Don’t expect Prince William to ‘do anything about the future’ until Kate is recovered

I’m still trying to understand what really went down last week, with King Charles’s cancer diagnosis, Prince Harry’s quick visit to his father, and William’s complete freak out and briefing spree about Harry. Like, Charles and William were not projecting confidence or steadiness, and by the end of the week, William looked downright unhinged and solely obsessed with bad-mouthing Harry to everyone. Simultaneous to William’s freakout, his people were briefing friendly reporters that William wouldn’t be coming back to work in any way for another month or longer. That became the focus of several pieces in the Telegraph and Times of London this weekend. While it’s obvious that Kensington Palace is working overtime to paint William in a positive way, there’s some really interesting criticism creeping in. Some highlights from this Telegraph piece:

Prince William’s role has never been more important: At 41, just 17 months into the job, the Prince’s role as next in line to the throne has never been more important. But as of this week, he finds himself – as one source delicately puts it – in an “unenviable position”. “It is…suboptimal,” said another.

William’s appearance at the investiture ceremony last Wednesday: At the most recent investiture, William looked a little thinner, a little more careworn than he has of late. As a military band played the national anthem, he blinked rapidly with a furrowed brow over the strains of God Save the King – the tune so familiar, the keyword of “King” still so new to the nation. Later that night, at a hotel for London’s Air Ambulance gala fundraiser, he was more like his old self, leaning in to speak to fellow air ambulance helicopter pilots and the patients they have saved; clapping Tom Cruise on the shoulder and making jokes about his Top Gun-themed shoes.

King Charles does not William to take over any kingly duties: William will not, sources emphasise, be taking on tons of the King’s engagements, with both Buckingham Palace and Kensington Palace mindful not to make sweeping changes to the public face of the monarchy before necessary. As a palace aide says: “The King is still the King.” In other words, he can and will still fulfil his state duties. The only current hole will be outside the palaces, where the 500-odd engagements he does every year will temporarily fall by the wayside to minimise risks to his health.

William can’t win!! “William can’t really win on this one,” worries one long-term royal watcher. “Either he keeps calm and carries on with his own programme, and people say he isn’t stepping up. Or he steps up, and people think he is trying to be King-like or – worse – that his father isn’t capable and needs him to step up.” A palace source said there was “constant conversation” between the King and Prince William’s teams, but that the Prince was not expected to pick up all of his father’s engagements – a mutual decision.

Poor William: “This week has been a reminder that yes they [the Royal Family] are in these public positions, but they’re also human beings,” says one who knows William. “Think about it: his life partner who he’s been with since university has had major surgery. They have three children and all of the worry about keeping things normal for them. Then on top of that you find out your father has cancer? It’s only been four days.”

William the dutiful: “He’s very aware of the future in front of him,” a source said of William. “They [the Waleses] take their commitment to duty and service very, very seriously, and he has made decisions about his life based on being heir to the throne. That weighs on his mind constantly.”

William won’t do anything until Kate is back on her feet: First and foremost, his priority is to see the Princess safely back on her feet. “Do not expect him to say or do anything about the future until his wife is recovered,” said a former royal aide. “He will always do the right thing, and for his wife and father right now that also means not jumping too many steps ahead.”

[From The Telegraph]

The press/royal establishment: William, you have to do something, you have to be seen, you have to show up to events and provide a sense that the monarchy is in steady hands no matter what.

William: No, I think I’ll show up drunk to an investiture, scream about Harry for 72 hours, whine about how I can’t win and then tell everyone that they shouldn’t expect me to do a g–damn thing for the next two months.

“Do not expect him to say or do anything about the future until his wife is recovered” is a very interesting timeline too – the shifting goalposts have been remarkable to watch as everyone works out in real time that William just refuses to “step up” and do ANYTHING.

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  1. Tessa says:

    I think the press will get more and more negative. I doubt he spends much time with kate. Charles has coddled William for years and is suffering the consequences

    • AlpineWitch says:

      He’s throwing a lazy Will tantrum and using his wife’s health as an excuse.
      He’s the worst.

