Cillian Murphy on moving his family back to Ireland: ‘We wanted the kids to be Irish’

Cillian Murphy covered a recent issue of Rolling Stone UK, mostly for some early promotion for Oppenheimer (where he plays the lead role), but he’s also promoting the Irish film industry. He’s a producer now and he was interviewed on the Irish set of Small Things Like These, a film about the Magdalene Laundries (you can read the Wiki page here). Cillian and his family lived in London for years, but as his kids started growing up (with English accents), he and his wife moved back to Ireland, where they live a mostly private and quiet life. In this piece, Murphy talks about Catholicism, Ireland, Christopher Nolan and everything else. It’s a great piece, honestly. Some highlights:

The story of the Magdalene Laundries. “Everyone in Ireland that you talk to, of a certain generation, more or less has a story. It’s just in Irish people. What happened with the church, I think we’re still kind of processing it. And art can be a balm for that, it can help with that.”

On Christopher Nolan: “I was a Chris Nolan fan. That’s how I was when I met him for the first time, because I’d watched Following, I’d watched Memento, I’d watched Insomnia. And I met him for Batman Begins, and I met him on the basis of being a fan. So, it feels absurd that I’ve been in six of his films.” At the height of his Peaky fame, Murphy took time to appear in Dunkirk in a cameo as a ‘shivering soldier’ with combat shock, a rather unshowy and minor role. As Murphy points out, “I’d always show up for Chris, even if it was walking in the background of his next movie holding a surfboard. Though… not sure what kind of Chris Nolan movie that would be. But I always hoped I could play a lead in a Chris Nolan movie. What actor wouldn’t want to do that?”

On the process of acting: “Joanne Woodward said acting is like sex: you should do it and not talk about it. And that’s why on set, with a good director, you rarely talk about the actual work. You talk around it, what you’re going to do next. I can do an immense amount of preparation, but then a lot of the action happens to you in real time. So, there is no value, really, in intellectualising anything.”

On Catholicism, religion in general: “My family wasn’t particularly religious, but I was taught by a religious order. The Irish school system was almost exclusively controlled by the Catholic Church, and still is to a large degree. And I went to church and got, you know, communion, confirmation and all of that. I have no problem with people having faith. But I don’t like it being imposed. When it’s imposed, it causes harm. That’s where I have an issue. So, I don’t want to go around bashing the good things about institutionalised religion, because there are some. But when it gets twisted and f–ked-up, like it did in our country, and imposed on a nation, that’s an issue.”

On brilliant scientists: “In Sunshine [Danny Boyle’s 2007 sci-fi movie], I played a physicist. I spent some time with [the physicist] Brian Cox, and he was a brilliant teacher. I’m never going to have the intellectual capability — not many of us do — but I loved listening. I enjoyed being around these insanely intelligent men and women and going for dinner to talk about normal sh-t… With that intellect — which I think can actually be a burden — you’re not seeing stuff in the normal plane that we do. Everything is multifaceted and about to collapse. It’d be a terrible way to buy milk or cut the grass, I’d say.”

Moving back to Ireland: “We had 14 years in London. But I feel like as you hit your late 30s and have kids, living in a major metropolis is less exciting. And then also, you know, we’re both Irish. We wanted the kids to be Irish. I think it’s the best decision we made. They’re really good boys. We have a laugh. We don’t do ‘Dad’s Movie Night’, but they like some of my films. They say all my films are really intense.”

On fame: “Fame evaporates with regularity. I’m around here all the time and no one gives a f–king sh-t. Nobody cares. I go to the shop. It dissipates. But if… one of the guys from Succession walked in here, I’d be all intimidated and shaky. When you’re confronted with someone you’ve invested a lot in, or you think is amazing, the encounter is strange…”

He doesn’t play the fame game: “I don’t really partake. I don’t go out. I’m just at home mostly, or with my friends, unless I have a film to promote. I don’t like being photographed by people. I find that offensive. If I was a woman, and it was a man photographing me…”

He’s fragile: “I’m totally fragile and insecure, like most actors. It’s putting your head over the emotional parapet. It’s f-ckin’ hard. It’s a vulnerable place to be.”

