Thomas Markle is still talking to the Mail & claims he never received Meghan’s email

Thomas Markle cannot be trusted. He’s spent the last eight years ensuring that the Duchess of Sussex cannot trust him and that she has every right to ignore his abusive existence. The biggest problem is that the British media still believes that Thomas is Meghan’s weak link. They use his pitiful life as a cudgel against Meghan, they filter his lies and manipulate Thomas, and he, in turn, attempts to manipulate Meghan. Currently, Thomas is in a hospital in the Philippines, allegedly recovering in the ICU after one of his legs was amputated. That was the story at first, although the story seems to be changing – now the Daily Mail’s Caroline Graham says Thomas’s foot was amputated, not his leg. Not only that, but Thomas called Graham, a literal Daily Mail reporter, first when he needed to get his leg – no, his foot! – amputated. Graham wrote in the Mail:

I was at home in Los Angeles when the Duchess of Sussex’s father sent me a message at 6.30am on Wednesday his time saying: ‘Going to lose the leg today.’ I immediately rang his son Tom Jr – his father’s primary carer who lives with him in the Philippines – and his other daughter Samantha, who lives in Florida, to tell them of the shocking text. Both were flabbergasted. He had chosen to break the news of the amputation to me before his own family.

Including, as it happens, his youngest daughter Meghan. She and Harry live in Montecito, two hours from me in LA, where she has been busy promoting the Christmas special of her Netflix show With Love, Meghan, which focuses on her love of family. There have been reports that Meghan only learned of her father’s health crisis through news coverage after the Daily Mail broke the story last week.

There have also been reports that the Duchess has ‘reached out’ to him. However, Mr Markle last night said he has not heard from Meghan ‘but would love to speak to her’.

He said: ‘Of course I want to speak to her but I am not sure if these are the right circumstances. I’ve always said I am open to reconciling with my daughter. I have never stopped loving her. I don’t want to die estranged from Meghan. I want to meet my grandkids. It might be nice to meet her husband too.’

We have often spoken of the fact he has never met Prince Harry or Archie, six, and Lilibet, four, in the years since we first became friends, shortly after the Sussexes’ wedding.

Tom and I met initially through work, but instantly hit it off. He can be cantankerous at times but I admire his honesty. We speak most days and I consider him something of a father figure. He is a rock-solid friend who helped me through the deaths of my mother and brother. Yesterday, as I sat by his bed in the hospital, he smiled and said: ‘This is so surreal. We have been through a lot, you and I. What a crazy journey it has been.’

[From The Daily Mail]

Graham claims she was in LA on Wednesday, but she’s been reporting from the Philippines since the surgery? Did she teleport there? Why did he contact her before Tom Jr., who is literally in the Philippines with his father? Why did this amputation come as news to Tom Jr.? Why is no one asking these questions? And why is the doctor telling the Mail that Toxic Tom had his foot, not his leg amputated?

Meghan Markle’s desperately ill father has sent a heartfelt message to his daughter, pleading: ‘I don’t want to die estranged.’ Thomas Markle, 81, appealed to the Duchess of Sussex to see him ‘one more time before I die’ as he lay in his hospital bed following the amputation of his left leg below the knee.

Mr Markle underwent the drastic, but life-saving surgery in a Philippines hospital on Wednesday. One of his doctors told this newspaper – with his patient’s express permission – that the surgery was a matter of ‘life or death’. The surgeon said: ‘We had to remove the foot. There was a massive blood clot in his thigh and that had stopped circulation to his foot and lower leg. It was life-or-death surgery. Had the infection in the foot moved to his heart, it would most likely have been fatal. He is doing well but he is not out of the woods yet.’

Mr Markle told this newspaper that he was ‘confused’ by widespread reports that his daughter had ‘reached out’ to contact him following his serious health scare.

The ailing pensioner said he purposely did not change his number after their rift ‘so she could always get in touch with me’ but said he did not receive any messages from her last week. With Mr Markle’s permission, this newspaper independently confirmed with the hospital that neither their administration office, reception, intensive care unit nor the nurses and doctors attending to Mr Markle had heard from Meghan or her representatives, to the best of their knowledge.

A hospital source told the MoS: ‘Mr Markle is a VIP patient. Of course we all know who he is. If Meghan or anyone connected with her had called here we would have known. It is a big hospital by Filipino standards but we all know each other and we all talk. We were all confused when we saw the story that the duchess had reached out to her dad. As far as we are aware it didn’t happen. We would love to see the duchess here in the Philippines!’

Last night a spokesman for the Sussexes said Meghan sent her father an email on Friday – but the MoS understands that it was to an address that hasn’t been active for at least five years.

[From The Daily Mail]

Meghan sending an email to an old address is the perfect solution. That’s exactly the kind of energy she should give to this situation. Something brief: “Hope you’re doing okay, merry Christmas” and leave it at that. The Mail’s behavior and the British media’s behavior around this situation is absolutely psychotic. “Will she fly to the Philippines??” No. None of this is her responsibility or her problem. “But she has a Christmas special!” These people have lost their ever-loving minds.

