Dylan Farrow calls out Woody Allen & his collaborators in a LA Times op-ed

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In February 2014, Dylan Farrow wrote an op-ed about her father, Woody Allen, and how he molested her when she was a young child. It was actually the first time we heard from Dylan – who is now 32 years old – in any kind of direct way, in her words. Before that moment, when people talked about Woody and the accusations against him, we were mostly going from the old reporting from the 1990s, plus the claims that Mia Farrow and Ronan Farrow made on Dylan’s behalf. In that 2014 op-ed, Dylan called out Woody, and she also called out Woody’s enablers and – for lack of a better word – his collaborators. Specifically, she called out Cate Blanchett, who was just weeks away from picking up a Best Actress Oscar for Woody’s Blue Jasmine.

Well, we’re in another awards season and Woody has another “Oscar-bait” film, Wonder Wheel. Truly, I don’t think Woody cares if the film is nominated for anything, but his leading lady cares. Kate Winslet has been shilling for an Oscar nomination for months, and her defense of Woody grows worse and worse with each interview. It’s enough to make me want to write a strongly-worded op-ed calling Winslet an a–hole, but thankfully, Dylan Farrow saved me the time. Dylan wrote an op-ed for the LA Times, and she talks about how the time has come for Woody Allen to be shunned and disgraced, just like we’ve shunned Harvey Weinstein. You can read the full “Why Has the #MeToo Revolution Spared Woody Allen?” piece here.

We are in the midst of a revolution. From allegations against studio heads and journalists, to hotel maids recounting abuses on the job, women are exposing the truth and men are losing their jobs. But the revolution has been selective.

I have long maintained that when I was 7 years old, Woody Allen led me into an attic, away from the babysitters who had been instructed never to leave me alone with him. He then sexually assaulted me. I told the truth to the authorities then, and I have been telling it, unaltered, for more than 20 years. Why is it that Harvey Weinstein and other accused celebrities have been cast out by Hollywood, while Allen recently secured a multimillion-dollar distribution deal with Amazon, greenlit by former Amazon Studios executive Roy Price before he was suspended over sexual misconduct allegations? Allen’s latest feature, “Wonder Wheel,” was released theatrically on Dec. 1.

Allen denies my allegations. But this is not a “he said, child said” situation. Allen’s pattern of inappropriate behavior — putting his thumb in my mouth, climbing into bed with me in his underwear, constant grooming and touching — was witnessed by friends and family members. At the time of the alleged assault, he was in therapy for his conduct towards me. Three eyewitnesses substantiated my account, including a babysitter who saw Allen with his head buried in my lap after he had taken off my underwear. Allen refused to take a polygraph administered by the Connecticut state police.

In the final legal disposition of the matter, a judge denied him custody of me, writing that “measures must be taken to protect” me and that there was “no credible evidence” that my mother, Mia Farrow, coached me in any way. A prosecutor took the unusual step of announcing that he had probable cause to charge Allen but declined in order to spare me, a “child victim,” from an exhausting trial. It is a testament to Allen’s public relations team and his lawyers that few know these simple facts. It also speaks to the forces that have historically protected men like Allen: the money and power deployed to make the simple complicated, to massage the story.

Although the culture seems to be shifting rapidly, my allegation is apparently still just too complicated, too difficult, too “dangerous,” to use Blake Lively’s term, to confront. The truth is hard to deny but easy to ignore. It breaks my heart when women and men I admire work with Allen, then refuse to answer questions about it. It meant the world to me when Ellen Page said she regretted working with Allen, and when actresses Jessica Chastain and Susan Sarandon told the world why they never would.

It isn’t just power that allows men accused of sexual abuse to keep their careers and their secrets. It is also our collective choice to see simple situations as complicated and obvious conclusions as a matter of “who can say”? The system worked for Harvey Weinstein for decades. It works for Woody Allen still.

[From the LA Times]

Dylan spends a chunk of her op-ed calling out Woody’s collaborators by name and quoting their defense of Allen directly – she name-checks Kate Winslet, Black Lively and Greta Gerwig (Gerwig described Allen as one of her heroes as a filmmaker). Dylan also details that Woody uses and used the same kind of “defense-through-intimidation techniques” which Harvey Weinstein used, mostly to discredit Dylan and Mia and Ronan, and to silence any further media scrutiny. I agree with Dylan that it would absolutely be worth a newspaper’s time and energy to really do a larger, Weinstein-style exposé on Woody.

But much like her last op-ed, I’m confused by why she’s so hellbent on name-checking ONLY the actresses who work with him or even the ones who just say that they admire him as a filmmaker. Kate Winslet is an a–hole, for sure, but we figured that out on our own. Blake Lively was widely mocked for her moronic comments on Woody a few years ago. Why doesn’t Dylan care about Joaquin Phoenix or Justin Timberlake or Alec Baldwin or any of the men who have starred in Woody’s recent films? I understand that she’s trying to make a point about “the sisterhood should have my back,” but I sometimes wonder if she’s just finding a way to blame women for Woody Allen’s behavior.

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  1. Lee says:

    Kate Winslet non longer exists for me. As for Lively, she claimed Allen ’empowers women’, she worked with a pedo and then happily accepted an award for her ‘work’ against pedophiles. It was surreal!

    • C says:

      “Kate Winslet non longer exists for me.” +10000

    • magnoliarose says:

      She’s done. I can’t with her.

    • minx says:

      KW is particularly irritating because she is already an Oscar winner and acclaimed actor. She’s not Blake Lively or some young up-and-comer who needs to say anything to get a job–not that that would excuse it.

    • monette says:

      Oh, Kate! You tone-deaf stupid bish. You just had to campaign and suck up to him. You couldn’t let it go. Even with everything that happened these last few months.
      Now you’ll crash and burn with him.
      On second thought, burn bish, burn!

      • Wurstfingers says:

        I’m afraid, she’ll be the only one to crash and burn, if anything. The childmolester will be fine as he was for the past decades. Hollywood still protects him.

    • Happy21 says:

      Yup. I am done. I couldn’t even bring myself to watch The Holiday which is one of my favourites. Bye bye Kate.

    • Lahdidahbaby says:

      Yep, me too.

    • MM says:

      I agree! I used to like her a lot but now f**k her.

      • Justjj says:

        Same. So done with KW, can’t stand her face. As for Blake, I always found her to be annoying and never really was able to forgive the “antebellum” website debacle.

  2. klc says:

    I never hear about the men who work with Woody Allen. Even here most people only discuss the women and how shameful they are for taking the job. No one discusses the men because no one expects much out of men.

    • Jegede says:

      It’s odd isn’t it?

      I have my reasons as to why that is, but I won’t elaborate.

      I do however believe it’s in the same vein that some simply relished using that gross phrase ‘Harvey’s girls’ against certain actors in the past.

      • Otaku Fairy says:

        You’re not entirely wrong. Sometimes people do unfairly weaponize the actions of present or past male employers, co-workers, partners, spouses, and even relatives against ‘unworthy’ women they had an issue with to begin with. That’s not what Dylan is doing though.
        With the people working with Woody Allen, it’s been almost entirely the women who have been defending him, gushing about him, or discrediting Dylan’s story. That’s a problem more so than the issue of working with him. So it’s sort of understandable why Dylan focused more on them here. But women do get asked to justify working with him more- which in no way excuses the problematic answers they’ve been giving, but partially explains why we’re not hearing as many of Allen’s male actors making awful, enabling statements like that. I do think if there’s going to be questioning, it needs to happen to both sexes equally.
        Just like with other powerful abusers like Weinstein, part of Allen’s PR machine probably involves having all these A-list women around him to make him look like a better and more ‘special’ person than he is. The difference is that with Allen, everybody now knows that a woman- his own child- has said that he molested her and can’t claim otherwise. With Weinstein, for many years it was mostly the ‘casting couch’ whispers.

