Duchess Meghan is looking forward to using her voice now: ‘It’s good to be home’

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On Friday, the Duchess of Sussex interviewed Emily Ramshaw, the CEO and co-founder of The 19th, the new news site creating content specifically for and about women’s issues and politics affecting women. Again, Meghan was not being interviewed, she conducted the interview. But she still made news because of the conversation with Ramshaw. I’m including the full video at the end of the post – superficially, Meghan looked great and very relaxed. We know that she filmed this in her new Montecito home too, so we got a tiny glimpse of the furnishings, and it seems okay. They still haven’t said anything about a pregnancy so here we are, looking at Meghan’s luxurious long, wavy hair, looking like she’s taking prenatal vitamins or something. You decide! Here are some highlights from Meghan and Emily’s conversation:

Coming home to America as George Floyd, Breonna Taylor and Ahmaud Arbery were murdered: “Just devastating. It was so sad to see where our country was in that moment. If there’s any silver lining in that, I would say that in the weeks after the murder of George Floyd, in the peaceful protests that you were seeing, in the voices that were coming out, in the way that people were actually owning their role … it shifted from sadness to a feeling of absolute inspiration, because I can see that the tide is turning.”

She looks forward to working on race issues: “From my standpoint, it’s not new to see this undercurrent of racism and certainly unconscious bias, but I think to see the changes that are being made right now is really — it’s something I look forward to being a part of. And being part of using my voice in a way that I haven’t been able to of late. So, yeah, it’s good to be home.”

Salacious gossip over real news: “What’s so fascinating, at least from my standpoint and my personal experience the past couple of years, is that the headline alone, the clickbait alone, makes an imprint. That is part of how we start to view the world, how we interact with other people.”

She’s talking to Gloria Steinem: With the November election fast-approaching, Meghan stressed that voting is “incredibly important” to her; she said she’s even been talking to feminist icon Gloria Steinem about it. Meghan encouraged people not to take suffrage for granted, noting that her husband has never been able to vote. “People are craving a change. In the place we’re all in right now, there’s such a moment where people are starting to question the systems we’ve always believed in.”

The word “suffragette” was intended as a pejorative: “This term, coined by one man in 1906, has stuck as part of a movement. When you look at that, and look through that lens of the power of one person’s influence in the media to be able to shape an entire movement or way of thinking … If women had their voice heard as equally, how different that would have been.”

[From The 19th]

I agree with what she’s saying here, and she’s not saying anything controversial or even “political” honestly. I mean, what does it boil down to? People should vote; the right to vote is important; we’re in a time of national and global change; people pay too much attention to salacious gossip; peaceful protests are inspiring. I would say that she could have done this kind of thing as a member of the royal family, but… you know, of course she couldn’t. If she had done something like this when she was still a “senior royal,” there would dozens of Daily Mail stories like How Dare She Wear Her Hair Like That, Courtiers Say Meghan Had a Tantrum Over Zoom, Meghan Pulls Focus From Prince Charles’ Vital Tour Which No One Was Paying Attention To, and finally, Meghan’s Hair Made Kate Cry. She also would have needed approval from six courtiers, three private secretaries, the Lord Chamberlain and two corgis. So no, they wouldn’t have allowed her to do this.

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Screencaps courtesy of The 19th video.

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  1. Laalaa says:

    The conversation was great, and her top/dress is loose.
    So..

    • Smices says:

      Someone noted she looks like she’s using her hair to hide any fullness in the face and bosom area.

      • Elizabeth Regina says:

        I thought that too. I hope to God she IS and perhaps she can finally enjoy that special time in peace without the disgusting scrutiny of the rabid press and trolls.

      • harper says:

        I will laugh hysterically if at some point in the future, Charles’ instagram has a birth announcement, welcoming another grandchild who had recently been born. No name, no date, no weight, no pics. The howls and screams of the tabloid editors will set off seismographs, as they realize all the lost sales they could have had during her pregnancy.

      • Still_Sarah says:

        It could also just be hair extensions. They look nice.

      • Dl says:

        @Harper this dream keeps me going😄

    • Elizabeth says:

      At the very end, she kind of leans back and it definitely looks like baby bump.

      • Nan says:

        Yes, it looked like a combination lean back and quick bump touch!

      • anotherlily says:

        I’m sure she’s trying to conceive. Speculation around the photos of Meghan and Harry leaving a building around 5 weeks ago included whether they’d been to a fertility clinic. The building houses a number of medical practices including a dentist and a fertility clinic. Apparently they were in the building for just a few minutes before they emerged with Meghan carrying what some have speculated was Ovidrel, a hormone treatment which is injected into the abdomen to encourage ovulation. Some of the effects of using this kind of treatment include swelling of the abdomen.

        The photos are intrusive and publishing them is possibly illegal. The DailyMail claims to have obtained the photos ‘exclusively’. I hope there are legal consequences for this. Nonetheless, it actually IS interesting and speculation is inevitable.

        Meghan’s body type with a short torso is the kind that ‘shows’ early in pregnancy and takes longer to regain a pre-pregnancy figure. She was showing a ‘bump’ at the Grenfell Community cookbook launch when she was probably no more than 8 weeks along.

        I hope she stays healthy and happy.

