Princess Margaret: Prince Charles consistently undermined Diana ‘from the start’

The excerpts from Hugo Vickers’ latest royal book are frying me. Part of it is because of Vickers’ writing style of presenting complete lies in simplistic, declarative statements, like he’s writing royal propaganda for children. To be fair, that probably is how he sees his role as royal commentator and biographer. Anyway, in one of the latest book-excerpt tranches, Vickers has reached back to the 1980s and 1990s to blame every royal problem on Princess Diana. There’s a symmetry there, because for Vickers, every royal problem from 2016 through the present day can be and should be blamed on the Duchess of Sussex. Who is to blame for everything from 1997 through 2016? I can’t wait for those excerpts! Anyway, here are some of Vickers’ claims about the last years of Diana and Charles’s marriage, with an interesting comment from Princess Margaret.

How Charles suffered!! While [Diana] garnered good publicity, the inner royal circle, who had witnessed the marriage unfold, were aware of all that Prince Charles had suffered – uncontrollable tantrums and using the ­children against him, not to ­mention Diana’s infidelities.

Tampon Charles: More trouble came with the airing of the Camillagate tapes – a particularly damaging late-night conversation between Prince Charles and Camilla Parker Bowles. The Tampax reference was especially unfortunate. As with the Squidgygate tapes, there was a far-fetched theory that a random radio surfer in a shed had stumbled across the conversation. But it is as good as certain that the prince’s telephones were bugged by security services until finally someone realised: ‘We’ve got him.’

Diana’s KP apartment: In December 1993, Diana made the dramatic announcement that she was stepping down from public life. She needed ‘time and space’, she said in a public speech that greatly ­irritated the Prince of Wales. Her so-called retirement did not last long. Sir Michael Peat, the Keeper of the Privy Purse, let it be known that Kensington Palace was for working members of the Royal Family. In fear of losing her home, Diana returned to work. She also joined the Royal Family at Sandringham that year.

Princess Margaret’s take on the Wales marriage: At the end of 1993, Princess Margaret gave me her take on the Waleses’ ill-fated marriage. ‘The trouble was that he undermined her [Diana] consistently from the start, and gave her no support … Then he began to get difficult over the children, which was the cause of all the trouble last year …I don’t know why she wanted to come back [to Sandringham]. I longed to tell her to go away. It was the same with me and Tony [Lord Snowdon]. He undermined me.’

Diana’s BBC Panorama interview. It has since been revealed that Diana was tricked into it by devious misinformation – but even so, she was not averse to letting her views be known. Her words were mean-spirited. She had aimed to damage her ­husband and succeeded, but she also damaged herself.

[From The Daily Mail]

“But it is as good as certain that the prince’s telephones were bugged by security services…” Just a few paragraphs earlier, Vickers had called Diana “paranoid” for sweeping her KP apartment for bugs, then he admits a popular and obvious conspiracy that Charles’s phone was bugged. Gee, how weird! It’s almost like Diana was absolutely correct to be “paranoid” after all. As for Margaret’s assessment of Charles and Diana’s marriage… that’s correct but incomplete. And it often goes undiscussed, but Charles was all about undermining Diana, publicly and privately. They go on and on about Diana’s mental health issues, blaming her for not being strong enough to handle their abuse, while refusing to acknowledge that Charles and Camilla were openly waging a huge campaign against her and yes, endlessly undermining her. Of course, Diana learned how to play that game too and she did it better than Charles and Camilla. Which infuriated them.

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21 Responses to “Princess Margaret: Prince Charles consistently undermined Diana ‘from the start’”

  1. Jais says:

    So if Diana wanted a home at KP she had to work? Imagine it was the same with her security and again I’m sure she was only given security when she did work events. If she went outside for any purpose other than work I’m sure she was not given security. Was Diana ever offered any home aside from KP, whether she worked or not?

    • Blubb says:

      Jais, nowhere did they talk of working royals in the 90s. The word was not known then, as far as I remember. There were senior royals and lesser ones.
      I think after her seperation the stalking she was stalked so much more and there was the scandal of photographing her during a workout in her fitness studio with a hidden camera. It was to much, and she gave up most of parentage, but not all aids, Ballett, homelessness etc. stayed.
      As long as she was responsible for her boys she needed a palace apartment with security. If not for her, but for the children.

      • Jais says:

        She needed security but I don’t believe she was given it in her private life. If she wasn’t at a work event or with the kids, she was not given security whn she left her house. The idea that she was ever given blanket security after the divorce is incorrect. And I went back and read old articles a while back about her security and you know what? They did actually mention whether she was a working royal or not. So I don’t think the idea of a working royal is 100% new but I do think it is an argument that is trotted as needed. Especially when it’s needed as a reason for giving or not giving security when they have royals going rogue, like Diana and Harry.

      • Blubb says:

        Yes to privacy, with an apartment in KP so known to the press Diana was sitting in prison. The press worked in packs at every entrance. I think the royals and grey man knew what they were doing to her. So when the children were with the father they had space. I wished she had managed to live in the US.

