Kerry Washington: ‘There was one woman on a set. We were siloed’

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Kerry Washington covers the latest issue of Porter to promote her Hulu limited series, Little Fires Everywhere (out March 18). I like and admire Kerry, but I usually find her to be a kind of boring interview? She’s just too “together” and she can clearly delineate between her professional life and personal life, which means that she’s not a mess and she doesn’t have to spend entire interviews trying to apologize for some sh-t or explain her way out of anything. That being said, she does say that she’s the mother of THREE, which she’s said before, and I don’t think anyone knows what she’s talking about. She’s given birth to two children, and I guess she and her husband adopted a third? But all she’ll say is that she has three kids. Anyway, you can read the full interview here. Some highlights:

Attending Spence Academy after growing up in the Bronx: “I remember distinctly being 12 or 13 and going from my neighborhood in the Bronx to a very posh, elite school. Seeing other people’s homes, I remember understanding that there was ‘another world’ and feeling overwhelmed, angry, inspired, delighted and betrayed at the same time. Thinking, ‘Why does nobody I know live like this?’ Or, more so, ‘Why does nobody who looks like me live like this?’ So a lot of our mandate at [my production company] Simpson Street is centering otherness and really reminding ourselves, and each other, that protagonists look like all of us – that anyone can be the hero of their own story and their own life.”

On Reese Witherspoon: “She’s just amazing, and a great friend. The sort of girlfriend who, when she asks you how you are, you can tell really cares about the response. I have such great respect for her, not only as a friend but as someone who has her own production company. She was so willing to share her mistakes and what she had learned.”

Working on Time’s Up: “One thing a lot of us have talked about is this idea that, because of the imbalance of power and the delineation of who gets to be the protagonist, so often in our careers, there was one woman on a set. We were siloed. And so we were told about each other. And the story was often, ‘She’s difficult. She’s needy. She’s crazy. She’s unpredictable. She’s a diva.’ Now we talk to each other, we work together and we know that not to be true. Even with Little Fires Everywhere, it deals with the nuances of womanhood and motherhood, regardless of outward identity.”

A mother of three: Washington is a mother of three, with husband Nnamdi Asomugha, though she keeps her relationship and her children under wraps. “As I’ve grown older and more well-known I’ve lost some of my anonymity, so I’ve become more boundaried in my relationships with people. I have the pull of an artist, where you love your private life and you love the people you love, you love your children, and you also love your art.”

Whether she wants to do a “lighter” role: “Even to do a Nora Ephron comedy, because I’m black, it is political and it means something. Which is OK with me because I’m happy to be doing that work. I think the interesting thing is that, as a black woman, any time I put myself at the center of the story, it’s a political act – whether I want it to be or not.”

[From Porter]

She also said that it was important to her to find writers of different races and backgrounds for the adaptation of Little Fires, but they all had to “love the ‘90s as much as we did!” Which is funny to me – the series takes place in the ‘90s and I full expect to have some ‘90s nostalgia while watching it. I find the “siloed” conversation to be the most interesting part of this piece, and it’s 100% true, especially in Hollywood but in other industries too. Time’s Up was supposed to change the way women were treated in Hollywood, but it ended up starting such huge conversations within the women in Hollywood as a whole. Also: I feel like Reese and Kerry probably had some uncomfortable conversations about privilege, don’t you? And I feel like that’s what Kerry was saying – give Reese credit for being open to those conversations and trying to be better.

Kerry Washington arrives at the 2020 Vanity Fair Oscar Party held at the Wallis Annenberg Center for...

Cover courtesy of Porter, additional photos courtesy of WENN.

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  1. ProfPlum says:

    Her husband, Nnamdi, has a daughter from a previous relationship.

  2. Carmen says:

    Are they even still together? I never see him with her. Strange marriage.