    • anon says:

      I saw it first thing in her face. As a mother, you can always tell when something is… different.

      If so, good for them. 🙂

  2. Brit says:

    She looks great and the whole summit was amazing. Her and Harry this look looked happy and at peace, moving foreword. It’s funny watching the collective temper tantrums from haters and the BM. They have literally lot their minds and it’s clear no one cares and they’ve lot the plot.

    • VS says:

      The whole summit was fantastic! I followed it entirely:

      1) If anyone has a min, I recommend them watching the roundtable with Dr Cooper and Dr DiAngelo –> it was the panel right before Meghan’s interview with Emily
      They talked about allyship, performative allyship and white women tears –> I hope Meghan listened to that one

      2) The discussions with Kamala Harris, HRC, Senator Tammy Duckworth were great –> more for those immerse in US politics

      What Emily achieved with this launch is remarkable! how she was able to get those women in her platform is just WOW.

      She won me over and I signed up as a new participating member to support her!

      • Smices says:

        I only caught the Friday session but it made me want to seek out the other days. That panel discussion on White fragility and White women’s tears (cc: Kate) was everything! This is true allyship!

      • L4frimaire says:

        This really was an amazing forum. I didn’t see all of it but agree, the conversation with Robin DiAngelo and Brittney Cooler was amazing, loved hearing Kamala Harris speak. Stacy Abrams also had a really good discussion the first day. Was great to see Meghan’s interview. I always feel that there is so much more she wants to say. Agree she didn’t say anything particularly controversial, and she dropped a few gems in that conversation. Look forward to seeing more from the 19th, although I think, it will be difficult for them to be “ nonpartisan “ in such a decisive time. Will catch up on some of the other conversations as well. Meanwhile, back in the UK they are still counting bathrooms.

  3. Liz version 700 says:

    The conversation was great. She looks so much calmer and happier. She definitely knows how to effectively communicate for her causes, the RF really let a gem get away. Well Two gems… since they ran off their own blood prince as well. We are glad to have Meghan and family home too.

    • Edna says:

      I saw a meme comparing a pic of Meghan from the African documentary (where she was on the verge of tears) to this picture of her now. It’s amazing what cutting toxicity out of your life will do for you. Hope H&M keep on thriving.

      • TheOriginalMia says:

        She just looks lighter, happier. Like she did prior to the wedding. Shame on the BRF, RRs, and public that beat Meghan and Harry down. For no other reason than their own racism, jealousies and bias.

      • Phuggi says:

        Ooh have you got a link to that meme? I’d love to see it! Looking for “Meghan Markle memes” online turned out to be a bad idea–which I should have known.

      • Liz version 700 says:

        Right?!? It is like night and day. I don’t know how she kept it together. The constant pressure and criticism must have been overwhelming. When someone is criticized for every little thing it is hard to make improvements in the areas where you might want to do so, because there is no positive reinforcement just attacks. She looks lighter…relaxed and relieved.

  4. Jegede says:

    It’s damn predictable that the British press, have decided her larger lips and wider nose are ‘PROOF’ she’s been undergoing cosmetic surgery in LaLaland.🙄🙄🙄

    • Love says:

      She can’t even breathe without them making up some lies.

      Ugh! I hate the BM and the RF soooo much for what they did to Meg, and actively support any lawsuit taking the media on, and any organisation that wants an end to that useless “family”🤬🤬… #rantover

    • sunny says:

      Lol. I try not to speculate on women’s wombs but it might just be she is pregnant again. My mom, a retired OB nurse/midwife always says, the face is the first place you see a pregnancy. She once spotted my sister’s pregnancy at 6 weeks because her mouth was fuller.

      Anyway, she looks fantastic and glad she got away from the vipers and the cruelty of that family. I think she and Harry will be able to do so much good.

    • Edna says:

      It seems the BM/RRs are triggered by the mention of the Sussex Squad in Finding Freedom cause that seems to be the latest line of attack to justify talking/writing about H&M. They just can’t let them go and leave them alone. So now they’re attacking H&M’s fans and calling them all kinds of names. I think the Sussex Squad should just disengage and ignore the RRs and BM cause it only allows them to continue harassing Harry and Meghan.

      • CrazyHeCallsMe says:

        Yeah…I noticed this too. Seems they’re becoming more and more unhinged.

      • Vanessa says:

        The Cambridge’s have their fans and the British media and royal family to defending them all the time . If it wasn’t for the Sussex’s squad the Sussex’s would have no one but Meghan friends and family defending them or the people on here . I don’t think the squad should stop defending the Sussex’s because people who don’t follow the royals believe the false narrative being told by the royal reporters and the British tabloids about Meghan . If the squad can help to correct lies about the Sussex’s they should continue to do so and the squad isn’t all about just defending their doing work their raising money for charities in the Sussex’s name that’s why the British tabloids is freaking out because the squad is doing something good .

  5. Elizabeth Regina says:

    And a melodious, fluent and beautiful voice it is. Keep using that voice Meghan and speak your truth. No fear of being held back from overshadowing the other Duchess. There’s no stopping you now.

  6. Chartreuse says:

    Not anyone’s business till they say but she’s so pregnant. Right at the end she touches her stomach and it’s not flat. Anyway, excellent interview. I loved the whole thing. She’s just so smart.

