Prince Edward, not Prince Andrew, is apparently the Queen’s favorite child?

Prince Edward and the Countess of Wessex are currently in Scotland, visiting the Queen at Balmoral. All of the Queen’s children are expected to schlep up to Balmoral every damn summer. Most of them enjoy it, I think, although it’s got to be tiresome at some point, right? Prince Edward and Prince Charles were photographed going to church in separate cars on Sunday. This actually means that Charles, Edward and Andrew are all in or around Balmoral at the same time, which is kind of interesting. Which brings me to this: at least one “royal biographer” is really trying to claim that Edward has always been the Queen’s “favorite.” No.

Prince Andrew is not the Queen’s favourite child, with the honour going to Prince Edward, a biographer has claimed in a new book. And although it has long been speculated that the Queen has the softest spot for Andrew, royal biographer Matthew Dennison claims that it is Edward who has always been the family favourite.

In his lengthy biography of the monarch, Mr Dennison wrote: “Prince Edward, seemingly a bit wet and a tad irritating to the rest of us, was always his parents’ favourite. That became apparent in 1987 when Edward, aged 22, opted out of the Royal Marines when he was just a third of the way through his 12-month basic training course. To the surprise of some, Prince Philip (Captain-General of the Royal Marines) did not come down on his son like a ton of bricks. He accepted that the Marines ‘wasn’t right for Edward’ – and to this day Edward is grateful for that.”

Royal expert Ingrid Seward also claimed the Duke of Edinburgh was very understanding about Edward’s decision to quit the Marines. Writing in the Daily Mail, she said: “Given his action-man image and his well-earned reputation for irascibility, many people assumed he was outraged. Stories soon spread that harsh words had been exchanged between father and son; even that Edward had been reduced to tears by his father’s anger.”

But she added: “The truth was quite the opposite: of all the Royal Family, Philip was in fact the most sympathetic. He understood his son’s decision, which he considered a brave one, and supported him fully.”

[From The Daily Mirror]

No. I mean, maybe it was the case that Philip babied Edward or that Philip had a soft spot for Edward, but it doesn’t follow that Edward was his parents’ favorite child. Philip AND the Queen were both exceptionally close to their only daughter, Anne. I also think the Queen prefers Countess Sophie’s company rather than Edward’s company. And yes, the Queen does prefer Andrew above all of her other children. That much has always been clear. It was also clear that Charles was neither parent’s favorite. The Queen Mum adored Charles, as did Lord Mountbatten.

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  1. Becks1 says:

    Hasn’t it always been said that Edward was Philip’s favorite, Andrew was the Queen’s favorite, Anne sort of has a special place bc she’s the only daughter (and I think always got along the best with Philip) and Charles was the favorite of the QM.

    I do think Sophie is the favorite in-law though.

    • C says:

      Yep, that’s all what I’ve read through the years too.

      I think they’re just trying to vainly and weakly distance her from Andrew.

    • Christa says:

      Sophie may be favorite in-law but competition is not fierce…

    • DouchesofCambridge says:

      I agree Edward has the favorite wife of the family, but I mean, you got Diana the charmer who did not follow their stupid royal rules, you got cheating womewrecker Camilla, Fergie getting her toes sucked, and Edward with boring Sophie.

  2. K says:

    It’s a little late for this bs narrative, isn’t it? Makes me wonder what Andrew has done now. Also Charles is no one’s favorite. Except Camilla.

  3. Amy Bee says:

    I’m just getting the impression that these children vied for the attention of their parents and they didn’t always get it. They all just sound like a very sad bunch of people. Most parents have favorites but they usually keep that to themselves for the harmony of the family.

  4. J Ferber says:

    I don’t believe it.

    • Selene says:

      Same. I think TQ likes flashy, vibrant personalities. That’s why she chose Philip and why she adores Harry and why she adored her sister.

      • Alice says:

        This is a good point. Philip was also like this in a lot of ways.

      • CC says:

        I don’t think she really chose Philip – other people chose him for her.

      • C says:

        She chose Philip. He was not liked by her family and they wanted her to marry a British peer or someone similar. But she had her heart set on him since she was 13.
        He on the other hand was more or less pushed towards her. He had some flings with women in adulthood even while “courting” Elizabeth. But “Uncle Dickie” basically told him he’d never get another chance this good in life, so he should take it.

      • PrincessK says:

        I agree that the Queen likes lively people, and she is certainly not keen on William but has to be nice to him because of the succession.

  5. The Hench says:

    “Prince Edward, seemingly a bit wet and a tad irritating to the rest of us”

    I’m still laughing.

    Yeah, it’s always been said that Eddie was Philip’s favourite – although, given the above, it’s hard to see why. In his recent Jubbly tour he came across like a complete bumbling moron, when faced with local dignitaries raising the colonial/slavery/reparations issue. I was genuinely shocked as to how BADLY he handled that, even when starting from a low base.

    • Eurydice says:

      I know, I let out a shriek. “A bit wet” is such an all-encompassing description of haplessness, it pretty much explains his behavior on that tour.

    • Debbie says:

      I tend to get these people mixed up with one another, but wasn’t Edward also with mummy at the train depot during a ceremony this summer, when Edward put his hands on a worker to push him away from his mummy? From the photos, Edward appeared to be saying to the worker, “Look, we chose you to be in the picture because you happen to fit the (Very-much-not-racist) edict of being photographed near a Black person, but that doesn’t mean you can stand close to my mummy. So, back off when showing her how the machines work.” He’s such a charmer.

  6. Debbie says:

    Are these people (in their 50s and 60s) still arguing about who mum loves best? What’s sadder is that the BM takes this so seriously, like it’s a point of honor.

