Robin Thicke groped a blonde & somebody tweeted the photo to Paula Patton

The first time I wrote about Robin Thicke, some of you graciously informed me that he and his wife Paula Patton seem to have some kind of open marriage. I have no idea if that’s true, and I have no idea if Robin just fools around a bit and Paula turns a blind eye, or if she really doesn’t know or what. My gut says that something shady is happening, but God knows. Haven’t Paula and Robin been together since they were kids? Didn’t they pretty much grow up together? Anyway, contributing the “shady feeling” is this new photo, taken by some fan at a VMA after-party. You have to focus on what is being reflected in the mirror.

Robin Thicke may have gotten too twerked up by his racy VMAs routine with Miley Cyrus — he apparently couldn’t keep his hands to himself while partying with an attractive blonde at a New York club just hours later. A picture posted on Twitter appears to show Thicke at a VMAs after-party, with a cheeky grin, cuddled up to the unidentified woman.

Unfortunately for Thicke, the photo was taken in front of a mirrored wall, and the reflection in the left side of the shot seems to show the singer’s hand went directly south, right up the back of the sultry blonde’s very short skirt.

The shot was posted on Twitter on Monday, the morning after the VMAs, when Cyrus — in a slick nude PVC bikini — caused a storm with her raunchy twerking with Thicke as they performed at Brooklyn’s Barclays Center.

To add insult to alleged gropery, @JenLeadley tweeted the picture directly to Thicke’s actress wife, Paula Patton, the morning after, with the warning message, “Look at the reflection girl.”

The picture is believed to have been taken at Meatpacking club 1Oak, where “Blurred Lines” singer Thicke had been partying with Patton until the early hours of Monday morning.

Other shots from the evening show Thicke singing and dancing next to his wife, in which he’s wearing the same dress shirt and tuxedo jacket, and with the same gold ring on his little finger, which the photo purportedly shows disappearing up the blonde’s skirt.

But perhaps Patton — who recently revealed she once hid in the bushes outside Thicke’s house to catch him when she wrongly suspected him of cheating before they married in 2005 — didn’t pay too much attention to the image. She and Thicke were spotted Wednesday frolicking happily on the beach in Florida with their 3-year-old son, Julian. While it is unclear who the source of the picture is, and if the image is genuine, we’re told that neither Patton nor Thicke is concerned about it at all. Reps for both didn’t return requests for comment last night.

[From Page Six]

Maybe their agreement is “a little groping never hurt a marriage”…? While under other circumstances, I might get pearl-clutchy about Robin groping a lady (who is not his wife) without that lady’s permission (how very “Mayor of San Diego” of him), but look at the blonde – she’s into it. She would have gone home with him if he wanted it. But Paula was there and Robin went home with her. Is this a tempest in a teacup or is Robin really gross?

Photos courtesy of Twitter, WENN.

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  1. Devon says:

    While it’s super trashy to have your hand going up a chick’s skirt, especially when it’s not your wife, it’s just as bad for that photo to be tweeted to his wife and so publicly. It’s just a icky situation all around.

    • BB says:

      What a silly little groupie, tweeting the picture to his wife won’t do anything.

    • Turtle Dove says:

      Morning, Devon.

      It was low-classy, but her twitter page is…. weird.

    • lisa2 says:

      It really is not a strangers responsibility to Respect your Marriage. That belongs to the people involved. If he had not have stuck his hand up her butt there would be nothing to tweet.

      the fault lies with Robin. Not the girl or the person that tweeted. I don’t see her hand forcing him to do that.

      He and his wife and their marriage feels very creepy. She seems very creepy to me.

      fame can mess up a relationship. Robin is getting a lot of attention. I’m curious to see how the manage or if they do.

      Gross on him.. all the way.

      • TheOriginalKitten says:

        Well it might not be a “responsibility” but I think most people with a moral compass would acknowledge that it’s the RIGHT thing to do to respect someone else’s marriage.

        It’s really not that difficult: if you see a ring, back the f*ck off.

      • Petee says:

        Just listen to his interview he did with Howard Stern.He and his wife have been together since they were very young.It sounded like they invite people into their bedroom.To each their own.He came off nice enough but that was the impression I got.Also his father is quite the womanizer and he saw alot of that growing up.

      • juststeph says:

        Maybe his wife doesn’t care because she they all went home together.

      • lisa2 says:


        Looking at that picture she is not groping him. He is doing it to her. I see tons of celebs taking pictures with fans. They are not falling all over them like he is. YOU (the celeb in this case) sets the tone for what you allow or don’t. People can read that tone and know how far they can and can’t go with you. Obviously his tone is not “back the f*** off”

        So why is he not getting sh*t for sticking his married hand up another woman’s as*..