  7. Anna says:

    If she is preggo, fingers crossed for safe, calm and healthy time for the whole family. Not sure if she is, bc with Archie, to me her face was fuller & kinda softer (?) from the very beginning.
    In the hair department I’m not a fan – looks artificial to me.

    • GuestWho says:

      Maybe she’s hiding that fullness and softness with her hair. I echo your wishes for a safe, calm and healthy time.

  8. Snuffles says:

    You’re right, The Firm wouldn’t have allowed ANY of her recent activities. Which is why she mentioned finally being allowed to use her voice.

    I also think she looks pregnant. Loose top, hair styled to cover face and top, nose heavily contoured to cover up the pregnancy swelling. Camera set up to only show her from the chest up. If I had to guess, she got pregnant the moment she returned to the US. My guess is she’s 4 – 5 months pregnant. Which, if true, a perfect excuse for her and Harry not to travel back to the U.K. for Christmas! She’ll either be too pregnant or have just given birth.

    • TaniaOG says:

      I just don’t see these two ever going back. Perhaps for a funeral. Or if Charles begs them to come back, and even then I don’t think it would happen.

      • HeatherC says:

        My prediction is that Harry will go back for funerals and his father’s coronation. He will not go back for his brother’s investiture as POW. I don’t know if Meghan will go. It would be good if the kid(s) doesn’t/don’t go, everything will be televised after all and most likely they’ll be young, whether or not they go to England is up to parents.

      • Liz version 700 says:

        I agree. They have both had a taste of a different life now. I have a hard time imagining Harry would want to take Meghan back into the vipers‘ pit and subject his kids to the whims of Charles, William and the courtiers. Charles May wish them back, but this does not mean Harry & Meghan would ever go. I could see them doing funerals, weddings, Charles’s Coronation and maybe the occasional big event as requested. I cannot see Harry ever going to any of William’s big moments. I see King William being a lonely angry man one day. All that power and few true friends.

  9. pasdesmots says:

    Most definitely a hard hair-extension game going on here….so obvious, but well done, I like them.

    • Chartreuse says:

      Her hairdresser said last time she zoomed she’s not got extensions?

      • pasdesmots says:

        No well-paid hairdresser would admit his/her client wears extensions. Not if the hairdresser wishes to be hired again 😀
        Over the years, she obviously wore extensions from time to time, for sure…and there is nothing wrong about that! I love good hair extensions 😀

      • notasugarhere says:

        Kate’s hair dresser was known for doing extensions, that was what he did at that salon – extensions and blowouts to incorporate the extensions. When the story came out with the poorly-placed one? The Palace denied the extensions, but that was all he did at that salon.

        What we’ve seen since with Kate’s new hairdresser is the inability to properly incorporate the wiglets, so they are obvious.

    • Athyrmose says:

      I hope you’re bringing up hair extensions in every post that is complementary of someone’s hair, not just those about people that are BIPOC.

      • WigletWatcher says:

        Because of 1 post or is there a history of this?

      • Athyrmose says:

        @ WIGLETWATCHER it’s a thing, and not specific to this commenter. But I do try to keep an eye on it.

      • WigletWatcher says:

        I have followed this site for years. I was here with bluhare, LAK, Liberty, OG Kitten, and remember when Notasugar came on. I did take a year or so break from heavy viewership.
        I never noticed much Wiglet or extensions chatter to be 1 sides racially speaking. More often it was regarding Kate’s hair… like my name. I’m on wiglet watch 😉
        Shame as you say that it’s now a thing to have comments with this racial divide.

    • Case says:

      I find the extensions a bit distracting. I really dislike when people’s hair is unrealistically long, lol. She’s gorgeous and obviously looks good any way she styles herself but the crazy long extensions just remind me of the Kardashians, honestly.

      • Lady D says:

        Can I ask what is unrealistically long to you? I’ve seen a lot of women with hair to their butts, or rarely, down to their knees. I think everyone knows of someone with really long hair.

      • Case says:

        @Lady D When your hair is hanging past your chest I find that quite long, honestly! But I’m someone who has had bobs or shoulder-length hair most of my life — I just prefer short hair so perhaps my perception of it is off.

      • crbnftprnt says:

        So because you like to wear your hair medium length, her long hair is extension? SMDH. When I wore my hair long, biggest pet peeve, was people assuming it was g-d damn extension. Is it impossible for a Black woman to have naturally long hair

      • Case says:

        @crbnftprint Honestly, it’s the length combined with the way her hair is laying that looks like extensions to me. I completely accept that I might be wrong about this and if she’s been working on growing her hair, good for her! It looks healthy. I definitely am not saying this because she is a Black woman — I developed an eye for extensions because of the white bloggers I follow on Instagram who love extensions. That’s all.

      • Lady D says:

        Thanks for answering, Case. Hair is such a fascinating topic. It’s one thing everyone has an opinion on.

    • Lizzie says:

      Her hair is always beautiful. Apparently every hairstyle is becoming on her.

  10. Circe says:

    I had thoughts about the pregnancy thing to but…first and foremost, she’s so good at this. I can see her being another Oprah some day. Or on Good Morning America or something like that. She’s so good at talking to/interviewing people!

