Are there examples of cheating guys who don’t have to get thoroughly busted before they change their ways and realize what amazing wives they’re betraying? I’m sure there are the rare men who break it off with mistresses before their wives catch them, but we don’t hear about it because they’re not about to let their wives know. It just seems like these idiots carry on for years and that it takes a real cataclysmic event to get them to stop. Then they predictably beg and grovel for their wives to take them back. Meanwhile they’ve been telling the skanks they’re banging about how awful it is at home and what crazy bitches their wives are, while the wives take care of the children, cook and clean for them and listen to them whine about their sh*tty jobs.
That whole introductory rant was about Jesse James and the fact that he’s reportedly now in sex rehab in Arizona and is of course begging his publicly humiliated wife, Sandra Bullock, to take his cheating ass back. The good news is that James has been away and hasn’t been in “crisis talks” with Bullock, as has been speculated. Sandra is also standing her ground and is refusing to take James back, according to Radar Online:
The shamed husband of Sandra Bullock has checked into a sex treatment facility in Tucson, Arizona to deal with the issues surrounding his serial cheating scandal, and RadarOnline.com is exclusively reporting that he is begging his wife not to divorce him.
A source close to the couple told RadarOnline.com exclusively “He offered to go to the same rehab center that Tiger Woods went to if Sandra would support him and stick with him. She said ‘no’, and that basically he’s the scum of the earth.”
But Jesse, desperate to save his marriage, checked in to Sierra Tuscon in Arizona last week anyway.
The source says it’s too little, too late. RadarOnline.com reported exclusively that Sandra has decided to divorce James and the source says she is staying with that decision.
James rep confirmed that Bullock did not ask James to get treatment and that it was his idea.
The source says that Jesse is in for sex rehab. “But no, Sandra is not there” the source said. “He (Jesse) is trying to show her he wants to recover. Sandra is tough and does not take humiliation well. It will take a lot more than Jesse going for a week to some clinic for her to even take him seriously.”
The Oscar-winning actress has felt “humiliated, devastated and embarrassed,” by Jesse’s chronic cheating, the source says, adding that she still wants out of the marriage.
“Jesse checked himself into a treatment facility to deal with personal issues,” his rep said in a statement to People. “He realized that this time was crucial to help himself, help his family and help save his marriage.”
[From Radar Online]
There’s yet another mistress set to come out, which would make number five. The National Enquirer reported last week that James cheated with 11 women, and from what I’ve gathered of his M.O. he really tried to make these women feel special and valued. He wasn’t that different from Tiger, who had a beautiful classy wife at home and was sleeping with trash while he was away for work. I have a lot of respect for Sandra and it takes a very strong woman to hold her ground and move forward with a divorce. I wouldn’t fault her for taking her time either, though. We don’t know what goes on behind closed door or in someone else’s marriage. Sometimes the case is so clear cut though that it’s hard to see how anyone could consider staying in a relationship with such a vile excuse for a husband.