Halle Berry: Gavin Newsom still hasn’t reached out, ‘he can’t sleep on women’

Here are some photos of Halle Berry at the London premiere of her latest film, Crime 101, in which she costars with Chris Hemsworth. Halle looked amazing in The New Arrivals (the dress) and it’s difficult to remember that the woman is nearly 60 years old. To promote Crime 101, she gave a lengthy interview to The Cut about ageing, menopause, her divorces, her relationship with Van Hunt and her war with California’s Governor Newsom. Last year, Newsom vetoed a bill which would have helped menopausal women significantly. Halle made so much news when she said publicly that Newsom will never be president if he consistently “devalues women in midlife.” Well, she talks about that with the Cut as well. Some highlights:

Menopausal women get “dry”: “Look, it happens to more than 60 percent of women as we get older. Everything gets dry! If we talk about it and laugh about it, there’s no more shame or embarrassment. I’m almost 60. Fighting for women’s health feels like a formidable cause for my second act.”

A Scene in Crime 101 where her character spreads YSL’s Touche Éclat concealer all over her face: “Her character rang so true for me. You get to this age where you feel like you’re being marginalized, devalued. You feel it at work. You feel it from society. But I have adamantly decided I am not going to allow myself to be erased. That’s why I’m on my menopause mission. I’m going to be louder than I have ever been.” Part of that mission involves telling more onscreen stories, including comedies, about middle-aged women and poking fun at herself along the way. “When you get older, you stop getting sized up like a pork chop.”

Her third divorce from Olivier Martinez: “After my third divorce, people started to say, ‘What’s wrong with her? She’s crazy. She can’t keep a man.’ And I would always argue, ‘Who says I want to keep a man if he’s not the right man?’ I pretty much stopped doing interviews for a decade because I got tired of the same old story. It was always: ‘Poor Halle — Unlucky in Love Again.’” When I ask her to come up with her own headline to set the record straight, she closes her eyes. “Hmm. ‘Halle Berry Is Not a Damsel in Distress.’” Pause. “‘Halle Berry Is Not a Victim of Failed Relationships.’” Longer pause. “‘Halle Berry Never Said It’s Anyone Else’s Fault.’”

The stigma of beauty. “Another thing nobody really gets about me is that I’ve been a fighter my whole life — fighting to be seen for who I really am, fighting to be taken seriously as an artist, fighting the stigma of beauty.”

Winning the Best Actress Oscar: Winning the trophy was a career highlight, but “that Oscar didn’t necessarily change the course of my career. After I won it, I thought there was going to be, like, a script truck showing up outside my front door,” she says. “While I was wildly proud of it, I was still Black that next morning. Directors were still saying, ‘If we put a Black woman in this role, what does this mean for the whole story? Do I have to cast a Black man? Then it’s a Black movie. Black movies don’t sell overseas.’” Berry once told three-time Oscar nominee Cynthia Erivo, “You goddamn deserve it, but I don’t know that it’s going to change your life. It cannot be the validation for what you do, right?”

She’s winning: “As a Black woman, now almost 60, I still get to work in movies and do what I love. I’m winning.”

Her war against Gov. Newsom: In November, she co-wrote an opinion piece in Time magazine criticizing California governor Gavin Newsom for vetoing the Menopause Care Act, a bipartisan bill designed to secure insurance coverage for proven treatments. Then, in December, she doubled down by scorching Newsom at a New York Times “DealBook” summit — even calling out his credibility as a future presidential candidate. “The way he’s overlooked women, half the population, by devaluing us in midlife, he probably should not be our next president either. Just saying,” she announced onstage moments before he was scheduled to speak. Newsom responded through TMZ at an airport the next day: “We’re reconciling this.” But over a month later, he still has not reached out as promised. “It’s disturbing when people say they’re going to do things and then they don’t,” Berry tells me. “But he heard what I said. If he is going to run to be our next president, he can’t sleep on women. Wake up, Gavin.”

Her relationship with Van Hunt: “I’m in the best relationship I have ever had,” she says. This past June, Hunt proposed. And? She leans in. “I haven’t said ‘yes.’ I don’t think we need to be married to have a meaningful relationship. I don’t know if we will ever get married,” she adds, citing “health reasons,” or the access and right to make crucial medical decisions as a legal spouse, as one of her exceptions to the rule.

