Aaron Taylor Johnson: ‘What’s real in my life are my kids and my home’

Aaron Taylor Johnson is one of the “young Hollywood” stars featured on Vanity Fair’s Hollywood Issue cover. Overall, I was disappointed with this year’s VF issue – the editorial is chaotic and ugly, and the people selected… well, I think better choices could have been made. Take, for example, Aaron. Aaron is an actor and I would consider him more internet-famous than movie-star famous. But people know his name and they have some idea about his story and the fact that an older woman groomed him when he was a teenager and they’re still married and raising their daughters. That’s arguably the most interesting part of his biography, but magazines tend to shy away from asking Aaron about it directly. Some highlights from VF:

Whether his character in David Leitch’s new film, The Fall Guy, is based on Brad Pitt: “My character’s far from Brad. I don’t want to give away what my character is like. But Brad was very much a team leader and a mentor [on Bullet Train]—someone who has this incredible ability to have a presence on and offscreen. You get actors at his level that are probably a little threatened by any other actor who might shine. But Brad’s guiding us along to have a good time and succeed. He’s a joy to work with.

The James Bond rumors: “It’s flattering. You can have something really positive [written about you], but you can also have something really negative that can circulate. You just want to stay in your lane, stay grounded, stay around the people that you love and love you back, and stay in that world. Because the moment you start believing the sh-t people say about you, you’ve lost your f–king mind. You’ve lost it. I’ve seen, especially from Nocturnal Animals, you pick up an award or something, and then the next day it doesn’t really amount to anything. It’s just these materialistic things. What’s real in my life are my kids and my home. Those are my rock and my center.

His relationship with social media: “Naturally, I’m pretty awful at it. I’d rather not carry a phone. I only started carrying a phone when my kids went to school and I thought, I’d better have a phone for emergencies. I ended up getting social media for the press tour for Avengers…. I had it for a few years. I found it really toxic and clogging up my imaginative brain space. Also, I’ve got a teenager. Being a parent that was like, “I’m going to have it, but you can’t” seemed ridiculous to me. It’s the way it was when we were kids and it was like, “I want to smoke.” And your parent goes, “You can’t smoke, it’s bad for you.” And you go, “You smoke a pack a day. Why can’t I have a cigarette?”

When he stopped using Instagram: “On top of that, there’s a lot of love on Instagram but there comes a whole bag of sh-t and anger towards you. When you’re in our profession, you build up a thick skin, but certain things still hurt. I put it to bed at the end of 2018 and brought it back for Bullet Train. There was a healthy gap. I felt like, if I do bring it back, I’ll have some boundaries with it.

He’s a big fan of Brad Pitt: “I was a big fan of Brad when I was a kiddo. I loved his presence onscreen. He really was the master of cool. Being able to work with him later on in life, and him actually be a great person and great, giving actor…that was cool.

[From Vanity Fair]

“I’ve got a teenager…” Jeez, let me look that up. His oldest, Wylda Rae, was born in July 2010. So… she’ll be 13 this year. Or does he mean his step-daughters? Sam Taylor Johnson was already the mother to two girls when she met Aaron – his stepdaughters are 26 and… 16 years old. He was probably talking about his youngest stepdaughter. “What’s real in my life are my kids and my home. Those are my rock and my center.” – but what about your wife, bro?? Hm. Anyway, I don’t actually hate his comments about social media. It’s completely fine to opt out, it’s completely fine to only use it for work, and it’s completely fine to enjoy social media.

Photos courtesy of Cover Images, Vanity Fair.

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  1. Lady Esther says:

    In the absence of other options (Idris and Cavill are too old, etc), and if Richard Madden has already said no, I am willing to accept him as Bond. Looking forward to his take or spin on it – I was never a fan of Craig’s version, he was never a “gentleman’s spy” but he did pugilistic anti-intellectual well.

    • Emmi says:

      I’ve said this many times here on this blog and it wasn’t even my idea. Dev Patel. Get him to play Bond.

    • Lori says:

      Why is Taron Egerton’s not being brought up for this? He would be perfect.

      • Kimmy says:

        Oh I love this idea. Did anyone happen to see Black Bird on Apple? Taron was glorious in it.

      • Anners says:

        Co-signing Taron Egerton. I could watch him in anything. I also wouldn’t mind Dev Patel – he’s quite charming and talented.

        I think ATJ is quite good, too. I always feel a bit conflicted that I find him attractive as I’m closer in age to his wife, and I think the way she groomed him was reprehensible. But he wasn’t on my radar until Anna Karenina and he was so handsome.

  2. Fernanda says:

    I can’t help it, at the same time I find him so hot, but also I feel grossed out by the whole situation (him and his wife). It just doesn’t sit right with me, even after all these years.

    • Anners says:

      SAME!!! It feels like I’m somehow participating in the ick? But he was an adult before I found him attractive.

  3. Emmi says:

    I don’t think any journalist should ask him about this. This isn’t on him. Ask her. Ask her how she would like it if in 2 years, some grown-ass dude starts dating her second-eldest daughter. Maybe he’s her boss. Maybe he gets her pregnant and makes her raise his two kids from a previous relationship. I can’t with that woman.

    It’s hard to get angry when you look at them now, that’s a grown man. But whenever I see the first pics of them together … no.

    • Slush says:

      This! This this this.

    • Megs283 says:

      He is a victim of grooming and he is not guilty of anything. I am impressed by his maturity, as I had thought he would peace out when kids showed up.

  4. Mel says:

    Why would you think someone would ask him a question like that? Come on. As someone else said if you want to take that route, go to his wife.

  5. Serena says:

    Every actor who idolizes Brad Pitt is automatically on my sht list, sorry not sorry.

  6. AngryJayne says:

    He is…
    Ridiculously hot. I loved Kick Ass, his character in Tenant, and loads of other things, so I’d say that he’s definitely bigger than just “internet famous.”
    As far as his marriage and how it all came about…is it the tiniest bit possible that some people with rocky childhoods can sometimes look for stability and security and be drawn to the idea of making their own family (sooner rather than later) because of it?
    I’ll be honest, my husband is 15 years older than me and I was 27 when we married (we were both married before to total cheating manipulative d-bags) and it’s definitely deepened our appreciation for each other.
    We’ve been together now 11 years, and from all the stories his family has told me about him growing up- if we’d both met as as kids or teenagers I would’ve had a massive crush on him. 100%.
    Sometimes two people just click.
    That’s all I’m saying- and as long as everyone involved is a legal adult (and there is no power imbalance) I’m not too sure if I can be mad at that.

    • Lilacmaven says:

      The key difference: You were an adult when your relationship began.

      Aaron wasn’t.

      You had the ability, as an adult, to consent to a relationship with an older partner.

      Aaron didn’t. Aaron was a kid. He was not a “legal adult” when they got together. The fact that he is now doesn’t change the fact that his wife is a predator.

  7. Lucía says:

    I know he probably wishes people didn’t remember it but my favorite Aaron movie continues to be Angus, Thongs And Perfect Snogging, which is probably the only one he made before he met STJ. That’s all I’ve got. No, wait, actually there’s more: Why! Is he always!!! Smoldering!!!!!!