    • Frosty says:

      I’m not going to criticize Dylan Farrow – the poor woman has suffered horribly and she can call out whomever she needs to – but I do think that the men who work with Allen should be asked about it and also remembered by those of us commenting from the sidelines. It’s not enough to say we just don’t expect the same of men. I get so cross hearing about how people are “cancelling” (ug) Kate Winslet et al with no mention of Colin Firth, Joaquin Phoenix, Michael Sheen, Anthony Hopkins, Antonio Banderas, Javier Bardem, Ewan McGregor, Colin Farrell, Hugh Jackman, Chiwetel Ejiofor, Hugh Grant, Kenneth Brannagh, Stanley Tucci… I mean, i could go on for days! Hell, just recently Diego Luna – whom I mention as i know he’s a fav with people round these parts – was announced for Woody’s new one! I wonder if some people use the Woody-factor to “cancel” (ug) actresses they dislike anyway. E.g. you rarely hear anyone calling out favorites like Rachel McAdams, Emma Stone, Naomi Watts, Marion Cotillard, Evan Rachel Wood, Helena Bonham Carter, Winona Ryder, Kathy Bates, Lily Tomlin, Helen Hunt, Uma Thurman, Julia Louis Dreyfus… I mean, find me someone that HASN’T worked with Woody Allen!! And that extends to the crew – what about the cinematographers that chose to work with him, for example? Why aren’t they asked why they work with him? Is anyone boycotting their other films too?

      • Jegede says:

        @Frosty –

        Good Points.

        And yes it’s all selective.

      • MostlyMegan says:

        His lead actors are usually women and they are the ones standing next to him on the red carpets and THEY are the ones defending him. It makes me sick. Blanchette and Winslette have sold their souls for in my opinion, along with many, many others. Power corrupts.

      • Ksenia says:

        @Frosty: Very true: Some people can feel self righteous and vindicated in “canceling” (ugh, agreed!) actors and actresses who they already dislike, yet never even mention, much less condemn, their favorites, who are equally guilty of working for and/or publicly supporting Allen. It’s nowhere near as simple as “cancelling” a few people–it’s much more complex, and horrific, than we all wish that it were.

    • Frosty says:

      Anyway – he should be in jail. The End.

    • milla says:

      Well do you think she trusts hw men? Dylan needs to be supported by women first. It all takes time and effort cos we live in a men’s world. Sadly.

      • Squiggisbig says:

        @Frosty Justin Timberlake has been cancelled for a lot of people for longer than Kate Winslet has.

        Certainly, there is work to be done for holding everyone accountable for working for Woody Allen but not sure why that means that it is a bad thing to cancel actresses who do work with him in the same way it’s not wrong to be in favor of Al Franken stepping down even though people are willing to let Roy Moore slide.

      • Frosty says:

        1) “Cancelling” all the actresses (or anyone) that worked with Allen would leave few people you’re ‘allowed’ to like.
        2) But my point is, we – as a society – are failing to “cancel” men too. These men should be called out for colluding. Not by Dylan Farrow but by all of us – journalists, me, you…

      • Lahdidahbaby says:

        Very good points, Frosty.

    • PPP says:

      Well, she’s calling out explicit hypocrisy. She is comparing all the times these women claim to care about sexual abuse to her case, where all of the sudden they don’t know anything and it’s not their business. Since men rarely speak up about that issue, she can’t compare general quotes about abuse with quotes about their choice to act in Allen movies. Part of this is the fact that women in Allen movies are always the ones asked to field this question, so Farrow is really functioning in a system whose entire machination is built to place the burden on women.

    • homeslice says:

      I have said something. It pains me that I can no longer look at Colin Firth and I never could stand Jude Law or Timberlake anyway. They are awful, period. No justifications.

      I believe Dylan Farrow. Shame on EVERYONE who continues to enable Woody.

      And Soon Yi always looks like a hostage in photos. I feel so sorry for their daughters 🙁

      • Squiggisbig says:

        @frosty quite an exaggeration to say cancelling all the actresses he works with leaves you with no one you are allowed to like when he almost exclusively works with non-POC actresses in a very narrow age range. 🙄

      • Frosty says:

        Oh my GOODNESS @Squiggisbig that’s not my point! Why do you keep saying ‘actresses’? What about ‘actors’? What about the other crew members? Am i talking to myself?!

      • Frosty says:

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      • Mallie Kiki says:

        AND let’s not forget he married his step daughter that he knew as a child and teen..that would be Soon-Yi. That alone speaks volumes.

      • AssViolator says:

        The way he’s gripping her arm in the picture above is disturbing to me.

  3. Nancy says:

    Bravo to Dylan. She’s reminding those who knew and teaching those who didn’t what her “father” did to her. With all of the other abusers getting outed and ousted for their crimes, he has lived his life and continued his career with Blake and Kate cheering him on. I won’t condemn her for not naming all of his cheerleaders, it’s her pain, her life and she can write it down as she deems appropriate. Maybe after all of these decades when she’s been side-eyed by his defenders, she will get justice. He is a pedophile of the worst degree, preying on his own child. Rot in hell perv.

    • magnoliarose says:

      Agreed. I think the words of women probably hurt the most and the men never get asked so she can’t quote them. The fault lies with journalists who won’t push everyone on this issue.

      • Lirko says:

        Right. And, to be fair, she does say she is disappointed in the men and women who continue to work with her father. Magnolia I think you hit the nail on the head w/your comment that the press at large, for whatever reason, declines to ask the male actors about Woody’s debased reputation. What is that all about, anyway?

      • Kitten says:

        YES exactly. Astute observation, Mags.

      • Wurstfingers says:

        Good point, Magnolia. I wonder whether they have handlers who forbid to ask these kind of questions or it’s just the male aura that makes the interviewers ‘forget’…

      • Sky says:

        @Lirko

        My theory on why men are not asked about working with him is because men are not required to answer those questions whereas actresses are required to. Women and supper famous women at that, supporting Woody makes it easy for the public to diminish the assault. Actress always over Praise him and say how he empowers women and writes great roles for them. Those are comments men can’t make, Woody and his team know this.

        Woody wants to public to see that he’s not a child molester, but a great supporter of women.

  4. Nicole says:

    She might blame women because she on some level blames her mom. Not to get all psychology over here but I think a large part of it stems from that. Not saying it’s right but we often replay our trauma and displace it elsewhere over and over. /soapbox
    Anyways the Farrow siblings have been really out there making a difference. Ronan doing the hard long investigations and Dylan standing her ground year after year. I can’t hate on that.

    • Sixer says:

      And in any case, does it really matter? I’m inclined to say that the damage the poor woman suffered gives her a free pass to direct her comments as selectively as she pleases. If the rest of us – who are only watching on – want to add to the list of objections for ourselves, nobody is stopping us.

      • Nancy says:

        I agree Sixer. She has been called delusional and a liar her whole life. She doesn’t need to be critiqued again for what she did or didn’t say. I don’t agree with Nicole regarding Mia. She was so broken when he took the pictures of her naked daughter and left them for her to find. She had to keep herself and her family together while this at one time was the headlines. The only one to blame is the monster, the pedophile, the utter piece of slime, Woody Allen.

      • Nicole says:

        Just because Woody is the abuser does not mean on some level she doesn’t blame her mom for not protecting her. I see this over and over with clients. Sometimes clients aren’t even AWARE they feel this way. I was just offering up a possible reason she directs her ire towards women and not men. It’s displaced anger. Either way she’s the victim and women aren’t getting a pass. I wish men were held as accountable but I’m not going to hold Dylan accountable for that.

      • Nancy says:

        Yep. What upsets me the most in this particular instance……since the floodgates broke open and women who were abused decades ago are bringing down their abusers and no one is questioning the validity of their charges, why should Dylan be any different. We label the victims as brave, yet Dylan has to plead to be heard. It’s a mockery to me. Big names are dropping like flies, yet Woody Allen still gets a pass. Sickening.

      • Brunswickstoval says:

        100% agree. She has had her life questioned and doubted enough. I’ll give her every pass.

      • Susan says:

        Amen to this. She can call out who she wants. Don’t appreciate the last paragraph of this article.

        Personally I think men are worse that work with Allen. You can make some sort of argument that women lack good roles, and thus why they work with Allen (doesn’t fly with me, but you can make that argument). I’m at a loss as to why male actors do, especially big names.

