Bennifer will not ‘make announcements’ about their ‘surprise’ wedding, okay?

In a previous post, I went off on Jennifer Lopez’s On The JLo newsletter. You can subscribe to it and she’ll send you newsletters about her life, including some incredibly exclusive content about her personal life. Like, she’s not putting her personal stories on her Instagram, but she’s still telling everybody everything!! I bring this up again because Page Six has a hilarious exclusive about how Jen and Ben aren’t going to give away details about their wedding planning this time, and they’ll probably throw a surprise wedding or something. The “surprise wedding” detail is a detail about their wedding planning which is being shared to Page Six. Bless their hearts.

Don’t hold your breath for Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck’s ‘Save the Date’ cards. A source tells us of the newly engaged pair, “After the last time [they got engaged], there won’t be any announcements of when and where they are getting married. They will just do it and then announce.”

Back in 2002 they faced unprecedented media interest. They even had to postpone their first planned wedding in 2003 after they were forced to go so far as considering having “decoy brides.” They released a statement the day before the nuptials, stating “Due to the excessive media attention surrounding our wedding, we have decided to postpone the date. When we found ourselves seriously contemplating hiring three separate ‘decoy brides’ at three different locations, we realized that something was awry. We began to feel that the spirit of what should have been the happiest day of our lives could be compromised.”

According to our source, this time they aren’t taking any chances of wedding news being leaked to the press and paparazzi.

“Friends will be invited to something like a birthday and then it will turn out to be a wedding and they will get married in front of like 30, 40 people,” says the source, adding that Lopez — who also had a broken engagement to Alex Rodriguez — is not going to “jinx” things this time around.

[From Page Six]

Again, “Friends will be invited to something like a birthday and then it will turn out to be a wedding” is exactly the kind of detail which will turn everything into a circus! People will absolutely know that when they get invited to Jennifer’s 53rd birthday party in July, they’re likely going to the Bennifer wedding. And even without this Page Six foreshadowing, J.Lo will ABSOLUTELY tell her On The J.Lo subscribers! I’m shocked at the level of detail she’s already giving subscribers just about the proposal! Y’all really think she’s not going to share wedding-flowers and wedding-cakes and wedding-dress details with her subscribers? Come on.

Photos courtesy of Backgrid, Instagram, On the JLO.

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30 Responses to “Bennifer will not ‘make announcements’ about their ‘surprise’ wedding, okay?”

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  1. Snappyfish says:

    Sure Jan….also ring is ugly.

    • Granger says:

      I like the ring, even though I wouldn’t wear it. But the surprise wedding has me laughing.

      • DiegoInSF says:

        I love it as the green I super subtle, it goes with her Versace dress that invented Google Images!

  2. Noki says:

    I saw a documentary coming up on netflix in July its called Halftime so i gathered it may be about her superbowl perfomance. But i hope we get some Bennifer in there too.

  3. Lolo86lf says:

    One of the things I love about Ben and Jen engagement is that they are really trying to avoid making the same mistakes they made in the past or so it appears to me. Both bride and groom have been married before and this time around they know what they want and they refuse to make a circus for the media to profit on. I wish them all the happiness they both deserve.

  4. Angelica Schuyler says:

    I hope they do a private ceremony first, with only the priest/judge and the 2 witnesses. Then later do the ‘wedding’ and reception for the rest of their folks. If anyone tries to sabotage the ceremony it will be too late.. They will already have been previously married, and they will have that moment for themselves forever.

    • DiegoInSF says:

      Lmao who’d try to sabotage?? Arod or Garner? 🤣

      • BothSidesNow says:

        Garner will be free to have to no longer take care of his ass, now JLo can take him to rehab!! A-Rod is a good possible one to enter as an uninvited guest though.

        As for JLo, everyone will know it’s a wedding because she can’t keep her mouth shut. This has been done before too and it was pulled of pretty well. JLo just can’t help herself can she…..🙄

  5. Marietta2381 says:

    I really have a hard time believing that 2 Leos would want to get married on either of their birthdays. As a Leo myself, I would never want to marry on my birthday (or around it.) That’s my day lol, now it’ll be “our” day. That’s a hell no from me!