      • Kitten Mittens says:

        While I do agree a person should back off when they see a ring… It’s not all their fault. Of course, some married people do cheat and will hunt down an opportunity, but he could also remove the ring entirely. What is the gal to do then? There’s no ring to be seen.

    • Jan says:

      Blurred Lines has made Robin super hot and I am sure girls are throwing themselves at him but the way she is hanging on him looks like she knows him and the way he is tryng to get a finger in shows that she is more than willing. I would be very pissed off if I was his wife and maybe she is used to having such a hot husband and bends the rules a little.

  2. Jill says:

    I’m gonna go with he’s really gross.

    • Turtle Dove says:


      The video and photo speak for themselves. Gross. Gross. Gross.

    • brin says:

      Gross and sleazy.

    • JenD says:

      Yep, gross.

    • Jesiebes says:

      Agreed. His song speaks for him, he is gross.

    • Esmom says:


      Plus he always looks to me like he reeks.

      • Jenny says:

        He does look a little dirty. I feel like it may have been a comment thread on Celebitchy, but I have heard that they have threesomes. Since Paula was there with him, maybe they were trying to pick some one up to take home with them?
        Dunno, I’ve always liked his music so maybe I just don’t want him to be an uber-douche.

    • Harriet says:

      I don’t mind the video or the song but I really don’t like his behaviour over the recent few days. I’m also confused why no one is looking at him for playing along with Miley’s grinding act and this picture is just nasty!

      • HH says:

        I didn’t see Robin as “playing along.” He looked uncomfortable.. It was a live performance and he can’t just push her away.

      • Harriet says:

        I would have! 🙂

      • springingforward says:


        His publicist stated that there were many rehearsals and that the song came off as well as they hoped it would. Stop trying to blame it all on Miley.

      • drdoolittling says:

        All blame SHOULD be on Miley. She acted like a HUGE sl*t. Even if he were on board with it, she deserves every ounce of criticism for that atrocity. SHE did it.

    • JudyK says:

      Agree. He’s flat out creepy and slimey.

    • ncboudicca says:

      Gross and his pants are too tight.

    • Samtha says:

      Yep. His whole vibe just SCREAMS sleaze.

    • MaiGirl says:

      SO gross, but Paula is also creepy, like someone said above. Open marriages are fine for those that want them, but they just both just seem sleazy and strange, like they are into some really weird shit. And nearly fingering someone from the back will never not be disgusting when done in public.

    • Brooke says:

      Yup. Don’t get what the attraction about him is. Just gross.

    • Camille (TheOriginal) says:

      I agree. Completely Yuck all around with this.

    • LakeMom says:

      Like father, like son. Ick.

  3. Diana says:

    Paula… Dump the loser.

  4. Erinn says:

    Paula is a gorgeous woman. I’m not going to judge their relationship, because it’s obviously working for them. He’s trying to keep up the playboy image, and maybe when he’s with Paula he’s a different guy. As long as she’s aware, and okay with it, I guess there’s no harm. Not how I’d want to live my life, but different strokes and all that.

    • T.C. says:


      If they have an open marriage then she already knows. Whatever works for them.

    • Liberty says:

      In my first PR days, someone I worked for would sort of tell people like Robin Thicke to pour a bit of this on to promote an image and song/film. Thicke is finally on the public radar and this sort of stuff can produce image. She may even be part of the plan.

      Who knows. But I wouldn’t be surprised, and so I guess I view it that way — something to return the gaze to him from Miley and promo him as a randy dog like a younger singer. Packaging. Gross, but, packaging.

  5. Elisabeth says:

    not a big deal

    • Danskins says:

      +1…not a big deal. They’ve been married for years so something obviously has worked right for them during the course of their marriage. Not every marriage has to be “vanilla” to be more authentic.

      And just because Robin sings a racy song that became a major hit doesn’t automatically equate to him suddenly becoming a douche overnight. Projecting one song onto someone’s persona is entirely inaccurate.

      • V4Real says:

        If people are calling him a douche because of a song then they are more sensitive than I thought. They must also hate just about every R&B artist out there because I’ve heard racier lyrics in a Trey Songz or TPain song.

      • magpie says:

        +2 They’ve been together since they were 15 or something. They have kids and look like they still have fun together. Not saying it’s right, but I doubt Paula cares if he gropes a feel. She was there and he went home with her. She didn’t care the next day and was right to ignore the tweet from the trashy attention-ho blonde.

      • Elisabeth says:

        besides do people really think calling him a douchebag is appropriate over a grainy photo? I believe half of what I see and nothing what i hear when it comes to stories like this.

