Princess Kate: People are ‘so isolated & disconnected’, need to ‘feel like they belong’

Do you think someone sat down with Kate, the Princess of Wales, and told her that she needs to stop flapping her hands and making crazy-looking expressions when she’s doing events? I think that might have happened because suddenly, Kate is actually making somewhat normal expressions and she’s not freeze-posing so hard. Did someone train her? Did she decide to try something new? It’s a mystery. Here are more photos from Kate’s event on Wednesday, where she visited the Colham Manor Children’s Centre. I didn’t realize this at the time, but it was her inaugural event as patron of the Maternal Mental Health Alliance. So there, she’s also added a new patronage. She even spoke off-the-cuff during the round-table. By that I mean, she didn’t read off of notes, but I’m sure some comments were prepared for her and she memorized them, that’s my guess.

Praising the work of the centre, she said: “You hear time and time again about the stigma associated with reaching out for help.

“…so much of the adversity comes from the lack of connection, whether that’s relationships or your physical connections with people within your community and you’re providing both here, so I think more places like this would be so valuable.”

In a later conversation she added: “People are so isolated and disconnected [so] to be able to come together and feel that they are part of something, the sense of family comes up all the time – feeling like they belong, feeling like they can have trusted people that can listen to them.”

She continued: “It’s so needed in communities across the board, whether that’s talking to the vulnerable, homelessness, or addiction – they need the same as what mums need and if we can try and join the dots within community provision right from the start, ultimately you’re helping that next generation.”

[From Sky News]

Sky News praised her to the hilt for what she said, and her comments amount to “people need a sense of community, people need help.” I also feel like Kate and William’s public comments these days – just in general – always have the feel of some kind of subtweet of Meghan and Harry. Like… Kate is taking about women who feel isolated in their pregnancies and isolated as mothers, you know, just like Kate and the royals isolated Meghan when she was suicidal and begging for help, remember?

Here’s a video from her visit. I’ll give her some credit, she’s gotten a lot better at solo events and speaking in these round-table discussions. I can tell that she’s still got issues with speaking off-the-cuff, but this is a vast improvement from where she was two years ago. The thing with the little boy and the poppy was a set-up. The boy barely knew what was happening.

Photos courtesy of Avalon Red, Cover Images.

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  1. Haylie says:

    Kate doesn’t have the bandwidth to support other women’s needs.

    She’s talking about herself feeling isolated at Adelaide, while Will does whatever and whomever.

    • IForget says:

      I was going to say the same thing! She’s referring to herself, and calling out for attention. I don’t know why people don’t refer to Meghan being su*cidal when she was pregnant when speaking to Kate about maternal mental health. Alternatively, why she doesn’t say something along the lines of ‘we have realised the importance of supporting women through such a vulnerable time in their lives, it can touch anyone, regardless of background.’ Ugh. The hypocrisy. If she had any sense, she wouldn’t touch this issue. Same with Will and solving racism.

      • equality says:

        I’m sure the media and everyone they meet with are given their talking points and are told what not to discuss.

      • Blue Nails Betty says:

        I really want someone to call her on her bullshit in real time. Something like “That’s interesting. What did you do to support Meghan when she was pregnant and suicidal?” just so we can see Khate’s face melt off from shame and embarrassment.

      • Mrs.Krabapple says:

        @ Blue Nails Betty — but Kate will just snap “What else!?” and that will be the end of it. Like she did to some poor kid who dared ask her about the Sussexes.

      • Agreatreckoning says:

        Agree @IForget. If Kate’s PR people had one lick of intelligence they would keep her away from this. Meghan was gracious and kind to Kate in the O interview. Kate’s PR people need to keep her away from these subjects. Meghan has receipts and we have the images/videos of Kate being nasty to Meghan when Meghan was pregnant.

  2. ThatsNotOkay says:

    Word salad. Hollow words salad.

    Not only that, poor segues: the vulnerable, homelessness, and addiction need the same thing mums need. Girl, WTF are you talking about!?

    • Tbonesmum says:

      You took the words out of my mouth @ThatsNotOkay

    • Leanne says:

      I’ve noticed whoever writes this stuff for her follows the same sentence structure every time: Declarative statement followed by whether that is… or whether that is …. Seriously, you could make a drinking game out of it.