    With this “source” aka Benny Medina, I feel like Jen is literally trying to make Ben flee. If you’re not going to talk about the wedding in the press, etc. Then don’t talk about it, Period! If she keeps up with this, he’s only going to head for the hills and dump her like he did the first time.

  6. Annaloo. says:

    Benny Medina with them on every outing, with that tripod

  7. AMA1977 says:

    I mean, could be a holiday party, or a summer barbecue, or a birthday party…lots of celebrations could be transformed into a wedding if they want to do it that way.

    I agree that the big question mark in these allegedly low-key “surprise” plans is J Lo. She loves to share and has not shown that she can keep a secret, lol! It can definitely be done, but if one of the principals is the biggest risk for accidentally spilling the beans, then ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

  8. Julia K says:

    She just told us there may be a July wedding. What’s the rush? Let’s look at the long range reality of this situation. In 10 years she will be planning for her 63 rd birthday. Ben will be 59 , an age that sees him still very much employable in Hollywood, her not so much. Time and perception of age is cruel in the entertainment world to most women. Perhaps just enjoying a long, romantic engagement is the best she can hope for. They live in a totally different world than we mere mortals.

    • DiegoInSF says:

      She’s an icon, she’ll be still killing it in her 60s and beyond, mark my words. Also, to say “the best she can hope for” about Jennifer Freaking Lopez, lol made me laugh!

    • Celina says:

      She has her own production company. She’s hard working and gorgeous and works with many female film makers and writers. She’s a businesswoman with a 400 million dollar networth. She’ll be working and doing projects forever because she’s talented and super productive…. lol she doesn’t even need to be “employed” by anyone when she is her own economy….tone-deaf comment.

  9. Lena says:

    She is so full of it! Saying she wants to be private this time around because it’s supposedly “sacred” then giving a blow by blow account of the proposal on her Very Own Personal Gossip page. She’s just become another Kardashian with that “on the JLo”. If they were serious about keeping it private this time around they would have announced a marriage that’s already happened and not an engagement.

  10. TIFFANY says:

    Her wedding to Marc Anthony was just like subscribed.

    Peeps thought they were coming to a garden party and it turned out to be a surprise wedding. We were shocked to when it was announced and they got a People Mag cover.

    Maybe they should just go to Vegas and elope. That one Jen has not experienced yet.

  11. Eggbert says:

    Not surprised she went with a colored diamond but am surprised it’s green.

  12. Marietta2381 says:

    For everyone thinking they’ll go the distance, listen to the Deuxmoi podcast at min 40-ish. You’ll find out how long JLo & Ben’s engagement’s going to last. It’s sad…

    • DiegoInSF says:

      How often have those hacks been wrong about everything? It’s the new CDAN for gullible people

      • Karisma says:

        @ DIEGOINSF
        It’s funny how people never find deuxmoi reliable until it goes with their narrative lol couldn’t be more transparent if they tried

    • Lena says:

      Not surprised by that. He doesn’t look healthy to me at all.

    • joey says:

      listening/reading blinds on Deuxmoi or Behind the Blinds and thinking of them as reliable sources give off Qanon vibes

  13. Shirley says:

    The TMZ video of that make out session by the car was very sad. He looked like he wanted to be anywhere but there.

    • Karisma says:

      Of course because deuxmoi is known to be very reliable. You can not like Ben and Jen but acting like it’s coming from a trusted source is weird.
      And also making assumptions about someone’s sobriety is so inappropriate.

    • Celina says:

      The one where she was getting ready to get in and drive? It looked like she was asking him for something and they were being playful. He has his random moods of grumpiness but he is clearly in love. He was all over her to. If he didn’t want to be there he wouldn’t….at this point this man has pursued her twice and knows what he wants more their internet strangers…they next day he was smiling from ear to ear and all over Jlo while she was in his Range Rover. He clearly is happier than he as ever been and it shows. The Jlo effect.

  14. Nibbi says:

    I can’t help but like her and wish her the best, but I feel like she needs therapy or something on this constant need for engagement hoopla. She seems sort of like an addict, almost.

  15. Carolnr says:

    Read Blind Gossip about this engagement…very interesting!!!!