Khloe Kardashian doesn’t think Tristan gets that his infidelity was a really big deal

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This isn’t the point of this story, but I still can’t get over this Instagram from Khloe Kardashian. She looks like a plastic alien, my God. Anyway, as we already heard this week, Tristan Thompson already has one foot out the door. That Us Weekly story – which I believe 100% – runs contrary to the messaging Khloe has been trying out for the past two months. Khloe would have us believe that Tristan was so apologetic after he cheated on her (repeatedly, with multiple women) and that she is so brave and strong for daring to act like a doormat and pretend like nothing happened. Tristan has tried multiple times to sabotage this relationship and Khloe just refuses to acknowledge that. So now People Magazine has yet another sympathetic article about how Khloe is doing and what she thinks of Tristan these days. Some highlights:

Khloe doesn’t think Tristan “gets” how his affairs changed their relationship: “As a guy, he’s naturally not as understanding as he can be in this particular situation. It’s so much easier for him to, not completely, but brush things under the rug. She can’t do that,” the source says. “Khloé carried his child and is much more in the limelight than he is, and she doesn’t think he understands the consequences of his decisions. She thinks the cheating scandal is a way bigger deal than he does and he doesn’t fully understand the repercussions of his actions affecting not only him and Khloé but the entire family as a whole.”

The Kardashian-Jenner family hates Tristan now: “It’s been a tough learning lesson for him. The whole family had to deal with the public’s perception of him and his relationship with Khloé changing dramatically,” the source says. “He also doesn’t fully ‘get’ that she’s been through this before [with ex-husband Lamar Odom], except that this time there’s a child involved…. When he got with Khloé, he tried to adapt to the best of his ability, but he struggled with being part of such a high-profile family and crossed lines he shouldn’t have. He wasn’t expecting such major backlash from the public and it’s been a lot for him to handle.”

[From People]

I mean… what is the purpose of this, really? My theory is that Khloe is slowly coming to the realization that, oh right, Tristan checked out of this relationship MONTHS ago and that he’s doing everything he can to get Khloe to dump him. Of course, that’s probably just wishful thinking on my part. The real reason for this is probably just Khloe making excuses for Tristan’s checked-out behavior. She’s making excuses for her own doormat behavior too, acting like “oh, he just doesn’t understand!” He understands perfectly. He just doesn’t give a sh-t.

Also: what’s up with all of the references to how famous the family is? Like, Tristan just had to cheat on Khloe with multiple women because… the family has a reality show?

New parents Khloe Kardashian and Tristan Thompson step out for a late lunch!

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  1. Babs says:

    This family is really something else. Those excuses are so insulting and lame I wish I could unread them.

    • Bettyrose says:

      They are energy sucking vampires. Tristan, GTFO!

      • Janet says:

        Let’s not show concern for the man that cheated on his pregnant girlfriend with multiple women and most likely still does.

      • Heather says:

        Janet I wouldn’t call it sympathy. He is who he is and he was known to be what he was when Khloe was the side chick when his last girlfriend was pregnant.

      • ElleKay says:

        @Janet, Khloe didn’t worry about the woman who was pregnant with Tristan’s first child when she started dating him. What made her think he wouldn’t do the same to her?

  2. Max says:

    Tristan heard about the Kardashian curse but he didn’t believe it. This “backlash” is mostly people clowning him for hooking up with a plastic, alien, clown everyone warned him about. It’s his karma for what he did to Jordan. I just hope the Kardashian family has some class, and keep her name off the show.

    • Bettyrose says:

      Tristan probably isn’t the brightest bulb, but getting sucked into the Kardashian vortex seems like a harsh punishment even for him. Doesn’t benefit his ex and other child(ren?) to end up emotionally destroyed.

      • Max says:

        When Jordan was pregnant, Khloe and her makeup artist (now fired) used to poke a lot of fun at her, and send stories to the press about her. Imagine that, poking fun at a pregnant woman, whose child’s father you are banging while she is pregnant. Tristan said nothing and allowed it. Tristan is a serial cheater, and even if Jordan dumped him for his bad behavior, it doesn’t mean he is free to go flaunt his new relationship! Relationships aren’t black and white. Be a man and be there for her. Send her flowers, and food that she’s craving. IMHO I think he is getting what he deserves, even though he may feel as if he doesn’t deserve it. I think Jordan and her child will be fine, she has a strong support of family and friends, a lot of whom are new moms ( almost all her friends and family have had babies in like a 3 year time span, including Eniko Hart, her cousin). She stays off social media for the most part and most of her postings are business or her enjoying life.