      • Gretchen says:

        @ V4Real

        sure, but there is a difference between ‘racey’ lyrics and ‘rapey’ lyrics.

        Personally I find sensitivity to misogynist songs totally understandable…

      • V4Real says:

        @gretchen first of all people should stop trying to make the word rapey a thing. Second, what’s rapey about the lyrics and don’t say the line “I know you want it’ that has been song by males and females. Next argument please.

    • Alexis says:


      I have doubts about the authenticity of the photo, but even if he groped this heaux or anyone else…it’s their marriage. Maybe she’s getting some on the side, too. They seem to have an arrangement. They seem happy together. It’s 2013 why are we forcing these traditional molds upon everyone?

  6. Shy says:

    Disgusting pig. She should kick him to the curve. I have never understood open relationships. I would be so jealous if my partner looked at another woman.

    • V4Real says:

      Why should she kick him to the curb if they have an open relationship? Let’s not forget that Paula was one of the women who was rumored to have slept with Denzel Washington.

      • Linet says:

        I never bought those stories. Denzel is linked to every black starlet anyway. He may be a player but please!

      • V4Real says:

        Buy it or not; Denzel is a known cheater.

        BTW he has not been linked to every Black starlet; now that would be hard to buy (insert please).

      • Mindy says:

        Actually, if half of Denzels stories are true the guy must be a sex maniac. Lipstick Alley had a crazy listing of all the rumors that started with Whitney and ended with Kerri Washington, with Solange tossed in there for good measure. Lol.

      • jaye says:

        @Linet…I think where there is smoke there is fire. Pauletta Washington may just be one of those wives who will turn a blind eye as long as his “strange” doesn’t show up on her doorstep. Only they know.

  7. Chicagogurl says:

    Gosh Paula is looking good. Love the dress. I think she found the fountain of youth.

  8. Andrew says:

    I’ve seen men do that in public and I think it’s personally gross. Like why do they think nobody will see them? It’s one thing to pay a clothed butt, it’s another to jam your fingers under there like their searching for tinker bell fairy dust.

    • Andrew says:

      *pat a clothed butt. Big difference lol

      • Naomi says:

        But I love pay a clothed butt. I’m having the bestest time trying to picture how that would happen. Above picture excluded because, clearly, that clothed butt payment has been done, lol.

    • claire says:

      The DM has a lighter photo and you can see his fingers better. He’s grabbing her butt, not shoving his fingers up into her crotch. Still sleazy of him, but not nearly as gross as I originally thought.

  9. marina says:

    The blonde in the photo looks really trashy.

  10. Shelley says:

    After having Miley twerking all over his dong, he obviuosly wanted some blonde action. Give the guy a break.

    • Jan says:

      That would make him an idiot as his wife is far hotter than Miley or this groupie.

      Next time if you get a craving for skank, pop a trashy wig on your wifes head.

  11. Annabelle says:

    Paula doesn’t mind, and I don’t see the big deal either.

  12. aquarius64 says:

    Busted. I don’t know about the marriage, but this would inspire a conversation between Robin, Paula and her frying pan. That VMA “performance” was that, a performance. This photo is real. If this marriage is open, it may have a do-not-cuckold-me-and-get-caught-in-public clause.

    • Eileen says:

      ITA with you and I am really surprised at some of the blaze’ attitudes on here. If this was a woman doing this, everyone would up in arms at the behavior. You’d get about a million “think of the child!!” comments and slut shamming. So he’s a slimeball and his wife is ok with that, but I highly doubt she is ok with it being shown public and I doubt his son will be ok with seeing his dad’s hand up another woman’s butt in a few years…

  13. Anna says:

    “OHNOES, Robin Thicke was so horrified by Miley’s indecent and inappropriate performance!” RIGHT.

    • Anahnemus says:

      Exactly. What gets to me is it feels like people were not paying attention to him vibrating his crotch against Miley. His legs are totally shaking and it’s gross.

      • Cyndi says:

        OMG, thank you!!! I was beginning to believe I imagined that! I’ve seen *no one* on AnY site mention this til now! Miley bent over and started twerking on him and his legs were moving as well, like quick pelvic thrusts or just jiggling up against her!!!
        Thank you again! You’ve proven to me I’m not *completely* zonkers yet!!! xD

    • thebutlerdidit says:

      “How dare this strumpet to put her butt in my son’s hand! What was she thinking?”-Gloria Loring

      Mom doesn’t know Jr & Wifey like Three’s Company, hey, hey, hey! This is the most open non-open story in H’wood, past Denzel & baby mama, Sanaa Latham, & Travolta’s tickle massage chakra line UPS.