      • Sixer says:

        I agree with Nicole that it’s possible it may be subconsciously displaced anger on Dylan’s part. And again, it might not. The poor woman probably has CPTSD as the result of the abuse she suffered and the subsequent media frenzy including victim blaming and shaming. I’m sure her feelings and motivations are complicated.

        Whatever is the case, I think she deserves the courtesy from us to give her a hearing of what she wants to say and when she wants to say it, and for us not to demand more (or less).

      • NIcole says:

        Its one of the many affects of trauma. One of the more common ones. Not saying that this IS the reason but that I wouldn’t be shocked if it is.
        That being said I agree with everyone that Dylan has a right to process and deal with this in her way. I think she’s brave because she’s been shouting into the void for years while people praise her abusers “genius”. Hopefully in this emerging culture of “we’re not taking this anymore” Dylan can find some solidarity and peace.
        Hollywood needs to DO better. I feel like I say that every day. Also THIS is what I want to hear. Not the empty platitudes from people saying they are “shocked” by what happened. Nothing is shocking. Nothing is new. Start believing people the first time.

      • CatFoodJunkie says:

        I agree with her right to speak to any medium. However when is enough enough? She’s, what, 30ish? There isn’t a way on this planet for her to convince every human
        Being of what happened to her, and it won’t end unless she lets it.

      • Nancy says:

        CatFoodJunkie: I disagree. At this moment in time women are taking down the men that abused them back to 40 years ago in some cases. Weinstein, Lauer, Cosby to name a few are now dust. Dylan is a victim to her father who happens to be famous, so she has the right to once again join the victims of these sexual crimes. I imagine only a child of incest can understand her pain and that try as she might, she can’t let go of it unless perhaps, even if on his death bed, he tells the truth, which I highly doubt. Another day, and yet again, I am confused as to why this women gets questioned while others are lauded for adding their name to the #metoo list.

      • Trashaddict says:

        OK corollary of blaming the victim. Blaming the mom. Mia was trying to protect Dylan. We didn’t walk in Mia’s shoes. It is extremely difficult, in the middle of a custody battle, to assess accusations of abuse from one parent against another. The concern is always whether they’re making accusations to build their custody case. Imagine being in Mia’s shoes. You find out the person you love and trust is sexually abusing your child. The bottom falls out of your world. You feel guilty for not recognizing the signs before it happened. You put the energy into going forward, get labelled a hysteric by your ex (and others believe him), and his powerful lawyers limit the protections you can put in place.
        Woody is the perpetrator. Woody is at fault. Please don’t pillory Mia.

    • Jussie says:

      That would make sense.

      Mia’s own version of events had her strongly suspecting the abuse for quite a while, and doing absolutely nothing about it beyond asking the staff to ‘try’ to keep Allen from being alone with Dylan.

      In all her statements from the time it truly comes off like she didn’t really care or find it more than very mildly concerning until she found out Allen had been ‘cheating’ (I hate using that word in this context) with Soon-Yi. And then she only cared because it was a way to get revenge on Allen.

      • Nancy says:

        The transfer of guilt from Allen to Mia is disturbing. You believe every blind accusation of starlets, but think Mia brainwashed her daughter to believe she was molested. This is exactly what the sad sack Allen did, in answer to Dylan. He said it was Mia who made Dylan believe he was a monster. I really am flabbergasted by this whole debacle. Dylan will never have peace or justice, neither will her mother.

      • Kitten says:

        ITA, Nancy.

      • Jussie says:

        If that’s a reply to me Nancy you can save it. There’s absolutely nothing in my comment that suggests I think Allen is innocent or that Farrow ‘brainwashed’ Dylan. I think he abused Dylan (and Soon-Yi), without a doubt.

        I also think Farrow was at best, an extremely negligent parent, and again, I base that entirely on her own words. She went on the record multiple times talking about how she had strongly suspected Allen was abusing Dylan for a while, and she admitted, like it was totally normal, that she’d done nothing much about it.

      • Nancy says:

        Jussie: It was Woody Allen himself who used the defense of brainwashing in answer to the allegations against him by Dylan. I don’t know how he explained taking nude photographs of the GIRL he was helping to raise as his own. We each have our own opinions of Mia Farrow, who in essence, was the Angelina of her day, adopting children, most of them disabled, from around the world to safety. I admire her and won’t judge her for being duped by a man she thought was something other than he was, a pedophile.

    • Tinkerbell says:

      I always tell my friends when they are divorcing, etc. that it’s the mom who gets blamed. When I was younger and my parents were having problems — that we’re clearly my father’s fault — I remember being annoyed with my mother. Makes no sense, but I’ve seen it over and over. Maybe we want our moms to keep our lives safe and happy?

      • magnoliarose says:

        This is what happened with my stepsons. They were mad at their mother for the divorce when it was just my husband outgrew her, and even the morning of the wedding he knew it was the wrong thing to do, but their families were pressing the match. He blames himself for not being courageous as he should. The ridiculously lavish wedding had taken on a life of its own, and he said at the time he didn’t want to hurt her feelings. That worked out great. *sarc*
        He’s recently had to deal with some hard truths about that, but they refused to think it was him. Dazzling Dad and twin sweater set and pearls passive Mom. Sometimes I got angry with the way they talked to her.
        Most of the time the women suffer the fallout in divorces no matter why the split happened.

      • NIcole says:

        Its also because in most cases our moms ARE our primary caregiver. They are the ones we are attached to first. A lot of our relationships are based on mom and thus we hold them to a higher standard unconsciously
        Also fun fact: we tend to attach more to the abusive parent (or idolize them) more than the other parent. There’s a lot of psychological reasons for that but mostly due to guilt, shame and the feeling that abuse is “normal”. Ie we are conditioned by abuse and eventually that stems to holding onto our abusers more than the non-abusive parent.
        Psychological trauma is something that manifests in many destructive ways unfortunately

      • magnoliarose says:

        I didn’t know that Nicole. My husband wasn’t abusive but when someone doesn’t love someone it has to permeate the atmosphere. That is something he has to deal with, and he has some work to do there. His ex-lost years of her life married to a man who didn’t want to be there.
        I love him but he ain’t perfect. She has a lovely husband now, and they are cute but still…

  5. Mia4s says:

    No one should be mystified as to why he’s not caught up in this. Not saying any of the following is “right” but here is why: name one celebrity brought down/humbled by this #Metoo movement who had only one accusation. Anyone?

    Not only that but one accusation in more than 25 years. Plus he’s been married to Soon-Yi for 25 years. Plus their daughters are now adults working as production assistants. Plus the brother who now takes Woody and Soon Yi’s side. And an accusation made during a contentious break up? The idea of that terrifies people.Plus her mother spoke out in support of Roman Polanski. Plus his supporters can point out their was an investigation. Etc.

    Yes things have changed but people still have limits on what they will believe outright. Multiple accusers have been key. We are a LONG away from people believing one accused outright. Don’t forget that, we can’t become complicit thinking things have changed that much.

    • klc says:

      Soon-Yio his adopted daughter? Yes, he has been married to his teenage daughter for 25 years. I hope someone throws him an anniversary party, that really an achievement.

      • Mia4s says:

        Allen’s side of this distorts enough, let’s not get our facts wrong. Her adoptive father was Andre Previn. Adoption is not discarded just because a couple breaks up.

        But yes he had been dating her mother for so many years it clearly began as a paternal relationship.

      • Happy21 says:

        Who cares how long they have been married for? He helped freaking raise her. That in itself is disgusting.
        And one allegation should be all that is needed. This was brought to the police’s attention when it happened, it’s not like it was completely out of left field or just a rumour.
        And knowing that Woody Allen ended up marrying a girl who he helped to raise, makes me know that he is likely a sick f**k. Maybe Dylan was his only victim, I doubt it.

    • EOA says:

      Just to make it clear, you’re saying that we should assume Dylan Farrow is lying because – besides her own actual sister – there are no other victims who have come forward. Because you only have two options – you either believe her or you think she’s lying.

      Which is it?