  7. Jaded says:

    Gawd it’s like the Smothers Brothers all over again…”Mom always liked you best!”. Sniveling bunch of wankers.

  8. Feeshalori says:

    Oh, dear, we’re playing the musical chairs favorite children game again.

  9. Emily says:

    Lol nice try Sophie

    • Becks1 says:

      omg, I’m dying.

    • Debbie says:

      She always assumes that servile suck-up position where she leans in exaggeratedly to people higher up in ranking than her. She did it to W & K at the last interesting Commonwealth ceremony with H & M too. It’s like she’s magnetically drawn to power. People like Sophie will always be alright because they flatter people in power, so they’ll always land on their feet.

      • @Debbie, Sophiesta is certainly willing to carry out favors for those that hold the future purse strings. She is and will always brown nose her way into securing their future.

  10. MJM says:

    These changing favourite child narratives make the royal family seem even more childish and petty which I didn’t think was possible.

  11. Eating Popcorn says:

    Marsha, Marsha, Marsha…

  12. lisa says:

    from my own experience, there are multiple favorites or favorites in different ways

    like I believe Andrew is the favorite but that relationship isnt easy or relaxing. I think for a 100 yr old, being with Edward maybe is more comfortable, he and his family are better companions.

    • Saucy&Sassy says:

      lisa, interesting that we don’t hear about Edward visiting TQ that often, if that’s the case.

      • Cairidh says:

        We hear about her spending time with Sophie and Louise. Edwards with them then.

      • Saucy&Sassy says:

        Cairidh, we do here about it from time to time. It certainly doesn’t appear that they are spending anywhere as much time as Andrew is with TQ. I keep getting the feeling that PC keeps sidelining them and they pop up again. It’s all a very strange group.

        I hope that both of their children go abroad for college. It would the best thing they could do for themselves. Then get a job and not have to beg for crumbs. Can you imagine how KHate would treat either of them?

  13. Tigerlily says:

    It’s pretty pathetic this is still being debated now. However I think that Lord Mountbatten, who was a shameless suck up, would of course favour the ‘heir’. He was besties back in the day with the Duke of Windsor when he was still Prince of Wales. After the abdication he switched sides PDQ. As for Queen Mother, I’d like to think she favoured Chuckles as he was a sad little boy. However even to Granny he was the ‘heir’. Horrid people IMHO.

  14. Susie says:

    I find it sad and very telling that in this family having one moment of good parenting where they were understanding of their son is seen as picking a favourite child. Oh dad was really nice to you that one and only time well then obviously you must be the favourite. I feel like Edward (and Sophie) is the helper child. Mom is super old and somebody needs to take her to the doctor. That has to do more with who has time and is close by rather than who is the fav. Plus Edward and Sophie still have kids youngish enough that they can say we are going to have dinner with granny and they usually do it. It’s harder to command a 30 year old to say hi to their grandma. At the end of the day in this family I think the standard for favourite child is will mom blow up her reputation to help when everyone finds out you are friends with a pedo (and allegedly one yourself). She sure as hell would NEVER do that for Charles and I low key doubt even for Edward maybe for Anne (but I think everyone sees Anne as the only competent child and assumes she wouldn’t get herself to a point where she would need moms help).

  15. girl_ninja says:

    All of her children seem pretty awful.

  16. DeluxeDuckling says:

    I’m not a parent. Is having a favourite normal?

    • SuzieQ says:

      It’s certainly not normal — and in fact it’s harmful — to make any preferences for one child above another known.

      This family is just so dysfunctional.

    • teecee says:

      I’m not one either, but I think it IS normal, because it’s so often discussed in pop culture, etc.

    • Becks1 says:

      I am a parent and I don’t have a favorite. I have a favorite for certain things (there’s one child I would rather drive in the car with bc the other one never takes a breath while talking, LOL, and one child I would rather be home alone with bc they’re much better at self entertaining – and ironically the one who is better at self entertaining is the one who won’t shut up in the car LOL) and so on for things like that, but its not that I love one more than the other or absolutely prefer one more than the other.

      We joke about my parents having a favorite but they don’t really (and there were four of us.)

    • SophieJara says:

      DeluxedDarling mine are 4 and 6. The 6 yo is great, the 4 yo is a total a**hole right now. But I do not have a favorite. I’m their mom! My job is to love them exactly as they are, and regardless of where their brain development is or goes I love each of them most in the whole world. As it should be.

    • Dollycoa says:

      No it’s not normal to have a favourite, but the Royals are designed to have favourites, because basically one child is the heir from birth and the others are surplus to requirements, and just there to leech off the heir and blow smoke up their a@# as a result. However, Charles always looked unloved. Maybe he needed more love and attention than usual amo gst the Royals.

  17. TL says:

    I don’t think Phil cared enough about him to come down on him for quitting

  18. NA says:

    Amazingly, I have a relative who is Royal adjacent and quite plugged in to British society and they’ve always said Edward is actually the favourite. Of course, I refuse to believe that. Lol.

    • Saucy&Sassy says:

      NA, I wonder why it’s such a secret?

      • It has only come to the forefront as Andrew has famously embarrassed and has drained him Mum of millions of pounds…..

        Make no mistake, this is purely optics due to the backlash for Andrew accompanying TQ!!

  19. Nedsdag says:

    I found it ironic that the one child not mentioned as anyone’s favorite is the eldest son and heir.

  20. Rea says:

    So this is how history is going to be written now facts are being changed all to protect the royal family and future of the establishment.

  21. Dollycoa says:

    Edward may have been Philips favourite, because he is clearly his son. Unlike Andrew, who looks nothing like him or any of his siblings. However, Andrew is definitely The Queens son, and has long been said to be her favourite.