  14. Mo says:

    He’s gross. And has a slime ball feeling to him. However, am I the only one that thinks his wife looks a little manly? Maybe he beards for her and allows her to enjoy a certain lifestyle (since they’ve known each other forever) while he is free to do as he pleases? I don’t know – but that picture (if real) is really gross.

    • Leah says:

      are you kidding? have you seen her movies? she is a beautiful woman and nothing manly about her. in fact i am surprised she is with thicke who isn’t particularly good looking.

    • julies29 says:

      I thought the exact same thing. Something about her facial structure and broad shoulders. Beautiful but slightly manly.

    • emmie_a says:

      I agree about her looking manly. I’m not familiar with her and the first thing I saw when I saw these pics were her masculine features. I’m not saying she’s not attractive but she is very masculine looking.

    • fabgrrl says:

      Meh. To me, many models have a manly look. Broad, boxy shoulders. Strong, prominent jawline. It can look really good on the runway, and on film.

      I’d don’t see how you can possibly speculate that she is a lesbian because of this.

    • Mindy says:

      Paula is stunning. But i am concerned that you would conflate alleged androgyny with sexuality.

      Having masculine features does not
      mean that person is lesbian. In exactly the same way that men with feminine facial features like Pitt or Depp or thousands of boybanders are not gay.

      • janie says:

        I agree.. Paula is stunning! That being said, this must work for them. Hasn’t he just become known for his music? He’s been at this for years, I think. I think he comes off sleazy. His little boy is in his new video, what a cute kid.

    • Kasey says:

      I think Paula is stunning but I’m gonna agree with you on these pics this isn’t her usual feminine look. I too noticed that she looks a bit broader/fuller. I was wondering if it was the hair making her jaw look boxy but then I noticed her arms look bulkier as well. However, I’m starting to think (hope) that maybe she’s pregnant again!

      • Dee says:

        First of all i watched a few of Paulas’ movies like the one she played denzels love interest and she does not strike me as manly at all. Secondly i am surprised a story about him groping other women turns into excuses like she is manly, maybe he gropes other women because she is a lesbian? WTF?? She has a husband who is sleaze but we feel the need to critique her jawline?

      • emmie_a says:

        Dee: You can generalize about what we’re thinking all you want but just because I think she has a masculine look to her doesn’t mean that I think she’s a lesbian or that her sexual preference has anything to do with his sleaziness. I looked at her pictures, saw a masculine looking woman and commented on such. That’s all.

      • Annie says:

        @ emmie_a
        You made a superficia slightlyl bitchy comment that has nothing to do with the story.
        We could talk about Thickes looks too, he is hardly adonis. For years now people been saying she is out of his league. But mens looks dont seem scrutinized to the same extent by women here…. Beautiful women get picked on for any flaw whatsoever and average looking men are celebrated…

      • emmie_a says:

        Annie… And you just did the same.

        And yes, my comment was superficial but no, it was not bitchy. I called her manly but attractive. That is my opinion. You can think she is a great beauty, I don’t.

      • Annie says:

        @ emmie_a Not really, i called you out on your double standard and made the point in that context ,which apparently passed you by. I havent made any comments on her being a great beauty i have to say you totally missed my point.

      • emmie_a says:

        Please enlighten me — what double standard are you talking about? And yes, you did make a comment about her beauty, saying that beautiful women get picked on.

    • Chicago Girl says:

      I really don’t think she looks manly generally speaking. She just has the kind of bone structure that when not styled correctly can look masculine. The hair from the VMAs was just awful. I thought she looked great in MI4 with her hair pulled back, and I bet a shorter style would be more flattering.

  15. Why says:

    Boy o Boy, someone is in deep trouble.

  16. Tara says:

    They don’t have an open narriage but have been pretty open about the fact that they enjoy threesomes. I’m not being judgemental about that – it is obviously a couple’s choice but I have never seen it turn out too well in the end. I think one person goes along with it to make the other one happy. The belief is if I act like a good sport I retain a little control and I’m there to keep an eye on things. But you can be sure that if he/she is itching it won’t always matter if you’re there to scratch or not. Someone else will.

    • Tapioca says:

      Isn’t that the same agreement Demi & Ashton had?

      It’s all fun and games until the threesome becomes a twosome behind your back…

      • Sloane Wyatt says:

        I knew a lot of ‘open marriage’ couples back in the day. Only one of those couples stayed married. They had agreed before hand to limit the ‘open’ to 2 years before they started having children & were very happy to close the circle again to just the two of them. A nice church going couple, they were private about their lifestyle and managed to not be hypocritical at all.