      • Mia4s says:

        @EOA you’ve both completely missed and gotten my point. The preface of her article is “why hasn’t Woody Allen been taken down by the #MeToo movement?” and I explained why. It’s upsetting but it’s reality. The public and institutions have been reacting to multiple accusers vs. a predator, but when there is one accuser and the other side puts out their own evidence and denials the institutions and a heavy percentage of the public has shown they do not react in the same way. To put it in your terms people are believing accuserS not accuser.

        The simple fact is that even if he is guilty as hell she will never see justice unless another victim came forward. The prosecutor’s and yes, her mother’s, approach to this case made sure of that 30 years ago. Sorry but that’s the truth. As for career wise? He will be dead soon, he’s 82. It’s way late for that. I hope she can find some peace but the system will not be able to give it to her.

      • Moon Beam says:

        Her brother’s victims were male, though.

    • Div says:

      I’ll preface this by saying that I believe Dylan and I’m disappointed so many actors I like have worked with him. I’ll also say that the ugly truth is Hollywood a) doesn’t care about abusers and b) does remember that as much as Woody has distorted the truth over the years about his sexual abuse…. Mia has also distorted the truth about the investigation (one example is there was far more than the one Yale-New Haven team that didn’t supposedly didn’t see Dylan in person but the op-eds have always neglected to mention this) , Soon Yi and her alleged physical abuse of Moses. Basically, there are no perfect victims but people will use Mia’s very real faults to somehow justify believing that Woody must be telling the truth instead of lying his as* off c) Hollywood only buckles down when there are multiple accusations.

      • EOA says:

        But Mia Farrow didn’t write the op ed, Dylan Farrow did. Dylan is now an adult and she’s now provided details of her own abuse. Allen’s team has spent years conflating the two to muddy the waters. But at this point, this isn’t about Mia, it’s about Dylan. Either you believe Dylan or you believe she’s lying – those are your two options. Mia is no longer the issue.

      • Div says:

        @EOA

        Sigh, I believe Dylan. My point was that a lot of people wrongly believe in the perfect victim myth and by proxy disbelieve a parent who speaks out or reports abuse if they aren’t perfect too. It happens all the time in real life where people unfortunately try to claim a parent is making up abuse claims just to be vindictive against an ex and then uses their past against them (Tyrese, for another famous example, just pulled this awful move on his ex). Combine that mindset with Hollywood usually only moving to punish someone if there are multiple allegations and that’s why I’m not shocked there hasn’t been a reckoning.

    • blogdis says:

      @ Mia
      Personally I believe Dylan but just want to say if I understand correctly I don’t take your post as a defense of Woody Allen per se .You ar instead explaining the set of circumstances ( right or wrong ) why Woody hasnt met with similar fate.
      I know that we live in a victim blaming culture but it is seems hard sometimes to discuss these issues with nuance and context without being attacked as a rape apologist or victim blamer

      • Mia4s says:

        You’ve got it exactly @BLOGDIS. I think it’s disingenuious to not point out the reality of what’s been going on these past few weeks. Multiple accusers have been the key here. Otherwise I don’t think much has changed. I’ll use the Ed Westwick example (and yes I know some still defend him), but when it was one accuser I saw a lot of people online hedging their bets. When it was two, that started to move the needle and fewer were willing to doubt (but some still looked for a connection between the women). Then the third and finally that was about it. One accuser? I was thinking about the Kobe Bryant case the other day. The accuser refused to testify but still claims she was raped. He settled a civil suit. And his career continued to glory and he retired a hero. So….

        Less has changed than we think.

      • Moon Beam says:

        I see what you are saying Mia. His supporters tend to say he was “cleared” of charges or tend to insinuate that it all stems from his messy break up with Mia. I can kind of see why he is immune to the #metoo movement because, as someone said upthread, certain mitigating circumstances.
        It’s not right or fair, but it’s sadly just the reality of the situation.
        Over the top defenses of him, such as Kate’s, are very strange. You can’t “explain away” the Soon Yi situation, so maybe just cool it on the Woody Allen is a champion of women stuff girl.

      • Mel says:

        We also live in an increasingly victim-MAKING culture. Yes, of course people are *objectively* victims – but nobody can make you be one *subjectively*, assuming and internalising the role of a victim. Only you can do that.
        As someone who has been sexually abused repeatedly since childhood I refuse, and always have, to be made a victim.

    • PPP says:

      I posted this upthread, but I was molested by my father and as far as I know I was the only one. I think incest is a different thing– molestation in general may be different that abuse of adult women, since molesters tend to be predators of opportunity. Sure there are molesters that target many children, but there are also molesters who don’t. I think part of it is my father didn’t have many other opportunities, and part of it was proprietary. I was his in a way no one else was and that gave him a certain entitlement to me.

      I’d be way less likely to be believed than Farrow, though, since my father didn’t later marry my stepsister or make movies about his obvious hemophilia. So thanks for pointing that out. I genuinely appreciate it. Be aware that comments that seem to be just about speculating actually hit real people with real history.

      • Moon Beam says:

        I think it’s a BS excuse. Like you said, in those situations there are likely NOT multiple victims. However, I can sadly see how it IS used as an excuse to work with and praise Allen. And the mitigating circumstances of the break up with Mia are often cited as well.

      • magnoliarose says:

        Oh, that is a good insight. I didn’t think about that part, and it makes the abuse even more insidious because it is harder to prove.
        I am sorry PPP. I can’t say it enough.

      • PPP says:

        @magnoliarose- thanks, I actually dealt very well with that particular thing and forgave a long time ago, very much thanks to my mom believing me. However, I had relatives disbelieve me and I know many child abuse victims had even their own mothers disbelieve them. The public gas lighting of Dylan is infuriating me like nothing else and I think other people who went through it are very much affected by that aspect of it as well. It’s really important to realize that the way we talk about Dylan Farrow impacts everyone who has gone through child molestation.

  6. Liberty says:

    I admire Dylan’s bravery and strength.

    She may be name-checking women because she knows that women know what it is like to be preyed upon in this or similar ways.

    I personally cancel the men who work with Woody too, and my guess is she is feeling the same way, but tried to keep this essay focused on a theme. Maybe she will leave it to Ronan to pursue that path about the men.

    • Sixer says:

      Seconded.

    • Nicole says:

      Agreed.

    • Esmom says:

      Yes, well said. While it would be nice to see her call out the many men who work with Woody, it’s her prerogative to call out who she pleases right now. I wonder if she’s being a selective because listing everyone would be overwhelming. Sigh.

      And I’m glad she called out Gerwig. I was appalled at her (non) answer last week on Fresh Air when Terry Gross tried to call her out on her support of Allen.

    • OG OhDear says:

      Plus they’re the loudest Allen supporters and have spoken out about sexual harassment and assault – Lively even got an award for her work on preventing child sexual exploitation.

      Farrow must be so tired of screaming into the void.

    • magnoliarose says:

      Great point.

    • Moon Beam says:

      She named Louis CK in her last op ed. And we see how things went for him. I think she mentioned Alec Baldwin as well. He did not take it well. Y’all hop over to his ABFoundation twitter and see him fumble and try to defend Dustin Hoffman and condemn John Oliver and Stephen Colbert and then use phrases like due process and unfair. I HATE that his buddy Lorne tossed out Darryl Hammond and his perfectly good Trump impersonation for Baldwin.
      Kate and Blake have made themselves look hypocritical and foolish, so I don’t hate that she calls them out.

  7. EditorM says:

    Sad as it is. I really do think we don’t name check the men because we don’t expect much out of them. Even “the good ones” – see Al Franken – are turning out to be not much better. We live in a society that has undervalued and diminished women for so long, I’m afraid that it’ll be a long time before we feel we can or should really count on anyone but our sisters-in-arms.

  8. AbbyRose says:

    I don’t know if he will have a major scandal erupt or reignite, but I think that after #metoo and Kate Wnslet’s disaster of a promotional tour and laughable Oscar campaign for a movie that has been resoundingly panned by critics, people will start thinking twice about working with him. I think KW has done legit damage to her brand by her public praising of him. And she won’t get an Oscar out of it.

    Has any man been asked about working with him? Baldwin? Timberlake?

