Are you ready for another episode of the Ill-Fated Wedding That Should Never Be? That is, everyone but Jessica Biel seems to realize that marrying Justin Timberlake is a bad idea. Hell, even Justin knows it, so I don’t understand at all why he’s going through with the marriage. Maybe he won’t though, and I wouldn’t wish being left at the altar on anyone, but it really might be the best thing for this couple to just break up now before things get really ugly. After all, when a man proposes just to get his lady to STFU, you would think it’d be easier to just break up with her and cut off all contact. Unfortunately, logic does not prevail where this pseudo-romance is concerned.
Since the engagement, we’ve heard that Justin and Jessica are fighting over the prenup, the size of the wedding, and even the ring itself. Further, Jessica’s parents hate Justin for very good reason, and it doesn’t seem like he has any intention of giving up the good bachelor life. Now this week’s issue of Star has a story about how Justin really wanted to invite his ex-girlfriend, Cameron Diaz, to the wedding because they’re still very good friends. Naturally, Jessica is having none of this nonsense and refuses to let Cam attend the wedding:
After four years of on-and-off romance, Justin Timberlake and Jessica Biel are finally making it official. But since getting engaged, the couple have been butting heads over the details of their big day. And there’s one demand jealous Jessica just won’t drop: No invite for Cameron Diaz!
“Jess considers Cam her love rival,” a pal of the couple tells Star. “It burns her up that Justin has stayed friends with Cam after breaking up. When they were going over the invite list Jess crossed Cam off and told Justin, “That woman’s not coming to my wedding!”
And Cameron — who split from JT in late 2006 — isn’t the only persona non grata at the nuptials. “Jessican warned Justin to not even think about inviting another ex, Britney Spears. And she’s even limiting Justin’s party friends.”
Now Jessica’s bridezilla behavior has Justin worried about life after the “I do”s. “He’s putting on a brave face, but he feels like he’s marching to the gallows,” says the insider. “Justin bitches about Jess behind her back all the time. If the wedding planning is any gauge, their future together hardly looks bright.”
[From Star, print edition, May 7, 2012]
I believe this story probably went down precisely in the manner described. Isn’t it funny how Jessica would consider Cameron (who has clearly moved on with a number of men) to be “her love rival,” yet fails to be outwardly jealous of any of the numerous women with whom JT has cheated while they’ve been together. Seriously, this wedding either needs to not happen or happen right away so we can start the divorce countdown.
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i bet she is all kinds of crazy.
justin is probably afraid of what she will do if he tries to cut her loose now. remember, this is the guy who cried on punk’d…
I don’t give a $… about Biel but being all kind of crazy myself I am NOT going to invite the ex to my wedding. And I hadn’t as a matter of fact
Will you personally Jackie?
I’m not Jackie but I’m only going to invite the exes whom I had parted with in good terms.
Good Capon:
I parted with no ill fillings towards my ex. But his next GF(now wife) was not having such things like “”friendly” ex-es.I do respect her decision so now we send mails on Christmas and Easter.
For some people the “never ending” relationship with the ex can be hard to stomack.I don’t know even 1 pair where on BOTH sides it went well.
That came to my mind just yesterday! He was so pathetic, calling his mom and being super whiny!! Never forget that! 😉
As for Jessica: WAKE UP, GIRL!!
I totally get a mom vibe off of Jessica. Justin seems kind of bubbly and fun and Jessica seems very..mom-ish. So maybe the maxim that women marry men like their dads and men marry women like their moms holds some water here.
If I had knees like those, I wouldn’t wear a short skirt.
I don’t blame Jessica, I wouldn’t want to hear Diaz’s annnoying guffaws all during my wedding either.
If I remember correctly Cammy and Jess had a throw down over JT @ a Grammy party . I think Biel probably does hate her guts. Also it must have burned that they did a love scene in Bad Teacher however awkward it was.
wasn’t there an overlap with the relationships? i vaguely remember stories about biel allegedly going after timberlake while he was still with diaz.
There have been a lot of “overlaps” in this relationship! I think she must have something REALLY disturbing on him to get him to marry her- he clearly disrespects her.
No there havent been a lot of overlaps in his relationships after he broke up with Britney he dated Alyssa milano and the she broke up with because she wanted a serious relationship and he didn’t. Then after awhile he dated Cameron he didnt start dating Jessica until after they broke up but the rumor is that she pursued him hard having her friend s talk to him and calling him. Going to his concerts when he was touring in the states she tried to get back stage but was denied.