A truly hilarious postscript… the Telegraph reports that Meghan emailed Thomas on Friday, to this address he claims he hasn’t used in five years. The Telegraph wrote: “It was claimed that the email was sent to an address he had not used for five years, but sources said it appeared to have been delivered and did not bounce back. Meghan’s aides have made clear that if he is willing to share a different address, it will be forwarded on.” LMAO. “We’ll be happy to forward the brief email, for sure.” Exactly.

Photos courtesy of Avalon Red, Backgrid. Screencaps courtesy of 60 Minutes Australia and GB News.

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108 Responses to “Thomas Markle is still talking to the Mail & claims he never received Meghan’s email”

  1. Another way to try to manipulate Meg and she isn’t going to bite. I believe she reached out in a way and that’s really all he deserves ( he doesn’t even deserve that!). Prepare for more nasty articles and maybe even an on camera interview from her horrific sperm donor!

    • Beth says:

      Caroline Graham of the Daily Mail/MoS is with him – embedded, as she was during the recent earthquake and as a frequent visitor when he lived in Mexico previously. As his handler, she’s had many ‘exclusives’ since 2018. Ethics? What ethics?

      And TM Junior actually incited violence against Meghan on YouTube a few days ago, btw. Told people to spit and throw faeces at her (and put faeces on her doorstep). He also mentioned that he was going to ‘bury’ her. Said he was doing it for his father.

      • Beth says:

        Interestingly, the GB News royal reporter claims to have had a briefing. Says the email was sent by Meghan on Friday at 11.53 am PT (VERY specific)! Didn’t bounce back or get blocked, so appears to be in use. Her aides asked the Mail for other contact details, but no response yet. Busted!

      • Kelly says:

        Can you imagine how pathetic and failing your career is that you’ve been assigned to report exclusively on one old man’s lies about his estranged daughter? I’d be so embarrassed if that was the sum total of my journalism.

      • Deborah1 says:

        @Beth – That’s disgraceful. Meghan should sue him for harassment.

  2. Over it says:

    As Kaiser rightly asked, how did she get to the Philippines so fast ? Interesting that once people started saying that she and him are romantically involved. All of a sudden she feels the need to tell us that he is like a father figure and she lives in La. And how come if his son lives with him as she previously wrote, how come he didn’t know about his father leg/foot l/hoof . These people are all horrible and I wish Meghan all the love and support she needs because these people are all going to rot in hell for the evil they continue to direct at her .

    • Jais says:

      None of it makes sense. Why wouldn’t tom jr know since he lives with him? And Caroline Graham living in LA and not the Philippines? If she says so. Seems like she’s in the Philippines a whole lot and talks to tom every day. This woman is disgusting and unethical. But apparently she’s the daughter that Tom never had so i guess it’s her job to take care of Tom now. Seeing as he’s a father figure. Truly, he’s her responsibility now. She wormed her way into his life and she can stay there and take care of him.

      • Deborah1 says:

        Well said!

      • Monika says:

        Funny so when the Daily Mail broke the story about Tom Sr in hospital in the Philippines on Friday I got the impression that the DM got this story from Tom Jr and that Tom Jr took Tom Sr to the doctor or hospital.

        As it turns out all lies. It is Caroline Graham who Tom Sr contacted first and it is her sitting at Tom Sr bedside. As Kaiser said if Graham got the phone call from Tom Sr when she was in LA how comes that she is already in the Philippines at Tom Sr bedside.

      • Elly says:

        No, it doesn’t make any sense. I think she’s losing track of her own lies.

  3. Hypocrisy says:

    So he had a leg/foot or something amputated and that’s not enough of a karma slap to make him stop briefing the fail supposedly from his icu bed.. I don’t believe a word of it myself.

    • Sunniside up says:

      If he is in an icu bed surely he is too ill to be briefing the press. And would they allow a journalist in, it should be his son as he is his father’s carer.

      • Deborah1 says:

        @Sunniside up – He doesn’t look all that ill judging from the photos in the MoS of him lying in his hospital bed and being videoed talking to camera.

    • kirk says:

      @Hypocrisy – 💯 “I don’t believe a word of it myself.”
      DailyFail should change their ‘Meghan’ tab to ‘Toro PooPoo’

      Re: “flabbergasted. He had chosen to break the news of the amputation to me before his own family.” — Sure Jan.

      Re: “One of his doctors told this newspaper – with his patient’s express permission – that the surgery was a matter of ‘life or death’. The surgeon said: [blah blah blah, blah blah]…” — Cite your sources dipstick. This isn’t even quasi-journalish ‘royal exspurt’ standards, since TM excused himself from the wedding of his daughter to a monarchical Spare.

      Re: “With Mr Markle’s permission, this newspaper independently confirmed with the hospital that neither their administration office, reception, intensive care unit nor the nurses and doctors attending to Mr Markle had heard from Meghan or her representatives, to the best of their knowledge.” — Really? Great! So now TM is giving the DailyFail permission to hack a Philippine hospital? Does permission to hack extend to Lord Rothemoremoremore?