    • Tara says:

      You said it much better than I did.
      Sloan wyatt
      Your example is more likely the exception than the rule, I would guess

  17. CaribbeanLaura says:

    I think paula is so all over the place on the red carpets recently non? Like she’s been hittng the bottle, she reminds me of another Paula with her redcarpet antics (Abdul). As for robin and that chick, that is so gross. I hoped he washed his hands. EW Robin!!!

    • jilly says:

      Paula comes across as desperate. I wonder if she is always high on something. That said, the girl was clearly a willing participant in Fingergate and should not have posted the picture. That was gross.

  18. T.fanty says:

    Thinking that his whole “I’m a happily married man so Blurred Lines is okay” schtick might have reached the end of the road with this pic.

    He looks like a smug, douchey ass here. I’d kick him to the curb just for that. It’s a sad day when you make JT look dignified and classy.

    • Evie says:

      Perfectly said.

    • brin says:

      He and JT are were made from the same douche mold.

      • T.Fanty says:

        That’s my point. For all his douchiness, JT isn’t dumb enough to ever get caught with his hand (or finger) in the cookie jar.

    • some bitch says:

      Nailed it.
      I know of only one person who really likes Thicke… and just like Thicke he thinks rape and misogyny makes for good comedy. Yep.

    • MaiGirl says:

      “It’s a sad day when you make JT look dignified and classy.

      Posting just to applaud this line. Bless your heart. JT and his neck pubes have been extremely overrated from the jump. Such a little twerp!

      • YEP_ITS_HER says:

        Lol. I love the word ‘twerp’. So apt when applying that to Mr famewhore Timberfake.

  19. doofus says:

    is it possible they engage in a little multi-player action, and this woman was who they wanted to bring home?

    I personally could never be in a plural marriage/relationship, but it does work for some people.

  20. bammer says:

    I thought it was common knowledge that he is not faithful and they are both on drugs.

    • LadyRay says:

      +1, they are both on drugs…at the bet awards, Paula was out of it.

      • Saffie says:

        They both like their coke..I think he’s a bonified cokehead. I’ve also heard they have a freaky sex life…well he’s the one that said so in an interview. I’m sure they had their share of threesomes. I guess it works for them because they have been together forever. She’s actually a very smart woman..graduated top of her class at USC and he had said that she is his muse. I read an article in which he said that he is like a father to her and he is a like a mother figure because he didn’t have a good relationship with his mother and she did not have a good relationship with her father. As weird as these two sound, I think there is real love there albeit it’s unconventional.

      • Saffie says:

        I still find him sleazy.

  21. JLo says:

    The worst part was that Paula is probably somewhere at the party, playing the cool wife who doesn’t get jealous about her husband grinding on 20 year olds because its “just a performance.”

  22. Jessica says:

    They certainly seem to have some kind of arrangement, and given how cool with it she seems, I’d be inclined to think that arrangement applies to both of them, not just him. So who cares?

    • Caro says:

      I don’t think she’s cool with it, considering she’s usually drunk/on something whenever she’s with him. I’ve met her on movie sets before where she’s totally normal and the sweetest woman ever. But as soon as she’s around Robin…..

      But since they’ve been together since high school she probably feels like she can’t let go of him.

      • Jessica says:

        They’re both clearly using, not just her. And I’ve heard gossip about her and other guys, not nearly as much as about Robin and other women, but enough to make me think they’re both openly having fun on the side.

      • YEP_ITS_HER says:

        @Jessica also.

        I have also heard Paula has her distractions too. But for Paula I have heard those distractions tend to be women. Yes, I have also heard it said they both use. Paula recently seems either high on some stuff or maybe even a bit medicated recently but they are both alleged to be massive cokeheads.

  23. emmie_a says:

    His pants are too tight. And I don’t think they’re supposed to be skinny pants — or at least I don’t think he should be wearing skinny pants. Actually no guy should ever wear skinny pants.

  24. Axis2ClusterB says:

    Eh. I don’t think it’s a big deal, really. And if she doesn’t care, why should anyone else?

    • magpie says:

      This. I don’t think she cares so why should we judge. He’s not “busted” in any way. It’s probably nothing new to either of them.

  25. Keats says:

    He looks like a used car salesman.

  26. Chelsey says:

    I see two left thumbs. Photoshop?

  27. Chelsey says:

    I see two left thumbs. Looks like it could’ve been faked.

  28. Bijlee says:

    He’s just gross now. Dirty old man and both his videos are absolutely disgusting.