      • bettyrose says:

        Max,
        Fair enough. I have no sympathy for Tristan – though I still think he’s probably kinda dumb and easily manipulated – but this gawdawful family destroys men like monsters from Greek mythology, including their own brother. In any other scenario I would consider it sexist to accuse women of deliberately destroying adult men who can walk away on their own, but if we saw a family of brothers who routinely drove women into hospitalization, we’d be enraged. The outlook isn’t good for Tristan, but I’m glad to hear Jordan has a strong support system.

      • Nancy says:

        Max: I’m from the area and would love to know the deets. I never heard of a smear campaign on Jordan. She has a good rep as a person and in her business. Khloe’s the one that looks dirty, except……..I keep reading on this site that she had a surrogate. So what if she did. She’s extremely sensitive and weak. If she still had fertility issues and wore a baby bump, she wouldn’t be the first one in in Hollywood to do so. She is the kid’s mother, no matter what the case. God, I’m defending a crazy person. I’m sitting here pregnant myself, with my 22 month old girl falling off my lap, lol, so I guess it’s a mom thing. Anyway, please tell away!!! I want to know. Prince Oliver is adorable, although, Jordan doesn’t post his face.

    • Max says:

      Shade throwing example here, Jordan posed by Tristan’s car when they were together so Khloe has to do it as well with her makeup artist chiming in.

      https://www.lifeandstylemag.com/posts/khloe-kardashian-joyce-bonelli-tristan-thompson-baby-mama-118787/photos/khloe-kardashian-tristan-thompson-4-191141

      http://celebrityinsider.org/tristan-thompsons-ex-is-reportedly-disappointed-that-khloe-kardashian-is-getting-more-attention-than-his-own-son-122867/

      None of these stories came from Jordan. Khloe could have had some class and kept it on the low, but instead she had Tristan and her relationship splashed across the press and social media. There are many other examples. Radar Online runs these stories constantly. Kris writes great fan fiction.

      • Nancy says:

        Thanks Max. They truly have no class, but sadly it seems to pay off for them. You’re right PMK is the ring leader. Screw them. Jordan can go to sleep at night in peace, something they will never do.

  3. Mariposa says:

    What is that article trying to say? That Tristan doesn’t really ‘get’ how cheating can blow up a relationship?! Oh…he gets it, that is WHY he was cheating!

    • Sherry says:

      I think he was cheating because he could. Let’s face it, he’s a young, wealthy, successful NBA star who has gorgeous women who would gladly hop in bed with him anytime, anywhere in every city. If he were older and at the end of his career, he might be in the mood to settle down, but he’s young. He still wants to sow those wild oats.

      Khloe has a bad picker and her self-esteem is in the toilet, which is why she’s willing to be a doormat.

  4. Lolo86lf says:

    That woman doesn’t even look like Khloe. She looks looks like a sex doll from planet Plasticonia. She should dump him ASAP.

    • StellainNH says:

      I totally agree!! These women were beautiful before that had all that stuff done. I think they look horrid. She doesn’t look like herself anymore.

    • Sherry says:

      They really do look like those plastic sex dolls! Is that what men really want? Big boobs, big butts, big open lips, vacant eyes and air between the ears? Ewww.

      • aenflex says:

        It starts becoming the norm in elitist and/or wealthy social circles. First it’s the boobs, then some Botox, maybe a tummy tuck or lipo, then a little bit of fillers, then a little more, and eventually you end up with people looking like this. And yes, apparently it is what a fair portion of men want, or else these folks would be single. Men want to bang sexy dolls. They might not want to marry them, or be faithfully committed to them, but they do want to bang them.

      • Stubbylove says:

        Well said aenflex – perfectly summed up. I can’t get past this absurd IG pic and the “not smiling makes me smile” from stupid-ass Kayne. The insecurity is beyond strong in these people.

    • minx says:

      Really. Fakety fake fake.

  5. Alexandria says:

    We get it Khloe, you don’t think.

