Jennifer Lopez has been single for more than a year, she’s all about ‘work & kids’

Since the 1990s, there has been one constant for Jennifer Lopez: she cannot be alone. You can call her a love addict or a relationship addict or whatever, but for thirty-plus years, she jumped from one relationship, engagement or marriage to another, with barely any breathing room in between. Well, Ben Affleck finally broke her pattern. When Ben ghosted Jennifer in 2024, she finally decided to be alone and really work on herself. I actually think the process began during her marriage to Ben, but the way their marriage ended in 2024 was bad enough and devastating enough for Jennifer to just… be alone. For more than a year now, she’s had zero romantic partners. And it looks like the trend will continue into 2026.

Jennifer Lopez is starting the new year single. Nearly a year after the performer, 56, finalized her divorce from Ben Affleck, 53, a source tells PEOPLE that she’s not dating and is focused on work and raising her family.

“It’s all about work and the kids for her,” the source says about Lopez, who shares 17-year-old twins Maximilian “Max” David Muniz and Emme Maribel Muniz with her ex-husband Marc Anthony. “She seems happy and content.”

Lopez began 2025 in the midst of a divorce, which was finalized in January, nearly 20 weeks after she filed for a dissolution of marriage on Aug. 20.

The Hustlers star filed for divorce exactly two years after her second wedding ceremony in Georgia, listing April 26, 2024 as the date of her and Affleck’s separation. The ceremony in Georgia, held in front of family and friends, took place a month after the pair married in an intimate Las Vegas ceremony in July 2022.

[From People]

This “announcement” that J.Lo is still single came on the heels of Jennifer’s pre-Christmas outing with Ben Affleck and his son Samuel. They went shopping together and there were some paparazzi photos. There were also some conversations about whether the Original Bennifer have one more reunion-and-breakup in store. I don’t think so. I really think Ben broke her for good in 2024. On one side, I find it sad that he broke her heart that badly. On the other side, I think she has probably done a lot of work to break some toxic cycles in her romantic life. If she gets into another relationship at some point, she’ll probably approach it a lot differently and with more maturity. Fingers crossed!

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  1. Neeve says:

    Its called embarrassment which forced her to finally learn a lesson. All these over the top romances have only left her looking ridiculous. I do hope she finally has a low key mature partnership.

    • NotMika says:

      Yes. Let’s all shame JLo for the things Ben Affleck did to her.

      • Neeve says:

        She can certainly manage the things that SHE does which turn her into a laughing stock. Sharing his love letters so they can be made into songs,featuring him in her movies and documentaries,having multiple wedding ceremonies. She knows he is a creep why not take it easy so the damage is not so profound.

  2. Amy Bee says:

    Looks like People Magazine just used JLo for some end of year clicks. Hopefully she’s realised that it’s ok to be alone for a bit.

  3. Eurydice says:

    I can’t imagine a high-drama life in which one’s heart is broken over and over and over and what, like 9 times? Maybe it’s not heartbreak this time. Maybe it’s that, heading for 60-years old, she’s decided to dial back the drama and relax.

  4. Up In Toronto says:

    No shame in being alone. The best relationship we can ever have is with ourselves, without the filter of others

  5. therese says:

    To heck with them. They just wore me out.

  6. JFerber says:

    Maybe Jennifer wore herself out with all her drama. Exhausting!

  7. Tikichica says:

    I still can’t get over how fast her relationship with Ben Affleck imploded. I mean, I didn’t expect it to last forever, but it’s crazy they couldn’t even last two years (or at least pretend for another year or two). Absolutely cringe worthy.