    • Persephone says:

      Actually, I don’t believe he has coddled William very much at all. I remember from Spare that Harry said that his father kept all the events for himself , and it was unfair that the public thought William was lazy. I think Charles deliberately did that. Perhaps he knew that William might not have been capable? (or maybe I am misremembering Spare…?)

      • lanne says:

        I read that as Harry still trying to protect his brother and show his loyalty to his family. William’s lack of work up until this point–nothing but a poorly cobbled together “earth prize” to show for over 20 years as an adult royal. If anyone is familiar with Will’s famous laziness, it’s Harry. Harry didn’t spill about William’s many absenses as an air ambulance pilot, and that he barely passed his coursework.

      • Gabby says:

        That might be in the other 400 pages.

      • BlueNailsBetty says:

        @Persephone William has been coddled in the sense that all of his bad behavior, since he was a child, has been glossed over, excused, and not punished. William has always thrown tantrums and treated people poorly and nothing was done to get to the root of that behavior or to correct it.

      • Couch Potato says:

        Chuckey might have been keeping a lot of events for himself, but we know Harry went on quite a few international trips on behalf of the crown. If Willnot wanted to do more, he could’ve at least done half of them. He was appointed patron of some charities by the queen. If he wanted to do more, he could’ve been more hands on with them. He didn’t.

        One of the big problems the british RF is constantly causing for themselves is the lack of team work and training the heir for their future role. In other monarchies they’ve been showing the heirs the ropes from early on. Letting them tag along on a few selected events at a young age and gradually increased it into a full time position, after they’ve finished their military service and university degrees. In other countries the crown princes/princesses are for instance more present in meetings beteen the monarch and the government. That makes them able to fill in for the monarch when the monarch is on sick leave or out of the country. Crown prince Christian of Denmark is 18 years old, and has already filled in for his father as acting regent when Fredrik was abroad. The excuse they use about not stepping on the kings toes is BS. Everyone knows Chucky is the king. He’s just on sick leave.

      • Christine says:

        Harry truly was being kind, Sentebale alone calls bullshit.

      • Becks1 says:

        My interpretation of that part was a little of column A, a little of column B. I’m sure Charles did not want William or Kate (especially Kate) doing too much and overshadowing him. (the irony there is that the less Kate did, the more “value” her appearances had bc she was only doing 100 a year, as opposed to 500.)

        But I also think William didn’t mind not having to work. He may not have liked being called lazy, but he didnt want to actually work. And we know that because neither his nor Kate’s numbers increased significantly after they got the Duchy money. If it was about wanting to work more and Charles saying no, why didn’t they at least break 200, 250 engagements last year? 300?

        I think Harry may have just assumed William wanted to work more because he, Harry, wanted to work more.

    • BeanieBean says:

      ‘He will always do the right thing’? I don’t know, doesn’t sound too negative. Sounds more like blowing smoke up his *ss, as per usual. And why write something like this about anyone, anyway? Nobody is perfect, we all mess up. It’s like they do with Kate & her never putting a foot wrong nonsense. You want to be relatable? Acknowledge your screw ups, because we all make them.

  2. Brassy Rebel says:

    I thought he was just waiting for Kate to “settle”. Now he won’t do anything until she’s “recovered”. We have a real problem here. And the Telegraph describing his drunken demeanor at the investiture proves it.

    • Chloe says:

      I always thought that the use of “settle” was a odd choice of words. If she’s at home in bed or on the sofa she’s pretty much settled no? So what does that mean? And going by the fact that nobody really knows when late will be recovered, both of them might not “work” until june. And by then It will be time for the summer holidays. I still don’t see why William can’t carry out his engagements. He might do 2 per week. And most of them don’t last more than an hour. It’s getting ridiculous

      • MsDoe says:

        Yes, exactly. They are telling as much of the truth as they can — the full prognosis is unknowable at this time. I strongly suspect she suffered devastating post-op consequences — a clot, stroke, some kind of brain damage that will require extensive physiotherapy.