I meant “overlaps” as in, he’s been cheating on her the whole time they’ve been together.
You’re thinking of the 2007 Golden Globes where Cameron confronted Justin and Jessica. They had already broken up though; I believe she was upset that he had moved on so quickly.
Disaster in progress… it sounds like a marriage with very low expectations.
I think they deserve each other. By all accounts, he is nasty to the help, like embarrassingly so in restaurants, and she is nasty to him. Perfect couple.
And yeah, let’s start the countdown to divorce already, for this is such a sure thing. But don’t most Hollywood marriages end in divorce anyways? So she’s having a party where she wears a big white dress, and he’ll be having a party after she signs for the last on the dotted line. They deserve each other.
I’m with you-he’s disgusting. Never really cared either way before but after I heard about him snapping at waiters at such, well the nicest thing I can say is that he can go eat a root and I hope she makes him miserable..
@Marie, If there is one thing I find a turn off and absolutely despicable in a man, is lack of courtesy to those in service.
Train wreck in progress. I give them 2 years max. This wedding is such a bad idead. He will be cheating on her during the honeymoon.
Haha! My thoughts exactly!
he is soooooooooooo closeted! and will never respect for women at least in relationships because of this! it is actually NOT the norm to be straight in entertainment but for the fame and fortune that they will stop at nothing to achieve they have to have their beards. many women either don’t believe it or are willing to go along wtih it to advance their own careers
I think Cameron is going to do something more exciting on their wedding day…like watch the paint dry on her walls. This wedding/marriage is boring.
Ah, stupid marriages. We went to the wedding of our friend, a smart, kind ba-millionaire to a layabout nut job bridezilla. She wanted her five-seconds-ago skerry ex fiancé at the lavish wedding. She spent most of the reception cuddled in his lap talking about her diamonds while the groom walked around alone, unkissed, undanced. Yeah these things turn out well.
I can totally picture this reception scene. Perfect in a black comedy. Not so perfect if you’re the sad groom being publicly humiliated on your own wedding day:(
Are they still married?
Why are they getting married?
I don’t know, if this was true, wouldn’t Jess have just broken up with him when he decided to make a movie with Cameron? It almost felt like a big middle finger to Jessica when he decided to be in Bad Teacher. No man would be dumb enough to ask his future wife if he can invite an ex to the wedding. My husband knew better than to even ask a good friend of ours that he’d had a major crush on at one point.
I think your opinion is a little extreme! My husband and I are still friends with some of our exes, crushes and flings, and had we invited any friends to our wedding, they would have been included… they’re some of our best friends!
To each his own I guess, it’s good that you are with someone who shares your point of view on this subject. If I may ask…is it not weird at all for you to sit across the table from a girl your husband saw naked/vice versa and had sex with? And to watch them laugh and hang out, do you ever wonder if it ever crosses their minds too, like “hee hee, I know what you look like naked!”? It’s a real question & I mean no disrespect. Maybe I’m just a little immature like that but I know my BF is too and we don’t keep up with exes out of respect for each other and for their current partners as well.
A girl my BF used to casually hook up with (before we got together) ran into him and invited us to her wedding, he politely declined and admitted to me that he would feel bad looking at the happy groom knowing that he meaninglessly F***ed the woman this guy loved enough to commit the rest of his life to. We talked about it and I felt the same way & I would feel kinda sh*tty having someone at my wedding who “had” me before, I would feel like I’m disrespecting my DH by even having him there & I know my BF would NOT HAVE IT & vice versa. But that’s just us and Im happy we have the same POV = less problems.
However I have ZERO judgement for anyone who can do this, I just ask out of curiosity…is it ever weird like that?
No offense taken 🙂 I realized after posting my comment that I may have come off as rather judgy, which wasn’t intended. The most important thing is finding a partner who shares your values, and it looks like we’ve both done just that. Lucky us!
I have to admit, there have been moments that were awkward in the way you described, but both of us had our share of indiscretions back in our early 20s… it’s pretty even. It doesn’t really bother me, because it seems so long ago. We’re not friends with everyone we’ve dated/hooked up with, though! On the other hand, a couple of those people have grown into our best friends and are happily partnered up with other people.
I invited my ex to my wedding – him and his wife.
well, i understand jessica. why would justin want an ex at their wedding? it’d awkward as hell, especially for jessica. i don’t think she’s crazy (or anything else) for not wanting an ex there.
