Tori Spelling is worried the husband she cheated with is going to cheat on her

I don’t like Tori Spelling, but she has a few fans who take me to task whenever I make fun of her for the dumb sh*t she says and does. Like when Tori and Dean held a recommitment ceremony after a whole four years of marriage, they put out meaningful items to represent their identities and deep abiding love. Tori made a display involving lucite boxes with shoes, along with a book on June Carter and Johnny Cash, calling them “an inspiration – a couple that were both married before and then found each other.” I thought that was ridiculous, but there were a couple of people who were like “I love them, leave them alone!

Yes, Tori and Dean were both married to other people when they “found each other.” Tori was married for a year and Dean was in the process of adopting a special needs baby with his wife of 12 years, who wrote candidly about how it made her feel when Dean dumped her after knowing Tori a whole 3 weeks. Now that Tori and Dean are inevitably having trouble, Tori no longer seems to be inspired by infidelity. She admits to People that she’s afraid that Dean will end up cheating on her, too. You know what they say, “once a cheater…”

Tori Spelling thinks her husband Dean McDermott will cheat on her! The star of Oxygen’s Tori and Dean Home Sweet Hollywood admits to People magazine that things in her marriage have been really rough!

“We’re a loving couple, but were human and definitely not perfect,” says Tori. “Given our history I often get worried that Dean is going to cheat on me. If the phone rings and it’s a girl’s voice I have to ask if he’s having an affair.”

Even though Tori has no proof that Dean is cheating on her she says she can’t help but think these horrible thoughts!

“Dean has never been anything but devoted, and he tells me over and over again that he would never do that,” says Tori.”Deep down I believe him. But I can’t stop myself. For some reason I’m compelled to accuse him of cheating.”

Tori realizes there have been several rumors saying she was in a “loveless” marriage and she says this is wrong BUT there are definitely problems.

“Last autumn was hard,” she says. “We were in an ebb.”

The mom of two kids, Liam, 3, and Stella, 2, tells People that Dean doesn’t spend much time at home anymore.

“I apologize to Dean constantly and it drives him crazy and rightfully so,” says Tori. “Dean isn’t around to witness most of my efforts to build my business … he’s riding motorcycles … I’ve become a workaholic and Dean has become a motorcycle-aholic … if Dean has a day off he’s off to the race track.”

“Better to love and get hurt than to have anger and no love,” says Tori.

[From Hollywood Life]

There’s an alternative that Tori seems to be missing. She could have chosen a partner with a history of fidelity, then she wouldn’t have had to worry so much about whether history would repeat and she would get cheated on, too. Then again, she presumably had that with husband no. 1 and threw it away for true love with Dean. Does she know how it feels now? I doubt it.

Tori and Dean are shown out on 4/6/10. Credit: Fame Pictures


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  1. Honey Love says:

    how you get him is how you lose him. payback

  2. Guest says:

    It must be hard for all of those who have had affairs. And sorry to the Brad/Angie fans but Angie must worry about this two. Children don’t hold a man.

  3. Gwen says:

    Karma is a bitch.

  4. Oh, and I read this book called The Other Woman, I think , and it was by a bunch of women telling stories of being left or leaving… His ex was one o fthe authors and she talks about how he thought Tori was so ugly and made jokes about befriending the horse to better his career. I guess he has more of one now, but it ain’t going anywhere. Tori better keep Dean away from LIfetime scripts and Leanne R.

  5. Deb says:

    Yea, it’s all fun and games until someone loses and eye.

  6. Sigh. says:


    I VAGUELY remember her saying that she felt her 1st husband was “too good” for her, and her mom insisted that she doesn’t let him get away. She was too insecure. Left him w/in 5 mins, through her therapist telling him (by his claim).

    This marriage: obviously feels he SHOULD cheat on her, almost WILLING him to do so, although he has shown her no interest in other women…yet (in her head).

    No man will make her feel secure in a marriage. The problem is Tori. Not Husband #1, not even Dean. But Tori.

  7. lucy2 says:

    Wow, this all sound SO healthy.