      • jemmy says:

        How can Kate be in coma yet her sister finds the time to go on a half term holiday all the way to st Barts. Coma my foot !!! I dare say there is nothing wrong with Kate. If there is, then it is either she has had some cosmetic op that needs to settle.

        The whole story line of Kate being ill & perhaps KC3 has been a massive ploy to deflect from PA & rehabilitate Kate’s image as a racist – as we can all se, nobody is talking about the Epstein files or the people who questioned the colour of Archie’s skin. Whole KC3’s condition is likely genuine, the timing of the announcement is suspicious as some are saying that he knew of the diagnosis a while back

        Here is the report from DM regarding Pippa’s holiday.

        https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-13078185/Pippa-Middleton-flaunts-toned-physique-enjoys-beach-day-husband-James-three-children-Caribbean-getaway.html

      • Becks1 says:

        Both Pippa and James going on vacation right now is odd – not that siblings need to stop their lives if one is sick, but if Kate is so bad that she can’t be seen and needs months off – I would have expected they might have at least tried to prevent photo ops from the vacations?

        It goes back to what we were saying elsewhere – if Kate is fine and this is just an attempt to escape work, that’s going to blow back on KP. If she’s not fine and is in a coma or something, then this is just…..cold.

      • Harper says:

        If Kate is stable there is nothing they can do for her so it’s probably important to keep up normalcy for their families. Also, we don’t know that Will isn’t off on some island with the kids too. Normalcy, you know.

      • Jaded says:

        I don’t think Pippa and Kate have much of a relationship anymore. If Kate’s treatment of Meghan is any measure, she probably expected Pippa and James to genuflect every time they were together. Pippa also showed Kate up by getting her Masters in ECE, something Kate should have done years ago in her “Ahly Yahs” work (and I use the term *work* with tongue planted firmly in cheek).

      • Gabby says:

        It could very well be that Kate has been cold to her siblings many times over the years. We don’t know the details of their relationships. Their lives have been impacted and at times restrained by Kate’s choices. Pippa and James deserve their own lives.

      • TeamAwesome says:

        I don’t have much of a relationship with my brother, but if he was anywhere close to the things that we have pondered about Kate, I definitely wouldn’t be jetting to anywhere but to my parents to support them, or any niece and nephews.

      • Mrs.Krabapple says:

        I don’t think Kate is in a coma, my guess is that her physical problems were from an eating disorder and the long recovery is for mental health issues, not physical ones. But, IF Kate was in a really bad way, I have no doubt the royals will lie to her family as quickly as they lie to the press. Kate runs home to her family because I don’t think she has anyone else in her life who cares about her, but the rest of the royal family was very quick to marginalize Pippa and the other Middletons. Diana was an aristocrat, but the Middletons are peasants and I’ll bet the royal family never forgets that. The Middletons are as clueless about Kate’s status as the rest of the world.

      • Christine says:

        I agree, Mrs.Krabapple. I think this points to something related to mental health and in-patient treatment. You wouldn’t put your life on hold if there is truly nothing you can do for a sibling you don’t have access to.

      • Nic919 says:

        Pippa named her daughter Rose so I don’t think she is going to hideaway regardless of what is going with Kate. Probably the most we can guess is that Kate isn’t terminal.

      • bluhare says:

        “Settle” is also what they say about facelifts.

      • Claire says:

        I don’t find it odd that her siblings are on vacation – although I agree that it probably indicates that she likely isn’t at risk of dying in the short term if they are. I think if she has a long recovery ahead of her because of something like a stroke and her long term prognosis/recovery isn’t clear but she’s not about to die, they are likely not going to be by her bedside indefinitely. Wherever Kate is, I imagine they probably do visit her regularly when they are around, but especially if this stroke or whatever it was happened almost two months ago, I don’t think they would put everything on life on hold at this point including vacations. If anything, maybe the Middleton family even wants to be photographed as if to say, move along, nothing to see here?

      • Fifty-50 says:

        Tbh I’m leaning towards a botched botox job and they’re saying abdominal surgery because it’s extremely vague and no one is going to ask her to raise her shirt up for proof. With surgery on other parts of the body, there’s some external indicator. Would explain the absolute lack of photos, the attitude of the people around her, and Camilla strutting around with glee.

