Cher on whether she’ll go gray: It’s ‘fine for other girls. I’m just not doing it’

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Cher is one of the current faces of MAC Cosmetics, and as such, she is required to give fabulous interviews about beauty, hair, styling and makeup. I wish Cher would give these interviews all the time! When Cher was first on the scene, she was known as more of “unconventional beauty,” because back then, the beauty standard was blonde, blue-eyed, apple pie sh-t. Cher always rocked her long, dark hair and her big, hypnotic eyes and her “ethnic” nose. Of course, over the years, Cher has had a lot of plastic surgery. But I would still credit her – as many do – with changing beauty standards at the time. Cher chatted with People Magazine about beauty, hair dye and more. Some highlights:

Her jet-black hair is here to stay: “[Going gray] is fine for other girls. I’m just not doing it!”

Filming a MAC Cosmetics commerical with Saweetie: “I never met her, but I saw a video, and I liked her essence. We got along really well. Now she comes to dinner!”

She still likes having fun with her makeup: “It’s all about having fun. I just think that people who worry about the way someone puts on their makeup should get a life.”

Her own beauty philosophy has changed through the years. “It’s had to morph. It’s had to have changes,” she says, adding that rather than being in a full face of makeup these days, you’re more likely to see her with a freshly-washed face and “hair in a knot, because I’m going to the gym.”

Big eyelashes & advice: When she wants to get glam, she’ll reach for “big eyelashes,” she says. (And for those hoping to impersonate her iconic look, Cher has some very sage advice: “I think a little bit less is more, because sometimes you can shoot for it and shoot past it.”)

She was one the first celebrities to do a beauty & fragrance brand: “I paid a big price for doing [the infomercials]. I took so much heat from that, really … [now] things have changed completely. You keep going and that’s the challenge. Things don’t always go right and you have to be willing to just put yourself out there, put your ass on the line, put a big target on it and then keep going.”

Don’t stop being a girl: The challenge to “do life on your own terms” is key, she says, and when all else fails, there’s always lipstick and those big eyelashes: “You know what? You never stop being a girl. If you never stop being a girl, you’ll never get old.”

[From People]

That’s kind of depressing actually? “If you never stop being a girl, you’ll never get old.” At some point, “girlish” doesn’t actually cut it? I mean, I get that she’s saying to retain your inner child, your inner girl and keep having fun and dance like no one’s watching. But “never getting old” just isn’t a realistic goal! As for never going grey… I suspect that for Cher in particular, it’s because she’s worn wigs for years. But I bet she still dyes her real hair, and I feel that. I hate seeing the grey come in nowadays, it makes me feel f–king ancient.

Cher enjoys a sweet treat with friends at the famous I Gemelli restaurant

Cher enjoys a walk with friends while on vacation in Italy!

Photos courtesy of Avalon Red, Backgrid.

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  1. MerlinsMom1018 says:

    Well Cher can pull off any hair color she wants so…
    I, myself, have the whole Cruella deVille vibe going on. One side of my hair is totally silver and the other is my usual black. I get tons of questions about it, but nope, it’s all nature doing her thing and I wouldn’t change it for nothing.
    Also my Mama had the same for a bit (genetics?) but it’s all the most gorgeous silver now

    • guilty pleasures says:

      @ MerlinsMom, I, too, rock the half and half, mine is manufactured though. People comment all the time, I tell them, ‘this is the truth (the silver) and this is the lie (the brown).’ I’ve noticed friends copying the look 🙂

  2. C says:

    Old means different things. Old in the pejorative (the way I think she is saying it) can be a mindset where you’re not excited, not learning, not curious. I think she’s saying it’s possible to retain that sense of infinite possibilities even as you age and staying ready for it, which to her means her own brand of glamour. She seems pretty confident and secure even with surgery which is pretty uncommon.

  3. Rachel says:

    I’ve been lucky and only got a few grays at 44. Now I’m about to be 47 and there is a new one EVERY. DAY. It’s freaking me out way more than I thought I would…

  4. GuestWho says:

    I stopped dying my hair at the beginning of lock down 3/2020 – because they discontinued by color, and I didn’t have time to find a replacement. I have discovered that I LOVE my gray (my granddaughter calls it “storm cloud color”). I regret the years I spent dying it.

    I get that it isn’t for everyone, but I find it super liberating (and it is TONS healthier now).

    • olliesmom says:

      Same here GuestWho. I stopped coloring my hair during the lockdown and have never started up again. I was going to the salon every four weeks to keep up and it was time consuming and expensive. I’m going to be 60 in July, so I’m not fooling anyone about how old I am! My hair and scalp have never been healthier. It is very liberating. I have better things to do with my time and money!

      I just had to get used to it and adjust my makeup a bit to suit my new hair color.

    • HoofRat says:

      I finally stopped a few months ago, though I did keep covering it with spray when I had zoom meetings. Turns out I had some funky salt-and-pepper going on under all that dye, and I am loving it. I’ve had to up my makeup game a bit to compensate, though.

    • Ines says:

      Same here and I’m never looking back. Also I was surprised to see that I have fewer grays than I thought and the transition wasn’t even that bad.

  5. outoftheshadows says:

    After a childhood where I watched my mother fake-wail every time she found a grey hair, I couldn’t WAIT for mine to come in. In the past few years I have started to have strangers refer to me as salt and pepper (elementary school teachers, pharmacy tech) and I am secretly very vain about my white streaks (I’m not just salt and pepper, but am going in the Cruella direction.) I’ve lived through traumas of all sorts and I’m happy to own my age (I’m only 48, but it’s not going in the other direction!) Maybe some day I’ll be sad about it, but today is not that day. I don’t think tomorrow will be either.

    Cher is divine no matter what age, and she can do her thing, and I’ll be here for it. But I just wanted to put an extra word in for those of us who don’t care about being 21. I wouldn’t return to my twenties for any amount of money, despite my arthritis and metabolic health issues. And I hope younger women don’t carry that baggage once they get older, too. Being beautiful and youthful is never as important as being smart and kind, and wisdom is earned regardless of what we look like. (Plus nothing’s as attractive as confidence.)

  6. Valerie says:

    I don’t know if it’s worth parsing her statement that much. I don’t think we need to pick apart her use of girl vs. woman. She’s 75, and some women her age just use “girl” or “girls” the way some people use “ladies.” I don’t have a problem with any of her choices! 😀

  7. Ines says:

    Raven black hair like hers is really harsh on older skin. I personally feel like gray is more flattering.

    I don’t know, I am probably biased. My grandmother had the most beautiful silver hair… I was mesmerised by it as a child. I promised myself early on that I would never be “an old woman with orange hair” and here I am. I’m 49 and stopped dying at the start of the pandemic in March 2020. Best decision ever.