As I said in an earlier post, I started my morning by watching the Mindy Kaling episode of With Love, Meghan. I will try to finish WLM later today, and if I don’t finish it tonight, I will definitely get through it tomorrow. This is the kind of programming I love, but it’s been a busy few days because of the Oscars. Plus, WLM isn’t like the H&M Netflix series, which contained new information and some controversies – WLM is supposed to be a chill, relaxing show. Stop treating it like a sprint to the finish! Anyway, People Magazine did a comprehensive breakdown of some “news/gossip” we’re getting in the series, and some of this is cool. Some highlights:
The Sussex surname: In the second episode, Meghan welcomes Mindy Kaling as they talk about kids’ parties, but the talk turns to their own childhoods. “People wouldn’t believe that Meghan Markle ate at Jack in the Box,” Kaling says at one point, prompting Meghan to point out: “It’s so funny, too, that you keep saying Meghan Markle. You know I’m Sussex now. You have kids and you go, ‘No, I share my name with my children. I didn’t know how meaningful that would be to me, but it just means so much to go, this is our family name, our little family name.”
Meghan explained her fashion philosophy to Mindy Kaling: Meghan explains that she likes “high-low,” revealing she was wearing pants from Zara, a shirt by Italian luxury brand Loro Piana and a sweater from California designer Jenni Kayne. “Really cute,” Kaling praises.
Bonding with Mindy over starring in a long-running series: “One thing that you and I have in common is we were both on TV shows for a long time,” Mindy says. Meghan confirms Suits ran for seven years, just shy of The Office’s eight. “I’m on a series! This is all I want,” Meghan recalls. Mindy adds, “Health insurance, steady paycheck.” “Yes, consistency,” Meghan agrees.
Moving to Toronto for Suits: Meghan admits, “Okay, one season in Toronto — amazing. Two seasons — okay, is my life gonna be in this other place now?” But she embraced it: “Thankfully, I love Canada. And I always tried to invite the cast over or people I’d meet at the dog park — neighbors. I love making friends.”
Meghan wasn’t surprised by the resurgence in love for Suits: “I’m not surprised that people are rediscovering Suits because it was so well written and so well produced,” she says. “It’s a time capsule for me — I still have the pencil skirt from the first episode! That’s the one thing I kept.”
Making breakfast for her fam: “I wake up every morning and take a lot of pride in making breakfast for my family,” Meghan says. “Mornings are fast. Gotta get the kids to school. I find when I’m cooking bacon, my kitchen very immediately becomes full of husband and three dogs. It’s not my perfume that’s bringing them all in it,” she adds before singing, “My bacon brings all the boys to the yard,” to the tune of Kelis’ hit song “Milkshake.”
She once worked the coat check of a Chicago bar before they encouraged her to try waitressing. “The guy, it was really loud and he’s like, ‘Hey, can I get a [indistinct] martini?’ and I was like, ‘I don’t know what he’s saying.’ I was like, ‘I think he’s from Texas, and he asked me for a Cowboy Run martini,’ and they were like, ‘We don’t have that.’ So I went back and I was like, ‘We don’t have that.’ And he’s like,’ What? you don’t have a Ketel One martini?’ And I was like, ‘I don’t know.’ And they’re like, ‘Let’s have you go back to being a coat check girl.’”
Who got the #1 jar of ARO jam: On social media, many wondered who received the coveted No. 1 — and on With Love, Meghan, the answer was unveiled to be her mother, Doria Ragland. “People took it very personally, the hierarchy,” Meghan says on the series, adding, “Anyone who got them, I hope they felt like I wanted to share this with you.”
She relaxes by arranging flowers: “I learned a lot of this when I was pregnant with my son, Archie. My girlfriends threw a baby shower for me, and one of the things we did was learn flower arranging. I started to find this really calming and meditative, so when I have a little bit of time at the end of the day, I do this. I have a glass of wine and just enjoy it,” she says, adding that music is always part of the experience. “I listen to a lot of ‘70s soft rock and a lot of yacht rock and a lot of soul. and then also French dinner party music.”