      • BeanieBean says:

        I agree, @Claire. I think Kate’s siblings may know she’s stable & unlikely to change any time soon, and as they have families of their own aren’t going to put their own lives on hold. James’ kid is too young to remember a ski trip, but Pippa’s kids are for the most part school age & they’re on break right now, and this trip is for them.

    • EasternViolet says:

      The Telegraph only pointed out the rapid blinking, not the obvious swaying. Also interesting is that they used the word “recovered” in relation to Kate… that’s a first.

      • ML says:

        “As a military band played the national anthem, he blinked rapidly with a furrowed brow over the strains of God Save the King – the tune so familiar, the keyword of “King” still so new to the nation.”
        EasternViolet, The Telegraph is also trying to convince people that the constant blinking (which as with the fricking swaying we can all witness with our very own eyes!), is due to the change in lyrics, “king.” Um, no. This is literally rewriting what happened.

      • Renae says:

        @easternviolet
        “Recovered”….. as in ‘recovered the body’….??
        Ominous. Weird. Creepy.

      • Christine says:

        Exactly, ML, it’s idiotic! It’s not like anyone was singing, it was instrumental.

      • Michael P Cowtan says:

        No one has talked about William dropping the medal for the MBE. It looked as though his right hand was frozen or injured. It was all very awkward.

    • Shawna says:

      I said yesterday that they’d move the goalposts back for him from where they placed it—after the kids’ school holidays—in due time, once KP thinks the public forgot about this post-holidays messaging.

      They held out one day. One (1).

    • Christine says:

      Probably should have thought of this before whisking Kate to Anmer, allegedly, for the kids’ school break.

      Everyone is lying, or something is massively wrong that they are very badly covering up.

      If your wife is well enough to go to what is now your vacation manor, you are able to meet your already rock bottom work requirements. No one is expecting you to ship off to war, or even work a 10 hour week.

      • ML says:

        Was K even whisked away TO Anmer? Was she already there? Is she even there?

      • Chloe says:

        @christine: this is what I was thinking too. If Kate is well enough to take a helicopter (because we all know they didn’t take a car or a train) up north to Norfolk. Then surely she’s also well enough that william can leave her in the care of nanny Maria while he goes to his 1-hour engagement. The kids would be in school anyway.

      • EasternViolet says:

        ML – I think the official narrative (there may be more than one now, knowing these people) – is that after her hosp stay she went to Windsor, possibly Adelaide, but there were complaints about how cold it was so maybe it was the castle. More than likely Frogmore LOL. And during break they went to Anmer around the same time Charles went to Sandringham. Some of the tinfoil hat theories on Twitter (which I love to follow and participate in), suggest she is at Wood Farm, because they would already have medical facilities available from Philip being there into his Crypt-Keeper years.

      • Mrs.Krabapple says:

        I still say most likely scenario is her surgery was related to an eating disorder, some type of stomach or intestinal surgery. The long recovery time isn’t the surgery itself, but the mental health treatment she needs. That’s why they don’t have a clear timeline for recovery, mental issues can vary so much as compared to physical ones. That’s my best guess.

      • Lawrenceville says:

        At this point, even if William offed Kate, he has already “got away with murder”. As time passes, it gets easier to say, “she passed on due to a long illness” “she lost the cancer” or “she passed from complications related to massive sepsis that resulted after her abdominal surgery” etc. Even if she’s been on ice all this time to preserve the body, the longer it goes on the easier the heir to skate and evade jailtime.

  3. S808 says:

    Not shocked a man who doesn’t like working refuses to work but wow for someone who wanted to be seen as a Global Statesman, he doesn’t even wanna be seen now. Huh.

    • StellainNH says:

      It’s a good thing he was born into a rich family. Work Shy Will couldn’t make it in the real world. He’s such a sloth.

      • MrsCope says:

        There was a time when I think I slightly bought into some of the narrative that he had plans and could strategize some, or at least put on a good show of it. But he is utterly paralyzed at this point. What a mess.