  9. SM says:

    I would deffinitely name check the feminist wanna be Justin Timbadumdum. But I also understand her, why she is calling out women specifically. As the events of the past few months show most men need a lot of eduacion of intersexual realtionships and women’s rights. Women especially most of those names who relate to some experience of sexual harrasment, men powen and objectification in a male dominated industry just come off looking like such a hypocrites. Whis is why I have no problem with Dylan’s approach.

  10. CharlieBouquet says:

    As a multiple molestation victim, reading this was awful. Literally sick to my stomach. It never goes away.

    • courtney says:

      SAME

    • magnoliarose says:

      I offer you and hug. I recall your harrowing story, hints mostly but I got the idea the pain is there. If I ever get the courage to talk about an incident, I will, but it is too painful to sit with too long. Her story makes me cry and scream at the same time.

  11. DiligentDiva says:

    I get that some people don’t feel this way or understand but I understand Dylan calling out women and not men. I think Dylan must have, like alot of women do, lower expectations with men. Even her own brother Ronan didn’t think she should write her op-ed.
    From a woman’s POV men don’t face the same level of sexual violence, not to say they can’t just that the current climate is stacked against women. So it does hurt when one sees someone like Blake Lively (who works to end child p0rn FYI) or Kate Winslet take the side of an abuser. I have no doubt both those women have experienced sexual harassment at some point in there life, I have no doubt at all that Dylan also knows they have.
    So it hurts more when someone who has gone through the same situation as you have doesn’t side with you.
    I’m not saying men shouldn’t be called out, but women like Blake Lively want to be considered a feminist until it doesn’t benefit them. That’s a problem. We need to hold them to a higher standard. If women don’t support women on this one will never solve the problem. Men don’t understand at all that their behavior is wrong.

  12. Chaine says:

    Slightly OT, but look at Soon Yi’s face in that photo. What is she thinking, I wonder?

    • whatWHAT? says:

      and notice how he’s gripping her arm? not like he has an “iron grip” or anything, but it’s still a grip that is proprietary more than “loving husband”.

    • minx says:

      IMO she has had the exact same blank expression we have seen for 25 years.

    • Domino says:

      Mia seemed to indicate in an old article that Soon Yi was suspected of experiencing malnutrition, or maybe it was extreme trauma prior to adoption, that affected her brain capacity, and had her struggling a lot with the US, English, general school work, such that she could have qualified for special Education. But then, Soon Yi went to college. but – Apparently when she was in college she had a private car drop her off just before and pick her up right after classes. No socializing allowed with other students.

      I guess I am curious if Soon Yi has friends, an emotional life outside of Allen. Seems unlikely… And God Allen is a GD predator. I believe Dylan.

      • minx says:

        I read Mia’s book “What Falls Away” years ago. Soon Yi was a street orphan and Mia was never sure of Soon Yi’s exact birth date. They needed bone scans to ascertain her approximate age. As far as her intelligence, she seemed like she eventually did okay in school. Almost sounds like she had/has Asperger’s, she had trouble reading social cues and interacting with people.

      • rocky says:

        ANd they have two more daughters with her. What is going on with them? They must be grown by now though

      • Mia4s says:

        Soon-Yi has a Masters degree from Columbia University and is apparently well known in social circles on the rather haughty Upper East Side. The daughters are grown and I was curious and it turns out you can google and find pictures of them working as production assistants on the set of his new movie, laughing and smiling. None of this proves or disproves anything obviously but it certainly doesn’t lend itself to the negative. It’s a tricky thing.

        I must say, separate and apart from the abuse allegations, Mia always seemed to treat Soon-Yi less as a troubled or victimized daughter and more as a love rival. That’s never sat well with me. Doesn’t make her a liar, but really makes me question her judgment.

  13. minx says:

    I’ve always felt so sorry for Dylan and hope she can somehow find peace.

  14. Valiantly Varnished says:

    I think she can call out whoever she wants and I think she calls out women because of the very fact that they are women. And I get that. Just like I call out JK Rowling for standing behind Johhny Depp. It’s not about holding women responsible for men’s behavior it’s about holding them accountable for their OWN. These women are CHOOSING to ignore victims and work with these men. It’s an extra slap in the face. And they need to be called out for it. You can’t be pro-woman and not believe victims.

    • ickythump says:

      Exactly.

    • Ankhel says:

      Women who support known abusers are to be blamed, yes. But. When a man drinks, it’s because his wife nags. If he cheats, it’s because his girlfriend’s frigid. If he rapes, it’s because the girl tempted him. If a man beats a woman, it’s because she provoked him. Etc, etc.

      Woody Allen is the criminal, just like Weinstein and all the rest of those dirtbag men, and here we are, picking apart the women around them. Shifting focus. Again. EVERY TIME. It’s internalized misogyni. See it, recognize it, then let it go! At least we aren’t going after the wife this time…

  15. Div says:

    I feel Dylan has the right to frame it in whatever manner she chooses to do so. However, I do blame THR, Variety, and various entertainment and news outlets who choose to completely ignore Amazon studios shelling out big bucks or Sony Picture Classics in fear of getting denied sources/quotes or set visits from future films by the studios. It’s not brave or great journalism to only go after Selena Gomez or Elle Fanning while completely ignoring Amazon or the big male actors like Colin Firth, Jude Law, and Joaquin Phoenix. I looked online and I haven’t found one single instance in which a journalist questioned Joaquin, Steve Carrell, Tom Hiddleston, Colin Firth, etc..or even one of the Amazon executives or CAA for representing Woody.

    • lightpurple says:

      Hiddleston hasn’t worked with Allen since 2011, three years before Dylan wrote her op-ed. Time frames are important.

      • Div says:

        A lot of people knew all about the allegations, especially people interested in film, before Dylan wrote her op-ed. It was a big story in the 90s and was still a subject that plenty of film critics and journalists acknowledged on occasion. Ellen Page clearly knew when she talked about regretting her work in his film.

      • Frosty says:

        My goodness – op-ed or no op-ed, everyone knew about Allen in 2011!

      • magnoliarose says:

        The story was out before that, and I knew about it in the 90s and barely paid deep attention to it. His nasty ways were well known since the 70s. I don’t blame people for not grasping it back then since no one talked about it but after the fact, there is no excuse.
        I am all for people making a mistake and doing soul searching and apologizing and getting it. It is the feigned ignorance I have no time for any longer. Men or women.

      • Lightpurple says:

        Marion Cotillard, Kathy Bates, Rachel MacAdams, Lea Seydoux, Carla Bruni, and Allison Pill were all in that same movie, along with Owen Wilson, Michael Sheen, Corey Stoll, and Adrien Brody. Were any of them asked about Dylan in 2011?

      • Karen says:

        Hiddleston never apologized for his work with Allen, so what soul searching are you talking about? The same goes for other actors listed in above mentioned posts. Only Ellen Page apologized and she worked with Allen in 2012.

      • magnoliarose says:

        Oh none. I don’t know anyone besides Ellen who did that. But here is a golden opportunity to make a statement.

        lightpurple, I don’t know if any of them were asked. I no longer watched Allen at that point and avoid the pressers and ignore his movies. I was just responding to the OP.

  16. gobo says:

    It sounds to me like she’s calling out those who have defended Woody. It is primarily women who are asked the awkward questions about Woody, primarily women who go on the record about it and therefor, quite naturally, primarily women she is calling out.

  17. Ira says:

    Allen’s fans will always watch his movies. He has his own niche market. The Farrows will always writes op-ed to criticise actors who collaborate with Allen. What is the end game of this shitty family drama?

    • magnoliarose says:

      Allen gets caught for all his crimes. They are plenty, and when the bitch goes down, I want to be there and throw a hard brick at his slimy head. I am in no mood for these a-holes today. Endgame he is grievously injured. Ira, I am fed up with these guys. He and Roy Moore make me want to damage something.

    • Sky says:

      I’m not seeing any family drama, what I am seeing is a victim who will not stop speaking out until she gets Justice.

