they make an effort to actually BE nice, and it shows. they don’t have to point out how nice they are.

  5. Renee says:

    I have watched 3 episodes of their new show The Morning Show, and I really liked it. It was kind of all over the place but I’m curious to see where it will go. Reese’s character in the show is annoying.

    • Jillian says:

      I thought all of the morning show episodes came out at once. I’ll get Apple TV later.

      It’s watchable not great

      • Deadnotsleeping says:

        The first three episodes were released all at once, and now a new show is released every Friday. I’m not a huge fan of either JA or RW, but the show is really well done. My husband upgraded his iPhone this fall, and got appletv included for a year as a perk. Not sure I’d pay for a subscription, but I really like it so far.

  6. lucy2 says:

    I’m ok with Reese’s comments about wanting men to engage with this too. First, men can and have been victims of harassment and assault too and as we’ve seen with people like Terry Crews, face a difficult time going public with it too, and second, a lot of them still need to continue learning about being an ally, about consent, about what a lot of women go through.
    If she were pulling a “think of the men!” or going on about false accusations, I’d have a problem with it, but I think what she said is fine.

  7. Meg says:

    ‘I’m also really tired of the undercurrent from Reese about how men desperately need to be included in all of these conversations. It bugs.’
    I think I’m misunderstanding this. Asking women about why they didn’t speak out earlier is victim blaming so shouldn’t men be asked about this culture? It’s like asking women about equal pay. They didn’t choose to be paid less why ask them! Ask who decided to pay them less.