        Strategy 1: Make me look better than my brother

        Strategy 2: Drive my brother and his hottie wife out

        Strategy 3: Copy EVERYTHING my brother does (minus the passion and sincerity of course because, ew)

        Strategy 4: Get everything I want, and go fetal position

      • Chloe says:

        @Mrscope, this is by far the best description of William I’ve ever seen!

  4. Digital Unicorn says:

    What if Kate never completely recovers from whatever is wrong – it’s obvious that it’s something serious and its also obvious that he is not with his wife and children at this time. The question is is this by choice or he’s been made to stay away because he did something very bad. Am convinced more than ever that there will be a Wails divorce announcement and Kate will be given a nice payoff and full custody of the kids. She’s is def not coming back into the public eye anytime soon, if not ever.

    • Brassy Rebel says:

      Kate would never get full custody of the kids. The royal machine wouldn’t allow that. The institution believes that it owns them.

      • Tessa says:

        It would be a shared custody. But the most important decisions would be made by the royal family.

    • Tessa says:

      Charles probably would not let Kate get full custody. At the very least Charles would have to have meetings with George aboit his future role.

      • Becks1 says:

        Full custody doesnt mean the kids would never see the royals or never see William.

      • MrsCope says:

        Plus, with what is going down, Charles is making it clear he backs Kate. She has no true ambition beyond title and money, so he could keep her on the grounds with the children and still oversee George’s development, if he’s healthy and here.

      • HeatherC says:

        By the time any divorce is official and settled, all 3 kids will be in boarding school. The parents will split vacations but I believe full custody will remain with William — meaning he’d (or the Firm) would be the ones making all the real decisions about them, or at least George.

      • Brassy Rebel says:

        Full custody legally would mean Kate making all decisions regarding the kids. That will never happen. Someone would be appointed guardian if Charles died and William was judged incompetent. I have no idea who that would be.

      • Tessa says:

        MrsCope the royals protect the born ins ahead of the married ins. Philip wrote supportive letters to Diana but when it came down to it he backed Charles. Even after Charles criticized Philip for his parenting he supported Charles. He did nothing to help DIana retain the HRH . Charles is probably the same. No matter how difficult William is, Charles would back him. The Queen also when it came down to it, even telling Charles is “hopeless” to Diana herself. the Queen was there toasting Camilla at the wedding. And would not even go to London from Balmoral and it took public and media protest for her to go to London after Diana’s Death. Charles “darling daughter in law” talk is all on the surface IMO. He was supposed to be this great Dad, walking Meghan down the aisle but it really was for his own PR. imo.

      • Lizzie says:

        Pippa is currently frolicking on vacation which I don’t think she’d be doing if her sister was seriously ill.

        Not defending them because I don’t fall for the royal spin but I do think Pippa would be around if Kate was very unwell

      • ArtHistorian says:

        @Lizzie,

        I think that Kate had surgery for something that she finds very embarrassing, hence the lack of specifics in the briefing. It could be something related to her bowls, which is something that there is a general and cultural reluctance to talk about.

        I also think that William will use ANY excuse to get out of work.

      • Jais says:

        So then we are to assume that she’s not so unwell that family members are perfectly able to go on vacation and not be overly worried. And yet William cannot do anything but the school runs. It doesn’t add up. Should we then conclude that William is using Kate’s planned and successful abdominal procedure to get out of doing even the tiniest amount of work? That’s the only conclusion. Unless, the palace is lying about Kate’s condition. Either way, it doesn’t add up, it’s weird and it makes no sense.

      • ArtHistorian says:

        @Jais
        “Should we then conclude that William is using Kate’s planned and successful abdominal procedure to get out of doing even the tiniest amount of work? That’s the only conclusion.”

        I think this is the only conclusion – and, yes, IMO William is shameless enough to do this.

      • Hyacinth Bouquet says:

        I looked this up and the usual family laws apply in the event of a divorce and custody arrangement. The paramount consideration is the welfare of the children so if it came to that, the court would decide on what was best for them in terms of living are arrangements and custody. So it just comes to the personality of Kate and William and how it plays out. Most normal people just agree between themselves what will happen with the children’s living and schooling arrangements, but these are not normal people and this is not a normal family.