      And for the final splat of ToroPooPoo:
      Re: “Last night a spokesman for the Sussexes said Meghan sent her father an email on Friday…” — Somewhere in the dim recesses of my cobwebbed memory, I recall a statement (circa April 2020) by Harry and Meghan that there would be “no corroboration and zero engagement” with brittabloids, including DailyFail. So, the Sussexes don’t talk to DailyFail. Period. According to People (12/5/25): ‘“I can confirm she has reached out to her father,” a spokesperson for the Duchess of Sussex tells PEOPLE…While Meghan’s spokesperson did not provide further details, a source notes that the outreach from Meghan is very recent, following the reports of her father’s medical emergency.’

      Sounds like the DailyFail (and the Torygraph) have chosen to interpret “reached out” to mean email was sent. ToroPooPoo.

      • Bex R says:

        Or it’s confirmation Caroline Graham read the email in the supposed unused account (since she has access to all of it), and it became ANOTHER stick to beat Meghan with that it was an unused account.

  4. Tessa says:

    There should be restraining orders against the so called journalists. This is out and out harassment. And when was the last time tom saw his elder grandchildren. I doubt he saw them at all. Nobody forced tom to accept money to go to the media to trash his daughter.

  5. Amy Bee says:

    Meghan is handling this the right way. I believe the DM is lying about her father not receiving the email. They want Meghan to call him on the phone or to travel to the Philippines. I hope she doesn’t fall for their tricks.

    • Nikki says:

      @Amy Bee I wouldn’t be surprised that they aren’t lying about him not getting the e-mail. I’m willing to bet that the DM/Caroline Graham control and/or hack and intercept that e-mail address.

    • BeanieBean says:

      If he hasn’t used it in five years that’s 2020, the year H&M escaped the UK. They probably, rightly, cut all ties with Tom & refused any & all communication with him. And with the way this is playing out, I can believe the Fail has an email set up for him since that time that they have access to.

      Also, as far as I know, you don’t get bounce back emails on standard personal emails. I worked for the feds & you’d get bounce back emails for someone who didn’t work there any more–but only if IT got the notification that they’d left (some agencies are better about the off boarding process than others). As for gmail & hotmail & etc., an incorrect, non-existent email gives you a non-deliverable notification, but not an old address that someone hasn’t bothered to use in a while.

      • Nerd says:

        I don’t know what the truth is but if it is an issue of it being an email that he doesn’t use anymore, that would mean that he still has access to it and so therefore would be able to read the email sent to him from her. So either way, it isn’t on her that he didn’t receive an email that she wasn’t obligated to send him. She like any other person, would send an email through the email that she attaches to him and him changing it without her knowledge isn’t her fault. Besides, he is the same man who lied in numerous interviews that she changed her number after she married Harry so he was unable to contact her. A lie that didn’t make sense because he knew her address and we found out through the courts that her number never changed and that she in fact had attempted to call him over and over again when he claimed that he was in the hospital prior to the wedding. In a similar situation he contacted the media instead of contacting her or his two evil kids. We also found out that he had written her a letter and she had in fact contacted him the whole time that he was lying and saying that she hadn’t. He’s a horrible man and father. He has what he deserves in the oldest two. Just as Harry is Diana’s son and William is Charles’s son, Meghan is Doria’s daughter and the other evil two are all him. His first ex wife knows how trashy they are as well as their own kids.

    • Fawsia says:

      I doubted that Meghan will travel anywhere to see that man! All the things he did to her including offering to testify against her in court!

  6. Over it says:

    I love Meghan email energy 😂😂😂. You want to cause me harm and then expect me to forgive and forget over night because you may or may not have one less leg or foot or arm or toe . Like hell to the no . I stand with Meghan all the way . Caroline and her tabloid friends can go hold his hand . Meghan got to start making more chocolate to meet the demand. These people are out of their ever hating minds

  7. Ginger says:

    This story has so many holes in it, how can anyone believe a word Thomas says? He probably didn’t even get his foot amputated and is in the hospital with the flu or something. Odd that the first person you call is a hack “journalist” from a shitty tabloid but not your kids, grandkids or great grandchildren. Someone also said that the photo he shared of himself in the ICU doesn’t look like a typical ICU but a regular hospital room.

    • Jais says:

      And how can we believe this no-name doctor who was apparently given freedom to speak to the DM. Maybe he lost his foot or for all we know he lost no more than a toe.

      • windyriver says:

        And he’s a VIP patient, but hospital administration, reception, ICU and the nurses and doctors attending him have no problem informing a non-relative (and newspaper reporter) about personal information that should be kept confidential for any patient? And if Meghan had called the whole hospital would have known because they all know each other and talk? Great PR for the hospital.

      • Dee(2) says:

        @windyriver I was thinking the same thing. I know that HIPAA is a US thing, but it can’t reassure patients to hear someone going on the record to say yeah we’re all gossiping about your medical procedures behind the scenes. If this ” doctor” didn’t have express permission from administration they’ll probably be looking for a new job, and if they did have express permission administration should be very worried about inbound ethics complaints.