    • MsIam says:

      I thought the same thing, she is so polished and smooth and yet there is a real sincerity there too. I really see her doing some type of interview show, whether it centers on politics or other topics. I just think she has a gift for it.

  11. Suzanne Hurley says:

    Wow, I just love listening to Meghan talk and wow again, at the conversation between these two powerful women. Enjoyed every moment of it. I do think too, that the long hair is to cover up a pregnancy. After all, she was so harassed during Archie’s pregnancy that great pains would be taken to keep this one quiet. Loved hearing Harry talk to the Invictus group. So excited to hear more great stuff from Meghan and Harry.

  12. Marivic says:

    Yes I think she’s pregnant. She swells in the nose area which is natural as swelling happens during pregnancy due to additional blood and fluid. Looking forward to have a peek of the new Sussex baby.

  13. Nic919 says:

    FYI the sexist jerk who came up with the term suffragette worked for the Daily Mail…. so they have been sexist jerks for well over a century now.

    Anyway great to hear an intelligent conversation on issues and Meghan seems so much more at peace now. The Uk tabs will keep being fools, but she’s clearly not bothered.

  14. Amy Too says:

    I don’t like how nearly every comment is about how she could be pregnant and is trying very hard to hide it and everyone hopes she can keep it a secret as long as possible. If they’re not announcing a pregnancy, and they want to keep any potential/future pregnancy a secret, why is everyone outing the supposed secret? And to the point where we’re hardly talking about what she said. She is so much more than her womb and what could be going on in there.

    • Edna says:

      👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Thank you for saying this. Why can’t people focus on what was said and stop speculating on what’s going on with her womb.

    • Neners says:

      Thank you for saying this.

    • MarcelMarcel says:

      THANK YOU
      I totally agree! I feel uncomfortable with the commentary about pregnancy because it takes the focus away from her autonomy. I’m interested in her opinions not in her womb.

    • Jegede says:

      But this is primarily a gossip site…………….🤨🤨

      You can mix the serious with the frippery.

      • Amy Too says:

        I’m not sure I would consider whether or not someone is pregnant to be “frippery” though. I’m all for talk about the clothes and makeup and jewelry and how she’s better at this than So and So and how So and So is going to be so jealous, etc. But her body and how it looks and why it looks that way, I don’t think that’s just fun idle gossip. Especially when the idea seems to be that if she is pregnant, they want it to be a secret and they don’t want people talking about it. So why are we talking about it?

      • Jegede says:

        We’re talking about it, cause this is a celeb gossip site.

        We’re not contacting their reps demanding answers.

      • Marjorie says:

        Yup, if she specifically dressed and groomed herself to obscure aspects of her physical appearance on camera, like everyone does, she’s making a statement that can be commented on.

        She maybe should have worn this great tee shirt on a pregnant girl I saw at the grocery store the other day: HANDS OFF THE THE BUMP.

    • Green Desert says:

      Thank you, Amy Too. 👏🏽

    • Anne Call says:

      I really like everything she’s saying and if she’s pregnant that will be great. My problem is with that old school chair that looks like it’s from the buckingham palace collection. She needs some modern cool furniture for her new life in California. 🙂

      Last 24 hours in Santa Barbara has had bizarre weather. Muggy with lighting and thunder. I want to send her a text and say “don’t worry weather is usually perfect”. Also we have Jerry Jones huge yacht sitting out in the water (gross). I guess Cowboys are practicing south of here and he’s going back and forth on his boat.

  15. VS says:

    Have you all noticed that in the coverage of Meghan now:
    1) people are focused on what she SAYS
    2) No one is talking about her clothes (maybe because there isn’t much to see there)
    3) No one is talking about her drinking tea

    Isn’t that the type of coverage the rf would want? people talking about their WORK?

    The sessions on Friday were FULL. I have a colleague who didn’t register ahead; good thing is all sessions were streamed

    • MaryContrary says:

      I think it depends where you’re looking. Gofugyourself, which is usually a very pro-female, more enlightened crowd, is still filled with anti-Meghan comments. I had to stop reading their posts on any of the royals because the posters chiming in are so ridiculous.

      • Nic919 says:

        They wrote a book which is a veiled version of a threesome fantasy with W, K and H so of course they are going to attract a white female crowd obsessed with the princess fantasy and the mere presence of biracial feminist Meghan, chosen by Harry, destroys that fantasy. It’s like the royal version of Twilight, where there is no second female allowed.

      • ABritGuest says:

        VS& Snuffles glad you enjoyed the allyship talk too.

        I think it was Brittany Cooper that pointed out that Amy Cooper was liberal and an example of how white liberals can have some real race blind spots despite apparent proximity to people of different backgrounds. Reminded me of the Fug girls readers.

      • VS says:

        @ABritGuest –indeed, it was Dr Cooper who said that!

        Amy Cooper is a liberal; she votes democrats; those types of liberals are the problem too! They are worse than the maga women because you don’t expect it from liberal women! I love that panel; I have made a few people watch it around me

      • MaryContrary says:

        @Nic919, as an aside: I downloaded their book because generally I like their writing-I find it humorous and sometimes insightful. The book was awful-I wish I would have just gotten it out of the library for free.

