Ethan Hawke is having a somewhat quiet awards season. I was surprised that he even got a Best Actor Oscar nomination for Blue Moon, not because I doubted his performance, but because there didn’t seem to be a ton of awards buzz for him in particular. But sometimes that’s the way it works, and I’m pleased for him. This is his fifth Oscar nomination overall, after being nominated twice in the supporting-actor category and twice in the adapted screenplay category (for the Before films). He’s attended many of the awards-circuit events solo, without his kids or his wife Ryan. I actually wondered if things were okay in his marriage. Well… they’re apparently okay, because Ethan Hawke wants people to know that he enjoys going downtown.
Ethan Hawke candidly made a cheeky sex confession while answering whether or not it’s “bad to eat in bed.”
“Incredibly vulgar things are going through my brain right now,” the “Training Day” star told British Vogue and British GQ in an interview published on Monday.
“I like to eat in bed, but I don’t eat food.”
Hawke, 55, then laughed and rubbed his beard before moving on to the next question. The actor married Ryan Shawhughes in 2008, and the couple shares kids, Clementine Jean and Indiana. Hawke was also previously wed to Uma Thurman from 1998 to 2005.
Certain discourses are cyclical, and I would really enjoy it if we had another pop culture cycle where men were openly talking about whether they go down on their partners. Going from memory, the last time that happened was pre-pandemic, when DJ Khaled said some sh-t about how he never goes down on his wife and a bunch of celebrity men (including Dwayne Johnson) were like, you’re missing out, a real man goes downtown all the time. Good times. Anyway, I’ve always sensed this about Ethan, and it’s one of the reasons why I have such an enduring affection for him. That man has always looked like he prioritizes a woman’s pleasure.
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- Ethan Hawke and Ryan Hawke attend the screening of “Triangle Of Sadness” during the 75th annual Cannes film festival at Palais des Festivals on May 21, 2022 in Cannes, France.,Image: 693324872, License: Rights-managed, Restrictions: , Model Release: no, Credit line: Olivier Huitel/Avalon
- BEVERLY HILLS, LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA, USA – JANUARY 11: Ethan Hawke and wife Ryan Hawke arrive at the 83rd Annual Golden Globe Awards held at The Beverly Hilton Hotel on January 11, 2026 in Beverly Hills, Los Angeles, California, United States.,Image: 1065749165, License: Rights-managed, Restrictions: , Model Release: no, Pictured: Ethan Hawke, Ryan Hawke, Credit line: Xavier Collin/Image Press Agency/Avalon
- BAFTA Film Awards red carpet arrivals at the Royal Festival Hall in London, UK. Ethan Hawke attends the BAFTA Film Awards at the Royal Festival Hall in London, UK on February 22, 2026. London Royal Festival Hall UK Copyright: xFredxDuvalx,Image: 1077480902, License: Rights-managed, Restrictions: imago is entitled to issue a simple usage license at the time of provision. Personality and trademark rights as well as copyright laws regarding art-works shown must be observed. Commercial use at your own risk., Model Release: no, Credit line: IMAGO/Fred Duval/Avalon
- Celebs attend the 79th BAFTA British Academy Film Awards,Image: 1077508273, License: Rights-managed, Restrictions: , Model Release: no, Pictured: Ethan Hawke, Credit line: Phil Lewis/Wenn/Avalon
- Ethan Hawke at the 2026 EE BAFTA Film Awards held at The Royal Festival Hall,Image: 1077533415, License: Rights-managed, Restrictions: , Model Release: no, Credit line: Lounis Tiar/Avalon

















Things I suspected but didn’t need to know. I hope this wasn’t a woman interviewer.
Normally I would file a story like this under “harmless but TMI.” But the bar is in hell these days, and up is down, and day is night. So instead I found this post utterly refreshing, reassuring, and amusing. Also, I highly recommend “The Lowdown.” Ethan Hawke can get it!
Kinda unrelated, but kinda not….. the steamy scenes between him and Gwyneth in Great Expectations have lived rent free in my head since that movie came out.
Any man that won’t travel “south of the border” better not expect me to venture that way either. I never liked DJ Khalid anyway, what little I know of him. Now I’ve got reasons!
Exactly. I’m not there to service the man! It has to be reciprocal.
Not every damn time … but in general.
Grab dem big azz ears and hold on!
He’s still on my hall pass list!
Ew. I don’t need to know this.