Learning mahjong with Tracy Robbins, Victoria Jackson & Jennifer Rudolph Walsh: “My girlfriends are coming over, we have all started to learn mahjong together in the past few months…We play a version called American mahjong. What I’ve come to really love about mahjong is that the game itself is really fun, but what was so great was the idea of learning something new with your friends, together. And then recognizing that mahjong becomes the background of the expansion of friendship. It’s the feeling of community. It’s become special for all of us. We’re all at such different chapters in our lives. It’s amazing that it’s just as meaningful for me as it is for Victoria or Tracy or Jennifer. We all really like it.”
Food & motherhood: “Even before I was a mom, I loved being able to nurture in that way. Some of my favorite childhood moments are the meals that my mom would make. She’d make a lot of soul food. I remember she’d taken a Thai cooking class, so every week we had Thai BBQ chicken and spring rolls. I remember those flavors so well, and I want my kids to have those same formative memories of things that I cook. We call them Mama Meals, and those are the ones that I hope they come back to when they’re older, when they’re married, and they have their own kids, and they go, ‘Oh, let’s have a Mama Meal.’ And it’s the same roast chicken I’ve been making since they were little.”
I can’t believe she was talking about listening to “yacht rock” while arranging flowers! What a life. Anyway, Meghan is a nurturer and she has a lot of patience to really entertain, hostess and make things pretty. I don’t have that same patience, but I’ve always loved watching someone with a pleasant voice just cook and entertain this way. Oh, and of course Doria got the #1 ARO jam! People were really creating too many conspiracies about the jam.
Photos courtesy of Netflix.
Hey, no criticising the yacht rock! The Doobie Brothers, some Bill Withers and ofc Jimmy Buffett… It’s my relaxing weekend jam!
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I just finished watching WLM. I loved it. So many ideas I have to watch it again for my cooking. Meghan is such a domestic goddess. Harry has really got a creme de la creme of a wife. Lucky guy!
I haven’t started watching WLM yet, but love the 70s soft rock revelation. The world is going to see more of Meghan’s sense of humor in this series. We got a glimpse of it in that Ellen episode. Now I’m going to put on Ventura Highway and get back to work.
I love her music choices. Like on the episode with Nachos wife the beginning music is “ don’t fence me in” and then a little further in to the episode they are singing “ I’m coming home to where I belong.” I think our Meg is doing just a wee bit of trolling lol.
I love the music choices and l wish they would release an album compilation of the music used in the first Netflix series.
Wait…I just realized…
As Ever…asever…A Sever?!?? Get it??
Yes, I am a marijuana user!
LMAO…lololol
LMAO! I didn’t get this until just now when you posted this comment. I read it as “A server” and thought that was like an assigned domain like “here’s your server, it’s just ‘a server'” and I was like “wonder if they’ll rename the a server website as ever…tra lala” and I am NOT high so…
Her life looks beautiful, it makes me want to do better even if it is just a simple dinner at home alone. I am so happy for her, this is a life she fought hard to have. I wish her nothing but success and many seasons of With Love, Meghan.. and I from now on will refer to her as Meghan Sussex.
I know. I made a scrambled egg this morning and I thought why don’t I put a bit of cheese and some dill in it. And instead of scarfing it out of the pan, I put on a nice dish with sourdough toast and some jam I found at the back of my pantry. I also found a nice wooden tray I haven’t used for years. Now I need a little vase for a flower.
It does make you feel better, it’s like taking a small pause or deep breath from the chaos. We all can benefit from that.
That sounds delicious and not too complicated. That’s what I appreciated most about what I’ve seen so far, it’s really just been add this herb, arrange it on a plate like this, put it in a nice container. Nothing too expensive, time consuming or complicated, but still made it feel a little nicer.
It’s funny you say that, I’m on E3 and yes, it’s already got me thinking about how I can do some nicer things around the house and in my life.
I also very much want to try the tomato pasta from E1. And the cake from E1. Oh the cake.