    • LoonaticCap says:

      They were never in the public eye from the start. Maybe this is why it works so well.
      Also, I am in my thirties and when I date I do not post my relationships at all online. If I were a celebrity I would probably be like her – keeping it absolutely out of the limelight. Too much attention brings too much negativity.
      I’m sure they’re fine.

      • sunny says:

        1000% to this. Kerry has always been private and their relationship has always been low key. I follow her on social and although she never posts pictures of him or their kids, she does post stuff occasionally that highlight certain projects that he is involved in.

    • Lisa says:

      You will see them together here and there but they wisely prefer that their relationship is private. I absolutely agree with her stance.

  3. Anony83 says:

    I always find it interesting how highly almost everyone in Hollywood regards Reese Witherspoon. Like, I really trust Kerry Washington’s opinion and don’t believe she would just blow smoke up someone’s butt for appearances sake, so I think what she’s saying about Reese is probably true. Which is kind of remarkable because Reese has been so famous for so long that it would have been really easy for her to slide into a super self-absorbed version of white feminism (kind of like T. Swift frequently does) and it seems like she hasn’t? And she’s even begun producing more diverse projects then Big Little Lies (which was pretty lily white).

    But getting back to the actual focus of this article, Kerry Washington has been a terrific leader and advocate in Hollywood, especially since Times Up got started. I love that she (and a few other black leading ladies) have been using their power to give voice to not just women but women (and men) of color. I do hope that she and Reese have had serious discussions about privilege and that Reese (and other white women in the industry) have listened and taken it seriously.

    • manda says:

      Reese is not perfect though–remember the drunk driving “do you know who I am incident?”? And don’t get me wrong, I like her. I read a profile on her in sassy magazine in the 90’s and she seemed to be the same way then–driven, ambitious, smart. I have always been a fan of hers. I think you are right, she could have taken a turn and has remained pretty true to herself

      • Some chick says:

        No one is perfect & the internet never forgets. Is she still doing that?

      • Alyse says:

        She’s allowed to do something dumb every now and again… tbh better she acted like that drunk than sober – we all do dumb stuff when drunk. Nobody’s perfect.

        Generally she seems super well regarded by enough people (esp women) that I think that really counts for something.

        Plus Elle Woods!

  4. HufflepuffLizLemon says:

    I am so glad she talked about the silo-this is true everywhere.
    On a superficial note, that Vanity Fair party dress is on my top 5 list of celebrity outfits ever. (Also on the list: Michelle Williams mustard gown, Jolie’s green maternity dress from the Kung Fu Panda premiere, Lena Waithe’s cape, etc). It was such a moment.

    • Alyse says:

      Yes that whole Zuhair Murad collection is fab! I think Tracee Ellis Ross wore something from it too?

  5. manda says:

    As a native clevelander, I am hoping to see some great shots of shaker heights, which is BEAUTIFUL. And, because it’s cleveland, so many of those gorgeous houses sell for under $500k!

    • Brandy Alexander says:

      Native Clevelander here too. I am so excited for this show. Reading the book was like visiting home, I spent a lot of time on Shaker Heights as a kid in the 90’s. Do you know if it was actually filmed there?

      On a side note, I think Kerry’s character in the book was white, but it really played no part in the story. So it’s pretty cool they cast Kerry to me, I’m such a fan of her work.

      • manda says:

        IMDB doesn’t say and I can’t find anything for certain. I figured, if anything, they would use some establishing shots. Shaker Heights is a main thing about the story! But probably could be replaced ….

  6. lucy2 says:

    I’m really looking forward to this! I enjoyed the book a lot, and I like both Kerry and Reese. I also really admire Kerry for putting her private life on lockdown and not budging on that.

    That Egyptian themed dress is gorgeous. Hers and I think Tracee Ellis Ross’ were the highlight of all the Oscar stuff for me.

  7. I love Kerry so much… she’s goals, in many ways. I was never a Reese fan, but my Mom loved those Legally Blonde films, so I have a soft spot for her.