    Sounds like she has serious self esteem problems.
    Did he really dump his wife and kids for her after knowing her only 3 weeks?!?! And this was someone she chose to dump her own husband for and start a family with?
    A pair of idiots, those two. Can’t feel bad for them, just the kids.

  8. Crash2GO2 says:

    Good lord Gaga has awful taste. And check out those shoes/hooves/stilts she is walking on!

  9. anjasmomma says:

    Why would you admit this vulnerability to the public? This seems like something that should be addressed in couple’s counseling not the latest issue of People.

  10. bellaluna says:

    If your man cheats with you, he will cheat on you. How you get your man is how you lose your man. Need I go on?

    I can’t drum up sympathy for these two, who’ve destroyed two families with their selfishness. I just can’t.

  11. original kate says:

    couples who have reality shows tend to break up, so already their chance are slim.

  12. zen says:

    ya gotta love Karma

  13. RHONYC says:

    “Better to love and get hurt than to have anger and no love,”


    just pitful. 🙁

  14. PrettyTarheelFan says:

    @ Lucy2 Look for stories @ Mary Jo Eustace. She’s the woman Dean left for Tori. They had a strong marriage, had JUST adopted a baby girl, and it was destroyed while they were on vacation. I’ve always been amazed there wasn’t more media coverage. I realize they aren’t huge names, but the story itself was just horrible-when I read anything about her, I find my heart catching a beat. She was in a happy life, normal marriage with ups and downs-there wasn’t years of indications…and he even admitted that there was nothing wrong, he just fell in love with Tori and DISCARDED HIS ENTIRE FAMILY for her. He had children and a wife that depended on his ass. He will never be anything but a chicken-shit limp-dick p____ in my opinion. I don’t know what shit he fed Tori, so I can’t judge her getting with him. I can only say if you’re minding your own business, in your own house, you won’t be cheating on your spouse. (You can be minding your business in your house while on location. I travel, so does my husband-we mind our business).

  15. OXA says:

    If you do not have trust, your are doomed.

  16. Annie says:

    Just read the article written by his ex about when she found out about these two. What a douche.

    Karma-love it!

  17. zen says:

    that was a very interesting article on his ex. I never really knew anything about them and now I really feel for her and hope he does leave her for someone else.

  18. Kelbear says:

    Guest you are so right: Children don’t hold a man.

  19. 2Pac Fan says:

    Karma is a motherfucker and it’s going back to Tori very badly and i cannot wait

  20. Riley says:

    “Ebb”…that seems like kind of a big word for T.

  21. Kiska says:

    Dean and Tori lack integrity. What goes around, comes around.

  22. Tess says:

    Good Gawd woman. Pull yourself together. You’re publically humiliating yourself.

  23. YT says:

    Ha! Tori is using misdirection. Look to see if she is the first to cheat in this marriage.

  24. elle says:

    Here’s the thing… He married Tori just so that he could live the life in California. He thought he’d have tons of money and be a ginormous movie star.
    Well, look at what he has to look at every day. The moron can’t act. He left his beautiful wife, son and daughter b/c he’s a selfish pig. And she’s worried that he’s going to fool around on her? She should start praying that he does.

  25. Jaded says:

    Dollar signs rang up in his eyes when he met Tori – “cha ching, here’s my gravy train and ticket to fame and fortune!” He never had or would have had that kind of fame in Canada. Now that Tori’s back in favour with her mother I’m sure he’s thinking his 4 years and 2 kids’ worth of time and ‘devotion’ will be worth it. What a puddle of pig excrement he is….

  26. Jeri says:

    She probably had to “bribe/pay” People mag for the coverage with a “personal revelation.” Thus blurting out a private thought.

  27. Divasbaby says:

    Oh for God sake people this is for publicity to generate ratings for the show. They are fine. Having worked with them in the last 6 months I can tell you that they are a loving, devoted couple with the same problems as everyone else. They are not getting divorced. Hmmm, no one thinks it suspicious that this People article is timed to the season finale of the show. The last episode was their vow renewal.

    Please, she’s an actress and she’s trying to make a living. There have to be story arc even in reality TV.

  28. Q says:

    Oh my god. I just read the article by the ex-wife. Tori and Dean are disgusting, horrible human beings. That poor woman, to be put through that hell and then have to watch these to pieces of poop parade around on TV? I feel like finding her and giving her a hug. The only consolation is that she is rid of this obvious douchebag man.