      • Sue E Generis says:

        Agreed. It seems clear that her words are impersonal. She seems to be half quoting, half paraphrasing something she’s read somewhere. Zero insight.

        Unfortunately, it’s still miles better than anything she’s ever said before in 20 years. Usually, it was just happy to be here, name the place, fumble the name, fall apart, end.

  3. Eurydice says:

    This is the RF job and she’s doing it. She doesn’t have to actually mean any of it, just say the right words.

    • Becks1 says:

      Yeah, exactly. This is word salad but its better word salad than we were getting two years and this seems to be what people want from their royals.

      • Chloe says:

        I mean if she feels so strongly about there being more of these centers why doesn’t the royal foundation open one? Instead of some bogus research centre that we haven’t heard of in a whole year. Have they actually hired researchers? I still cannot believe that the royal rota dared to is to the Invictus games

      • Becks1 says:

        LOL I think you’re answering your own question there. She does not feel strongly about this.

      • Harper says:

        She feels strongly about looking young and pretty in photos and also about working to confuse the UK regarding the racist narrative by posing with a cute little chubby-cheeked black child.

  4. Mooney says:

    So we’re going to see her exhaust the monochrome style over and over, until Meghan brings in something new for her to copy. I’m surprised she hasn’t done a braid yet.

  5. truthSF says:

    Everything is about making her look good! She can be (is) a total monster behind the scenes, but as long as “we make her look good in public” is the message the RF wants to put out.

    To bully and isolate such a warm, caring, inclusive person like Meghan, and then after she’s out, you go out and do work pretending that you care about helping ppl going through what you put her through, is gaslighting 1 on 1!! All she and her her husband has proven, is that they are just as bad as Tampon and Horse when they gas lit Diana 30 years prior!

    P.s. of course they took the opportunity to use…I mean prove to us that Kate/RF is not racist, cause look at her with a Black child!!😒

    • SpankFD says:

      Yes. My working hypothesis is that in becoming the Wales, they suddenly accessed the capital needed for things like stylists and media training.

      So they’re wrapped up in nicer packaging, but they are still dreadful human beings.

  6. C-Shell says:

    Nothing objectionable about the words she strung together, but she’s got zero credibility and the hypocrisy is stunning. First, do no harm, KKKHate.

  7. Janey says:

    she must be fu**ing joking right? I know someone fed those words to her but she must realise? surely she’s not THAT stupid?

  8. Coleamb says:

    Are my eyes deceiving me or did she abandon the wiglet?

    • Sarah says:

      I think you can see it in the video when she walks into the building – it is sort of poofed up higher than the rest of her hair? But I am not a wiglet expert by any means so IDK, lol!

    • chinchilla queen says:

      She’s still wearing the fall [hairpiece], but it looks like it’s sitting a bit lower on the crown of her head. Kate’s own hair is parted, but when the part ends, there’s the cap of hair cascading down her back.

    • Becks1 says:

      I wonder if she’s not wearing the extensions underneath? Or just different extentions? bc her hair looks very different than it looked last week or before their 2 week break.

  9. Noki says:

    Always roping in some poor black child for their photo ops.

  10. SarahCS says:

    Yes indeed, ‘someone’ needs to provide support here. But not the Wails, oh no, they just have the odd smile.

    As for the comments about isolation I know she has CarolE firmly in her life but I could imagine her saying this. Obviously she’d never admit that her life isn’t never put a foot wrong perfect but we all have eyes and the truth is clearly very different. It doesn’t make me in any way sympathetic to her mean girl life but it feels like she accidentally spoke the truth here.

    • MsIam says:

      Yes, if only she had a supportive sister-in-law, someone who understood the pressure and could commiserate with her. Oh wait….. Plus, she has Pippa, and they live closer than ever. I wonder what’s really going on with Kate, not that I care for anything.

    • Becks1 says:

      I agree that Kate feels isolated right now in Windsor. It can be hard to make mom friends in general, factor in that she’s a garbage person, and that other families may be uncomfortable around the Wales bc of their status/role….and I’m sure its isolating, especially if her husband is spending large chunks of time….not with her.