      • JaneBee87 says:

        Completely with you re: gofugyourself after following for over a decade I have not visited the site since reading the fug girls’ initial response to the M&H leaving announcement – a complete denial of any racial element to the horrible situation Meghan was dealing with. Even during quarantine, I’ve refused to go back and give them clicks.

    • MrsBump says:

      Really though? Even here, a very very pro Meghan site, most of the comments are about how the BRF has lost on H&M, whether she is pregnant or about her hair or how salty the British media is.
      That is not an issue specific to Meghan but to all celebrities that venture out to speak about any issues really. They may help to bring the spotlight tangentially to a cause, but ultimately it is really their celebrity that people are focused on.

      • VS says:

        I was talking about the US press……the UK tabloid press is irrelevant except for those who read them!
        Please point me a serious US outlet who talked about her hair/clothes……..those outlets quoted her; what she said not how hair is.

  16. Ennie says:

    I am very happy for them, may good things keep happening to them in their journey as a family.

  17. Sara says:

    I know you don’t mean anything heinous by it but can you please stop with speculating about her being pregnant? It’s archaic and it’s also not cool. I get comments like this too and I’ve been struggling for five years to have a baby. All – please don’t say things like this to women. You don’t know what they’re going through.

    • MarcelMarcel says:

      Thank you for sharing your perspective. I hope you have your rainbow baby soon!
      Meghan hasn’t done much public commentary on fertility or pregnancy. So I feel really uncomfortable with the discussion on her womb. It’s such a sensitive & private topic! Whether or not she’s pregnant is a personal journey so there’s no need for public commentary.

      • Original Penguin says:

        I was looking forward to this post to be able to comment on her involvement with this initiative. But I haven’t been able to post because all I’m distracted by the over analysis of her body and people being over invested in speculating on her uterus and whether she looks like she’s gained weight, which isn’t nobody’s business except M&H’s. If you all are fans you know she wants you to focus on the issues- so why aren’t you?

    • Green Desert says:

      Agreed, Sara, and I hope you get what you want very soon.

      As some have said this is a gossip site but there are plenty of things to gossip about regarding Meghan and anyone else. Womb speculation regarding people who clearly aren’t courting that talk should be off limits IMO. Such a private thing.

    • Amy Too says:

      And I think people should keep in mind that not every pregnancy is necessarily wanted, even within a marriage, even when the couple already has children. Sometimes people get pregnant when they don’t want to be and they need time to decide what their plan is. It may not be the right time for them financially or career wide, or in their relationship. They may just not want anymore children at all or at this time. They might need time to come to terms with their pregnancy and to decide what their plan is before announcing it and having everyone congratulate them.

      I had a friend who was pregnant when she didn’t want to be. She had an abortion scheduled, but people were already speculating, asking if she was pregnant, congratulating her on her pregnancy—a pregnancy that she did not announce and wasn’t happy about and didn’t plan to keep. She was forced into either lying or having to tell people she was actually going to terminate the pregnancy soon.

      And there are also women who are very happily pregnant who end up making the very difficult choice to terminate their pregnancy when they find out that the fetus has a genetic defect, or isn’t/won’t develop properly. Can you imagine being one of those women and having everyone talk about how excited they are that you’re obviously pregnant, when you know that you will not be pregnant in a couple of weeks and a full term, live and healthy baby is not coming out of this pregnancy, which is why you didn’t announce the pregnancy? There are just so many different issues that could be happening besides Looking Pregnant=Happy, healthy, wanted baby will be born soon.

  18. ABritGuest says:

    I watched most of the 19th Summit and they really did a phenomenal job with the launch. The conversation with Robin Di Angelo, Brittany Cooper & Sunny Hostin was the highlight and I urge people to check it out on YouTube. They discussed how to be a good ally & not centre yourself which is what tends to happen when people discuss eg racism and someone derails conversation to say “not all white people” etc. They discussed white women tears. Some of the discourse really highlighted why that ‘’Meghan made Kate cry” story and the royal family’s silence during all the attacks was so insidious.

    Meghan is very wordy but I enjoyed the conversational style of the interview. I liked learning about ‘suffragette’ origin. Her point about headlines leaving an imprint was spot on.

    It’s a shame she really was prepared to suppress herself for Harry’s family. Sophie did a speech talking about importance of women’s political participation in commonwealth countries either in 2019 or 2018 so I don’t think what Meghan was discussing was so new to the royal family although not representing the monarchy now means Meghan can delve deeper into this point. I think the BRF will regret letting them loose

    Shallow note. I love colour of her top on her. I don’t like the Cher style hair look

    • Snuffles says:

      The Robin/Brittany/Sunny segment was FIRE!! Honestly, it should be required viewing for everyone, especially members of the royal family!!

      ETA: Starts at 1 hour 2 minutes in

      https://youtu.be/qzjg3dl9cGM

      • Babz says:

        During Dr. Cooper’s and Dr. DiAngelo’s segment, I was listening and doing a crossword puzzle, waiting for Meghan. As it went on, I was drawn in and began listening closely. It was a wonderful segment. I learned so much, and I was kind of sad when it ended, because it was fascinating. This platform is truly remarkable, and when I sit down and pay bills tomorrow, there will be some $$s heading to The 19th*.