[From The Cut]

The only time I rolled my eyes was with the “stigma of beauty.” I genuinely wish women who have lived their entire lives with pretty privilege would stop for a moment and understand that the “stigma of beauty” is not a real thing, especially if you have more to offer than looks. The rest of this interview is great though – I can’t believe Newsom still hasn’t reached out to Halle, and I hope she continues to use her platform to advocate for women over 50. It’s interesting as well that Van Hunt proposed and she took some time to make up her mind about it. After three divorces, she had every right to feel ambivalent towards marriage, although soon after this interview was published, Halle did accept Hunt’s proposal!

Photos courtesy of Avalon Red.

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25 Responses to “Halle Berry: Gavin Newsom still hasn’t reached out, ‘he can’t sleep on women’”

  1. Thinking says:

    I get the general gist of what she’s saying, but I cringed at the “stigma of beauty” comment haha.

  2. Jais says:

    Congrats on the engagement. It’s always wild to me that she won an Oscar but was still not given access to more scripts. If Gavin newsome said he was going reconcile it publicly then he needs to do that.

  3. Mumster says:

    “the stigma of beauty” is certainly a choice. While I understand that “pretty” people can feel that they aren’t taken seriously or considered smart because of their looks, I would think the privilege they DO get makes up for it. Not so pretty people often can’t get the attention they need to get a job or get people to listen at all.

    Also, she needs to stop screaming from the rooftops that Gavin Newsom should not president. This pursuit of a “perfect” candidate by Democrats is what got us into this mess. The republicans could nominate a literal goat and all of them would line up behind the nomination and tell us 24/7 how great the goat is. It is now giving “he didn’t pay attention to me, so I’m going to destroy him” as opposed to a legitimate concern. By all means, articulate all the reasons his veto was wrong and how/why the law would benefit all women (who will eventually enter menopause), without equating his refusal to call/meet you with his viability as a presidential candidate. Talk about entitled pretty privilege.

    • Brassy Rebel says:

      Two things can be true. If Newsom is the nominee in 2028, we all should vote for him. And Newsom should not and probably won’t be the nominee in 2028. Most Dems do not yet know the weight of the baggage he carries but will find out if he runs.

    • ChillinginDC says:

      No she shouldn’t. He would be a terrible President for transpeople. Also he’s totally right wing coded and keeps saying that the Dems have done too much. Newsom isn’t going to go in there and hold anyone to account on anything.

  4. Brassy Rebel says:

    Was she throwing shade with “he can’t sleep on women”? Because GN has totally been known to sleep on women. 😜

  5. Thinking says:

    I was thinking that the way she speaks about Newsom isn’t as articulate as it could be haha. On other issues, she gets her point across well. But when she talks about him, it does come across as kind of annoying, even though I can’t really put my finger on why (and even though she might not be wrong). To be fair, celebrities in general sound annoying when they speak about politicians ( even when I actually agree with them 100 percent. Maybe it’s their phrasing…).

  6. Gerry says:

    What she neglects to say is that she is heavily invested in a company that a lot of these funds would be going to. She cries bitter tears now that Newsom vetoed the bill.

    • CatGotMyTongue says:

      He should be ashamed of himself for vetoing that healthcare bill.

      I’ve always liked GN, from the time he was mayor of SF and legalized same sex marriages. It got quashed before too long, but it was really done well and it advanced the idea.

      Vetoing the healthcare bill was crappy. I’m giving Prince level sideeye to that.

      I don’t need a “perfect” candidate, but I do need one who won’t sell me and other people out.

      I’m still mad about the current regime and scared for my friends and myself. The effects of this are going to be felt for a long time.

      We need someone with integrity. Someone who cares about others. We almost had her! Life would be so different if it wasn’t for Elno and Russia. 🇷🇺

      Now it’s a whole mess, and whoever is next is going to be playing catch up.

    • KC2 says:

      Are you talking about Joylux? I’ver used it, and it is a game changer for the dryness issue. It’s also very, very scary looking.