    • PPP says:

      Describing it as “family drama” is horrifically minimizing. Just imagine having to watch the guy who molested you have every success and suffer no consequence. Even before Dylan Farrow came forward, a strong consensus was that she was brainwashed by Mia. Imagine knowing that’s how the world thinks of what happened to you. At a certain point you get angry and tell the world your truth. There doesn’t have to be an end game to it. It’s about standing up for what really fucking happened to you. I admire Dylan’s strength tremendously, and her steadfastness in the face of public gas lighting, I think, does a lot for people who have been through this. Victims of child molestation are often disbelieved by their own family members and gaslit into maintaining relationships with their abusers. It is vindicating as hell to see Dylan refuse to back down.

    • whatWHAT? says:

      wow, that’s pretty cold. maybe have some sympathy for a molestation victim?…

      I think the end game of this “shitty family drama”, or at least what Dylan wants, is for people to believe her, and stop working with/rewarding/praising Allen.

  18. KBB says:

    This reminds me of what Gabrielle Union said about the fact that Hollywood royalty brought down Harvey Weinstein. Woody hasn’t faced the repercussions because Hollywood royalty stands with him and against Dylan Farrow.

    If Kate Winslet thinks he’s great, he must be great. It’s the same reason Lena Dunham shouldn’t have made her statement about Aurora Perrineau. Public figures are trusted more by people because we feel like we know them. “We” being the general public.

    I think the tide is turning against Woody Allen though. Ronan has developed his own reputation as an honest investigative reporter and people will trust him.

  19. I understand why she name checks the women. In her world, women are the protectors, the ones who have your back, the ones who believe you. If you can’t count on your father to do the right thing, how can you really count on any man to do so? She holds women more accountable because the men are only behaving the way she knows they will. And these women that she calls out? They are mothers. She expects better.

    • magnoliarose says:

      That makes sense. I think it was hurt and disappointment more than anything. I am glad this was brought up though and is being examined.
      In your opinion does some emotions become arrested in children who were sexually abused?

      • Absolutely. And there could also be some residual anger towards Mia for not stopping it while it was occurring as was mentioned by someone else upthread. I have found that some patients I have had who were victims of childhood sexual abuse have a whole emotional life that is very different than the emotional life they project to the world (smiling on the outside, seething on the inside). And there’s a lot of internalizing of these emotions. Some blame themselves (“if I had been a good girl” If I had listened to my mother and not been alone with this person…”) and some blame their mothers (“Why was work more important than being home with me to protect me from this person?”) Some women self harm just to feel because they are numb. It’s heart wrenching and harrowing. I believe Dylan. I always will.

      • magnoliarose says:

        Thank you for answering. It is heartwrenching. I don’t know how you do your job, but I admire you for it. I think it has to be draining sometimes or perhaps after some years you learn how to put it in a compartment.

        Sorry for my poorly edited post. lol

  20. adastraperaspera says:

    Good for Dylan. Her grandmother Maureen O’Sullivan, famous for playing the role of Jane in the original Tarzan movies, was one witness of the behavior. She told Mia to prevent Woody from being alone with Dylan. The fact he was allowed to legally adopt two young girls after he married Soon-Yi is maddening. I have mentioned before in a comment how one of these girls looks like Dylan, and the other like Soon-Yi. Gross. Not to mention his pervy, “underage-girls-love-old-men” movies in plain sight. Hate him and his cabal of “artsy” high-class pedos.

    • magnoliarose says:

      YES! I didn’t see your comment before but now I know you are right. Gross.

    • ickythump says:

      Yes – dress it up anyway you like it the guy is total SCUM. Dylan must be traumatised by the fact that nothing has been done about her abuse. Karma sometimes takes a long time, surely now this POS should be prosecuted and put in jail.

  21. bella says:

    Lively and Winslet (among other actors who’ve worked with him) seem like the type to say and do whatever it takes to get to the “top”, regardless of who it might affect in the long-run…including rape and child molestation survivors. These women are vile creatures who seem to only care for themselves and their “careers” (Lively doesn’t have much of one without Allen these days). I truly feel sorry for their daughters, and sons, whom they would probably feed to the vultures if it meant an Oscar.

    Dylan is a personal hero of mine. She never backs down, she hasn’t, and she won’t. I wish I had that kind of platform to call out my abuser-but he isn’t nearly as powerful as Dylan’s own abuser. She is truly a BADASS for never keeping quiet. NEVER STOP BEING GREAT.

    • magnoliarose says:

      She is fearless, and her hurt comes through here, and it is hard to read. He needs to go. I am glad you survived, and we need your voices out there. Somewhere there is a girl like Dylan who needs to know she can use her voice or maybe she is reading this blog.

    • Lee says:

      “Lively and Winslet (among other actors who’ve worked with him) seem like the type to say and do whatever it takes to get to the “top”, regardless of who it might affect”

      This!!

  22. Kim says:

    As a survivor of childhood sexual assault at the hands of my father for 13 years, this is not surprising to me. Nobody wants to believe the victim. She must have “misunderstood” his affection or she must be a drama queen. She is lucky to still have her family – especially her brother. My family has found it much easier to not believe and therefore disown me than to accept the truth. Painful but not at all surprising.

    • Ocho says:

      I am so sorry @Kim. To survive an assault — by someone you should trust more than anyone, only to be gaslit by your family — the people who should have been the support you needed, would be hell. Thinking of you.

    • magnoliarose says:

      I am sorry your family treating you like that. Pamela Anderson spoke about that too and I don’t understand why the child is not believed. I know it is true because it has been said before but I don’t understand. Be well and I hope you have found some peace in your life and recovery.
      For you and every survivor. 😢

    • ElleC says:

      That’s awful and you’re right, it’s a tragically common response – I’m so sorry your father and family did that to you.

    • PPP says:

      Yes, that’s the thing about watching the public gaslight and discredit Dylan. If you yourself have been subject to the same treatment, it tears your heart open. I was lucky enough that my mother believed me, but no one else did. She has been clear about what happened to her from childhood, but apparently since there aren’t five other molestation victims to come forward people are quite happy to act like they know better than her and say with utmost certainty that she was brainwashed.

  23. Sky says:

    I think Dylan is calling out women because they have been openly defending him. I mean look at Kate Winslet love letter about Woody Allen in every interview.

    I have a feeling Woody people knew Dylan was going to speak out at some point. He scared because the climate in Hollywood has changed in abusers have been outed. That why he made those comments about Harvey and how he doesn’t want it to be a Witch Hunt. Also why Kate Winslet has been overboard with her love Woody Allen and the dismissal of his abuse.

  24. Nikki says:

    I HATE the way Allen is holding his wife’s arm in the above photo. I find it to be a very controlling position. My grandfather used to do that to me, and I felt very dominated and controlled. If a gentleman wants to offer support to a lady, he offers HIS arm for her to lean on. Ugh. He is awful, and I do believe Dylan. I also am DONE with Kate Winslet.

    • Sky says:

      I feel the same way and has Soon-Yi ever looked happy in a photos? She always looks out of it in all the pictures I’ve seen.

    • Rachel in August says:

      I noticed that was well. The body language of both of them just looks completely uncomfortable. It’s about as warm as a carp on ice.

  25. Karen says:

    Cate Blanchett worked with Allen, praised him and named her son after Roman Polanski. Is she cancelled too?

    • Sky says:

      Many people on here have canceled her because of that.

      • Karen says:

        Yeah, ok, here she was cancelled by some people, but in general? She still stared and stars in movies which earned $$$ in BO ( recently in Thor 3) or brought her praise from critics and nominations. How these facts in her bio affected her as actor in grand scheme of things?

    • babykitten says:

      Her beauty and fashion style seem to make her exempt to many.

      • Karen says:

        So if an actor/actress is pretty looking, fashionable and dresses up nicely he/she has a pass… Interesting isn’t?

    • Moon Beam says:

      Yes.

    • Sky says:

      Many in Australia have cancelled her for supporting her manager and her managers child molesting husband.

      • Karen says:

        Oh, I didn’t know that about her manager. So she was supporting SEVERAL molesters in her lifetime. That’s sad.

    • Cranberry says:

      She did NOT name her son after Polanski. That has been taken out of context. Before you start smearing peoples names you should do real investigation from legitimate sources not just tabloid-headline journos.

      • Karen says:

        Except she DID and media like NY Post mentioned this cute little fact. Take off your rosy glasses.