      • Liz version 700 says:

        Thank you for posting the link!

      • ravynrobyn says:

        @ SNUFFLES–THANKS 🥰🥰

    • VS says:

      wow, just wrote something similar above….that panel by Dr Cooper and Dr DiAngelo was fire!!!

  19. TheOriginalMia says:

    I’ve thought about this interview a lot over the last few days. Examining the news through the lens of a woman and it’s so clear we need women in leadership positions in newsrooms and editorial boards. The ladies told no lies and I loved what she said about voting, explaining the difference between a right and a privilege. Yes!! So good!

    The haters are mad. How dare her not be appreciative of the title and privileges! She was given everything and she’s thrown it back in the Queen’s face. She’s gotten Botox. She’s wearing extensions. Noise. Noise. Noise. Meghan doesn’t care what y’all think. She’s free. She can say and do anything she wants.

  20. Lukie says:

    Before I click play on the video…either the weather and escaping her entanglement with the Firm looks great on her or something is up because that glow and her nose scream pregnancy to me 🤷🏽‍♀️

  21. one of the Marys says:

    I dont get my gossip anywhere else but it’s so obviously profit driven for the BM to still follow her and how anyone can take them seriously at this point is amazing
    I enjoyed the conversational style of interview but I’d like less talking with the hands, it became distracting when you only see part of her on a small screen
    I loved loved loved the expression on her face when she said it’s good to be home, very meaningful
    Gloria Steinem felt like name dropping, a rare fumble in my opinion

    • Lady D says:

      They take the British tabloid media seriously because they are hooked on their hate. I mean some of them must realize that the headlines are bullshit, right? The headlines contradict each other constantly, but they still fill the comment section with hate and scorn, no matter what.

    • L4frimaire says:

      @Mary, At this point, I find the BM coverage of the Sussexes silly and stuck in a loop, hence the houses and bathrooms storm in a teapot. It seems really clueless. Regarding her conversation, I honestly didn’t notice her hands. As a criticism, the Steinem reference was definitely a name drop but felt it was a call out to show she knows powerful women. When she mentioned she’d been away from US for 10 years, it struck me that she, not just a Harry, have to acclimate to a new political and social landscape. I think she has a lot more to say regarding the media landscape she dealt with, and with the distance, from UK, can give a clearer perspective and analysis.

  22. Eenie Googles says:

    I do NOT like the real housewife hair/too long extensions.

    • Lizzie says:

      I haven’t had long hair since I was young as most of my adult years I had the Princess Di do. So I am quite jealous of her long luxurious hair.

      • Still_Sarah says:

        @ Lizzie : I have very thick hair and having long hair was too labor intensive for me although I’ve done it – about every ten years for about a year until I get frustrated and cut it all off. I keep it in a pixie style now.

    • Jaded says:

      Ummm…can we not complain about her hair here? She’s doing something wonderful with and for women. She’s a smart, compassionate, focused and wonderful human being and you’re bitching about her hair?!?

      • Eenie Googles says:

        🙄
        We complain about peoples hair ALL THE TIME. Hair is mentioned throughout this comment section.

        Not liking her hair does not mean I’m trashing her as a person. Calm down.

      • Lila says:

        I don’t necessarily think that commenting about hair is mean, but I get why people get defensive. I’ve seen plenty of insensitive (to say the least) comments regarding Meghan’s hair, saying it’s unkempt and messy.

        I also feel like people forget that Meghan’s natural hair is actually very thick. She may be wearing extensions, but I wouldn’t be able to confidently say she is.

      • Roche says:

        So it’s ok to talk about wether she’s pregnant, but not ok to talk about her hair.

      • Case says:

        I think it’s okay to talk about hair/outfits/makeup etc. on a celebrity gossip site and also discuss the great work Meghan is doing. These comment sections feature both types of discussion and that’s part of why I like coming here — we can talk about trivial things and important things.

    • Becks says:

      I agree, those too long extensions are so dated.

  23. Asking for a friend says:

    This is a woman who couldn’t fit into a Duchess box – that box is far too small. She has the intelligence and presence of a change-maker, at least in America and I hope internationally. Thank goodness she has been launched into the forefront, despite her traumatic journey.

    As far as baby speculation, people on this site are just excited for her. Women can shift the tides of humanity and have babies…because we rock like that. I’m excited for both aspects from Meghan.

  24. KellyRyan says:

    H&M devised a plan, had legal counsel, emotional support of friend, executed the plan, life moves on. Harry had said they want two children. No surprise once they have new baby Harry becomes a US citizen. My patriarchal family left England in 1632 and I don’t believe anyone returned. Generation after generation lived along the east coast with at least one member fighting in the Revolutionary war. H&M are obviously enjoying freedom.

  25. Lavande says:

    I love big waves like she has here. I get that they look « healthy » or part of a glow but that’s not the case. They aren’t related to vitamins or pregnancy. Obviously she straightens her hair. Straightened hair does not just randomly make big waves because of something happening in the body. Either she slept on it really well (a bun?) or she used heat to make those waves.

    • windyriver says:

      She had it back in a bun when she was reading to Archie, probably not uncommon for her, especially around a child his age. That was my though about the waves.