    • kirk says:

      The company that Halle Berry is “heavily invested” in is Respin, which supposedly uses a holistic approach and AI to support women through menopause. I have no clue how much Respin charges per subscription for its AI based menopausal support, but Newsom’s reason for veto was that it would have raised insurance costs for millions of women who are not as wealthy as Halle Berry.

      Newsom thought Bill 432 was too far reaching and that it restricted insurance plans flexibility in how they delivered menopausal support care, ie he’s less opposed to what than how. To his credit, he’s proposed $3.4M added funds to CA 2026-2027 budget specifically “to support health care coverage for perimenopause and menopause, including enrollee access to care, provider education, and a statewide public awareness campaign.” Haven’t seen any words yet from Halle Berry on Newsom’s approach to add menopausal support to CA health care.

      Halle Berry is also pushing for $275M federal bill to boost support for menopause. Her firm, Respin, has backing from Khosla Ventures, Night Ventures, Range Media Partners, Precursor Ventures, and Able Partners (Yahoo Finance). Does her heavy lobbying for something she has financial stake in constitute ‘crony capitalism’? 🤷‍♀️ Integrity? 🤷‍♀️

      I went through menopause while I was in graduate school. My health providers were telling me I needed levothyroxine for underactive thyroid. The symptoms of it are supposed to be sluggish thought, and feeling cold. My symptoms were just the opposite – hot flashes, sweating, and intense mindful concentration for school. But I took providers advice that I needed levothyroxine because I might get a heart attack otherwise. Sorry Halle was feeling bad, but not so sorry I feel the need to financially support Respin or agree with her lobbying.

  7. Jamie42 says:

    When Newsom said “We’re reconciling this,” surely he meant that the bill was being rewritten, not that he was going to call her up.

    • Brassy Rebel says:

      Yeah, that’s my take as well. Not to defend him but he meant reconcile all the bills on this issue.

  8. ChillinginDC says:

    Man. Best wishes I guess. I think she’s cool with men until they marry. I don’t even want to know what happens after that. At least she’s honest that I never said the problem wasn’t with me. LOL

  9. Side Eye says:

    Beauty has definitely opened a lot of doors for her. But if I can play devil’s advocate for a second, I think it leads to a ton of problems for women – one of them being, it attracts men who are abusive, who want to take you down a peg, who cheat (part of taking you down a peg), who resent you for your looks, who are controlling, etc. I’d say every woman has dealt with those type of men, but it’s magnified when you have a certain look that people covet.

    Elizabeth Wurtzel wrote a great book titled “Bitch” where she points out that the same qualities that attact men to women, they then use against them because those qualities are the source of contempt and distrust. I’m not saying she bears no responsibility in her failed relationships, what I am saying is that she navigated a tougher road in choosing the right partner than the average person. Men were obsessed with her and pursued her relentlessly. Look at Dave Justice, 30 years later, bro still won’t stop talking about her with so much contempt and downright hate.

    I am finally aging out of beauty. I can’t tell you what a relief that is to me – to go places and blend in, not be stared at and just be invisible. I can’t imagine adding fame to this equation in my youth and I don’t have Halle’s level of beauty. Angelina is another example – look what she goes through with Brad who is jealous of her. Some men (and women) will deeply resent you over looks. I could give you a long list of women who are beautiful who went through hell with men or even with women and were not taken seriously in their careers (despite being brilliant) and it’s no coincidence. Even having larger breasts makes it hard to be taken seriously in careers like science, tech, law, etc. When is the last time you saw a young, large breasted person portrayed as smart or even solution oriented on TV or in a movie? The general perception is you’re a bimbo regardless of your capabilities.

    • Thinking says:

      I think just being a woman causes a lot of problems for women.

      I also think being stared at might be more of a young person problem (I think at some point every woman has encountered this in their youth) than a beautiful woman problem as youth is equated with beauty more than actual beauty itself.