    • V4Real says:

      I’m guessing you haven’t seen a lot of rap videos, Thicke’s video is tamed compared to them. Also it’s a form of art. How many movies have you seen with sex scenes and naked men and women. Are those movies gross? Was Fassbender gross because we saw his penis in a movie? Is Angelina gross because she was naked in Gia and having sex with a woman?

      • Shannon says:

        V4Real: AGREE!!!

      • Samtha says:

        Sex scenes and nudity don’t have to be exploitative and demeaning. The Blurred Lines video was, IMO. Just because nudity isn’t problematic in one film/video, that doesn’t mean it’s not problematic in something else.

        Maybe a lot of rap videos are worse…that doesn’t make Thicke’s video less offensive. It just means there are other things out there more offensive.

      • Bijlee says:

        @v4real I was talking about this yesterday about just two very specific videos of his. I like Robin thickes music. Dude is a talented guy. But blurred lines and give it 2 u are just nasty, especially the give it 2 u video. Have you seen it? Someone was talking about Miley’s appropriation of black women’s bodies and I stated in a post yesterday that robins video (or that awful Diane Martel) did it ten times worse. That whole video is just gross #assfloats. I’m not censoring him or saying he should never have been allowed to make them. I’m criticizing his “art” for its merit and quality. Give it 2 u can compare with the rap videos you’ve probably seen. There’s no nudity in it but it’s still a bunch of gross guys rubbing all over women and ogling them with creepy old guy stares. It’s nastyand not funny at all to me when thicke or miley or all the people involved in their videos do it. But maybe I’m a humorless, uptight,pearl clutching, prude. So there’s that.

        Yes I have seen rap videos. I listen to a lot of rap music. I tend to avoid the ones where all it’s asses (both rapper kind and actual body parts) in your face for 90% of the video. Because I think that’s cheap objectification and exploitation to gain a couple hundred views or a couple thousand to make a quick buck…its not art. I tend to stick to hip hop and r&b videos/songs that don’t utilize that method. And what the hell? Because there are rap videos that employ this cheap method I’m supposed to give robin thicke a pass? Because that’s just the way it’s done? Uh I have expressed my disapproval for videos like that before. Maybe I’m not clear, but I can’t stand rap videos like that either, so thickes not getting a pass from me when I don’t approve of cheap exploitation in the first place.

        And guys come on…where the hell did I say anything about nudity in a video or all that other stuff? I was referring specifically to thicke and yesterday I said specifically that thicke, Kendrick, 2chainz, miley, and Martel were all skeezy douches for being involved in that. Not okay with it from any of them.

    • Seszie says:

      Agree bijlee. Always love your posts. Others not so much. Cough cough. Always love what you say 🙂

      • Bijlee says:

        Wow, thanks! That’s nice and a little surprising to hear. Although I should warn you I tend to be a pretty big a-hole and have been really stupid quite a few times. *cringes* I have regrets.

        I should learn from the posters that post with more common sense then me.

    • YEP_ITS_HER says:

      He didn’t just all of sudden become gross. All the signs were there. It’s just either most didn’t care or gave him a pass. Guess, no one recalls a GQ photo shoot about 6/7 years ago with Robin and Rihanna? She was about 18/19 at the time. I guess attempting to shred her Caribbean barbie image. It was essentially a bunch of suggestive pics of her on his lap, him pretending to spank her etc. For me, some of the most unsexy pictures I’ve seen. Really creepy and exploitative. Some may think ha, yeah right. Especially since Rihanna now is infamous for trading off a sexualized image. But at least she is a grown woman (25 years old) and if she chooses to use sexuality that is up to her. However pics of a teenager being sexual with a 30+ year old man is just f*cking gross. No matter how one dresses it up.

      Mr Thicke has always been a lewd creep.

  29. Lulu86 says:

    that is not even a pt, he is digging into that girls a**.

  30. Chrissy says:

    If that were my man he’d be kicked to the curb. What woman allows herself to be disrespected like that?

  31. OriginallyBlue says:

    Meh, I don’t know why strangers are so invested in their marriage. If neither of them seem to care why are others so up in arms? It is no ones business but theirs.

  32. Mitch Buchanan Rocks! says:

    How thicke headed of him.

  33. Jennifer12 says:

    I’d punch my husband straight out.

  34. kibbles says:

    Most of these Hollywood marriages are doomed, in large part due to antics like this. I think a lot of these celebrities like to think that they are cooler than average folk and can make things like open marriages work since there is so much temptation available to them anyway. It usually doesn’t work. I won’t pretend to know what is going on between Robin and Paula. They grew up together and maybe they think in order to stay together they need to mix things up and explore since they didn’t really date other people in their teens and 20s. Maybe they realize that they are more powerful in Hollywood as a couple rather than going their separate ways. Who knows. I just think Robin is headed down a disastrous road and his hit song Blurred Lines was the first indication that a video like that would in fact hurt his marriage despite Paula saying she’s okay with her husband grinding on half-naked women in videos, on stage, and in real life. I never understood why so many people liked that song. It was wrong in so many ways and I’m kind of glad that Miley made it even more apparent that this song degrades women and promotes rape culture.