      I kind of can’t believe we haven’t gotten a photo op of Pippa and her kids in Windsor with Kate and the Wales children.

      • Nic919 says:

        Pippa get her masters in child development was likely a sign that there was distance between them. Also calling her daughter Rose doesn’t help.

        But they have not been seen together for a long time.

  11. Amy Bee says:

    I mean once again, Kate is just saying words. I was going to say the same thing about William and Kate isolating Meghan. I saw people gushing about Kate and the little black boy. It was very convenient that the Royal reporter from Sky got the whole thing on video so she could tweet it out to the public. I know the reaction would have been different if Meghan had given her poppy to a child. The royalists used to get upset when she gave a flower from the bouquets that were presented to her by little girls.

    • Tessa says:

      She did not see Archie and Lily her own niece and nephew when they are on the UK. Sorry Kate all the photo ops do not matter

    • tamsin says:

      Gosh, I had forgotten that Meghan used to give a flowers to children. Kudos to the Kate team for taking the poppy opportunity- it’s not so obvious copying. I wonder if they keep a list of things Meghan does, and look for opportunities to copy! The Cambridges are now devoting their lives to being Harry and Meghan?

  12. Aurora says:

    I was waiting for her to say “Women already have a voice. They just need to be empowered to use it.”

  13. Tessa says:

    What a hypocrite she is. She was hostile to her sister in law even on that walkabout.she needs to stop preaching.

  14. Tessa says:

    The jazz hands and the mugging must be startling to those children

  15. equality says:

    I couldn’t hear her most of the time and couldn’t understand what she was saying when I could. I could understand what the child said better. And she is still making the over-exaggerated expression at the child in the top picture. She looks as if there is a mild lag on one side of her face as if there is a nerve problem. That may be why fewer exaggerated expressions.

  16. Digital Unicorn says:

    I don’t know if it’s the dress, coat or angle of some of the photographs but she is shockingly thin in these photos – you can’t help but notice it.

    Gotta wonder how long this ‘improved’ kHate will last – she has a fire in her belly at the moment because of Meghan but it won’t last, never does.

    kHate is nothing more than a vapid mannequin that models wiglets.

  17. Harper says:

    Her roundtable talk is still so halting and inauthentic. I truly wonder how the professionals feel about her after she echoes back to them mental health basics 101 and then flounces out. They must wonder why they bothered.

    • Ginger says:

      That’s exactly what she does. She repeats what the organization told her and the rota act like she just saved the world with her comments. It’s embarrassing.

  18. Over it says:

    You know whose child was in danger of not being born along with his mom loosing her life and this insipid, basic, B was one of the head ones leading the
    Charge against them? Meghan. I don’t ever want to hear or see Kate pretend to care about moms and mental health and isolation. She can just go do one in the corner .

  19. ROAA says:

    Her boobs got smaller in a week

  20. Tessa says:

    She sure did not make Meghan feel like she belonged with all the mean girling Kate goes in for.

    • Haylie says:

      Mean girling is far too sanitized terminology for what Kate did and continues to do to Meghan. It’s sinister.

  21. ABritGuest says:

    Feels like her comments (as obvious as they are) are just another rip off of Meghan talking about importance of community & ripple effects of that & even comments from Meghan’s recent podcast about good/bad mothers. Kate & William have been spinning of a lot of Harry & Meghan sound bites.

    And it’s clear Kate didn’t do anything to support a pregnant mother in her own circle when she felt isolated – oh sorry she just sat back when her character was being assassinated – so there’s some nerve there. I wonder if I will ever get over royals talking on causes where they have little credibility due to their own actions etc. But then I saw someone who met Charles praise how much he cares about mental health. Charles who famously had friends tell Dimbleby that Diana was mentally ill for (correctly) believing he was having an affair with Camilla. And Andrew was involved with a human trafficking project after the Epstein/Guiffre revelations first emerged so maybe royals champion certain causes to deflect.

    it was a cute moment with Akeem but my cynical side says it was a set up with him given that backlash in Jamaica for that kids behind the fences pic & recoiling from the Black minister. Kate needs other images for this year. And the royals have been non stop with their hugging etc of Black kids since Oprah .