  6. KNy says:

    I think she’s trying to lay the groundwork for their breakup by pinning it on problems *now* so she doesn’t look like as much of a fool for not showing him the door as soon as she found out. This relationship has an expiration date that has long since passed. Everyone – Tristan included – has known that except Khloe. I think she is getting that now. PLUS – and I think this is a factor – he plays for the Cavs and LeBron is now with the Lakers, meaning Khloe very likely won’t be sitting court side during the finals because the Cavs won’t have LeBron. Tristan has lost some of his status.

  7. Jordana says:

    Narcissists cheat and think it’s no big deal and expect you to just get over it and carry on pretending g everything is fine. And if Tristan is narcissist, he believes hes justified cheating on Khloe because it’s her fault that he’s cheating. I’ve been there. He won’t change and he can’t change. Run Khloe run! And please stop with the lip fillers. Please.

    • Lana says:

      “Run”? No need to run when no one is chasing you 😂
      Also I find it funny – the whole trend of calling “narcissist” everyone who doesn’t give a shit about you. Yes, sometimes people don’t enjoy your company that much. It is not a diagnosis. Have some self respect and walk away early.

      • Amanduh says:

        Dang Lana!!! Siiiick burn!!! “…no need to run when no one is chasing you!!!” 😂🤣
        He’s so very clearly not into her. That phrase has been beaten to death, but it is so blunt and undeniable and should be a wake up call.

  8. dlc says:

    I like the dig about how he isn’t as famous as she is.

    • KLO says:

      Well to be honest i had no idea who he was before he dated Khloe. U can say what u want but dating a Kardashian will get you global name recognition

  9. Jane says:

    Basically Tristan is a cheating immatute idiot.

    Basically Khloe has nothing else going on in her life so she hanging onto Tristan.

  10. Nancy says:

    I read today that she tweeted she wanted a boy so badly. But now she has a girl, so that’s what God wanted for her. Yeah, that’s how it works. She’s a fame whore. How she achieves the “fame” doesn’t seem relevant to her. James Harden warned Tristan and I’m sure others did too. Someone needs to muzzle her because she is really getting out of hand. *I’m not sympathizing with TT, he made a deal with the devil and has to pay for it now*

    • She wanted a boy 1. Because she wants love from a man that she has never had 2. She didn’t want to raise a girl because of all the pain she went through.

      • Nancy says:

        Rise and shine. Yes @Jeannine McNeal, you’re probably spot on.

      • jwoolman says:

        She also might have felt a man would be more attached to a boy and therefore to her. Again, she didn’t look at his previous relationship to predict her own future.

  11. Chaine says:

    I’m sorry, but didn’t he cheat on his ex with Khloe while his ex was pregnant? Of course he doesn’t get it. Karma…

  12. Alix says:

    I wonder at what age the Kardashian grandkids start to realize that their mommies’ faces don’t look like anyone else’s…

  13. minx says:

    Of course he “gets it,” he just doesn’t care.

  14. We “get” it. Without this current scandal there is no reason for a tab to cover her. This story is wash, rinse, repeat. We got the same cycle with Scott and Kourtney until he produced enough babies that he was released into the wild.

    Side note: I didn’t buy it during the pregnancy, but I am coming around to thinking she didn’t carry this child. This chronic over sharer hasn’t discussed a single aspect of motherhood outside of shilling a breast pump.

    • Nancy says:

      Scott and Kourtney actually had a relationship. Scott is an alcoholic, and he fit in on the show. A couple of season were devoted to him. He made cute babies with her and it appears he actually loves them. All adds up to $ for PMK. Tristan is just another baller Khloe got tangled in her web. Whether she carried the kid or not, it’s his. Looks just like him. Ok, I’m off to real life, Kardashian overload. You’re correct with her it’s ss/dd.

      • Agreed on all points, I was thinking more of the repetitive splitting up, working on it, he doesn’t get it cycles, which was literally her only storyline.

    • c8c8c8 says:

      There are literally pictures of her pregnant…

      • minx says:

        There are pictures of her wearing a smooth fake belly that was off center.
        She also “gained weight” only in her stomach, which, for someone who was heavier at one point in her life, is strange. No extra weight in her arms, face, legs. How convenient.

      • There is literally a picture in this article looking nothing at all like … her.