      • Cranberry says:

        @Karen

        Do you understand what “taken out of context” means? Why don’t you provide her declaration that she named her son ‘AFTER’ Polanski – as in deliberately, as opposed to she named her son Roman ‘LIKE’ Roman Polanski. There is a difference. This charge comes from a Jimmy Kimmel interview and was more like a nervous slip of the tongue where she blurts out the first Roman that popped into her head.

        Like I said, please show us where she confirms that she’s named her son after him, and why she did – not something that can be misconstrued for gossip and tabloid chatter. Until you can do that I choose not to spread malcontent falsehoods.

      • Karen says:

        @Cranberry, oh so you spin her sentence from that interview where she talked about naming her son and linked it directly to Polanski as just a “nervous slip of the tongue”? Lol. Because it’s the most natural thing for a grown up woman to be so nervous, when talking casually about names for her sons, that it results in thinking and talking directly first and foremost about the particular man with known horrible reputation and criminal record? Yeah, logical.Sorry but you keep digging yourself and Blanchett with your weird spin. It’s not falsehood, it’s fact, uncomfortable fact, yeah. And you sound awfully like those people who defend Johnny Depp these days.

      • Cranberry says:

        @Karen
        Talk about leaps of logic. You should listen to yourself and how decidedly biased you are. You still aren’t able to distinguish interpretation from definitive facts. You’ve not provided any proof or clear declaration as I asked for. You’ve merely used the fact of the incident to interpolated into it your own beliefs, not truth. Like I said I’m not interested in spreading ‘misinterpreted’ falsehoods. I’ll stick to my own observational skills thank you.

        Btw, she’s probably studied Polanski’s work in her acting and film studies. Despite his crime, he made his mark on the film industry, and thousands of actors and directors know his work. There’s any number of reasons his name would be in her head. Just a simple word association game on “Roman” does it for me. That doesn’t mean she advocates for him or admires what he did or named her child for him. We just don’t know that do we. And sorry, Kimmel doesn’t cut it.

      • Karen says:

        @Cranberry

        The only one who has leaps of logic is you here, I’m afraid. So suddenly her own interview, hew own words, don’t cut it and don’t count? Because interview is the proof itself. You do understand how funny it sounds? You refuse to take her interview as proof, make up weak excuses for her and try this “She’s probably studied Polanski’s work in her acting and film studies” – and that’s why when she is asked about names for her sons, she links name of her son with Roman Polanski, out of all people (but nope it doesn’t mean a thing, lol, according to you).

        “Despite his crime, he made his mark on the film industry, and thousands of actors and directors know his work.”

        But they don’t link him to the names of their children when they talk about naming of their children lmao.

        Like I’m sorry Blanchett names her son after Polanski, works with Allen and doesn’t care for Allen’s victims, cause she thinks about herself, she is not very moral when it comes to those issues. But hey, harsh reality. She is not the only one like this, if it makes you feel better, but you inability to accept it and defend her are funny.

      • Cranberry says:

        “She LINKS name of her son”

        @Karen

        That’s your definitive proof? That and because she’s acted in a WA movie. I can see you’re determined to believe this, and that’s your choice. Just please stop insisting your beliefs are undeniable facts. They’re not. You’ve jumped to an easy judgement based on nothing conclusive.
        People that name their kids after someone usually have a reason or story why they did so. Why doesn’t she just explain if it’s true? If she or her husband are trying to hide it, she would never have made a such a clumsy slip on national tv. Point being people can read this several different ways. But you’re entitled to your OPINION just as I am mine. Good day.

    • Susan says:

      She’s cancelled to me. You are correct that she seems to mostly get a pass because she is beautiful and talented. I can’t control that. All I can do is choose what Hollywood projects I will support financially and which ones I won’t.
      I believe Dylan. She’s spoken out before about how it hurts her to see Woody praised by famous actors/actresses suffering no consequences for that. I will not be an active participant in financially rewarding that hurt. My little protest likely makes no effect in the grand scheme of things but I will continue to make it. I take heart though that as the years go by things are changing. Ten years ago, I found a lot more people would comment on stories about What a great artist woody is and how they separate art from artist. These days I find a lot more people pledging to boycott and cancelling those complicit. Arc of moral universe bending toward justice and all that jazz.

      • Karen says:

        I understand you. I think the more Blanchett, Stewart, Law and others like them are called out for their works with Allen, their praise for working with him and their hypocrisy, etc, the better. And I mean both female and male actors. I mean I remember online jokes how poor Jude Law has to play alongside bad person Depp in FBAWTFT and I was like, why? He has no problem playing in Allen’s movie, lol.

  26. Sophia's Side eye says:

    Good for Dylan, she is so brave. I believe her. Sometimes there is not perfect justice, but why should her abuser be allowed to continue on with his life while she stays silent? She should do this every time he comes out with a new film. She was quiet for so long and he lied about her abuse. I’m so glad she’s found her voice!

    • There are stories that he horribly abused Mariel Hemingway
      I hope she has the strength to come forward if so
      I am sure he mad3 them feel it was consensual
      My heart breaks for the little girl Dylan
      Together with her brother they have a chance to make this a watershed moment for child victims

  27. JA says:

    Perhaps she name checks the women because she expected more from them?? As others pointed out her own father molested her so it most likely affected her viewpoint on men and how they always disappoint/unreliable they are. Not diagnosing her and she should/we all should hold every person who works with him female, male accountable. However I’m not gonna hate her for calling out these sycophants and enablers who support a pedophile for their own personal gain. Now if and when Justin Timberlake gets called out, oh Lord I’m ALL in for that and absolutely can’t wait!!!

  28. manta says:

    It’s her prerogative to name check whomever she wants. However I’ d like to see some media starting questioning the actors too.
    On this very site, on a couple of occasions, Selena Gomez and Elle Fanning were heavily criticized for shooting Allen’s last project. For once, Jude Law was questioned too.
    But interestingly enough, the other star of this film, Timothée Chalamet was totally spared.

    And boy, if there’s someone campaigning right now (and yes I know, not for an Allen’s movie), that’s surely him. I’m eagerly awaiting the moment the new media darling and flavor of the moment will be put to task to justify his choice to work for Allen.
    It’s interesting that so many commenters claim that any actor who worked with him since the 2014 op ed is now canceled, but Call me by your name is on everyone’s watch list.

  29. Ozogirl says:

    I applaud her, especially for calling out the people who continue to praise and support him.

  30. Cranberry says:

    I think we’re entering a new age of accountability for the famous and powerful. WA has always been able to stay on top despite his deplorable behavior because Hollywood and insiders have protected him. He was able to make a name for himself and ride that success for decades. His movies cost very little to make, and if they do marginally well then they’re a success. Actors want to be in WA movies because 1) He is coddled and celebrated (hyped) in the industry 2) His films are character driven and most actors need these kind of roles, especially women, to distinguish themselves from just “girlfriend/sex pot” roles.

    The problem begins with the industry as we are seeing the breakdown over the past couple months. With more and more big, powerful perpetrators being exposed and feeling the consequences even for things that happened long ago, the public disdain for Allen is going to be taken more seriously. His financial backers might become nervous this backlash will affect ticket sales.
    Now that the conversation has broken open into the public discourse I think questioning actors for working with Woody is more relevant than it was before. I can give a pass to most actors, especially actresses, that have worked with WA in the past. This is the way the industry has worked, and most actors aren’t in positions to turn down a WA movie and all the notoriety that comes with it. From here on in though, actors and financiers are going to have to think carefully about being associated with him.
    We’ll have to see how this current movie does at the BO and with critics. I hear it’s only so so and has problems with the casting not being believable, except for Kate’s performance. Still, it’s never a good look schilling for an Oscar by defending WA. This is going to be an interesting awards year.