  22. Margaret says:

    In answer to a comment above, she has a Wiglet on. In her profile shot the wiglet is lighter than the front, giving her a two toned look. No credit to her once again. Sorry.

    • sparrow says:

      Yeah, you can see it front-on, too. Watching the video (with the sound off, I can’t listen to her), it clearly sits up on the crown, and from side-on it demarcates and splits her real hair from her fake hair. It looks like she has two sets of hair, which is why she seems to fiddle with her hair and try to throw it backwards and together behind her shoulders. I have grown so used to spotting it, that I can’t un-spot it now. I would love Kate to do a number of things: cut her hair into a really amazing short style, which would set the cat amongst the staid old pigeons and bring some health back to it; leave William; tell her mother to bugger off out of her life; get on her knees and say sorry to her sister and brother in law; get better (if she has the ED I think she has). These are pretty much in the wrong order. It should start with the apology. And some of it sounds very sympathetic towards her, but if she is as ill as I think she is, she does have my empathy on that and that alone.

  23. Ceej says:

    I wonder if she feels like she wasted 10 years where she could have gotten good at public speaking. Fair enough; it’s not everyone’s cup of tea. She might still have been self-conscious about it. But you know courtiers in the palace are comparing her speaking engagements to MM’s podcasting and this is why they’re trying to elevate her to do more commenting and not just smiling. But she’s just… she’s not gonna be hosting any podcast series soon.

    Also wonder if she doesn’t like being around Pippa as much now that they’re motherhood equals/Pippa is edging ahead. If you like to be queen bee, your sibling having a mansion, same number of kids now, and a degree in your “area of expertise” must irk.

    • hangonamin says:

      hard to compare Meghan’s speaking abilities to Kate. they’re on different levels. Meghan is a natural born speaker and is very comfortable in front of the camera and mic. AND she’s had a career in front of the camera, so she knows her angles, knows how to “perform” for the camera, knows how to direct attention etc. Kate…seems like an average person that does public speaking once in a while and doesn’t seem comfortable sometimes. she’s definitely improved a little. I can relate to that, put me in front of a camera, give me all the lessons and experience but I won’t ever be amazing.

      • The Old Chick says:

        There’s always someone who gives kkkate a pass for her terrible performances in public, she’s shy, meghan is an actress, I don’t like it either. these talking points are absurd. Many actors can’t speak in public at all, it’s a very different skill. There’s video of meghan speaking competently, doing a speech aged about 14.

        The only thing kkkate knows IS her angles, she’s not trained in anything EXCEPT getting her picture taken. Especially since she freeze poses. She’s been in her ‘job’ for 11 years and she’s access to every resource known to man which proves she’s uninterested, boring and lazy.

        The main skill with speaking in public (this is a round table, a conversation not a speech) is having information on the topic and being prepared, interested and engaged. Shy people do this every single day without being paid millions for the privilege of 30 mins ‘work’. Kkkate is a lazy, performative B, who only ever wants to compete with her sister in law whom she bullied and had her family bully.. Everything she does is performative and fake, so I can tell you one thing, I know who the real actress is.

    • Kit says:

      Nothing shy about Princess Kate , she walked down de runway in a dress that was actually a see through skirt!!!! She just doesn’t prepare and know her speech, that’s why she is so bad at it, its a simple as that.

      • teecee says:

        There’s a difference between being comfortable with public speaking and being comfortable with wearing skimpy/revealing clothes in front of a lot of people. I have no trouble doing the former but would NEVER do the latter.

      • hangonamin says:

        @kit i feel like this is unfair critique. she’s in college in her 20s, for an art show, where she walked down a runway for maybe 2 min. so she showed some skin, she’s supposed to be a great speaker? i didn’t know all models are naturally gifted at speaking too. some people are just not born public speakers or have the it factor in front of a camera. and even if she did prepare for it, doesn’t mean she can just naturally be great at it like Meghan. even when Meghan was little, you can tell she was comfortable in front of a camera.