      • Ginger says:

        Yeah, this whole story is shady as hell. I don’t believe anything this piece of shit says.

      • Christine says:

        I gotta be honest, I really hope this doesn’t become a “pics or it didn’t happen” situation. I can’t think of many things I would enjoy less than seeing Thomas Markle’s festering foot/leg.

      • Nerd says:

        What type of doctor talks about a patient’s relationship and wanting a specific family member to visit him? And nowhere did Meghan say or imply that she contacted the hospital to speak to him so how and why would they think they would know if she contacted him or not? Do people not know that it is 2025 and that there are more ways of contacting someone besides landlines?

    • MY3CENTS says:

      At least this time it’s going to easy to prove he lied. Unlike a heart attack, having your leg or foot amputated is very physical and out there, harder to fake ( i should hope)

    • BeanieBean says:

      🤷‍♀️ I’ve been in an ICU room when my brother had his stroke, he was moved after a couple of days to a regular room. I can honestly say I don’t recall a difference–maybe lack of adjacent restroom? Anyhoo, if Tom is posting photos/videos from his hospital room–ICU or regular–he’s OK.

  8. Tessa says:

    He seems to have energy to talk to the media and give interviews and photo ops and smarmy talk about meghan

    • Ginger says:

      Remember when he had something that made him lose his voice and he didn’t think he would ever speak again? That lasted maybe a week. They used it to try and guilt Meghan and it didn’t work. He is always “fallen ill” and begs Meghan to contact him before he dies. She knows he can’t be trusted.

    • paintybox says:

      @ Tessa – Right? Somehow he always manages, never mind heart attacks, strokes, amputations – always finds time to expound and whine to the tabloids. I would bet Lady Colin Campbell is posing (to him) as his potential SO in a ploy to finally get her claws into Meghan – why would his “caretaker” son be out of the loop and she be the first one he calls? Not only is he pathetic but those “journalists” are pure sleaze. Meghan is right to keep her distance.

  9. Dee(2) says:

    HA!! And all these people were so worried yesterday that Meghan was going to be manipulated. She knows how this man operates, he’s probably been doing stuff like this on a different level since she was in her teens. I’m sure she has spent most of her adult life especially since she started working regularly bailing him out and giving him money for stuff.

    If he really wanted to speak to his daughter, he would go about it every way he could to talk to her not go through the media. If he doesn’t have her phone number, why wouldn’t he think to think about the ways she had to contact him when they last spoke and monitor those modes of communication?

    He doesn’t want to speak to her, at least not without the Daily Mail there, or a news camera there to record his reaction and her coming in. And the Daily Mail has already learned their lesson about printing written communication between the two of them.

    The media knows that they can’t get her back to the UK, so they’re going to continue to escalate until they can get her somewhere where they can trap and bombard her. She’s not going for it. And the more that the story changes, and the more that he goes through the media instead of actually trying to speak to his daughter, through her staff, through her mother, through the method of communication that she reached out to him the clearer it becomes to people that he’s not interested in actually talking to her.

    • Eurydice says:

      A guy who is desperate to see his beloved grandchildren doesn’t move to the Phillipines. Meghan is ignoring his words and judging him by his actions, rightly so.

    • Beana says:

      Spot on, you guys. He’s trying to reel her in and get a photo or recording he can sell. Meghan likely knows. Every time my parent reaches out for “reconciliation” but does it in a manner in which it is clear that it’s really a performance to get pity from others…it’s a gut punch. Because even when you think you have totally killed off that longing to actually have a loving parent who just wants to love you…it hurts all over again.

  10. Beana says:

    I’m extremely low contact with a mentally ill, manipulative parent and I recognize Tom’s tactics. Meghan sent an email because it preserves the distance she needs. He wants to manipulate her into a text exchange, or a call, or a visit. He wants to wriggle his way in to more contact. Good on her for keeping the distance. And YES, we should all be asking WHY, if he’s such a great guy, his closest relationship is with a trash reporter from a tabloid over any if his children or grandchildren. He craves attention, not love.

    • Dee(2) says:

      Exactly. The British media is going to huff and puff, but they always will. However, there’s a lot of people that are no contact with family members nowadays it’s not exactly a rarity. And this behavior, especially playing out in public, is going to be so triggering and recognizable to so many people. Who are going to understand immediately why she hasn’t spoken to her father and almost a decade, and agree why she should continue not to do so.

    • Monika says:

      Exactly. Meghan deliberately did not contact Tom Sr by phone because she knows that his phone is compromised and any message or phone call is passed on to Caroline Graham. An email puts distance between Meghan and Tom Sr but it also looks like that Meghan asked her staff to investigate if the story was true which creates another zone of protection for Meghan.

    • Snarkle says:

      BEANA-
      My entire therapy session this week will be about: “He craves attention, not love.”
      Coming from a family of narcissists and sociopaths- this rang a thundering bell HOLY SHIT moment for me. Can’t believe I’ve haven’t heard it before. Thank you!