    • Tourmaline says:

      Wash rinse repeat is right. This is Khloes ‘storyline’ courtesy the official Kardashian newsletter, US Weekly. Snore.

  15. RBC says:

    What on earth is going on with her lips??!! Is she taking the fillers Kylie doesn’t use anymore and injecting it in her lips?
    Khloe looks like she fell into a beehive

  16. sommolierlady says:

    Her “face” is downright disturbing.

    • Lilly says:

      Yes, and sad. Remember when she was the real one?

    • Milo says:

      Her lips look like a swollen butthole. All I can think every time I see a picture is that she literally made herself a butt-er face.

  17. Yes Doubtful says:

    I don’t understand this woman. She cuts Caitlyn (who was a father figure) out of her life so easily, but when it comes to Odom or Tristan, she just keeps coming back for more.

    P.S. I can’t even look at her. Not that she was ever a stunning beauty, but she looks like a blow-up sex doll now. Who says to them, “yeah you look good!”?? No one in that family is honest with each other??

    • Bridget says:

      One point of order: Caitlyn left. It’s her MO to move on, sadly without her kids (just ask the Jenner boys).

    • Max says:

      Lamar wants nothing to do with her now.

    • minx says:

      Sadly, I would bet that her sisters and mother tell her that she DOES look good. As long as her nose is small and her lips and boobs are big, she’s right in the Kardshian beauty wheelhouse.

  18. Floydee Mercer says:

    Thanks for the daily Khloe martyr watch. She is working the dead-eyed empty-headed blow-up come-hither sexth bimbo Kardashianesque look. Tristan should be all over that but apparently it takes a bigger man than he to find a bottom to the void of the gaping maw that once was her soul. C’est la vie .

  19. Anon33 says:

    These a**holes…”naturally, as a guy, he doesn’t understand…”

    This kind of bullsh*t just reinforces outdated gender stereotypes that have no basis in reality. THERE ARE PLENTY OF MEN WHO DON’T THINK THIS WAY. Gahhh

  20. Annie says:

    I have friends like her. She’s a doormat, she’s insecure, she has no self-respect and as a last resort she thinks “well, he doesn’t love those girls but he loves me.” No, he doesn’t. If he cheats on you all the time he doesn’t love you. He’s with you because he doesn’t know how to dump you. He’s sabotaging the relationship so that you dump him. But these girls are SO insecure without a man, they would rather put up with it all. The things I’ve seen my friends who through. Blatant, constant cheating. Flirting with women in their face. Nothing is a deal breaker.

  21. me says:

    Well I guess they’ve got her storyline for this season pretty much sealed.

  22. Nina says:

    Why doesn’t he just break it off with with her? Why does it have to be this passive-aggressive sabotaging behavior to get her to break up with him? Just gooooooo….

    • Max says:

      If he dumps her, Kris Jenner will slaughter him worse than how they aired out Lamar Odom’s drug use. He is thinking about his public image. He has no connection with the baby and he may just hate Khloe as of now. It sounds as if he is building up a lot of resentment towards her.

    • Mela says:

      From All appearances They arent in a relationship of any kind and Khloe is delusional.

      He was sleeping with other women like 3 days before she gave birth? That is NOT a relationship. Khlo is hanging onto to something that isnt even happening

      She is worse than Jennifer garner

  23. Bridget says:

    But it’s not a big deal, at least in this relationship. If it’s not something that Khloe would leave over (or if he doesn’t care if she leaves) then there’s no stakes for Tristan.

  24. Mar says:

    This sounds beyond pathetic. Stop making excuses for serial cheating pigs. Khloe – he’s just not that into you. Deal with it

  25. Mela says:

    Its not that he doesnt get that cheating on your pregnant girlfriend is a big deal…he just doesnt care about Khloe.

    The fact she is rationalizing that he is not faithful and doesnt want to be with her as “he just doesn’t understand.”…gurl its YOU that isn’t understanding that he doesnt want to be WITH YOU!! You are not in a relationship with him!!!

  26. Babs says:

    I don’t pity him, he is a ain’t sh*t deadbeat dad who dug his own grave. And I don’t pity her, everyone gets what they deserve. I pity the kids (especially True who has a shitty mom on top of an absentee dad) because everyone needs a dad. Why would you bring actual children into your endless stunts and f*ckery, I’ll never get it.