  35. Nikita says:

    This girl is on instagram and she posted the pic with the words “baby” and a heart. Says a lot i think. her name is lanascolaro99 on instagram

  36. Kiddo says:

    Is that groping in the first photo? I’m not seeing it.

    • Kiddo says:

      Okay, I think I’m getting what you are saying if the background is a reflection in a mirror.

  37. Kiddo says:

    Also, someone needs a kohl eyeliner intervention.

  38. QQ says:

    Eh! If you told me these two are monogamish, that hunt together or separately I’d believe it ASAP and good for them if so

    But i doubt that night Paula woulda cared she arrived on that carpet either high or shitfaced or both

  39. fhm57 says:

    could have been hover hand. i don’t really care.

  40. tifzlan says:

    Dude is straight up FINGERING that blonde chick in that picture

  41. Hubbahun says:

    Yeuch. He is a scambag and Paula deserves better.

  42. j78 says:

    Groped? Hell no, thats a vaginal exam. Absolutely vile and disgusting. I hope he used hand sanitizer afterwards! Pig.

  43. Shannon says:

    Robin is a dog and I’m sure he cheats regularly on his wife. I still think he’s insanely hot though. Yep, I’m crazy. Oh well.

  44. Denise says:

    Ewwww……so NOT surprising! This is definitely not a traditional marriage, no woman is that dumb. She may not approve of really gross groping in public, but this isn’t going to be a revelation to her, I’m sure. Who knows what the deal is, but you don’t see her mining for poop nuggets when she’s in public.

  45. mkyarwood says:

    Haha, um. He’s gross.

  46. Aud says:

    He really lives up to his surname. What a complete dumbass

  47. Evangeline says:

    If a marriage is an “open marriage” then it is not a marriage. Sorry but that is my opinion. Honestly it is just open cheating. Maybe I’m old school but I will never be a fan of “relationships” like that. If you have to bring in other people to spice up your relationship then something is seriously wrong. It is so sad that people don’t respect the union of marriage anymore. Smh

  48. MissMoody says:

    I used to love Robin Thicke back in his “Can I Get You Alone” days and then I saw the trainwreck that was Duets. Anyone here remember Duets? Failed singing competition show featuring Robin Thicke as a judge? Coming in as a fan, he completely turned me off. Sexist, skeezy, sleazy….all of these things, he was. So not surprised.

    • lw says:

      I couldn’t agree more. I was a a mild fan before seeing the show. He was obviously a coked out mess and fakey hyper-sexual. It was really bizarre.

  49. Ginger says:

    Tacky tacky! but if his wife puts up with it or gives him permission it’s no ones place to judge really. Personally if that we’re my husband I’d kick his azz! but I guess I’m old fashioned that way.

  50. KJ says:

    Paula and Robin have threesomes together. Paula is bisexual and they’re both heavy into drugs (not, like heroin, but they like to have a good time). Robin all but confirmed it on an interview with Howard Stern.

    Long story short, Paula don’t curr.

  51. Welldun says:

    This reminds me of that nasty pic of Arnold getting a handful of that chick…these guys should at least wear latex gloves

  52. frankly says:

    People are freaks. If they’re happy, who cares. I thought the same thing when people got all crazy about the Clinton scandal. My take was Hillary said, “You dumbass, don’t get caught.” And then the two of them were over it amid a sea of gasping and pearl-clutching. Then she had to fake being upset and then fake being forgiving because that’s what everybody expected. Sex brain is weird and complicated and if you find someone who shares your particular brand of crazy, work it.

  53. Hannah says:

    I just read this story on daily mail and they have more pics. Thicke is so unattractive in candids. The fact that he is groping some trashy girl half his age makes him even grosser. Paula Patton could do so much better.

  54. Cassandra says:

    Reading these comments has made me feel really great about myself. Y’all have some really, REALLY low self-esteem – she’s a “lesbian” because she has a “masculine face & shoulders” and they’re “disgusting” because they have an open marriage? ha. Wow.

