Dakota Fanning: ‘Having kids is probably more important to me than anything’

Dakota Fanning is the female lead in Netflix’s Ripley, a miniseries adaptation of Patricia Highsmith’s The Talented Mr. Ripley. Of course, that was already adapted in a 1999 film starring Matt Damon, Jude Law, Phillip Seymour Hoffman and Gwyneth Paltrow. Dakota plays the Gwyneth role, Marge, and Andrew Scott plays Tom Ripley in what appears to be a captivating performance. If I’m being honest, it sometimes feels like Dakota’s little sister Elle sort of eclipsed her at some point and nowadays, Elle is getting all of the big scripts and important roles. But Dakota works consistently and I’m interested in seeing what she does in this series. Dakota covers the latest issue of Porter, and here are some highlights:

Her big, blowout 30th-birthday party. “I’ve never had a party like it. I’ve had dinners, but this was… a party,” laughs Fanning, who took over the whole of hip Beverly Hills restaurant La Dolce Vita, hired an ice sculpture of legs “for fun”, and wore a red satin corseted Dolce&Gabbana dress. “I was destroyed on Saturday – from the biggest hangover I’ve had in years. But I was icing my head with a huge smile. The past few days, I have felt so light.”

Her 20s were not great: “I wouldn’t say I’m not a happy person, but I do think the late twenties f–k with you. I feel happier and more conscious of what I have, rather than what I don’t have. I know who I am, and the people who know me know who I am, and that’s really all that matters. But there is something about saying that at 30 that feels different to saying it at 28.”

Her 20-year-plus career: “I still have these check-ins with myself to make sure I’m enjoying it. If you can still find the light in moments that are tough, then you’re still enjoying it!”

Filming in Italy for nearly a year at the tailend of the pandemic: “I like being alone and I don’t mind getting acclimated to a place, but I felt really lonely in a specific way. I felt like I was trapped. I’m sure other people can relate… It wasn’t a unique experience, but I definitely went through a rollercoaster on this.” Having seen the results – the finished eight-part, black-and-white series – she has no regrets now. “I feel very rewarded and satisfied having seen the show; it all feels worth it. It’s so different to anything I’ve ever been in.”

On Andrew Scott: “I always hoped our paths would cross. He is so wickedly funny, warm and kind. He’s just a good person. And stunning, obviously. I worship him after working with him.”

She avoided the book & avoided talking to the 1999 film actors: Fanning deliberately steered clear of the 1955 book (“what you’re trying to achieve is what you’ve been given, which is, ultimately, the script”), and she, Scott and Johnny Flynn (who plays her partner Dickie) made a pact to have no contact with anyone who had played versions of their characters. “I was blissfully trying to not think about Gwyneth and her extraordinary beauty and grace!” laughs Fanning of the original, which became known as a stylish cinematic moment. “I’m a huge fan of the film, but it’s so different, I hesitate to even talk about it.”

On wanting children: “Being an actor is a huge part of my identity. I don’t really know who I would be without it. But I also have a desire to set up my life and career so that I always have a choice. Having kids is probably more important to me than anything, even being an actor. If somebody said I had to choose, I would choose having kids. I’m one of those people who has always felt that pull. I don’t know how I’ll feel when that time in my life comes – and how much I’ll want to work. But, because I don’t have that at the moment, I’m trying to take advantage of the adventures now. I’m trying to push myself to keep saying yes to things that make me uncomfortable, to keep going to places for long periods of time that maybe I’m scared to do because – God willing – one day, it won’t be as easy.”

[From Porter]

I love that she threw herself a huge birthday party and really got ripped and started her 30s with a bang. Good for her. Over the years, I’ve noticed that trend among Millennial and older Gen Z women – their 20s always f–king suck. Like, they’re just weighed down with emotional baggage, sh-tty relationships, self-doubt and neuroses, and then they enter their 30s and it’s like they leave all of it behind. It’s a weird little sub-phenomenon, and I’m not saying it’s universal, but a lot of women (famous and unfamous) have described it that way.

As for the film versus the series… my first thought, months ago, was “why does this need another adaptation?” But Andrew Scott is the reason why it needed to be adapted again, because we need to see him as Tom Ripley. But I can’t imagine trying to “redo” one of Gwyneth’s most iconic roles, frankly. Like, I think Gwyneth is an a–hole, but she killed it in Ripley, it was one of her best roles.