      • C says:

        There’s footage out there of Kate performing in a school play and doing pretty well? I don’t think she’s bad at public speaking because she is shy. It’s because she’s unprepared and doesn’t choose to change that. She also just doesn’t care. The lack of passion – for anything, it seems – is more evident than any lack of technical skill. It’s why the clip of her giving the poppy away falls so flat. There’s no emotional interaction there.

      • QuiteContrary says:

        @hangonamin … Kate is not a model. She’s supposed to be a “working” royal. She should have worked to get better at her job, which includes public speaking. (Of course, if it was a real job, she would have had performance improvement plans she would be expected to fulfill. Nevertheless, she is highly compensated for the “work” she does.)

        There is no excuse for her subpar performance so many years into the job.

      • Debbie says:

        You’re right, Kit!

  24. Brassy Rebel says:

    I guess performative empathy is better than no empathy at all. But she didn’t even do that much for her brother in law’s wife when she was in crisis during her pregnancy. So hollow now.

    • First comment says:

      Please, allow me to make a small correction not only to your comment but also to the comments above that mention that she didn’t do anything to help her sister in law: for me, she was also the one responsible (as well as the courtiers) for the whole mess which drove Meghan to suicide thoughts, she was the one (or her mother) who instigated and spread the story “Meghan made Kate cry” when she knew that the reverse happened… we are talking about a pretty mean and purposeful defamation of Meghan’s character in a effort to make her look like a poor victim of a black woman… she was not a simple and innocent bystander….who happened to benefit from it by simply doing nothing..

      • Brassy Rebel says:

        Good point. I don’t disagree. I was also thinking about how Kate’s jealousy and need to be the center of attention has diminished her. She had an opportunity when first introduced to Meghan to befriend her and even mentor her since this was all such a new experience for her. Kate could have set herself up as Meghan’s protector and guide through the royal maze. She could have chosen to be the bigger person. People might view her differently today and Harry and Meghan might still be in the royal fold. Unfortunately, this is not who Kate is or ever will be.

      • HamsterJam says:

        Thank you, that is 100% true

      • BohemianAngel says:

        @First Comment. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Thank you. People seem to think Khate was/is an innocent bystander in this smear campaign against Meghan, in my eyes her and her atrocious mother kick-started it!

  25. First comment says:

    I haven’t seen her whole roundtable talk…just a fragment of it in a very short video where she reminded me of my 10 year old self trying to remember and to recite my poem or my memorized lesson for school…

  26. M3gan says:

    I think what Kate is comfortable doing is meeting with and speaking to small children, and then talking to adults involved in children’s issues about parenthood and children. The Palace is definitely wheeling her out for those types of engagements. It’s difficult to take her work seriously on a global stage.

  27. sparrow says:

    I don’t know what we’re meant to take away from royals talking about people’s disconnection blah blah blah. They are already so disconnected from the rest of society just by being who they are; it’s almost a double negative. OK, I’m pleased when they turn up at a charity such as the great Church on the Street and hopefully stir up some money giving, but what they say at these places is pithy nonsense. The irony of her banging on about issues that affected her sister in law is not lost on people, nor is the fact that she herself looks unwell.

  28. duchess of hazard says:

    This is all spitting in the wind with the cruel Tory government policies at the moment.

    *SIGH*

    • Well Wisher says:

      Most appropriate comment..
      Real people are being affected by this charade.
      There is a lot of talk about replacement theory, when in fact it is so expensive to have children and provide proper nurturing in a cold and bitter environment of constant austerity.

    • Saucy&Sassy says:

      duchess of hazard, when I read the comment above “so I think more places like this would be so valuable” my immediate thought was that the government should be providing funding for more places. The same is true here in the US. Why does she keep saying this? She said it at the food bank and now this. Is it now the brf’s responsibility to make people think that the government has no hand in the state of the economy in the UK? I thought there weren’t supposed to be “political”?