  29. Nicole says:

    My problem with the whole statement of choosing a partner who doesn’t have a history of it is this…My husband and I had a simular situation…and I don’t fear that my husband will EVER cheat on me.

    Tomorrow is actually our anniversary, and the thought of him cheating on me has never crossed my mind in all the years we’ve been together. I think despite someone’s past, if you and this person have a true connection then there is nothing to worry about.

  30. Marjalane says:

    Who on friggin’ earth would want this guy??? He’s a scummy leech that grabbed on to the first sugar-momma he could get. It cracks me up when I hear certain women worry about “keeping their man”, HEY! NEWSFLASH! NO ONE WANTS HIM! I think even Angelina is a little more at ease knowing that Billy Goat Brad, has fallen off of most women’s “hot list”.

  31. cheekemunkey says:

    The last show I watched of theirs (really sad to admit I ever watched it, but it’s like a car crash / can’t look away).

    Anyhow, it was the show when her two gay friends got married. Tori delayed the start of the wedding because of some issue with her hemline, and then toasted them by referencing herself and her kids a ga-zillion times. It was shameful. The look on their friends’ faces was, “what is this beotch doing to our wedding?” Not at all heart felt.

    Funny how a person can be so self-centered yet insecure at the same time.

  32. molly says:

    Does anyone but me remember the Canadian TV show Due South? Dean McDermott played the sweetest character and I loved him! Now he’s a disgusting sleezy douchebag. Gross.

  33. Ro says:

    I agree with all of you, especially the person who points out that this is all scripted. I think that these two will get divorced though and it will be ugly. The reason I say this is not because of any of their press releases but because of the type of people they must be to put their children and families through this big show. What type of people want their entire lives to be filmed, including the lives of their children.

  34. EB says:

    Her husband’s outward appearance is finally resembling his inward one. Same for Miss Spelling.

  35. Cinderella says:

    Leann Rimes, take note. This will be your life.

    If Tori’s husband hasn’t cheated yet, I’d be very surprised.

  36. Eileen Yover says:

    My mom was my dad’s secretary and they had an affair while he was married. They got married and had me and then he spent the next 11 years cheating on her. She’d leave him, and take him back, leave him, take him back….it was ridiculous. Now they’ve been divorced for 20 years and she has spent the last 15 of those damning him for ruining her life. I told her I blamed him for one year of cheating, then the next 10 I blame her-she made the choice to go back knowing full well he’s a cheater. But she chose the almighty $$$ over her dignity. Dean either had love at first sight (hard to believe that-gross) or he’s a cheater who thinks of his own needs before anyone else s and does whatever feels good at that moment.

  37. moo says:

    I just wish she’d gain some weight!

  38. Sigh. says:

    @ Eileen Yover –
    “I told her I blamed him for one year of cheating, then the next 10 I blame her-she made the choice to go back knowing full well he’s a cheater.”

    That. Was. Deep.

  39. Sumodo1 says:

    Do you think Tori could find a decent colorist? That yellow hair has always bothered me.

  40. Team Bethenny says:

    When a mistress marries her lover, she leaves her position open for someone else.

  41. M says:

    just evil. All angelina haters, hate on Tori too! She ruined a whole family especially the kids. 🙁

  42. hellen says:

    If he cheats WITH you, he will cheat ON you. Somehow a lot of men AND women just never think this through.

  43. Marjalane says:

    It’s pitiful when women elevate themselves to this place of “This will NEVER happen to me” Get a clue, Toots! Your Mr. Wonderful is not working within the system- and YOU aren’t that great. Cheaters cheat, end of story.

  44. Mrs Odie 2 says:

    Dean is not going to attract a bigger name to hitch his wagon to, so I think he’ll stick to having Mehran tickle his taint in secret. And all these comments about “how you get him is the way you lose him” are so cynical and assume all men are the same. So, I’ll lose my husband camping in Arizona?