This is delightfully calming tv.
Oh and the ladybird (bug!) toasts were delightful.
My father loved to bake. We once made a cake together with fresh raspberries and homemade lemon curd as the filling. I can’t wait to recreate that with Meghan’s “pretty on the inside” technique!
I haven’t commented on anything Sussex in a while because while I’m a supporter, it’s been all non-news (aside from Invictus). BUT I am loving this!!!! Meghan is a natural teacher and so patient with her friends, many of whom you know are doing it for her and actually learning something in the process. She really goes out of her way and I like her anecdotes about her latchkey childhood and relatable things that goop or Martha Stewart can’t touch. She was meant to do this! The episodes go super fast and I enjoyed making dinner for my family tonight as a result. It’s pretty on the eyes and just…nice.
I’m loving this series. its incredibly grounding in the way that they are settled,picking things from their garden to cook with, prepping the bread then going on a hike, coming back drinking suntea with lavender towels, its all so idyllic and dreamy, very far away from what i think royal life is.
I am loving every minute of this show as well. It is so homey, so natural, so Meghan.
She is for sure a nurturer!! I used to love putting together dinner parties for friends but not to the extent of flowers being arranged and picking just the right dinnerware. I just enjoyed cooking and serving good food. Have gotten away from that in the last few years not sure why but maybe after watching her show I might start big cooking again lol.
We have the EXACT same musical taste❣️ When I’m cooking/cleaning…it’s ALWAYS old R&B & 70s soft rock (Nicolet Larson/Eagles) & Yacht Rock…those genres of 🎶 are like AIR to me! When I ran corporate meetings & events…I ALWAYS had my French Cafe Spotify station on a loop❣️ I figured Mama Doria got the #1 Jar!
I’m loving the show. It’s so well done and it’s not intimidating at all.
I’m appreciating all the details we’re getting even though I haven’t watched it yet. I can’t wait!!! The Ketel One vodka story made me laugh. I had a similar experience when I worked at a restaurant/bar in Athens, GA, the Globe. Years and years and years ago. Anyways, I really didn’t know my drinks and during a busy happy hour a guy and his gf asked for a drink that needed a special glass. I had no idea and they very kindly walked me through it. Once they left, my coworkers were freaking out bc it was one of the members REM, not Stipe, maybe Mills or Buck. I was def to frazzled to notice. A very Athens story.
I was so glad to google and see Victoria Jackson is not the MAGA trash Victoria Jackson (SNL).
Overwhelmed with work right now and can’t wait to take a breather and watch this series…
Oh, thank God for you @HeatherC for doing that because I was also puzzled at her having this (let’s face it) crazy person in her inner circle.
Same. I was thinking I can’t watch. It should have a disclaimer, like, “*not that one.”
Oh, thanks for looking that up. My first reaction hearing the name was I couldn’t believe Meghan could actually be friends with that awful woman!
I fell asleep early last night, but woke up a little past midnight. Even in my sleep fogged mind it registered: it’s the 4th! I put on Netflix and put on WLM, and saw the episode with Daniel Martin. It was so relaxing…. have to confess though I only got through 1/2 of Mindy’s episode before my bed lulled me back lol. But I loved watching it. Nothing looked THAT HARD, it’s stuff I could actually try to do.
As the family nurturer myself, I want to take her tips to nurture *myself* as well. Now, I’m off for my morning coffee, and in a little while, I’m going to enjoy some avocado toast, with a nicely made fruit plate, and settle in to watch some more. I have a feeling that during subsequent viewings I’m going to start taking notes! lol
I love that she is happy and carefree with her family in California. Suck on it Salty Island and your horrible Windors!
I already watched the whole show and started again ahahah. It’s so cozy and warm and beautiful and yummy. It feels like a nice slumber party with friends. I already want to do all the recipes and have thousand ideas for hostessing.
I wanted to buy all the kitchen utensils but I’m waiting to see what’s on “as ever”. Can’t wait for the launch!
It made me remember that I need some really good sharp kitchen knives.