  29. First comment says:

    The scene with Aceem was pretty sweet and seemed quite spontaneous…. for once, I saw her being quite relaxed and focused on the child. I’m sure the RR manager must be proud of her. However, if they want to be seen as more relatable and less disconnected to the peasants, they should not allow her to show with a second new coat (!) in the same week, not to mention the amount of new blouses, skirts and dresses (2 dresses and 2 skirts at least).. the empathy factor with all the communities is quite lost otherwise…

    • Kit says:

      Genuinely all for the camera’s , that is a fact. There is not one genuine bone in her body, its simply look at me me me !!!!

      There’s that bloody belt again!!!!

  30. Tessa says:

    Sorry i do not see her as natural and spontaneous. If she were she would have been seen playing with and interacting with Archie and Lily. I find her rather calculating.

    • First comment says:

      You are right Tessa… if I knew how, I would have make a side by side photos of Kate with Akeem and Kate, the princess of children (sarcasm), in the polo match where she completely ignored her baby nephew … no matter what had happened, It takes a pretty cruel person to behave like this towards a little baby… especially as the media are fawning over her about her love for babies…

  31. Mtl.Ex.Pat says:

    The guy with the glasses is looking at her with barely contained amusement (about the 1:50 mark).

    • sparrow says:

      Ha ha! I went back in to see (on silent, I can’t listen to her voice). It looks like he’s thinking “I gave up my break for this crap?! Fingers crossed I’ve still got time for a coffee and kit kat”.

  32. AO says:

    I watched the video. She’s still very much a terrible public speaker. Her brain seemed to freeze at a point

  33. Pumpkin (Was Sofia) says:

    Word salad is still a word salad, even if she says it in a better way. But hey, at least she’s improving.

  34. Beverley says:

    Doncha know Khate loves ALL youngsters, EXCEPT her (mostly white) niece and nephew. For her, it must be extra painful that they’re Harry’s children by another woman – a biracial woman *gasp* – when she probably fantasized that maybe someday she’d have Harry’s babies. She will NEVER meet or be family to Prince Archie and Princess Lili because she’s furious (and devastated) that they even exist.

  35. Jaded says:

    The irony…”people are so isolated, disconnected, they need to feel like they belong”. That could well be the story of her own sad life.

  36. She’s very tightly wound, hunched shoulders, jazz hands, playing with her hair. “Please keep in touch.”. 🙄

  37. Vanessa says:

    Kate is a huge Hypocritical she helped the courtiers the British media drive Meghan to suicide thoughts. She had no concern for Meghan or Archie well being she saw the love that Harry has for his wife and unborn child and went out her way to try her hardest to destroy Meghan without a second thought. Now she has the nerve to show up to charity to talk about how society should help pregnant woman and people shouldn’t be isolated. Kate is a cold heart woman we all saw the way she treated Meghan at the walkabout she was very physically aggressive toward her it look like she want to physically harm her like given the chance she would have .

    • Nic919 says:

      The video of kate being aggressive toward Meghan at the walkabout was there for the world to see. No one imagined Kate’s bitchy behaviour.

      Meghan didn’t play the victim here but told her truth and the British media still cannot accept that she told the truth on Oprah making kate look like a liar.

      It’s Kate who uses her white lady tears as a weapon and plays the perpetual victim. So let’s stop with the projection. Kate has yet to correct that story herself because she wants to still be seen as the victim.

  38. Isabella says:

    She is so much happier wIthout William. Separate homes is best for them, evidently

  39. jferber says:

    Again, but what about the tangibles she could GIVE to actually HELP the organization, that you see Meghan and Harry do ALL THE TIME? There’s so much she could do, even if she were to copy Harry and Meghan, to actually GIVE them something to help with their work. Write a book about it, sell it and give the organization the proceeds, one of so many things the Sussexes have done. Is it that they can’t bear raising money for other people besides themselves? Hell, I just cant with their fake caring and empty hands. (To avoid the work, the book could be ghost written. No one would care.)

  40. Therese says:

    That little boy was precious, I don’t care if it was a set up. So, I liked her dress. I was stunned at how frail she is, or skinny. I guess frailty is a different definition. And yes, she seems more comfortable and not making quite as much of an ass of herself. The baby that was crying while she was talking? How did she not stop and ask if she could hold him. So adorable. Fuck the talking points, hand me the babies.