  2. YankeeDoodles says:

    That is fascinating about Princess Margaret. Diana played them at their own game and won, because, at bottom, she was a compelling and decent, authentic, high-spirited, compassionate person. It’s like a manual I bought once in France, whose title translates to “usage manual in manipulation for honest people.” I mean. Sometimes you have to fight fire with fire.

  3. Brassy Rebel says:

    You would think that having Charles’ own aunt identity him as the skunk at the garden party (even comparing him to her hated ex) would be sufficient to stop the Diana dragging by Vickers. Instead, he goes right on dragging her.

    • Jais says:

      That’s the thing tough. Margaret is sitting there saying girl why she doesn’t just leave completely. Umm wasn’t her having a home and security a good enough to stick around. And that’s something that Margaret didn’t have to worry about as much from what I can tell. So it’s kind of a cruel and out of touch to say this.

  4. TN Democrat says:

    People forget how toxic the media had become towards Diana at the end of her life. We tend to remember her with rose tinted glasses because she died so tragically young. She was being smeared to hell and back daily while not having adequate security in public unless the boys were with her. The extreme public response to her death was partially because the public had turned on her before her death and realized they had contributed to her death by consuming tabloid fodder. Charles/Camilla were “winning” the war of the Wails prior to her death and if she hadn’t died, she would have been ostracized the same way Harry was 20+ years later. The Windsors were at the very least trying to force her to leave the country permanently, but they set into motion the scenerio that guaranteed tragedy. They repeated the same playbook with the Sussexes, even though KP has taken the smear campaign to new levels since they left.

    • Blubb says:

      I beg to differ. The British media were horrible to Diana, but Charles and Cowmilla were not winning the war of the Wales. After Camilla gate and his horrible interview 5% thought he should be king. And the panorama interview was a success, not with the royals but with the public. She wasn’t nasty, but honest.

      • QuiteContrary says:

        I agree with Blubb here, re the War of the Wales.

        Tampongate was devastating to Charles and Camilla, while Squidgygate was merely embarrassing for Diana. Yes, Diana was treated horribly by the media, but she was so obviously more appealing and attractive than either Charles or Camilla, and that gave her a distinct edge.

        Interesting that Margaret recognized just how much Charles undermined Diana.

  5. Blair Warner says:

    Thank you for these great photos!

    Diana was undermined and abandoned from the start. It’s staggering to read this quote from Margaret, though, if it’s genuine. It clearly outlines an abusive relationship.

  6. Elly says:

    It makes me angry that this gutter rat calls Diana “mean spirited “. What an effing hypocrite. Diana was definitely not mean spirited. The public was very well aware of Charle’s jealousy of Diana. He didn’t really try to hide it. An emotionally healthy husband would have been extremely proud of Diana and realized how beneficial it was to have her in the family. Charles doesn’t appreciate having Harry and Meghan in the RF either. Likely because he’s jealous of the attention they get just like he was of Diana. He was a twisted young man and he is a pathetic, twisted old man.

    • Lucy says:

      It’s interesting how his need for attention has been such a defining factor in his life. Especially when it’s well established he didn’t get any attention from his parents when he was young. I have sympathy for 4 year old Charles whose mother gave him a hand shake in greeting after being gone for months. Old man Charles had plenty of time to deal with this issue and make peace with his parents, and I don’t think he did any of that.

  7. Amy Bee says:

    Isn’t this book supposed to be about the Queen? All the excerpts I’ve seen so far are about Harry and Meghan, Diana and Princess Margaret. Is this because the press knows that a biography about the Queen is very boring? Plus there’s no doubt in my mind that tampongate and squiggygate were due to phone hacking by the press.

  8. YankeeDoodles says:

    This is the thing that always comes back to me — a man who was secure in his own skin, in his own identity, would not have been threatened by his wife. He might have been unfaithful, or whatever fidelity means to people in this world, it’s not necessarily a deal breaker. But he would not have undermined her in such a petty way for so long out of pique at not being the centre of attention. See Prince Philip. Perfect contrast. Or Kennedy, introducing himself as the man who accompanied Jacqueline to Paris.

  9. Mary grace says:

    Camilla encouraged Charles to marry Diana because she thought she was a “stupid mouse who wouldn’t interfere”.
    Look how that turned out lol.Diana ended up being anything but that.Diana beat Charles and Camilla at the game

    • SarahCS says:

      Reading this the thought that comes to my mind is that William did learn one lesson from his father – make sure you find someone who will let you treat her like absolute dirt and still come back (granted after all the aristo girls said no way but still).

  10. IdlesAtCranky says:

    I am so sick of all these ghouls trying to make money off the bodies of dead women. It’s grotesque.

    It’s utterly horrifying the way they consistently use and abuse the Sussexes, but at least H&M are alive and can speak for themselves.

    Graverobbers like Vickers, Bower, Jobson, Lownie, and all their ilk, not to mention Tina Brown etc. — these people all need to take a seat, shut their mouths, and learn some g*ddamn human decency.

  11. Janice says:

    Still miss her.

  12. tamsin says:

    I’m disgusted by the misogyny of all these panty-waist Englishmen who call themselves royal experts .

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