    • Nerd says:

      His craving for attention and not love isn’t more obvious than the fact that he has never mentioned wanting to ha a relationship with any of his other grandchildren. I believe he might even have some great grandchildren that he’s never met, yet his only interest is in meeting Meghan’s children because they are the only ones that his media scum will pay him to exploit. That’s why one of the things the media and him were trying to get from her just before the wedding was for her to fly to Mexico to see him. That’s why in his response letter to hers after the wedding he said that he “doesn’t care if they like him or not” he just wanted them to “take a photo with him to share with the world”. It’s why he threatened to sue her to have access to her children. That’s why in this instance his response is that he wants to see her. A reconciliation doesn’t require her being there with him in a hospital bed. Nothing has changed with him. He is still in cahoots with Caroline Graham, who signed for her letter to him and moved next door to him in Mexico and in cahoots with the racist DF. He’s still using any claimed medical issues as an excuse for her to go to him. She and Harry both offered to see him prior to the wedding, he refused. They both offered to send him transportation and protection from the media prior to the wedding. She begged for him to keep the media out of their relationship and he again refused. She has every right to protect herself and her family from this man who is siding with the media that Harry is suing for illegal information gathering which they have done to him, his mother, others and even Meghan. This just proves that he is not to be trusted.

  11. Eurydice says:

    None of this makes sense. Tom sends a text to Caroline that he going to lose his leg – before he tells his son who lives with him? So, how did Tom get to the doctor to receive this diagnosis? How did Tom get to the hospital to prepare for the surgery, all without telling his son?

    I don’t know that I even believe the blood clot story. A guy with his history of heart attacks and stroke most likely would be on blood thinners. But I’m not a doctor.

    And what does he mean – “Of course, I want to talk to her, but I’m not sure this is the right time”? If it’s not the right time, then what is he bitching about?

    • windyriver says:

      Here’s a surprise (not) – the Sun is reporting that Tom Jr. is worried about how they’re going to pay the hospital bills, which insurance won’t fully cover. I wonder who can assist them? Maybe Graham has a contact who can help out? Or they could try GoFundMe?

      Was trying to confirm I’d read Tom Jr. took his father to the doctor on Tuesday, at which point he was transferred to the larger facility. If Tom Sr. texted Graham at 6:30 am Wednesday Philippine time, that would be 10:30 pm in LA. So, she called Tom Jr. right away, but in the very early am Wednesday local time Tom Jr. wasn’t aware at all that his father was already in the hospital scheduled for an amputation in a few hours. Okay. If it was true that she was in LA and didn’t find out about the surgery until she got Tom Sr.’s text Tuesday night, there was still plenty of time to set up the “bad Meghan” storyline. That of course assumes Graham was actually in LA, not at her usual post in the Phillipines.

      I expressed my sympathy to the family by streaming WLM Holiday a couple more times.

      • Monika says:

        @windyriver that was what I thought. When the DM broke this story on Friday it sounded that Tom Jr took his father Tom Sr to the doctor and then to the hospital and that Tom Jr then contacted the DM, probably Caroline Graham, to notify them about the situation.

        Now in this article Graham claims that Tom Sr contacted her, Graham, In LA and she, Graham, notified Tom Jr and Sammy about Tom Sr medical situation. It sounds for me that at that time when Graham contacted Tom Jr and Sammy Tom Sr had already been seen by a doctor and was probably already in the hospital. And now Graham is sitting at Tom Sr bedside, waiting for the big story.

        As usual the Markles and the DM are tripping over their own lies.

      • Hypocrisy says:

        I expressed my sympathy the same way 🤭… it’s been a WLM continuous weekend for me.

  12. Julie says:

    I believe he got the email but choose to work with the fail as the typical jerk he is. This is great really as it gives Meghan the motive to stop this non story right there. I also wonder why he is treated like a VIP when it’s well known he is estranged for the Sussexes.

    • Nerd says:

      And why would a hospital spokesperson without a name mention wanting her to visit personally? Her being there isn’t going to change or help his situation. She isn’t a medical professional and no one working at a hospital would want to create a frenzy at their hospital that would disturb other patients.

  13. IdlesAtCranky says:

    This is just grotesque.

    Meghan, I’m so sorry you have to deal with this mess.

  14. Mrs. Smith says:

    I do not want to see pics, but pics or this amputation didn’t happen.

  15. Sophia says:

    So a daily mail reporter knew about the amputation before his son who’s his primary caregiver? It’s no coincidence that his only friends are shitty reporters

  16. Boxy Lady says:

    I saw those hospital pictures. Serious question: which hospital in the Philippines uses gowns that say “UCMED” on them?

    • Eurydice says:

      That’s University of Cebu Medical.

      • Beth says:

        May be more one hospital under this umbrella.

      • Eurydice says:

        @Beth – Supposedly, he went to a local hospital first and was then transferred to a large hospital in the city. They’re not saying which one, but the acronym is for University of Cebu Medical which is a large teaching hospital.

    • Deborah1 says:

      I wish Kaiser had included those pictures from the MoS of Toxic Tom lying in his hospital bed and the one with his arm around Caroline Graham. It would have added more weight to the post. This whole situation is bizarre.

