Do you ever feel sorry for Cardi B because of her sometimes-toxic relationship with Offset? I do. Cardi is a problematic person in many ways, but I legitimately feel sorry for the way people around her manipulated her into taking Offset back after she dumped him. I felt sorry for her because she was trying to get in a better and healthier head space after he cheated on her A LOT, and then he wormed his way back into her life and she hasn’t looked happy since. Probably because Offset is still cheating on her.
So, more backstory: Tekashi 9ix9ine’s girlfriend Jade was one of the dancers/strippers Offset was probably sleeping with last year. Jade was also one of the women whom Cardi B assaulted when she found out Offset was cheating. And Jade was the one who got a DM from Offset this week, which she posted on social media. She wrote “Your wife @iamcardib has a OPEN CRIMINAL CASE , why are you writing me you don’t respect her ??????? Theirs a lot of sh-t I haven’t exposed yet , but there’s a time for that 😭😭😭🌈 I’m the QUEEN 👑 of talking sh-t now I’m backing it up 🎼😂🤡” [via capitalxtra, she’s since deleted the Instagram.] Here’s the photo:
And here’s a copy of the IG video:
Oop! #6ix9ine girlfriend #OhsoyouJade / #Jade shows a dm that #Offset sent to her expressing that he misses her! If y’all don’t know, he is happily married to #CardiB 👀 pic.twitter.com/XsT5kyQUUS
— MILLENNIAL SHADEROOM ☕️ . (@MillennialShade) December 3, 2019
Spectacular call-out from Jade. I hate-respect it. Anyway, shortly after that, Cardi made some videos and claimed that her social media and Offset’s social media had been hacked.
Cardi B is not letting anyone get in the way of her marriage to Offset. The “I Like It” rapper, 27, defended her husband on Instagram on Tuesday, shortly after his account was hacked and he was accused of sending a flirty direct message to Tekashi 6ix9ine‘s girlfriend, Jade. In a video posted earlier this afternoon, Cardi sat beside Offset, 27, and confirmed to her followers that his Instagram account had been hacked before standing up for the “Clout” rapper.
“Babe, I know you done some dumb s—, everybody know he’s done some dumb s—, but c’mon, n—s ain’t dumb, n—s ain’t crazy,” she said, referencing previous rumors of Offset’s infidelity. “We’ve been so good, we had a sweet weekend, life has been good,” Cardi went on. “That’s why I ain’t getting no rowdy. Simple as that. Okay, love you guys.”
Cardi captioned the video: “We look crazy …don’t mind us y’all we both sick and just woke up …anyways we not going to entertain bulls—.”
Cardi also made it clear that she did not believe the cheating accusations and that they were likely a result of the hacker gaining access to Offset’s account by posting two additional videos. In one, Cardi recorded herself as Offset and a friend of theirs attempted to log on to his account and report the issue to Instagram. “Just woke up and we dealing with this sh-t,” she captioned one of the videos.
I just… I can’t. Is it possible that Offset was hacked? Sure. It’s possible. But what’s more likely, that a hacker broke into Offset’s Instagram to send a flirty DM to his sidepiece, or that… Offset sent a flirty DM to his sidepiece and then told Cardi he was “hacked” as a way to explain Jade’s Instagram video? My God. My hope is that if Cardi leaves Offset again (please, please), the people around her will just let the breakup happen and no one will manipulate her or shame her into taking him back.
Photos courtesy of WENN.
Instagram link has been taken down. Do you have a screenshot?
It was deleted like 5 minutes after this story went up! That’s up now.
The Instagram is deleted! If y’all got a screenshot can you post that? I want to see the DMs!
I saw her video on insta last night. I love cardi. Look at those fierce nails. Look at him holding their bambino quietly. I think she’s got this handled, she’s a force.
He does nothing but hold her back, you can literally see it in their pictures together. She’s on a whole different level and I hope she can leave this succubus in her past.
Incubus is the male term for succubus. Offset is a cheating, joy sucking incubus
Please he tweeted a bunch of stuff right after Jade called him out to pretend he was hacked. Nevermind twitter and instagram are two whole diferent apps. He’s never gonna change because he knows Cardi will keep taking him back and making excuses for him. I wish she would just leave, he’s only holding her back.