  45. Jo says:

    I actually like her .. she is a hard worker and has a swwt heart.. him not so much… I think he got hooked on her because she was all into sex (he mentions it all the time in sometimes a crass manner) But when children come along and time sex wanes and of couse being a man he is cluless in the trap..
    I heard he was kinda a lay about before they met and working some construction jobs.. His ex is a classy lady and prob just put up with it cuz she meant her comitment I hope they make it .. but unless they both get real… no chance

  46. YeaRight! says:

    An affair, is exciting and thrilling, because there is no day to day issues, such as kids, bills, drs appts, etc. However, when the two cheaters set up household, they bring in baggage of all the exes, the kids, the day to day of life, bills, running kids here there and everywhere, jobs, etc. It isn’t exciting and thrilling anymore and that is why only 10% of those type of marriages last. It ends up that one partner ends up cheating AGAIN, or both end up cheating.

    Luckily for me and my husband, we’ve been together 35 yrs. He knows his carcass (that would be the only thing left) will hit the street if he ever strayed. However, my father was a habitual cheater, finally my mother grew a spine and kicked him out after 20 yrs of marriage. She now has been wed to a wonderful man for 18 yrs…, that I call DAD….and he adores her. My father married 3 times after their divorce none of the marriages lasted 5 yrs…, and died at the ripe ole age of 66. He was alone, his 4th wife left him before he keeled over from a heart attack. Yep you got it, in the throws of passion with yet another woman.

  47. girl says:

    I honestly don’t know. Does Dean see his children by his first wife at all? I don’t see them talked about much by Dean or Tori.

    How can she not think that won’t happen to her? Obviously she probably wont’ be relying on him for financial security but at least as a father to her children?

    Wow. I get the impression she is very insecure.

  48. nnn says:

    It must be hard for all of those who have had affairs. And sorry to the Brad/Angie fans but Angie must worry about this two. Children don’t hold a man.
    You mean like Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward ?

    Or like Tom Hanks and his presently wife ?

    Or like plenty of others…

  49. Fluffy Kitten Tail says:

    I am just bored with the same old “How you get him is how you lose him” schtick. Yeah, we get it. True. Over used but true.

  50. Watermelons says:

    She is looking a lot like her mom …the face/hair.

    other than that, don’t watch the show. can’t stand fake-real-a-lie-ty tv.

  51. CaramelKiss says:

    Don’t you think there is some irony with her having straw-like hair and looking like a horse? LMAO. I mean if she gets hungry (which ain’t gonna happen), she can gnaw on her gruesome hair… OK, that was kinda mean, but so is screwing someone else’s husband WHILE still married yourself, huh? Yah.

  52. ViktoryGin says:

    Why reveal details of this intimate nature to a magazine? I know she needs to sell her soul for income, but really?

    A woman this insecure has no business in a relationship. She obviously has needs that he can’t fill.

  53. snowball says:

    She was a total daddy’s girl who needed his approval for everything; is it any wonder she’s completely dependent on having the man in her life completely reassuring her over and over that she’s worthy? And even then, no matter how often he tells her, it’ll never be enough because that bitch of a mother ensured she had no self esteem whatsoever.

    Tori’s messed up a lot of her own life and she’s got to put on her big girl panties and own up to it, but you can’t fault her for the emotional insecurities that drive most of her behavior. Her parents really messed her up and her mom continues to do it. I think Dean passive/agressively plays it too.

    It gets him what he wants. Tori panting after him, throwing money at him and letting him do what he wants.

  54. ogechi says:

    @Guest: hahaha, that has been my thought:)

  55. BReedy says:

    well, cupcake, if it doesn’t START OUT right it won’t END UP right. You will spend the rest of your married life wondering, worried and suspicious. Your husband has been a cool liar to others, so observe him with eyes & ears cast toward the truth. I have been there with a cheating husband.
    I feel for you, Tori, and admire your carving out a life for yourself,even as Dean contributes by motorcycling…

  56. Maritza says:

    She needs to change that hair color, it’s awful, she looked so much better when she had darker hair and another nose job to fix the one she had would be a good idea too. Maybe if she looked better she’d have better self esteem. At least she and her mother are getting along now.

  57. Hateher says:

    I just read the article written by Dean’s ex-wife. Wow, he is such a scumbag and Tori is too. Shame on both of them.

