What’s going on with Cate Blanchett & Andrew Upton’s 26-year marriage?

People tend to forget this, but in 2016-2017, there were some rumors about Cate Blanchett’s marriage to Andrew Upton. The tabloids got photos of Upton looking very cozy with a 27-year-old, and there were some quieter rumors that Cate and Andrew’s marriage was on the rocks, or that they lived separate lives. Cate never addressed the rumors directly and she and Andrew were seen together in the years since then, but people have just realized that it’s been a while since anyone heard about their marriage or saw them together.

Cate Blanchett has left fans puzzled after stepping out at the 2024 BAFTA Film Awards without her wedding ring on Sunday night. The Australian actress, 54, who has been married to playwright Andrew Upton, 58, since 1997, stunned at the British film industry event in a maroon Louis Vuitton gown and striking body chain combo. However, rather than wearing her white gold and diamond wedding sparkler, the Blue Jasmine star sported a large emerald cocktail ring. Her husband didn’t attend the event.

Curiously, Cate was also spotted ring-free earlier this month, when she attended an event in New York at the Museum of Modern Art on February 6th. Joined by Sophie’s Choice co-star Ethan Hawke, Cate oozed sophistication in a gradient-print grey pantsuit and lariat necklace. Cate made no attempt at hiding her bare wedding finger as she smiled for photos outside the exclusive event. In October 2023, Cate was once again seen without her wedding ring as she sat front row at the Stella McCartney runway show during Paris Fashion Week. Instead the thespian wore a set of elegant gold bands on her wedding finger.

Speaking to Woman’s Day magazine on Monday, a source close to the couple said Cate’s missing ring has sent off alarm bells about the status of her marriage.

‘Seeing Cate without her ring has sent shockwaves through their friends. For the first time they’re wondering if things aren’t so rosy,’ the insider claimed. A question mark has been hanging over Cate and Andrew’s marriage for some time now. The couple also haven’t been seen out on a date since August, when they were photographed enjoying a sun-drenched holiday in Ibiza.

They also raised eyebrows earlier this month after putting their sprawling mansion in Prahran, Melbourne, on the market. The three-bedroom family home, which the couple purchased in 2006, is set to be sold at auction with a price guide of $2.25million – $2.45million. Cate and Andrew have been living in the UK since 2015 and still own several other properties together. Their portfolio includes a glorious Victorian mansion in East Sussex, England, which they bought for £4.9 million (AU$9.4million) in 2015. The couple also own an investment property in Sydney’s CBD.

Cate and Andrew share three sons, Dashiell, 22, Roman, 19, and Ignatius, 16, and a daughter named Edith, eight.

[From The Daily Mail]

Every interview I’ve read with Cate in recent years – especially when she was promoting Tar – it sounded like she and Andrew had been Britain-based for a while. I guess that’s the “Victorian mansion in East Sussex,” where they have some kind of larger estate and Cate is always tooling around in the garden. Given her increasingly cozy relationship with the Windsors – sitting with Prince William at the BAFTAs and being a celeb ambassador for Earthshot – I would assume that she’s committed to spending more time in England in the future. I always assumed Andrew was okay with that, especially after they spent so much time in Oz, nurturing the Australian theater community. I don’t know. They’ve been together for 26 years, and I kind of hate Ring Watch. Who even knows.

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  1. Kath says:

    Cate’s coziness with Prince William is weird – and disappointing – for a left-leaning Australian Gen Xer. But then, she’s disappointed me a lot in recent years.

    • Jilly says:

      Maybe this is Meryl Streep thing. They’ve actually been separated for years but haven’t needed to comment.

    • terra says:

      Yes. It’s the Woody Allen of it all, in particular for me. She likes problematic men, it seems. Time for her to make another movie with Brad Pitt, I guess.

      • Kristen from MA says:

        Also, her son Roman is supposedly named after noted child r@pist Polanski. 🤢

      • terra says:

        @Kristen, of course. And I just learned below that she voiced support for her agent whose husband was found with CSA.

        Why are so many talented people absolutely awful? Way to be sustainable fashion-wise, Cate, but maybe start caring about children.

  2. Pinkosaurus says:

    I thought she was great until she worked with and defended Woody Allen long after his terrible behavior was known. She may be a good actress picking interesting projects but I’m not going to watch.

  3. Possum magic says:

    I used to love cate years ago. Not for a long time. They’ve also put another of their Australian properties on the market. They may well be separated in all but name.

  4. Mooney says:

    Well looks like wails is single too so he can also fulfil his fantasy of a glamorous actress wife who’s not in the danger of being “too American”.

    • North of Boston says:

      Yeah this piece on the heels of W appearing without MIA-Middleton combined with the press push of the hot single dad PoW charming the ladies-image? (He may be PoW and he may be a father, but the rest is all delusional Royal Fan Fiction… the likes of which if I saw that immature disconnected from reality and understanding how humans human back in the day on Tumblr I would have hit Unfollow in a hot second)

      Is someone trying to make this happen or get people to think it could be a thing? Gross!

      (I also have never once before given any thought to her personal life)

  5. Eurydice says:

    This makes me realize I’ve never once thought about Cate’s personal life.

  6. Raven says:

    I remember back I’m 2014/2015, Cate Australian fans called her out for showing support for her Australian agent, whose husband was convinced of child molestation. Her agent attacked his victims ( teenage girls ) called horrible things and blamed them for what her husband did.

    After that, i can’t unsee that Cate just has allegiance to some horrible men and those who support them.

    • Ponsby says:

      Wow! I had no idea. ):

    • AlpineWitch says:

      She showed her true colours a long te ago, including friendship with Woody Allen and support of Roman Polanski.

      They might have been separated for the last 7-8 years, given that he publicly cheated on her. This has shades of Natalie Portman and her (ex?) husband….

  7. TIFFANY says:

    The math of their youngest arriving totally matches with those photos of Andrew and the 24 year old from 2017. I wonder if Cate was finally gonna walk and Andrew knew they were better together than apart for his career. And Cate wanted a daughter so they went through the process of adopting because that announcement came out of nowhere as The Uptons never announced Cate’s other pregnancies unless she was asked in a interview.

  8. phlyfiremama says:

    I mean, does every celebrity HAVE to publicly state that their marriage is over?? Nobody is ENTITLED to that information, after all. 🤷

    • Over It says:

      Thank you. When did the construct of fame entitle the public to every detail of celebrities’ personal lives.

  9. JanetDR says:

    A much bigger question for me is what on earth is going on with her cheekbones in that photo? (the one you click on to get here)
    Inserts? Injections? Hopefully it settles and looks normal or it was just that particular angle that highlighted it.

  10. cws says:

    In that photo of willie and cate, he has his mouth open, is that a cavity filled in on a front tooth? It’s blsck

  11. Mee says:

    I’m not sure if ring watch is the best gauge for Cate. I’ve seen her in plenty of interviews over the years and she’s sans wedding ring.
    Yikes on the agent’s husband attacking teenagers!!!