    • Monc says:

      My Mom
      Was in a hospital in Colombia (Centros Urgencias Medicos) and this is the acronym… C.U.M. And they had it etched in the sidewalks… the first time I saw the sidewalks, I thought it was some sort of joke until I realized we were in front of the hospital … then I just laughed that there was C.U.M. All over the sidewalk

  17. Jais says:

    How many weeks until Harry’s DM case begins? The DM’s issues with the Sussex family feels v personal. Lord Rothemere really didn’t like being called out when Meghan won her case last time.

    • Beth says:

      May be trying to upset Harry and throw him off balance by hurting his beloved wife?

    • Monika says:

      This all sounds so personal. Caroline Graham’s relationship with Tom Sr is very personal. the last couple of incidents with Tom Sr, the earthquake and now the medical incident, shifted the focus also onto Graham’s and Tom Sr relationship so much that she had to explain their relationship in this article. Graham also emphasises that everything what they do, information gathering and so on, are done with Tom Sr consent. I think this is to counter any allegation of manipulation. I am wondering if there is a professional body for journalists which could investigate Graham for unethical behaviour.

      I thing the DM is looking for ammunition against Harry and to hurt him. And they know that Harry is very protective of Meghan and anything they do to attack Meghan will hurt Harry. But I think this will only fire up Harry.

  18. MsIam says:

    This whole story sounds fishy. Because if I’m in the ICU “fighting for my life” I’m definitely going to be in contact with the tabloids. /s I know some celebrities have had issues with family going berserk once they become famous but this is unbelievable. And then to have a bottom feeder tabloid in the mix too? I believe the Fail knows they are going to lose the case and this is why they are trying to inflict as much misery as possible on Meghan. I truly wish the worst of the worst on that “business “, they can’t fold fast enough for me.

  19. Brassy Rebel says:

    Is Thomas Markle her assignment as a reporter. Or is he her friend/father figure? Stay tuned! I have a feeling we will soon learn that just his toe was amputated. No! Not even that! He had an ingrown toenail. This is bonkers. I hope Meghan just ignores them all.

  20. aquarius64 says:

    I figured Meghan would have people check out this story then send out an email which didn’t bounce back.

  21. Lady Digby says:

    If he was in a life and death situation talking to a tabloid would NOT be thought of by him or his loved ones and the hospital would be respecting patient confidentiality in any circumstances. Yesterday his business partner,Karl Larsen was telling The Times that he’d sent his number to Meghan so she could contact dad via him? As is?? All these bottom feeds like Junior, Scanmatha, Karl and Caroline want to use dad’s dubious health to lure Meghan back into their clutches. They want a big payday from reunion pictures of the entire family, constant access to Meghan and her cash from now on. He’s NOT battling for his life he’s once again attempting to blackmail Meghan so he and his hangers on can score big time. Meghan is wise to his shenanigans and that of his handlers.

  22. Elly says:

    I think this whole situation is so unethical. On the part of the Daily Mail and the hospital too. Why are they getting involved in family dynamics and making it public? For the hospital administration to publicly deny that they’ve heard from Meghan and encourage her to visit her father in the Philippines? Really shady and suspect.

    • Brassy Rebel says:

      Yes, this is the important story, not Markle’s health. All of this deception around the man’s health is not wise for another reason. Crying “Wolf!” means that an actual health crisis will be ignored in the future.

    • Lady Digby says:

      Agreed @Elly this setup is wrong on every level and very concerning. When my elderly dad was hospitalised here in the UK I was given medical information by them only in his presence and with his consent. No way would they have said anything over the phone let alone to a newspaper?! Also during dad’s last 8 years he endured frequent hospitalisations and my siblings and I were exhausted visiting and working full time. We kept focused on him and our families and had no time for idle questions. If you are seriously ill you don’t call the Daily Mail before your loved ones?! Who does such an odd thing? TM isn’t famous why involve the DM? Why endless coverage and front page stories? This is all wrong, invasive and unjustified.

      • Jais says:

        And let’s take it at face value, just as an example. If his foot has been amputated he’s gotta be on extreme pain meds. Is he really in a well-enough state to give authorization to doctors to talk to tabloids? No doctor should take that at face-value if he’s on that many pain meds which I can only assume would be the case after an amputation. Unless Caroline Graham has been given authorization by Tom in all his medical and media decisions.

      • Deborah1 says:

        @Jais – He looks pretty perky in those “deathbed” photos in the MoS.

  23. pottymouthpup says:

    why the hell aren’t they being criticized for having a “reporter” embedded with him? That is utterly bizarre on the face of it and is just evidence that the British media is directly engaged and probably paying the Markles to file these nuisance suits & even giving them scripts to smear Meghan

  24. NoBS Please says:

    This whole circus sounds like a repeat of the earthquake BS plotline, and Meghan should stay well clear.

    Take for example Thomas M’s emotionally manipulative hyperbole about reconciling and seeing his grandkids “before he dies”. Pass me the barf bag!!!