  58. ViktoryGin says:

    @ snowball

    Good assessment. Also, Dean strikes me as the type who probably likes having someone emotionally dependent on him even if it’s stifling.

  59. Slymm27 says:

    Dear Lord, she is ugly! @Caramelkiss..,yeah that was mean, but so true! And enough with the how you got your man, is how you loose him story. It doesn’t always work dat way.

  60. Digy Doo says:

    Tori’s first husband was gay, which was not a known fact to the world.

  61. bellaluna says:

    @ Maritza – from what I understand, Tori’s had like 3 nose jobs, and was advised not to have any more because of damage from the previous 3. It could be BS, but she’s been stuck with that one since 90210, so I think there might be some truth to it.

    Also, her parents were uber-pissed that her first marriage only lasted a year after they spent a million + dollars on the wedding.

  62. Aims says:

    If I looked like Tori I would be worried too… lol. Is dean blind? Obviously he is only with her for the fame… like come on! I know 90 year old woman who look better…

  63. notsoanonymous says:

    Couple things – I’m not an over-the-top Tori lover, but I think people are especially hard on her. After reading her books, every time I see or hear people comment on her looks in a negative way, it breaks my heart. Her mother was in no way kind to her about her looks – ironic since her mother married her father, and Tori is a spitting image of Aaron.

    Anyway – She reminds me a lot of Kate Gosselin. No way to make money anymore OTHER than through the press. People say “Kate should just go back to being a nurse” – what hospital administrator is going to hire someone who is THAT recognizable? Tori has NO CHANCE at a normal life because of the family she was born into.

    Again, I don’t agree with cheating, but I can’t blame her for leaving her first marriage and also can’t blame her for having doubts about Dean.


  64. Isa says:

    “So, I’ll lose my husband camping in Arizona?” That made me laugh! Thank you 🙂

  65. DiMi says:

    Oh God, I read the article. The way he left her was downright evil. And she’s a good writer so you really feel it.

    This reminds me of Julia Roberts and her nobody husband who was married and whose wife was pregnant when they met. Why do these actresses do this with these golddigging nobody men? What does it mean to them?

    I think the problem here is that people think that “love” justifies cruelty. ‘He loves me so it’s not wrong for him to abandon his family.’ Actually, the sexual infidelity is a minor point compared to the total abandonment of young children. That means he’s a bad person so it doesn’t really matter if he cheats or not. Tori is still married to the type of person who could abandon his children. That’s its own punishment.

  66. LuckyLilGem says:

    Anyone notice this couple is the middle aged version of Speidi? They even create their own controversial drama to keep their names in the celeb gossip mill.

  67. guest says:

    Well that’s their life, things are diffrent for everyone. I just think cheating can always happen at any given moment, while married or just being in a relationship. Couples just need to have that LOVE, TRUST & HONESTY to keep a relationship strong… Many things happen for a reason!

  68. Better than you! says:

    How sad! Iam overwhelmed at how judgemental and arrogant people have become, it is like no one makes any mistakes in life….Tori and dean fell in love so get over it..too bad that his EX wife cannot get over it and move on, things happen and people change, maybe if Dean was truly happy he would not have left his EX,..Iam happy for Tori and Dean they make a cute couple, and the fact that Tori admits she is insecure is just being real and honest unike most of hollywierd….the thing that is the most ridicuous is the fact that most everyone on here acts as if they are something perfect and worthy of judging others when the truth is there is not one person on this earth that is without sin and mistake, so try keeping your harsh wishes and awful attitudes inward looking at yourself to make yourself a better person instead of spending so much time worrying about the mistakes someone else is or is not making….good luck T and D I for one wish you both well..I think you are real and that your love will see you through anything!

  69. mjeustace says:

    Dean’s exwife is the one with the problem it has been years since tori and dean have gotten together and she is still whining about it, hey, things happen people get divorced, women get left, she is by far the lone ranger, actually i find mary jo eustace annoying by the fact she is the one using tori for her book sales and money, if it werent for tori she would not make any money now go swallow that.

  70. kris says:

    To all the people condeming Tori Dean…if they were that happy in their previous relationships, they wouldn’t have cheated in the first place.