[From Rolling Stone UK]

This was honestly the most in-depth interview I’ve ever read with Murphy and he comes across so well. There are so many actors who talk out of both sides of their mouth when it comes to art vs commerce, fame vs privacy, but I genuinely believe that Murphy is just these quiet, slightly offbeat guy who does his work and doesn’t want to be bothered. I was reminded of Daniel Day Lewis halfway through this piece, only I think Cillian has a much healthier work-life balance and he can walk away from his work with more ease than DDL ever could. I also appreciate that he’s sh-t talking Catholicism, and specifically what monstrous things the Catholic Church did in Ireland.

Cover & IG courtesy of Rolling Stone UK.

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  1. Lovely says:

    What did the catholic church did? Was it like in Canada with the Natives? I’m ashamed to say that I don’t know a lot about Ireland’s history, besides the famine that drove them to emigrate. On topic, this is a very good interview!
    LE: I read the wiki link you provided! Such a horror show… it’s going to be a tough movie to watch. I cried watching the Native Indian scrnes from 1923, knowing that that was truly happening then…

    • MrsBanjo says:

      It was quite similar. And mass graves like what was found in the US and Canada were found in Ireland as well.

    • meli says:

      To promote education and awareness… in Canada we refer to Indigenous peoples as just that. There are some distinct groupings including First Nations, Metis and Inuit. But all together we refer to the original people of the land as Indigenous Peoples.
      Never “native”.

      That’s different in the US where Native American is used I believe (but my knowledge base is Canada).

      • Linder says:

        Good comment. You saved me from having to say it.

      • MicMack says:

        Even Native American can be a loaded term depending on the region. In the Northeastern US it was a political movement/gang that targeted Irish, Italians, and other majority Roman Catholic immigrants.

        I’ve always seen it left up to the preference of the person. Some like being referred to as their tribe, others go by AmerIndian or Native American etc. Thomas Jefferson had wanted to collectively refer to them as “First Americans”

      • Ameerah M says:

        We encourage the use of Indigenous People as well here in the US. “Native American” is an out dated term that I don’t see very much anymore here in the States.

    • MicMack says:

      It’s a very bad and good sort of story. Bad it was probably responsible for the initial invasion of Ireland by England, it nearly made the native language extinct, it made Ireland even more of a target of England by repeatedly trying to launch invasions by other catholic kingdoms from Irish soil, it kept native Irish impoverish, allowed sexual abuse of children and used unmarried women as slave labor, and contributed to Ireland being socially backwards for most of the twentieth century. On the other hand it participated in saving Ireland from genocide, at different points provided good education the British otherwise would not allow ethnic Irish to have, used Ireland as a repository of mankind’s knowledge following Rome’s collapse. If you look at the wide span of history and I’ve left a lot of stuff out, the bad outweighed the good

    • Suzy S says:

      It was horrible. Here’s an article about it from the History channel website.

      https://www.history.com/news/magdalene-laundry-ireland-asylum-abuse

      You can also read more at JUSTICE FOR MAGDALENES RESEARCH
      A RESOURCE FOR PEOPLE AFFECTED BY AND INTERESTED IN IRELAND’S MAGDALENE INSTITUTIONS

      http://jfmresearch.com/home/preserving-magdalene-history/about-the-magdalene-laundries/?fbclid=IwAR1munAwaL7mvFa5A_Lg5HhPH1lAOdHJze2DKrGqmI5mFa9RKKUyrOCHTX4

    • Josephine says:

      re: the famine, when I was in Ireland I did quite a few small tours and every single person said that while the famine was real, the biggest problem was the English taking the produce from Ireland for themselves and leaving the Irish starving. I had not heard that, having been raised elsewhere, but did some research. will just say that the Irish are fantastic people and the fact that northern ireland is still part of the UK is absolutely vile.

  2. Greeneyedgirl says:

    My great grandmothers cousin was sent to a laundry as a teen. She was never seen or heard from again. My great grandmother lost touch with that part of the family when her and her brother immigrated to NYC. If you want to watch a movie about the laundries I suggest “The Magdalene Sisters”. Acting is phenomenal and it really shows the horrors of what occurred.

    • Ciotog says:

      There’s also a good documentary on the Laundries, “Sex in a Cold Climate.”

      • BothSidesNow says:

        I thought that I was knowledgeable regarding the atrocities committed by the Catholic Church, as well as other religions sects, but the story of Magdalene Laundries is an entirely different beast.

        @ Ciotog, I appreciate the recommendation but I don’t know if I would have courage to watch in.

    • BothSidesNow says:

      I am immensely sorry that your GGM’s cousin fell victim to the laundry machinations. I cannot imagine the fear that your GGM witnessed and endured, though I am thankful the she and your GGU fled for the US.