  27. Mare says:

    So, SHE thinks infidelity IS a big deal, yet she stays with him.
    He cheated with her. What makes her think she’s so special that he wouldn’t do the same to her.
    She keeps saying she’s a strong woman, but she lets him slide on cheating.
    She’s desperate for a man.

    • Max says:

      She wants him to apologise and grovel and he clearly isn’t up for that.

    • pottymouth pup says:

      if she thought infidelity was a big deal, perhaps she shouldn’t have gotten involved with a guy who had a [pregnant] GF

      she should not be surprised or upset by his behavior at all as she was more than willing to be the one he was with when Jordan was pregnant

  28. Veronica S. says:

    Of course he doesn’t think it was a big deal, genius. That’s how you view actions that don’t seem to have any real consequences or repercussions.

  29. Pam says:

    I used to love Khloe. I’m done with her! I absolutely despise Kourtney. She’s actually worse than Kim and that’s hard to beat. Way to go Kourtney! Loser! You have no idea what a job is. To Tristan I say run far and fast buddy!

  30. jwoolman says:

    Unless this is all fluff for the stupid show, Khloe doesn’t seem to understand that Tristan just doesn’t connect having children with being in a long-term relationship. He has proven that before. He has some connection with his son, but really didn’t feel a long-term connection with his son’s mother. They broke up officially while she was pregnant. That seems to be his pattern – he loses interest in the relationship once his girlfriend gets pregnant, although he is not totally uninterested in the offspring.

    I doubt that he considers what he did as cheating. My guess is that he was done with the relationship with Khloe once she was definitely pregnant. It’s quite possible that he never had a truly long-term relationship with Khloe – he may have considered it as just dating and not even “going steady”. Jordon got tired of that approach and dumped him (it was her decision) and moved on, Khloe didn’t.

    Khloe got what she wanted: a baby with a father’s name. That is just going to have to be sufficient for her, and maybe it really is. Hard to tell with Kardashians what might be real and what is a plotline. He will be an occasional presence in her daughter’s life, as he will be in his son’s life.

    That’s really not so uncommon. You seen that with other social mammals, such as primates observed by Jane Goodall. Some sperm donors are very nurturing and become real parents (giving the lucky offspring two parents), but others simply don’t. They are only interested in having sex with the mother and the offspring are better off with limited or no contact. Among mammals, an important role for the mother is to protect her children against the males, including the sperm donor….

    Humans have tended to rely on special commitment ceremonies (marriage) to nail down intentions for long-term relationships with mother and children, so at least legal obligations are set out. Some men don’t need that in order to commit, others will never really see any legal commitment as a serious promise to be faithful. Figuring out which is which would be a very useful skill. But Khloe should at least look at the guy’s previous relationships and not believe anything he tells her about how misunderstood he was. Both Lamar and Tristan clearly showed they were not attached long-term to the mother of their children. Lamar’s partner wasn’t even aware he was done until she heard about the wedding with Khloe, and he hadn’t even introduced her to his children. Alarm bells should have been ringing loud in both cases.

  31. aenflex says:

    He hasn’t done right by either of his babymamas. He’s a shit person, a philanderer who is starting on a path of leaving a string of children in his sketchy wake. There is no bloody way I will feel sorry for him being ensnared in the Kardahian web. He put himself there.

    Khloe’s a sad fool. I don’t pity her either. They’re both pathetic in their own ways.

  32. Holly says:

    This site is so hard on Khloé for choosing to stay with him …. DAYS after she birthed his child.

    Who doesn’t want to give their child a shot at a traditional family life? Who doesn’t want to believe the best in their significant other?

    Obviously he’s immature and a mess of a human, she and True deserve more. But I’ll never begrudge her for trying.

    • Kate says:

      Um…As my sister-in-law once wisely told me, “There are two types of men: those who cheat on their significant others (or wives) and those who don’t.” Khloe already knew which type he was long before she even got pregnant.
      Another of my new favorite sayings is, “when someone shows you who he really is, believe him”.
      None of this is a surprise.

  33. Phil says:

    If I was the GM of any of the 4 big league teams (but Kardashians seem to go for NBA) players my first team rule – you date a Kardashian and you will be traded to a non-contender. They are nothing but a distraction in the locker room.