  31. Egla says:

    I worked with someone who towards the end didn’t even hide he was molesting women. The strangest thing was that he was emotionally abusive towards men as well but he would find ways to give them money in the form of bonuses and you can’t imagine how they would fall at his legs as to speak. Some of these men were my old colleagues and a couple almost denied being friends with me in front of him. I lost a lot of people during that long year. In the end he found a young ambitious girl who would play along and he got crazy and started to do a lot of stupid things for her and with her. She on her side become a sort of queen Bee there and had her own following because she had power through him. Let me just say that she was the target of everybody there as she was the bad guy there. She got married to a guy and he become suspicious and maybe also heard stories of her working late nights till midnight with him and started asking question. So she was “forced” to denounce him of sexual molestation. (because he was a high figure aiming for a promotion someone had already anonymously placed some calls and photos) Long story short she had to issue a declaration to the authorities and she backed down because before that they told her what they had investigated so far and they knew a lot about them and if things wold go to trail she would be exposed and the case would drop. Don’t know all the details but I was called in a semi official way (I had a cofe outside with an officer) and he basically told me that IF I wanted I could come forward as I already had a well documented story with him as I had witnesses and I had had a very public argument with him . I played dumb as sure he was telling me that but the subtext was that I was going to be shamed and probably loose and no other woman had come forward. Deep inside me I was mad at all the other women that didn’t come forward and sure at myself.

    As for this story with Allen what we are missing here is that he has had power, reputation, friends, money all his life and she was just a little girl and her parents were in a middle of a bitter custody battle and maybe they saw it would be more damaging than not to the child going to trail and so he had some kind of victory and people around him choose to ignore everything.

  32. TW says:

    ‘Dylan Farrow’ doesn’t even exist. She changed her name to Eliza in 1993, a year after these allegations came out. She’s Mallone now and goes by her married last name.

    • PPP says:

      A: So what?
      B: Of course she’d change her name so as not to be associated with this guy. She had no choice about that before she chose to come forward public.
      C: TW= The Weinstein?

  33. Piia says:

    “Why doesn’t Dylan care about Joaquin Phoenix or Justin Timberlake or Alec Baldwin or any of the men who have starred in Woody’s recent films?”

    She does care. Last time she called out also Alec Baldwin and Louis C.K.:

    “What if it had been your child, Cate Blanchett? Louis CK? Alec Baldwin? What if it had been you, Emma Stone? Or you, Scarlett Johansson? You knew me when I was a little girl, Diane Keaton. Have you forgotten me?”

  34. FF says:

    I think all of these “cancelled” actresses and actors can get un”cancelled by stating that their decision to work with him was unwise, or at least being able to give their reasons plainly.

    Ellen Page worked with him and stated she felt ashamed and somewhat pressured into it. It would likely give some insight into why people work with him if more people explained themselves but they probably don’t want to rock the boat at present. Very few (if any) of these people are/were scorching the box office when they worked with him, it’s not impossible that agents, agencies or producers, etc. make them feel like they have to remain viable.

    Of course there are others who do it because they consider it an “honour”, or out of ignorance but I doubt all of them feel that way.

    If the public sentiment shifted on Allen and there was a backlash it would be interesting to hear stars reasons without the fear of the possibility of career demotion.

  35. Jenny says:

    I’ve boycotted WA movies since the 90’s. I don’t remember if I heard Dylan Farrow’s story then but I do remember it creeped me out completely how he got together with his stepdaughter and took naked pictures of her when she was 17. To me that was enough to make me vow I’d never see a WA film again and I haven’t. I just wish these Hollywood actors would have enough moral stamina to refuse to work with this pedophile. And I’ll never see another Kate Winslet film again either, she’s gone too far now for me.

    • CatFoodJunkie says:

      Do you boycott frank Sinatra? Who married Mia at 19? I’m sure the first time he saw her naked wasn’t at their wedding night. Ugh.

      • PPP says:

        Was she his stepdaughter? Does whatever what was wrong with that relationship minimize what Allen did to Dylan Farrow?

    • Trashaddict says:

      Likewise on the boycott, Jenny. Not getting my money in residuals.
      It’s cancelled out a lot of movies for me, considering all the other artists
      who are now unacceptable. No regrets.

  36. Evie says:

    GO Dylan! I applaud her for her bravery in continuing to speak her truth about how Woody Allen abused her and her continuing refusal to back down.

  37. Y says:

    Truth be told: people who work w/ Allen don’t give a shit about any morals and only care about their fame. Bottom line.. he belongs in JAIL along with Polanski. Fuck them both and make them rot!

  38. shouldawoulda says:

    Woody Allen is a child rapist, a pedophile. He should be throw out of Hollywood, and really be in prison.

    BOYCOTT HIS MOVIES. It is easy bc there, also, are overrated. I think actors have to sign promotion contract that limits what they can say about woody allen bc it will hurt the investors ability to make their money back. Want to make your money back, film investors, do not hire a child rapist!

  39. bap says:

    I am calling out Cate Blanchette who has won an Oscar in 2013 playing a neurotic woman “Blue Jasmie” woody allen film.

    • Cranberry says:

      I can’t stand Woody Allen. Not saying it was a great movie or anything, but for an independent, character driven film, Blue Jasmine was good and had good performances all around and that goes for Cate too. She did very well in it.

      I’ve only seen some of his films, and usually I find them boring or overrated. I saw BJ because of the Oscars, and I was enthralled with the characters. IAH, I’ve heard many accounts that in recent decades WA has had less and less to do with the production of his movies. As I understand it, there’s a few key people that do a lot of the production and casting and negotiating for his films. He’s a very hands off director. I think he only interacts with the prime actors very little – if at all.

      Blue Jasmine is a good movie to peep into the little mind of WA and get an idea of how he views women, how he sees (blames ?) women as the cause or motivation driving men for their crimes.

  40. serena says:

    I agree that men who worked with him should also be held accountable. It’s a shame I like a lot of actors and actresses who worked with Allen and, even though I’d like to, I can’t cancell them yet. Still.. I think they have to answer it, especially those who worked with him after the first Dylan Farrow’s op-ed! .. And yeah, let’s also talk more about Cate Blanchette.

  41. Cranberry says:

    So if a woman that worked many years on her career or for a company had a boss or company owner be accused of sex abuse/ child molestation, she should quit her job out of protest even if she would lose a significant portion of her income and could not recoup the level of advancement she had already achieved? Regardless if she thinks the allegations are true, quitting her job or turning down a major employment opportunity may not be a realistic option for many people.

    I get the whole public pressure thing, but it can go too far sometimes. Being disappointed in an actor is one thing, but the idea that actors are to be held accountable for “enabling” predators while they’re also subject to a corrupt HW system, is simply unfair.
    Point being, in the HW system of insiders, big studios, casting agencies, financial backers/producers protecting WA, Wienstien and other predators, actors, even famous ones, don’t rate very high in the power chain. In a corrupt system like HW, actors are the commodity, not the power brokers.

    • PPP says:

      I agree in principle that someone like, say, a manager or a publicist, or an actor in a television show, who has a long-term relationship with someone, shouldn’t take on a moral burden which comes at an immense cost to them, for the price of a minimal consequence. However, movies are short term projects. What people want is for actors to decline a short term project in favor of other opportunities. The actors under discussion are successful people with a lot of money and a lot of opportunities, not up-and-comers for whom a role is make-it-or-break-it.

      • Cranberry says:

        Actually even quite successful actors can’t necessarily turn down high profile roles especially actresses who have less to choose from. The film industry has it’s own operatives that control the paths to the lucrative roles. Yes there’s good roles/projects that happen around that system, but for the most part, the majority of the better paid work and longevity for actors is the established system and if you’re not going to be a player, you can easily find yourself out in indie-land permanently in regards to lead roles.
        Let’s not forget to the rest of the world WA is not a criminal. No formal charges were brought up against him. He remains an extremely successful HW film maker who’s films carry significant weight on an actor’s cv. Until Dylan’s 2014 open letter, anti-WA protest was widely over looked. But now with tabloid social media and #metoo, the court of public opinion might finally weigh in on WA. So I do agree with the public pressure on celebs, but I draw the line at “cancelling” them because of a system that they’re also caught in especially pre #metoo, pre 2014.

  42. CharlieBouquet says:

    I didn’t know know mom knew he was not to be trusted. Ladies, listen to your gut and to your babies. There is never ever a reason to allow a partner that needs constant supervision, around your kid. Sigh. If I had $20 for every person I knew who was molested by mommy’s man or their dad, our gas would be paid for a year.