I would question this story because of the mention of Britney – Justin has said numerous times over the years that they are not in contact, but that he wishes her well, so I don’t think for a second he would consider inviting her to his wedding.
Also, Biel subscribes to the Garner style of relationships – stand by your man…no matter what.
“Are you ready for another episode of the Ill-Fated Wedding That Should Never Be?”
IMO, its more like are you ready for another episode of the “Ill-Fated Wedding That Will Never Be?”
The main “characters” are not coming off well. JT is the loser,douche-bag that everyone seemingly hates. JB is coming off as the whiny, desperate, insecure VICTIM who everyone hates.
It seems EVERY story that is written about this couple is negative. What are all these negative stories trying to telegraph? The ending perhaps.
My ex husband invited me to his wedding with his new wife, I said no, not because I am not thrilled for him and not because his new wifeand I dont get on, its because his family would make a massive deal about it and would make things akward for his new bride. We are still good friends 3 years after divorcing, we dont have kids but we still want good things for each other and to be happy.
That was very thoughtful and mature of you. I don’t know if the new wife ever expressed any gratitude or even knew of your reasoning, but I’m sure she appreciated it and I’m glad you’ve all moved on in a healthy manner.
You, madame, are one class act! I’d think an ex-spouse showing up to the party would be a lot more awkward than a former fling or boyfriend/girlfriend, for the family members in particular. It’d be hard not to compare the two weddings and that’s probably not fair to the new bride.
he is clearly not that into her.
I agree.
So why is he with her?
Is he really that spineless, that he can’t just dump her for good?
Sounds like he dumped her last year, got his feewings hurt by a lady or two he was pining after, so decided to run back to Jessica, where he feels secure and loved (Momma’s boy theory coming back into play), buuut now he’s bored with her again.
Why do men do this? Yes, you found someone who’s madly in love with you–great. Why don’t YOU hold out for someone YOU’RE madly in love with too?
No to low-cost sex whenever you want it? A sick reason, yes, but I’ve known many who’ve kept one around for just that reason.
Maybe Jess is good in the sack? Either way, this just shouldn’t happen and she needs to get a spine and a clue.
I really think Justin (ugh) is trying to piss off Jessica (bigger ugh) so she’ll get pissed off enough to do the “if you invite her it’s over” dance. He’s not man enough to end it so he’s pissing her off instead. I cannot stand these two. They belong together.
Good point!!!
YokoDMV just won this whole thread.
This marriage is even worst than the JLO one.
eh, all I see is a charade:
http://today.ccopinion.com/jessica-biel-kiss-a-girl/
http://www.noticias24.com/gente/noticia/2612/jessica-biel-y-los-rumores-gay-otra-vez/
–I see a scheduled break-up once again just before the wedding is expected to happen.
And just the rumor.. Biel doesn’t need any guards to keep Cameron out..
I think this story is embellished but I do believe that he would invite Cameron to his wedding she’d be the only ex he’d invite though since hes on speaking terms with her and they get along well still. I don’t think
there’s any arguing about who to invite who not I think that she would allow him to invite who he wanted because he is the one who has the control in this relationship so she’ll do anything he says.
Does anyone remember hearing about cheating allegations when Justin was with Britney or cameron? I don’t, so he must only stay faithful to women he respects. Also I really think Britney fvcked him up since she cheated on him… Thus “cry me a river”
There were cheatings rumors with Cameron but not as many with he even sued a British tabloid because they got an interview with some celebrity over claiming they slept together. I believe rumors of him cheating with Britney only came out a few years after they broke up but those were from people who knew who knew people there was never any concrete rumors with those.
They are the poster couple for passive aggressive behaviour.
I think that Jessica considers Cam a rival, because she was one of Justin’s acknowledged girlfriends as opposed to one of his countless expendable side pieces.
In any case, I personally think it’s tacky and insenstive to invite an ex-lover to the wedding.
I always got the vibe that Biel was the jump-off, while Timerlake was still dating Cameron. Hence, Cameron having that very public fit for him at that very public party. But it is never ever a good idea to burn bridges with an ex that can you hired.
But I would hope that Cameron has realize it was the best thing to happen. Timberlake is not the faithful type. Never was. But at the same time he is as bad as Jennifer Lopez. They simply can not be alone.
And I never believed he was heart broken over any allege cheating Britney may have done.
He was just pissed that she had the nerve to run around on him. But his shagging around is suppose to be acceptable.