    He apparently had a limb amputated and is apparently lying in a hospital. That doesn’t exactly put him at death’s doorstep, does it? The abusive manipulation in public, led by the Daily Fail, is the dead give-away that this is just an entirely BS story aimed at generating days worth of clicks for the Daily Fail and others, and giving them another rod with which to bash Meghan, overshadow her successes (eg WLM Holiday Special being in Netflix Top 10, her stunning Harper’s Baazar coverage, or her chocolates selling out in minutes), and try to stress her out.

    Not to mention to add to their upcoming lists about how 2025 was SUCH a disaster year for Meghan and Harry – these should start coming thick and fast from mid-December.

    Meghan should absolutely email “so sorry to hear you’re unwell, I’m sure you’re being well taken care of, happy holidays”.

    Because it doesn’t matter what she does, the Daily Fail will continue demanding MORE and MORE. They think they’ve found a way in to control Meghan, she should neutralise and disarm them right away!

  25. samipup says:

    Did he check his spam folder?

  26. Susan says:

    Why on earth is Meghan’s camp engaging in this? What is wrong with this family? Playing out all this drama through the media, what an embarrassment.

    • sueinorleans says:

      They aren’t engaging in anything. I think they are handling this in the absolute right way. No matter what, Markle Sr is her father, and it would be more surprising if she expressed no concern and ignored the whole thing. Amputation is a pretty horrible thing and guaranteed to catch someone’s attention. Is he lying? Probably about a lot of things, but likely not about that.

    • Eurydice says:

      The Markles are playing this as a reality show. There’s no embarrassment with public family drama on a reality show, just money and attention. Even if Meghan does nothing, the Markles will still profit from this. But Meghan has a new business to defend and she’s not heartless – an email seems like the best reaction on her part.

    • windyriver says:

      Agree with @Eurydice about Meghan’s response. In fact, the only information that seems reliable is the simple early statement Meghan’s spokesperson provided, that she had reached out. Not sure where the “she sent an email” came from and I question that, because first, it isn’t anyone’s business, Meghan’s not obligated to prove anything, and second, it leaves an opening for Tom etc. to say, no she didn’t, which is exactly what they’ve said. Current media stories are saying Meghan’s been calling hospitals all over the Philippines in “a frantic bid to get in touch” with her father, which is also ridiculous, because the hospital initials on Tom’s gown show exactly where he is. Yet another opportunity for the media to run with the ball and generate creative stories for as long as they can.

  27. L4Frimaire says:

    This situation has really gotten out if control and I don’t understand how an ethical journalist is not calling it out. There really is something seriously wrong. Basically this so-called repirter Caroline Graham and the Daily Mail ate in control of Markle. During her case against the Daily Mail, Meghan stated that the tabloids groomed her father. It’s do obvious now and needs to be called out and dealt with. There is something about this situation that seems like it’s being used to entrap Meghan. It’s really off. Tom Markle is loving the attention.

    • Lady Digby says:

      Agreed 💯 Tom fully embraces total publicity syndrome. He is loving the attention and counting on endless photoshoots with Meg and Harry and the grandkids. He’ll expect Meghan to pay all his medical bills and then everything else plus living with them full-time.Tom Markle is ALWAYS ready for his closeup!!

  28. QuiteContrary says:

    A British commentator (Carole Malone, I think) again recently claimed that Markle raised Meghan while her mother was in prison. Which is insane and defamatory — Doria was never in prison. They keep confusing her with a man who has a similar name.
    This is all gross and infuriating.

    • Nic919 says:

      I know they don’t want to start more lawsuits, but Malone needs to be hit with a defamation suit for that kind of egregious lie.

      • Lurker says:

        Doria should sue. Not only Carole Malone for defamation, but the TV station, too, for allowing Ms Malone to defame her without anyone questioning the validity of her claim. This is not a case of “opinion piece”, she said it as a fact, unchallenged. It is time to leave the high road and to put a stop to the defamation campaign.

        I admire Doria for her quiet dignity, but enough is enough. Sue for millions, donate the money. Show these vultures that you are tired of being abused only to hurt Meghan in the process.

  29. BeanieBean says:

    Unflippin-believable! We’re supposed to just gloss over the part where she says Tom contacted HER first before the son who lives right there with him?!?@!??!

    But what gets me is this part: ‘It is a big hospital by Filipino standards but we all know each other and we all talk.’ Right. That’s what we were all saying about katiekins’ supposed two weeks in the hospital. Was she even there? Nobody said anything. Nobody in the entire staff said a word? Then when she visited that infusion room, at a different hospital, and they told us she supposedly had her chemo there…really? And nobody talked? When you’re going to an infusion room on a specific schedule you get to know the other patients, the other regulars. So not just nursing staff but others. And nobody talked?

    I’m just…really, who cares about Tom? His current life–estranged from his entire family except the one son is his doing and nobody else’s. Aw, nobody’s visiting you before your death? Bummer.