I was happy to hear her confirm that she goes by Meghan Sussex and I will use that whenever necessary!
Cue to the paid interviews of Thomas and Samantha whining that no jam has been send to THEM !
@Lau I wonder whether Thomas has any genuine regrets about losing Meghan when he watches this show? He could have had “his’ own room with Meghan on long visits and been loved, respected and trusted. Meg’s mom has been loyal, loving and protective of her, Harry and her grandchildren. Why did Thomas betray his own daughter for tabloid cash? Did he yearn for the limelight himself? Did he feel Meghan”owed” him and determined if she didn’t settle a generous allowance on him, then he’d revenge himself by selling her out for cash? Did he expect her to forgive him without an apology and explanation in May 2018 after he embarrassed her on a world wide scale. He stopped taking her calls days before her wedding to sell updates to TMZ. Pretended to have a heat attack then didn’t contact Meghan to make amends? He waits for HER to contact him and then starts giving bashing interviews to UK press both in print and TV. She wrote him a heart felt 5 page letter and instead of reflection and regret he responded with a request for a photo op with Meghan and Harry?? Seven years on, does he really have no regrets ? Yes he keeps giving whining interviews but has he ever written to apologise privately?
Folks like her Father don’t have regrets as they’re professional victims & would bet a trillion dollars that what her trifling 🤬 Father did wasn’t the FIRST time he had betrayed her…it was just on a BIGGER SCALE! Her Father reminds me of mines….unfortunately…betrayed me until I was 40 & I did what Meghan did…💔
And he betrayed her because he was being used to “stop the wedding.” And he realized it but felt he was “justified” in doing this and it was Her Fault. He could have said no I will go to the wedding and support her. Instead he went for the “fame” if one can call it that and money. He blamed her for it not himself since bad fathers have no conscience and cast blame on the children.
I think he has a problem with ‘drink’ and that combined with a weak personality makes people do make wrong choices and become susceptible to bad influences. Deep down l don’t think he’s a very bad person.
@Lady Digby, Thomas Markle seems to be the kind of person who can only be sorry about himself and is incapable of seeing that he has and is still hurting his own child. He’s a bully so no, I don’t think he feels sorry about any of it.
I avoid anything political these days. I just get too wound up and upset. It’s affected our family and I need help to stay calm. This is exactly what I need and I’ll bet many others will feel the same, an oasis of calm.
I can’t wait for work to be done so I can watch this show!
I love to arrange flowers, too, so I’m eager to see what she does. And she’s right — it’s very satisfying and calming.
Cannot help my germaphobe response: All that long hair in the kitchen? No. Just NO.
You cannot help a lot of negative thoughts about Meghan.
It was pulled back in the episode I saw? A little over the shoulder though yes. But pulled back.
So I assume you wear a hairnet for all your at home cooking because even short hair sheds.. even tied back my kids will tell you hair happens and at least with long hair you see it before you chew it🤷🏼♀️.. she was cooking with the friends she was sharing the food with, not in a cafeteria or restaurant working with the public her hair was fine imo.
lol!
I dig a petty duchess. Meghan made avocado toast 😂😂😂😂she just made me love her all the more
I chuckled at that too..
Kate can keep her goo recipe . Meghan already gave us her way of making preserves
I’m moving to a high-rise for the first time…and previously when I lived in apartment complexes…I worked so many hours that I NEVA had time to get to know my neighbors…this time I’m in a Senior/Disability building…and I’m so inspired by Meghan…I’m going to raid the Dollar Store & make little “Hello…it’s me” ❤️gifts to hang on my neighbors’ door knobs just to introduce myself & start things off in a 🥰 way🤗
Exciting neighbor!! Congratulations on the move, and yes Dollar Tree and some time and thought can work wonders. No need to break the bank.
I’m part way through episode 3 and I have to say that this is so far my favourite episode. She really hits her stride here and I am needing to make these “quickles”
I love with Love, have watched it 3 times already and about to watch it for the 4th time.💖💖💖🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