      • Greeneyedgirl says:

        @Both…nobody really knows why she was sent away or if they did they never spoke about it. In those days a reason really wasn’t necessary it seems. I know my great grandmothers cousin who was sent away had a sister and brother, as far as I know they still live in Ireland as do their families. The laundries is a huge stain on the history of Ireland and the church

      • Ciotog says:

        The last Magdalene Laundry closed in 1996.

  3. Anne says:

    As someone who lives in Dublin I can confirm he acts like a non-famous person and just lives his life with family. It’s exactly as he says

    • Mia says:

      Yeah for real, I live on the south side and am in DL quite often and I’ve never even seen him. My colleagues who have say they only realized afterwards it was him because he’s so lowkey and chill. To be fair, even when Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds were in town there wasn’t much fanfare from what I remember, people here just seem chill around Hollywood personalities 😅.

  4. Digital Unicorn says:

    Even to this day the Catholic Church/Vatican refuses to take responsibility for what happened in those laundries to both the mothers and children – they literally SOLD babies that they forcibly removed from the mothers who actually wanted to keep the children. Then there are the mass graves, where they literally dumped the dead babies many of whom they let die after being neglected.

    But as always the Catholic Church gets away with it.

    • Brassy Rebel says:

      I thought he went kinda easy on the Catholic Church. I’m part Irish and a recovering Catholic. But I would think twice about moving to Ireland with young kids. The Church retains enormous power there. He acknowledges as much.

      • ElleE says:

        Ireland legalized same sex marriage years before the United States did and abortion is 100% legal there so there’s that.

    • BothSidesNow says:

      @ DG, they have been a blight upon the world throughput history and they still are committing horrific atrocities and crimes to this day!!! The centuries of their horrific actions, encouraged and supported, has NO place in today’s society and still turns a blind eye whilst still committing crimes. The entire Catholic Church should be condemned and wiped from its very existence as they still refuse investigate, change OR create a restitution for all of the victims that they preyed upon.

      Kaiser, fabulous post, thank you!!

      • JBWX says:

        I’m not going to defend the Catholic Church. I too believe it has a lot to answer for. However, there are Christians who still don’t believe that Catholics are “ real” Christians. Who believe Catholics practice idolatry because of Mary. Anti Catholic bias is still around; your comment reeks of it. Your comment is offensive.

  5. Harla A Brazen Hussy says:

    Cillian Murphy has long fascinated me, he is so beautiful but there’s something “off” or a bit menacing about his features, I can’t quite put my finger on it. Yet, he has this ability to meld into the character he’s playing and his “beauty” almost disappears, not completely but it seems to fade into the background.

    • Hereforthegossip says:

      Agreed! He is eerily beautiful and slightly frightening, it’s the dead eye stare he has with those intense blue eyes.

    • Linder says:

      Personally, I have always found his face extremely off-putting. His haircut on Peaky Blinders did him no favors, either. Great show, though.

      • Mashedpotatoes says:

        I think his face gives him amazing leeway to play the villain (Red Eye, Batman etc) or the good guy and whatever else is in between on the spectrum. And then his talent lets him do everything anyway. And I don’t even know who his wife is or know what his kids look like.

    • Mtl.Ex.Pat says:

      He was amazing in 28 Days Later…

    • Yup, Me says:

      He looks like what I would imagine many faeries look like – striking features, simultaneously drawing you in and disturbing and repelling you.

      • Nicky says:

        That is exactly how I always thought of him. It’s like he’s stepped right out of the summer court, or at least descended from fae.

    • Lightpurple says:

      Former Celebitchy poster Sixer described him as “alien beauty.” It fits.

      • BrooklynBookWorm says:

        I miss Sixer. Alien beauty, indeed.

      • Vernie says:

        Aw, I also miss Sixer. And Abbot and LAK and Good Names All Taken and so many others who have graced us with their thoughtful comments over the years. 💔

  6. SarahCS says:

    I’m English and no direct magdalene laundry stories but my boyfriend is Irish and he and his sister were adopted from the nuns (different birth parents) after his mother had a series of miscarriages following the birth their first son. This is 1979 and 1984, not ancient history and while my boyfriend never responded to attempts by his birth mother to contact him, his sister has met hers and it’s the classic young, unmarried woman, forced to give her child away. His sister seems to have had a great life and his parents were wonderful to all three kids but there’s a sadness I feel when I think about what Irish society, driven by the church, forced so many people to go through. One of my mum’s close friends growing up was an Irish woman who had come to the UK when she was 19 and pregnant as she refused to give her (biracial – to add to the pressure put on her at home) baby up so she had him and raised him here.