      Meanwhile, we’ve talked about how Harry is adjusting to being in a new location (and life), hadn’t thought til she mentioned it that Meghan herself has been out of the US for almost ten years. I bet this adjustment is way easier than the last…

  26. Bettyrose says:

    I do a zillion Zoom meetings per week (yes possibly zooming myself into an early grave) and I have to be so careful to avoid back lighting. I never sit in front of a window. Even when not bright, the extra lighting completely washes out the foreground. How’s she pulling that off?

    • Rebecca says:

      I’m guessing a small LED ring light or something similar. My spouse uses one for his remote lectures, and I’ll borrow it occasionally to counter the light coming in from the side if I’m forced to be on camera. It works well!

  27. RoyalBlue says:

    great interview Meghan, our Duchess of solutions. love how she peppered her conversation with tidbits about her husband. you know she and Harry have been talking about everything and are a great team. There is no doubt it feels great to be home

    #totallypregnant

  28. Snuffles says:

    By putting lighting in front of you behind your camera. Because of this pandemic and all of the Zooming, I invested in a ring light. Before that I was using a lamp. I’m sure they invested in a decent lighting set up.

    • Bettyrose says:

      Thanks! I’ll look into that. I’m getting bored of my current set up. (And yes my zoom set up is the most interesting thing I’ve got going right now. LOL).

      • LittlePenguin says:

        A girlfriend of mine invested in some pretty wall screen dividers to change up her background (and allow her partner to still be able to walk around if he has to come in the room to get the dogs) . She said feels it helps her feel more like she is in a different place and can focus a bit better. Apparently most people from her work have done this now and it seems to have boosted morale!

  29. Nyro says:

    I couldn’t see it before but I can see it now. That said, you guys are right when you say it is wlrong for us to speculate, picking her body apart.

  30. Case says:

    I could listen to Meghan talk all day. She is so eloquent, so thoughtful, so graceful. I know she wouldn’t do this, but I’d love to see her run for office because I think she just has so many wonderful things to contribute to the world. But it’s great that she’s doing that through charity work and public speaking.

  31. aquarius64 says:

    Meghan looks amazing and Harry looks happy for the Invictus Games. The BM is still pressed they have left. They got the ex-wife of the man who sold them their house, saying they are hypocrites buying the house from the man who allegedly beat her. The Rota Rats are upset the Sussex Squad is calling them out directly and bringing receipts to other news outlets. Upsets the narrative that no one likes them. A possible baby Sussex? That would set hairs on fire: a new heir/ess to the throne born outside the UK., another child of African American lineage that the royals and the media can’t exploit.

    • CrazyHeCallsMe says:

      The BM and RRs are totally unhinged. Grasping and digging for crumbs…anything…to write about the Sussexes. It”s so pathetic.

  32. L4frimaire says:

    In the silly distraction area, I noticed that they’ve painted some of the interior so it’s not as dark as the realtor photos. Harry was also in that library, all the shelves are empty and looks like primer/ white paint on the walls. Could practically smell the wet paint.

    • Snuffles says:

      I noticed too. If I were them, I would paint too. My first order of business would be to de-beige the entire place.

  33. mk says:

    So nice to see The 19th* as a source instead of the usual misogynist Murdoch enterprises where Meghan and family are concerned, thank you!

  34. CrazyHeCallsMe says:

    Y’all know all this baby talk and speculating about whether or not Meg is pregnant is gonna wind up in the British tabloids. They do stalk and read fan sites looking for any crumb they can find to write about H&M. So don’t be mad and in your feelings when the tabloids and RRs start hammering against H&M about how dare she be pregnant and not have the baby in the U.K., etc. etc. etc

    • Nic919 says:

      They are actively trying to get info about certain SS posters on twitter so anything can be a story. If only they took the effort to determine who is behind the still active accounts that are non stop racism against Meghan.

  35. Jasmine says:

    All protests among marginalized people are inspiring not just the peaceful ones 🙄

    • MsIam says:

      But what is “inspired” is not always the same. And you don’t speak for all “marginalized” people and how they feel.

  36. Aidevee says:

    She did so well. So well that I am now waiting for the next daily mail headline which will be:

    Friends of Meghan pay tribute to Duchess of Cambridge for being such a hardworking CEO Zoom person who says words.
    Meghan could never have done this interview without Saint Kate.

  37. Original Penguin says:

    Please can we not analyse Meghan’s body like this. If she is pregnant she can choose when to tell us. I know this is done because you all are fans and want the best, but surely we owe her the chance to advocate her passions without bump watch and pregnancy speculation given no one has any idea about her reproductive choices

  38. BnLurkN4eva says:

    This was excellent! The entire summit was excellent and I hope to see the 19th* succeed. We need a different perspective than the old tried and not working way we’ve been going about things forever. Meghan is really an excellent speaker, I hope she receives lots of opportunity to showcase her talent and bring awareness to great causes like these. I have every confident that these two will succeed on this new journey of theirs. The BM need to step off and let them be. I mean, didn’t these same people call them irrelevant, why do they keep after them so?