      • Side Eye says:

        Sometimes youth is mistaken for beauty. But women like Halle or Angelina are not that case. They are truly beautiful regardless of age. Halle is 60 and men still lust after her. There are all kinds of reasons for staring. There’s:

        1) I’m a pervert and you’re a preteen and I see you developing and I’m staring cause I’m a pedophile or a creepy middle aged loser (very very common encountering this as a young girl – I believe all young girls have encountered this and it speaks to the sheer number of pedos and creeps out there);
        2) I’m trying to bully or intimidate you in a public space (racist environments – the US is notorious for this one in my book);
        3) I’m trying to place who you look like (harmless I was still taught don’t stare directly at people but I’ll take this one it’s harmless);
        4) I don’t like your race (again America for the win)
        5) I am trying to figure out your race/ethnic background (usually harmless)
        6) you’re beautiful and I can’t take my eyes off you (usually harmless as long as the aren’t harassing about it)
        7) there’s a beautiful woman in this room I haven’t f***d/cheated on/humiliated. This shall not stand (from men who hate women, beautiful women in particular).

        With respect to beautiful women they deal with all of these, except 6 and 7 are magnified.

      • Thinking says:

        Yes, I do think Halle and Angelina are unusually beautiful. I would put them in a different category of beauty altogether. I would not dispute that at all.

        But I do also think all women who might be considered less beautiful face challenges with harassment (or sexual harassment), which is what some of that stuff sounds like. I think that involves a power dynamic that the man wants to exercise over a woman, and even a woman much less beautiful than Halle or Angelina can have the misfortune of facing that. Men like to exercise power over women, and I see that as a power and gender problem.

    • SIde Eye says:

      I completely agree with you Thinking. I was just pointing out that there’s a tendency to think beautiful people go to the front of the line and are exempt from problems but it also attracts a specific hatred and often a specific kind of male. Marilyn Monroe, Pamela Anderson come to mind. There this undercurrent of viciousness and yes I know all women have experienced it, but it’s another layer of a pretty girl wouldn’t go to prom with me and now revenge against all pretty women. Men who loathe women especially hate pretty ones. Women who are male centered do as well.

      You can really see it now with the manosphere internet content – where these men seem to have the goal of ruining women’s lives and humiliating them especially on camera. It’s just another level to it. I think pretty women are a special kind of target for them – not saying women who are not at that level of beauty aren’t – it’s just that there is a specific venom directed at beautiful women aimed at taking them down a peg particularly in America (it is far far less prevalent in Canada).

      In professional circles it’s hard to be taken seriously and you are immediately perceived as less competent – it reminds me of when I practiced law. POC women especially were presumed incompetent (despite their accolades, accomplishments, brilliance) and they would have to begin their race from that starting point and have to spend years proving otherwise. Any accomplishment or victory is dismissed, appropriated by someone else, or characterized as “luck” not preparation, not competence. White males (even when less than mediocre lawyers) were presumed competent and would have to spend years disproving that assumption for the label of subpar lawyer to stick to them.

      It’s no coincidence that women have to wear prosthetics, erase their looks to win Oscars. The Bimbo assumption is always there, and when you do win one, then it’s oh you slept your way there – no one says this about men, or even women who are just regular looking.

      Again I agree with what everyone is saying here: pretty comes with insane privilege but the downside is very ugly if you come across people who are sociopathic and secretly resent your looks.

      • Thinking says:

        I agree with what you are saying — there are many layers. And I erred on oversimplifying those layers. Having beauty in spades does add another dimension as to what can negatively happen to a person.

  10. KC2 says:

    She’s spot on about the menopause issue. She promotes Joylux Vfit for dryness, and while it’s scary as hell to use initially, it is a game changer. I’m 63 and was perimenopausal in my 40s. I didn’t know even know it until the real deal hit. I thought I was having low grade fevers and didn’t know what was going on. Even female gynecologists fail women on menopause. It’s still it’s a joke to a lot of people.

  11. CatGotMyTongue says:

    Didn’t she just start a cat sanctuary too?

    I’m all for her new chapter in life!

    Hopefully the new dude isn’t a dud.

  12. jferber says:

    Yeah, I didn’t think Halle deserved the Oscar, but Gwyneth Paltrow didn’t either. And Halle is the ONLY black woman to get an Oscar for a lead role. That is seriously effed up.

  13. Elly says:

    My comment disappeared. Someone should tell her that (in the US) you can make anyone your medical POA. You don’t have to be married to them.

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