  7. Kirsten says:

    He’s such an interesting actor and this was a great interview.

  8. Nicegirl says:

    💕 🍀 🔥

  9. TIFFANY says:

    I am always down for a Cillian Murphy story, so honk on that end.

    I’m pretty sure there are gonna be more by the end of the year because I just don’t see how he is not gonna have a Oscar run.

    • BothSidesNown says:

      @ Ditto 🔉🔉!!! Murphy is an exceptional actor whose choices have served him well and he is an exceptionally gifted actor. I still remember his role in Dunkirk which was telling of HS brilliance! I do hope that their move to Ireland is everything that they could have asked for and more!!

  10. HeyKay says:

    Cillian Murphy is a terrific actor.
    Peaky Blinders was outstanding, entire cast was excellent.
    Oppenheimer will be a very well made, quality movie but, for me, I have no interest in seeing it.
    Dark subject is too much.
    Real life has been more difficult and dark on a daily basis since before lockdown.

  11. HeyKay says:

    I went to read the entire interview. Interesting.
    I was raised Roman Catholic, entire family attended Catholic schools, (US) mass, generations of my family, etc.
    Not one of us attends or follows the Catholic religion any longer, nor our children or grandchildren. The sins of the church are many, vile and continue.
    Bring the truth forward. That is why it is so important to tell the history, inform people so they can make their own decisions.

  12. Chantale says:

    I love this man, as a very intersting human being, as an actor and his emotional intellect. I saw him twice on the stage, freaking AMAZING! Totally underrated, beatiful inside and out, It seems.

  13. Twin Falls says:

    The Catholic Church has so much to answer for.

    I haven’t seen Peaky Blinders but sounds like I need to.

    • Lightpurple says:

      Brilliant acting from Cillian and the late great Helen McCrory. Lots of other well known actors like Sam Neill, Anya-Taylor Joy, Adrian Brody, Tom Hardy, Aidan Gillen, Sam Claflin flit through. The season’s are short so it is easy to binge. It is incredibly violent so brace yourself for that.

  14. Jules says:

    Small Things Like These is a lovely book. Almost a novella and a quick read. I loved it.

  15. K says:

    He is so striking. I have always been fascinated by him and how thoughtful he is.

    • HeyKay says:

      Peaky Blinders, seriously excellent show.
      If Breaking Bad was #1. Excellent writing, cast, buy the DVds, repeat watch.
      Peaky Blinders is #2. Excellent. Cillian is mesmerizing as Tommy Shelby.
      If you have not seen it, please do. Netflix has all 6 series available.
      It is violent, well plotted, with a cast of actors who each could hold the screen and the story. I worn ya, turn on the cc, and enjoy.
      IMO, S1 with Annabell Wallis and Sam Neil is slow. AW is a beautiful woman and a terrible, talentless actress, IMO.
      Tom Hardy as Alfie, Joe Cole as John Shelby, Paul Anderson as Arthur Shelby and Helen as Aunt Polly will all hold your interest and at times break your heart.
      Supporting cast is equally great.
      The Shelby family and their stories, Emmy winning talent. They were robbed.

      • AnneL says:

        Totally agree about S1 with AW. Her character annoyed me and she could never act as well as the people around her. I wouldn’t say she is totally talentless actress, though. I saw her in that TV movie about Roger Ailes with Russell Crowe and she was pretty good in a small role.

        Peaky Blinders was a fantastic show.

  16. Brin says:

    A good (true story) is Philomena. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x6ToSr_LSKU

    • ME says:

      This is a great movie. I recommend it too.

    • AnneL says:

      I was going to suggest this. It’s a personal story about one women but it pretty much tells you what went on in the Magdalene Laundries. Very moving film.

    • Mimic says:

      Another really good movie (from the 1990s or early aughts) is The Magdalene Sisters.

  17. Isa says:

    Honking for Cillian bc he kind of reminds me of my husband.

  18. Jess says:

    Most actors don’t have a high level of fame to the point where they are treated differently or given a lot of special privileges.

    I know who he is but I wouldn’t care if I saw him in person. There’s no reason why he shouldn’t be able to live a quiet life in Ireland.