  39. Mariane says:

    The hype over everything the sussexs do even when we barely see them is clue that they are major league players now. Someone posted a screenshot of Meghan’s clip on 19thnews YouTube channel being the highest watched one. Can you imagine how much more theyll be reported on once they’re fully operational

    Unlike the keenbridges, these two are eloquent speakers who put their passion for good to action. RF might be dredging not having control over them. If they were bitter about Diana overshadowing them in the 90s just wait till you see how insegnifact RF will be seen as once the sussexs say they’re not longer taking part in trooping the colour and other useless ceremonies. I hope they picture Billy next to his pedo uncle.

    • L4frimaire says:

      I honestly feel like the Sussexes have no interest in competing with or overshadowing the Royal family. It was very frustrating and silly when they would all try to step on each others news cycle and pursue similar projects. It seems they are just focusing on their charities like Invictus and also focusing on what is happening due to Covid, the election, and BLM. They are rebuilding their lives and career, so don’t have time for that.

      • MsIam says:

        I agree. I feel the Sussexes are just doing what they feel is right and not in some crazy competition with the Cambridge’s. They really are on different paths like Harry said. The Cambridge’s should focus on propping the family business.

  40. Meg says:

    “When you look at that, and look through that lens of the power of one person’s influence in the media to be able to shape an entire movement or way of thinking … If women had their voice heard as equally, how different that would have been.”
    I think of this when I hear of Harvey W. Single handedly saying oh Ashley Judd and others are ‘difficult’ and that’s all it took. Or tv shows being cancelled because one executive didnt get it or like it or busy Phillips wasn’t cast because the head of HBO didn’t want to sleep with her even though the creatives wanted her cast. One person shouldn’t have that much power
    Also
    ” I would say that she could have done this kind of thing as a member of the royal family, but… you know, of course she couldn’t.”
    Considering how outspoken Meghan seems to have been long before she married or even met Harry it’s surprising he didn’t say listen I want to be with you but you won’t be happy with how controlling this institution is-or did Harry not even realize how bad it was before Meghan because his family and their ways are all he knew?

    • kerwood says:

      I don’t think Harry understood just how racist and horrible his family and ‘the Firm’ really were. He HONESTLY thought that his family would be ‘the family she never had’. He thought his family would love her because he loved her. And that they would help her and encourage her.

      Imagine how he felt when he realized that his family not only wouldn’t help his wife, that they would turn against her and do everything they could to harm her.

      And what about Archie? Harry must have waited for the response from his father or the Queen herself when they heard that someone compared Archie to a chimp, only to be met with silence. Harry had never experienced racism so he didn’t know how ugly it was until he married a Black woman. And his own family said NOTHING.

      We all know Harry’s hands aren’t clean. He wore a Nazi uniform to a costume party and made ‘paki’ jokes because racism didn’t affect him. He was a White PRINCE. I hope he thought back to the people who had suffered at the hands of the Nazis and the South-East Asians that had been taunted by that ugly word. I hope he felt shame. And I hope he vowed to do whatever he could to change things for Archie and for all children.

  41. Alexandria says:

    Did Diana speak as well as Meghan? My goodness, Meghan really has the gift of the gab. I don’t really see her as the next Diana nor do I want to. She is her own woman and not prone to cosplaying D. Just curious.

    Go Duchess!

  42. Well-Wisher says:

    I was riveted by the speech by the lovely and erudite duchess. Britain loss is the US gain.

  43. blunt talker says:

    The British tabloid culture are totally stuck on stupid-if Meghan and Harry are irrelevant-stop writing about them and avoid mentioning them on any of their sites-they make themselves look seriously mentally ill with their constant squawking about what the Sussexes are doing and saying – they don’t live in the UK-so their actions and conversations reflect their new living surroundings. The royal family is safe and protected-you think everybody would be pleased that the royal ascensions are in place with no changes-this is what so stupid-LOOK HOW LONG PRINCE CHARLES HAS WAITED TO SIT ON THE THRONE-MOST OF THESE MOANING BRITS WILL PROBABLY BE DEAD BEFORE HE SITS ON THE THRONE-DEPENDS HOW LONG PRINCE CHARLES SITS IF HE IS A LONG LIVER LIKE HIS MOTHER-MOST OF THESE MOANING BRITS WILL BE DEAD-WHEN PRINCE WILLIAM GETS ON THE THRONE-MOST OF THESE MOANING BRITS WILL BE DEAD-WHEN PRINCE GEORGE GETS TO SIT ON THE THRONE ALL OF THESE MOANING BRITS WILL BE SIX FEET UNDER-STUPID IS AS STUPID DOES-GET SOMETHING NEW AND POSITIVE TO WRITE ABOUT. NO GOOD WRITING SKILLS AS IT PERTAINS TO SUBJECT MATTER ABOUNDS. I WISH THE SUSSEX FAMILY HEALTH AND HAPPINESS-END OF STORY.

  44. laura-j says:

    I hope she just had a burrito and is enjoying her best life and doing a bit of trolling.

  45. Mgal says:

    I’m a total Meghan fangirl. Every time I watch her speak, it’s like a master class in public speaking, articulating, self branding and I’m inspired to do better in those areas.

    Quick aside- my theory on her super long hair- I actually feel like some palace advisor told her it was against protocol to grow it beyond a certain length and this is her quiet f*ck you.