I agree that he didn’t seem truly heartbroken about Britney. My sense was that they had an open relationship — or maybe turning a blind eye to each other’s cheating — but he wanted a new official girlfriend for whatever reason. Considering how Britney went off the rails in later years, it’s entirely possible that Justin wanted out because she was acting crazy. There’s no other real reason for him to want to rock the boat, given that she was a hot commodity at that time.
As for Cameron, she talks a good good game when it comes to saying she’s an independent woman, but consistently gets involved with men who treat her like sh*t. I still can’t believe that she — and Kate Hudson! — allowed ARod to talk them into getting breast implants.
Anyway, there are some people that don’t have an issue with exes at the wedding but if one partner doesn’t want that, the other person should respect their wishes. But that’s the whole issue: I don’t think Justin respects Jessica one iota.
The only way that marriage is going to last is if Jessica continues to let him walk all over her.
I can’t help but think there are reasons for this marriage that have nothing to do with love, and wonder if she’s blackmailing him into it.
Justin and Cameron had broken up by the time the Golden Globes incident happened. I think she was just upset that he moved on so quickly.
Re: Violet
There is no reason to believe Britney was acting ‘crazy’ when she was with Justin so he wanted out. He said on Barbara Walters they had a mutual decision to break up (he never specified cheating, but that’s what he always insinuated) and that he would cry himself to sleep. It was their break up in which Britney became lost. Spears even acknowledged this herself during the MTV ‘For The Record’ special.
That said, I do think Justin exaggerates his supposed heartbreak, especially when he was promoting his first.
I’m getting married next year and you know who’s coming to my wedding. My ex boyfriend/best friend. My boyfriend is totally ok with it. He thinks my ex is a great guy and understands why we remained friends.
It’s one of those things where it all depends on your partner’s comfort level. If my boyfriend weren’t okay with it I’d respect his feelings on the matter and not invite him. Fortunately he is okay with it so it’s happening. It’s all about respect.
Justin does not respect Jessica plain and simple. Why Jessica is insistent on going through with this I have no idea. She needs to know it won’t last. Something tells me this wedding isn’t going to happen. I can see Justin taking off with a newly single Cameron Diaz.
I find it funny that none of the big gossip sites give a crap about this couple. It’s almost like the tabloids just throw together a story to appease their PR reps. Star mag went a little too far with it when they mentioned inviting Britney, which I don’t think he would ever even consider. He would invite Cam and probably will…let’s not pretend Jessica has any say in their relationship. Just like she wasn’t allowed to wear the ring until all the pre-nup mess was done with, he can just hold out on the wedding until she agrees to whatever he wants. And she will agree.
Haha. Cameron Diaz should crash the wedding.
Yesssss! She totally should!
With Vince Vaughn and Owen Wilson!
She has duck feet.
I say BS. Media loves to mess with exes and their new matches and this one is no different.
Regardless of anything, this is HER wedding and she can ban whomeever she wants.
I think after wasting so many years on him, she has invested so much time and energy and therefore wants to see it reach the ultimate reward: marriage.
It would be so much better for her to move on from this guy. But I can relate, as I have been in that situation myself unfortunately.
Its not just her wedding it’s his too and it’s her own fault for putting up with his crap she could have left anytime.
If the bride doesn’t want someone to be invited, that is the end of it.
She should not be seeing at her own wedding anyone who might make her feel uncomfortable.
Same goes for him.
Especially with regard to ex boyfriends/girlfriends.
The only exeption, is the mother in law. She has to put up with her, at least for the wedding, even if she is horrible.
I feel for her, since I know how you can be caught up with such a relationship and marry a guy even though he is really lousy as a partner and causes her misery.
I don’t know if ANY of this is really true, do you? Honestly, this is their wedding day and I don’t think exes need to be there, especially not if either Jessica or Justin is uncomfortable in any way. Diaz and Spears can send gifts if they want, or congratulate them in another way, but I think Jessica is entitled to NOT have women invited to her wedding who were former girlfriends of the groom.
I think what this situation calls for is not giving an expletive because when it comes to relationships the outsiders can judge and determine that neither of them is right for each other based on our own biases but only the players have the right to make the moves and quite frankly even if know it won’t work hope will convince them to continue
Unless you have kids with the ex and and/or the ex in good relationship with both of them means a good a air with both you shouldn’t invite the ex for the wedding.
Timberlake hasn’t even spoken to Spears in nearly a decade. They don’t even try to make these stories believable anymore.