At the time of the DM he was on Instagram commenting on other folks’ pays and posting himself. The “hacking” didn’t happen until AFTER the DM was revealed.
If he had actually been hacked, why post only on Twitter, and hours after the fact? If you had hacked Offet’s accounts, are you gonna wait a few hours to post stupid stuff he would’ve posted on his own (because he’s an idiot and would), or would you go through his DMs and screencap all the pictures and messages you know he had with other chicks and post them?
Cardi is an idiot and she continues to cement her place as the queen of idiots by defending what is a very obvious lie.
this man has played in her face too many times. he obviously takes her for an idiot because if he was hacked why was that the only evidence we have on Instagram??? and then he started tweeting random sh*t HOURS later like he was hacked when WE all found about it, again, HOURS after “hacker” sent the ig message. He’s a fool and at this point she is too.
I love the flower dress. So original. Offset, in my opinion, will never live without side chicks. Cardi has to accept this as a fact and decide what she wants to do about it.
It’s Mugler! I love it too. It’s a vintage design which they remade for Cardi.
Say what you will about her, she has amazing style.
But, apparently, a bad picker.
I was dissapoint when he gave her that pile of designer bags to try to lure her back, and it worked. Girl, you in danger. Run away!
That flower dress is fantastic in the truest sense of the word.
Also, please look at HIM in that pic, vs her. He is just sitting there with his mouth hanging open trying to catch flies, honestly looking like he doesn’t have two brain cells to rub together. And then there is HER. Top of her game, larger than life. Honestly, I am not a big Cardi fan. I don’t listen to her music unless I accidentally catch it on the radio. But she is HUGE right now. And here she is, shackled to this idiot, who is not even faithful to her. WHY DO WOMEN DO THIS???????? She has all the $$$ in the world to leave and easily start her life separately. WHY would she put up with this crap?
This is my fog ate my homework level bullshit. Oops, these girls accidentally keep bumping into his penis.
Haha right?! Those aren’t hickeys! I got into a fight with the vacuum cleaner! *says the man that couldn’t pick a vacuum out of an appliance lineup*
Of course he is still cheating on her, most likely with multiple side chicks concurrently. Because that is who he is.
Cardi B is just trying to damage control. She can’t possibly be that stupid not to know he is still cheating on her.
I cannot with Offset.
I felt sorry for her…last year. At this point, it’s just embarrassing.
They deserve each other.
Sooo we just gonna ignore she assaulted the other women and proceeded to take the low life back and blame others for her mess? It never fails to amaze me how far ppl go to defend the celebrities they put on pedestals. So yea not at all surprised at how far celebrities go before there’s any “canceling”. I guess it doesn’t matter what she does since she’s so real (eye roll).
@flamingo my comment was supposed to be a stand-alone not sure why it posted responding to yours… agreed they’re both messes
Life would be so much easier if frequent cheaters just admitted they didn’t want to be in a committed relationship.
Right? I really don’t understand the chronic cheater that is always in a relationship. Why do chronic cheaters like Offset beg their partners to reconcile (like Offset did to Cardi) only to cheat on them yet again? I dont believe he is with Cardi for the sake of their child. I dont think he finds it important to be with mother of his child. he has plenty of other child with women he is not in a relationship with.
Does he get pleasure from inflicting this type of emotional pain and trickery on his partners? That would be sadistic.
I’m doing app dating (sighhhhhhh) and at least 30% of the guys on it admit to being married looking for a fwb. My friend lives in the suburbs and she says its more like 50% out there.
I actually wonder if they are doing the “I am hacked” thing because of the open case. It’s just so obviously a lie.
Offset just seems generally jealous of Cardi and probably gets off on making her look stupid.
Everyone involved is garbage.
I don’t know how anyone can feel sorry for her. She’s not the type of woman to let anyone walk all over her or tell her what to do. If she took him back and forgave him, it was because she wanted to. Also, I can’t feel sorry for a woman who had no issue drugging and robbing men (but we aren’t supposed to talk about that).
Precisely
Amen!!!!
Never forget about the drugging and robbing. She’s scary. He’s a low life.
He has never stopped cheating on her. Once a cheater always a cheater. She needs to leave and never look back!