  30. Lady Digby says:

    When faced with devastating news, Thomas Markle did not call his children, he called a Daily Mail journalist. He gave interviews from a hospital bed, posed for photographs in an ICU, and allowed his private medical crisis to be packaged as entertainment. These are not the actions of someone seeking family support. They are the choices of a man who has spent years prioritizing tabloid attention over personal relationships.
    TM showed us exactly who he was when he STOPPED speaking over the phone to Meghan days before her wedding because he chose to give paid updates to TMZ every time he changed his mind about attending said wedding!! He keeps choosing betrayal for cash and upping the ante each time in the hope of the ultimate big score: reconciliation photo spread, non stop tabloid coverage and endless cash from Meghan?! He chose TMZ, DM, Caroline Graham, Piers Morgan, Wootton, Lady Colin and is looking for another payday at Meg’s expense. That ship sailed years ago. He got another MoS front page and an email from his daughter but that’s all he’s getting.

    • L4Frimaire says:

      This man is spite and malice personified. There is nothing Meghan can do that will satisfy these people except signing her life and children over to them to exploit. If she chooses to, she should only communicate through a lawyer.

  31. tamsin says:

    Perhaps they should try something other than medical crises. This is beginning to sound like the abuser who cried wolf too many times. First a whole leg, and now a foot. One can be forgiven if the immediate thought is this is another hoax to harass Meghan and muddy the waters before Harry’s court case which is next month. I don’t know what to make of this Caroline Graham creature. First she lives in the Philippines, then she’s not. Would a tabloid keep a journalist permanently embedded with a some kind of asset, which I assume Markle to the DM still? What kind of self-respecting journalist would do that? The DM needs to try to inflict damage on the Sussexes and somebody needs money. I can safely assume both are true.

  32. Siri says:

    Her story makes.no sense. If his son is hus primary caregiver in the Phillipines, how was she notified first? Wouldn’t the doctors have talked to the son? Also, she stated that she lives in Los Angeles, so she flew there to be with him? Before it was stated that she lived there. Something is off.

  33. Flower says:

    Interesting how this man is always deathly ill when Meghan’s important projects are at the forefront.

    This has been and always will be about extracting money from Meghan.

  34. Nic919 says:

    How many ethical standards has Caroline Graham broken with this? Because it is crazy for her to be hanging around him like this and then feeding the DM with the information she is getting.

    Tom Markle has his own issues but Graham is preying on him at this point.

    • Blujfly says:

      The British tabloid media has no standards. Someone advised Olivia Nuzzi to just go write for the British papers, where her closeness and relationships with her subjects would be seen as an asset.

  35. Maja says:

    Those at the top have so much to hide and conceal. Follow the money trails, the secret agreements, the deals with Arab countries, follow the billionaires’ funds created and managed by Epstein. Follow the Bitcoin trail, that’s what this is all about. But the mission is to stage a ridiculous emotional drama to obscure what is really important. A web of lies to paralyse the mind. Maybe he only lost a toe? We’ll see.

  36. L4Frimaire says:

    Controversial opinion but the Sussex who needs to see Tom Markle is Harry. He needs to better protect and defend his wife from her problematic family. Granted maybe she doesn’t want to drag him into it but she is constantly being dragged on this and no one mentions him. Meanwhile, she gets mentioned every time something comes up between Harry and the royals. I know it’s not fair but I feel like his dealing with this issue would be listened to more. I really hope she’s ok and being supported and loved on when she’s constantly bring maligned and attacked.

    • Tessa says:

      Harry and Meghan need to stay away from that man

    • Square2 says:

      No. Harry should never meet or communicate with that man, neither should the Sussex children.

      The Bad Dad has been seduced by money & fame, brainwashed by the tabloids, and held the illusion of self-importance. He will sell out the Sussex without blink an eye. I mean what kind of person who gave hospital the permission to give out your medical condition to the tabloid and not your children? BTW, Jr already set up a GoFundMe page days ago ($7000). They are all greedy grifters.

      The ethics of British journalism & media are really lower than sewage.
      Trash. And yes, that included BBC and Guardian.

  37. jferber says:

    It’s exactly what I would have expected of Markle– claiming he never received his daughter’s email. Or, worse, he could have said he did receive it and claim it said something like, “Die, you bitch. I hope they amputate the other leg.” Markle actually reminds me very much of Trump. A liar, corrupt, demented, no loyalty, etc.

  38. Cathy says:

    DM must know they will stand to make a considerable amount of money which is why they have embedded Caroline Graham with Thomas Markle. She’s not there to be nice, she’s there to make money.

    • Unblinkered says:

      Exactly.
      And the DM and their owners should be severely censured for it. As someone else on here commented this is out and out harassment. Almost entrapment. The other print media should be asking how much overall has Thomas Markle been paid by the UK press.

  39. Catherine says:

    Indeed. VUP more like. He is completely vile and repulsive and she owes him nothing.

  40. s808 says:

    part of me thinks the way that the British press seemingly has complete control over Thomas Markle is deeply immoral, creepy and disgusting, but the other part recognizes that he is a grown man who’s always been about himself and no one else.

  41. bisynaptic says:

    He has now corralled the Filipino health care system into his manipulation of Meghan. The mind reels.

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