Photos courtesy of Avalon Red, cover courtesy of Porter/net-a-porter.

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  1. Concern Fae says:

    Looking forward to watching. The main complaint I’ve heard from fellow Highsmith heads is that why are they adapting Talented Mr Ripley again. The story is about young people and Andrew Scott is nearly 50. There is a whole series of excellent Ripley books, you could choose another and give everyone a brand new experience. But it’s an origin story and remakes are easier to market, I suppose.

    • Kirsten says:

      I was SHOCKED when you said that Scott is nearly 50 and immediately went to look it up because I thought he was in his late 30s. I still kind of can’t believe it’s true — he looks so much younger!

  2. LooneyTunes says:

    She has always been incredibly talented. Raw talent, as opposed to the girlish innocence of Elle.

    • Lux says:

      I actually disagree. I’ve seen quite a few films of Dakota’s and she is very sullen/one-note to me (Runaways, OUATIH). Her early/childhood work was her best.

      I watched the first episode of Ripley and found it to be truer to the book. It showed Tom as the criminal that he is, rather than some talented but working class young man. I LOVED the 90s version and found this one a little grim/more lacking in 50s glamor. Maybe it’ll grow on me because while I’m intrigued, I’m aching to rewatch the original!

  3. paintybox says:

    The series gets my vote for artistic perfection all across the board. It better win all the Emmys. It’s not just Andrew Scott, it’s the director, the cinematographer, the sets, all the actors, the editing, etc. It’s a depressing, awful story but this version is an absolute masterpiece, without ruining previous versions. It doesn’t compete, it’s very different. I had to look up the cast, Dakota looked familiar but I was thrown off and didn’t recognize her! It was a great choice to not use Gwyneth’s (great) performance as inspiration.

  4. Ariel says:

    I love that this generation seems to often have clarity, giving voice to their feelings, what they’ve been through.

    I think looking back at your 20s as trash is common, but I recall it being a surprise.

    I had great fun in my 20s, but oh yes all the baggage and pain- some self inflicted.
    And just feeling lighter and more sure of who I was in my 30s. While also having more fun than allowed by law in the 2nd half of that run.

    And then I was even happier in my 40s.
    We’ll see what the 50s brings.

    But back to Ma Fanning- she seems to have a great head on her shoulders and she’s made me want to watch the series.

    I haven’t seen the movie in ages.
    Jude Law was ridiculously beautiful in that movie.

  5. Normades says:

    Goop was ok playing the bougie it girl (not a stretch) but honestly I think Matt Damon was miscast and out of his league. Jude was great and could have played the other role. Otherwise there is only one great adaptation, the French version Plein Soleil

    • Kirsten says:

      Matt Damon is honestly not that great of an actor. I think he has some good roles — he was good in The Departed — but is mostly just OK.

      Jude Law is incredible and can do anything.

    • manta says:

      Delon was absolutely magnetic in Plein Soleil. Matt Damon never approached this combo of handsomeness and danger. And Marie Laforêt had something more unique than Paltrow.

  6. Ilsa says:

    I have not the words to express how much I hate that cover photo.

    • Trillion says:

      Same! I can’t believe a panel of people thought that was OK to put on the cover. She looks like she’s peeing into a urine cup that she’s holding under her dress with her right hand.

      • Moxiemiam says:

        @Ilsa and @Trillion – THANK YOU! My reaction was a few somebodies should be fired for that cover. They did her dirty.

    • North of Boston says:

      I am so relieved that it’s not just me who hates it.

  7. BlueSky says:

    I have watched the first two episodes and agree it’s an entirely different production than the Gywneth/Jude/Matt version…can we talk more about Johnny Flynn though!?! He’s so beautiful and underutilized as an actor, which may be purposeful on his part but I find him immensely likeable!

    • East Villager says:

      He’s been on the brink of stardom for so long! Pretty well known as a musician. I hope Ripley is his big break. He’s awesome.

      • Bluesky says:

        Hopefully this will do the trick, his music is also delightful but as an actor he brings range without super imposing himself on characters. He’s also very mild mannered and genuine, yet still entertaining when on promotional circuits. I feel like the world needs more Johnny Flynn!

  8. therese says:

    Some time back, I read an article that was not very complimentary about Gwyneth, both she and her acting skills, and I thought, wait just a minute. I’m not so fond of her now, but she was great in Ripley, and I also really liked her in A Perfect Murder.