She actively chooses to devalue herself by staying with an unapologetic cheater. She knows who he is and chooses to stay, so these stories will continue to pop up. I hate when a powerful and talented woman doesn’t think she’s worth even basic respect.
I think Offset is the one who actively devalues her. He cheats on her to erode her self-confidence so she won’t leave him. I have a big problem with blaming the person being cheated on. He is the deceptive manipulator, not her. Hopefully she gathers the personal strength to leave him. Being with a chronic cheater really wears you down over time.
He is gaslighting her in front of the entire world with this “hacked” Bs. Imagine what he is doing behind close doors. I feel sorry for her, not him.
Thank you. Always the person being cheated on getting blamed “why didn’t she leave” Sorry but there doesn’t have to be physical bruises visible and a black eye for someone to be in an abusive relationship that is hard to escape Strong BIPOC women are always blamed, too. We’re expected to be strong all the time with some essentialist b.s. that our strength is innate, and are never believed to be victims even though we are the most victimized.
Just because someone is a victim does not mean their actions can’t be held up to scrutiny or that she’s not capable of being responsible for herself. She is a grown woman, and it does her no favors to infantilize her.
She won’t leave him. Her parents are still together. He would have to hit her, and even that might not work.
Hispanic families manipulate you into staying or at least working with toxic men. My mom did it to me. The individual women are less important than family. In other words, men do what they want and women are raised to sacrifice themselves for family.
I feel for her. She is lying to herself and is surrounded by people encouraging her to believe him. She should have stuck to her guns like Lisa Bonet did all those years ago when Lenny Kravitz stepped out on her, but Lisa’s parents weren’t together, and her mother wasn’t Hispanic. My mom was close to a friend of Lisa’s mom. They lived in the same apartment building in the valley when Lisa was a child.
Wut? I love this Lisa Bonet interlude.
Please do tell (more). I wonder if Lisa’s mom was as cool as she is, etc.
There is something inside of her that believes she isn’t worth anymore than he’s giving her AND she’s being lied to non-stop by him and the lies are lies she wants to believe: that he loves her like no one else before or after, that their family is the most important thing in the world to him along with lies she already believes: that she’s not good enough, that she’s not beautiful enough, young enough, fun enough, tough enough, whatever enough it might take for him to be faithful.
She knows. She for sure knows.
Yeah he is probably a smooth talker and will say anything to her.
He is lying to her face and I am sure there is a voice deep down inside her telling her that.
This guy is a deceptive manipulator. When will these type of people stop having fan bases? He is a terrible person.
Hey if he really is cheating, I don’t have an ounce of sympathy for Cardi, because a zebra doesn’t change its stripes. She knew that taking him back, so that’s on her.
She needs to scrounge up what’s left of her dignity and dump that loser! At this point she just looks weak and pathetic trying to cover for his chronic, gross, sleezy behavior. She is not responsible for his actions and no amount of pleading or threatening is going to “fix” him. This is not love, it’s just classic co-dependency.
Nobody but Cardi is buying that he was hacked. She will stay with him though – no matter how many times he publicly embarrasses her and their child.
Cardi is just a mess as it relates to her public persona. Her comments about dark skinned BW, her former make-up artist, drugging men, her fight with Offset’s mistresses and her LONG list of other public rants from her IG, makes it hard for me to have sympathy for her…..it might not sound like an acceptable excuse to some here, but that’s just how I feel about her and her nasty attitude. It’s a major hindrance.
She’s also very thin skinned for an industry that requires the opposite. She goes out of her way to respond to almost every single negative comment made about her. She can dish it out but cannot take it.
Offset must be a master manipulator to LOL because she keeps accepting his BS excuses. He will continue cheating on her because no matter what he does, she’ll stay and defend him.
I don’t understand the argument that Cardi got manipulated into taking him back. I think it takes away are autonomy and agency. She’s supposed to be this bad b*tch but somehow she wasn’t able to say to the people in her life that she wasn’t taking back this cheater? She is a willing participant in this foolishness. Not to mention that the first time I ever saw her, she was on some reality after-show taunting a woman about sleeping with the woman’s boyfriend. She’s ridiculous. And if she believes this lie, then she’s also an idiot.
Why is she still with him? I don’t get it.