  55. Judysee says:

    I understand affairs, but I just don’t get open marriages. I think it’s possible to become infatuated or turned on by someone and indulge in an affair. Sometimes followed by regret, sometimes it can make a spouse appreciate what he might be risking. But t
    IMO an open marriage indicates that a spouse(or both of them) have identified a dissatisfaction and has discussed it and decided that sex with each other is not all that important, and sex with a new partner is. In that case i don’t get why they stick to the marriage. Seems they’d be better off working on intimacy or deciding that they’re not committed. I’m willing to listen to another perspective, but both sisters have tried it with their partners to disastrous results. One is going through a shitty divorce because of it.

  56. Vl says:

    I don’t care if you’re married or single, 18 or 48, groping someone, anyone, in that way in public is gross and offensive.

    Unless you’re in a sexclub, if so then grope, finger and fist away.

    Don’t subject me to your tacky behaviour.

  57. betty says:

    What’s all the fuss about?. Robin is just being a man. I bet he and Paula are secure enough in their marriage not to get upset about crap like this . Like she bared her breast in her movie with Denzel and climbed on top of him. Only insecure men or women feel threatened.Robin knows men lust after his woman like women lust after him but they seem to handle and and talk about things. I don’t know the point that woman was trying to make by sending it to Paula because she knows her husband better then any woman, She stated in an interview they both were a little jealous of each other which is good because when one isn’t the marriage is in trouble.

    • Mirna says:

      The difference is that Paula was working. I’m sure he’d have an issue if she was randomly flashing other men her boobs. Here, he had no business finger-effing the groupie. It was totally disrespectful to his wife.

    • YEP_ITS_HER says:

      You sound as backwards as hell. Robin is ‘Just being a man’. Yeah, you sound really smart.

  58. Mew says:

    Suche a douche.

  59. rose says:

    Paula Probably took the pic herself.

  60. lisa2 says:

    Wow amazing the people making excuses. But they will rake others for far less over the coals.

    Just funny how our vision and Moral code changes depending on who is in front of us.

  61. Isa says:

    The pic is gross since he’s practically finger banging her.

    But hearing the rumors of their marriage I can’t get upset on her behalf. I think she’s fine with it and if it works for them that’s fine.

  62. Susan says:

    They are known swingers. End of story.

  63. Jayna says:

    You just know she is pissed. The fact that he did it while she was there. Even if they have threesomes, this was him coming on to the girl. He told someone this year in an interview he doesn’t screw around on Paula, that he wouldn’t want to disrespect someone he loves. I felt he danced around it by saying they are married. They have been married for a few years but before that lived together and they did have some breakups during their relationship as they had been together since young. So probably cheated back in the day. He just comes across so sleezy doing this photo. And the girl came out saying he followed her to the DJ booth and when they took the photo she knew he had her hand there, but didn’t realize it was seen in the photo. She said she met him the week before as they have mutual friends. She’s a rich young party girl.

    • Mirna says:

      Sounds like Robin was already familiar with this young woman’s hooha before this picture was taken. There is too much familiarity – on both sides – in that pose.

  64. Jaded says:

    They’re both famous Hollywood/music biz people born and bred. They’ve seen and done it all, they play by different rules than normal folks like us. They have all the money and drugs that money buys, and pandering fans all over them, they take anything they want from willing star-fuckers. Neither one of them is innocent, they’re just cut from the same sleazy cloth but pretending to be normal, family oriented people who go to the beach with their kid and church on Sunday. Nobody believes their shtick.

  65. bettyrose says:

    The (now former) mayor of San Diego wasn’t married when all that went down. That’s all I came here to say.

  66. Aud says:

    I am not defending this is ANY way, and I wouldn’t be shocked if this pic IS real, but something is not adding up to me. Her hair and her purse don’t match the reflection. She has hair behind her shoulder, in the reflection it’s only down the middle of her back. And her purse is in front of her, you can see way more of the purse than you should in the reflection. Looks like 2 pics were photoshopped into one

  67. YEP_ITS_HER says:

    From what I’ve heard this picture is NOTHING. Robin is a ho. A woman already came out recently and said that she was invited to go to Robin’s house with a group of friends, she and him were in a room together and he whipped out his penis. The woman told him she wasn’t down with what he wanted he basically intimated that she should leave. He comes across as sleazy and it’s quite possible what he gets up to behind closed doors mirrors that.

  68. I Said It says:

    Who knows who is groping his wife. Men are so silly to think they are the only ones out there…

  69. Bette says:

    How does anyone know that the blonde isn’t a friend of both Paula and Robin? Maybe Paula was the one taking the pic for all we know. And who cares? I just can’t understand getting worked up about the possibility that some dude may have felt up someone other than his wife. There are way too many unknowns to judge what the situation was, and even if he did exactly what people think he did, I still don’t care. It’s none of our business.

  70. marina says:

    still love him