Prince William: kids need mental health support from dads, not just moms

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Here are some photos of Prince William and Prince Harry over the weekend at the Maserati Royal Charity Polo Trophy Match. Surprisingly, Harry didn’t play. He was just there to socialize, and he spent a lot of time with Zara Phillips and her daughter Mia. William was there to play, and the photos of William in his polo gear just remind me that Harry is The Hot One.

To celebrate Father’s Day (in Britain and America yesterday), William posted a special message. He celebrated his third Father’s Day this year, and he used the day to encourage fathers to be hands-on with their kids about their mental health. Here’s the message:

“Today I celebrate my third Father’s Day as a father. For me it is a day not just to celebrate how fortunate I am for my young family, but to reflect on just how much I’ve learned about fatherhood and the issues facing fathers in all walks of life. In particular, it is a time to reflect on my responsibility to look after not just the physical health of my two children, but to treat their mental needs as just as important a priority.

“Along with Catherine and Harry, I have been spending a lot of time working on issues around mental health. What we have seen time and time again is that so many of the issues that adolescents and adults are dealing with can be linked to unresolved childhood challenges…While the circumstances of any one situation are unique, it is clear that many families could have been helped if they had found it easier to talk openly about mental health challenges in the home.”

“So on this Father’s Day, I encourage all fathers to take a moment to ask their children how they are doing. Take the opportunity to discuss how you are coping with life and fatherhood with your wife, partner or with your friends. And know that if your son or daughter ever needs help, they need their father’s guidance and support just as much as they need their mother’s.”

[From Hello Magazine]

“…They need their father’s guidance and support just as much as they need their mother’s…” While it would be easy to nitpick and extrapolate that William is somehow saying that single parents aren’t getting it done, I don’t think he means that at all. He’s simply trying to give a pretty basic message to men/fathers that they should care about their kids’ mental health in addition to their kids’ physical well-being.

Also: The Daily Mail’s gossip girl says that William and Kate are considering making an addition to their family. Not another baby – yet. But another puppy! Lupo the cocker spaniel might be getting a dog brother or sister soon. The Cambridges are looking into adopting a Bolonka Zwetna puppy, which is an Italian breed variant of the bichon – you can see a photo of a random Bolonka Zwetna puppy here. They’re very cute, but I bet Lupo would like a bigger dog friend. People forget that the Cambridge kids also got a hamster named Marvin this year too.

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  1. Honest says:

    Duh?!

    • Poisonous Lookalike says:

      I know, right? This is quite literally the least he could do… and this is on an issue he’s “very keen” about. The optics of this kind of statement—especially when it’s repeated again and again—aren’t good.

    • India Andrews says:

      One for the DUH files was my thought. You beat me to it.

  2. HollyG says:

    Go down to the RSPCA and adopt a dog, please. That’s my only takeaway from this story.

    • TeamAwesome says:

      Amen! Adopt don’t shop!!

    • Kay Dozier says:

      Thank you! Just what I was thinking.

    • bluhare says:

      Couldn’t agree more. How about they focus on the plight of abandoned animals and adopt one?

    • BearcatLawyer says:

      Adopting an animal from a shelter or a rescue is not necessarily the right choice for everyone. People should be free to choose when and how they add animals to their family without judgment.

      Unless someone buys an animal sight unseen and/or from a puppy mill. Then I will judge the hell out of that person.

    • lisa says:

      of course it figures they would see a breeder

      i really like them less and less and i didnt think that was possible. i have no respect for anyone who gets a pet this way.

  3. LAK says:

    Gosh, how illiterate.

    We need to send him back to school.

    Ditto his office.

  4. Megan says:

    Important issue. Glad he is talking about. No shade from me.

    • Tiffany says:

      I know Megan. And he went to a lucheon on the topic over the weekend. He is making me shut my mouth. It is weird.

      • aims says:

        I can’t imagine how mental health could be a hot button issue. Your mental well-being is equally important as your physical health.

      • Megan says:

        @aims – I don’t know what it is like in the UK, but the stigma of mental illness is still a very real problem in the US.

      • aims says:

        I don’t know either. The shame of suffering from mental illness in America is horrible. I feel that the sooner we get rid of that stigma the better of we’ll be.

    • Carol says:

      I agree. I really do appreciate this couple talking about mental illness in a way that highlights empathy and understanding. His message may be simple but at least its something. No shade from me as well.

  5. Who ARE these people? says:

    Glad he’s talking about it but wish he’d be more specific than “mental health, mental health, mental health.” OK, we got it. Mental health. Even in his lofty position, can’t he rattle off the most common problems children experience and maybe what parents and teachers should look for? And mention what to do about it?

    How hard is it to say, “Just as parents stress good food and exercise for their children’s physical health, they can learn more about the things that help their children be emotionally healthy and resilient. Such as…” And “You notice when your child is run down or ill. It could be the same to notice when they’re sad for more than one or two weeks at a time, or seem anxious out of proportion to what’s going on in their lives.” And then… where to go, what to do?

    I hope their “campaign” is following up with these very simple next levels of information and guidance because otherwise he’s all, like, “Mental health. Mental health. Mental health.”

    • bluhare says:

      I agree. For example, indicate the warning signs of trouble when your child isn’t communicating verbally. There are usually other non verbal cues that something is going on.

    • Megan says:

      William is not a mental health professional, so I don’t think he should be giving out that kind of information. But I do think a joint statement in which a credible expert highlights warning signs makes a lot of sense.

  6. topcat says:

    r’lly, and doubt this will be printed, but I read the comments here re royals and honestly, you all sound like jealous, small minded people. I am not a royalist, but is seems to me reading, that you all want to pick these people apart no matter what-at least as young(er) royalists they are trying to do something besides sitting on their arses-can’t articulate in a small forum what I would like to say, but I also know I will be shot down by alot of commenters on this site-can’t win for losing-abtw, everyone should be able to view their opinion no matter what on this site no matter how unpopular it is- I have read other comments on this subject and if you don’t agree with the commenters(writer) and the the other posters they just rip you apart for even saying you might like them, lol

    • Rainbow says:

      We get it, now shut up!

    • India Andrews says:

      You know you are on a gossip site, right?

      And William does so damn little for his causes (and is such an a spoiled a-hole) that he deserves every bit of contempt he receives.