    • LauraD says:

      At best Kate might get joint custody of the children. However, there’s absolutely no chance whatsoever she would get full custody of George. If you think the MSM were bad to Diana and terrible to H&M then you can triple even quadruple the onslaught towards Kate and her family if they even think about removing the FFK from the firm.

      We still don’t know what happened to Kate or even if William was involved. There are all sorts of rumours but, nothing concrete. Given how little contact William is believed to have with her it’s not even clear he was at Sandringham when she fell ill. If he left her and the children one night too often she could have had some sort of breakdown. If this were the case then he would use her mental fragility to say she’s not fit enough to look after them. Remember Kate has nowhere near the popularity of Diana (or H&M for that matter) and her family will provide goodness knows how many skeletons to be splashed across the front pages if William and the crown are threatened.

      • Renae says:

        Any possibility that Poppa ( &crew ) would have Kate’s 3 kids with her?
        Get em out of whatever is going on at home?
        Nah? Press would have also gotten snaps of them too?

      • Becks1 says:

        I said this in a post from yesterday, but it doesn’t matter if the press has pictures of the Wales’ kids wherever – skiing, at St Barts, etc – because they wouldn’t print the pictures without permission, even low key permission, from the palace.

        In the past Carole has gone to St Barts as well, so I found it interesting that it doesn’t seem she went this time. Not invited, or staying in Norfolk?

    • BlueNailsBetty says:

      If Kate never fully recovers then she will quietly retire to a lovely country estate and William will milk the sympathy for a couple of years until they quietly divorce (at “Kate’s behest because she knows he needs a queen who can stand by his side and represent the country”). A year later it will be revealed William has found love again and a year later he will remarry.

      Kate might be allowed to remarry, as well, to a local well off landholder or a business owner. Both of them will be happy for William and fully support the monarchy and William’s reign as king.

      Big Blue will go into the vault and won’t be seen again until George gets engaged.

      • Kate (Not Middleton) says:

        @BlueNailsBetty

        Big Blue is, at this point, just about as cursed as the Koh-I-Noor diamond. I hope George doesn’t propose with it! Bad juju!

      • BlueNailsBetty says:

        Oh, I completely agree. That ring should have a coven of witches doing a binding spell over it, be disassembled, have the witches do a blessing spell on the parts, and then use some of the parts to make keepsake jewelry for Charlotte and Lili. But it should never be used as an engagement ring ever again.

        However, they won’t do that and there will be people who try to pressure George to use it or maybe for Charlotte to use it.

        And I say all of that as someone who LOVES Big Blue.

  5. My god the mental gymnastics they go through to not come right out and say he is Lazy. They use some pretty big words to get around to just saying it. It’s poor Peg if steps up he over shadows if does nothing he isn’t stepping up. He will never overshadow because he isn’t well liked and as for the stepping up here is the word they should use LAZY.

    • Christine says:

      “They [the Waleses] take their commitment to duty and service very, very seriously…”

      This line alone made my eyeballs roll all the way to the back of my head. JFC, we have all been paying attention.

  6. MrsCope says:

    As so many people on this site have said, this makes so little sense. No one is asking for him to take a 6-month tour across the Commonwealth. You can at least do the 10-mile radius bread and butter events your wife was doing Tuesday -Thursday. Your children are in school and your wife has medical care for this “planned abdominal surgery that went well.” DO SOMETHING.

    Also, they are really leaning into this “partner/life partner” language, no?

    He really is unraveling in real time. It would be sad, if he hadn’t been so evil and entitled.

    I’m still listening to Endgame, and Obie is talking about the Simon Case machinations and the whole Flybe stunt. None of it had to be this way. I mean Harry had to leave, for sure. But if that family was an actual family, it could all be so different.

    • WiththeAmerican says:

      Yeah, he not only is not doing a single thing on his wife or fathers behalf, but also… not doing his own work.

      It’s not just that he won’t be doing “all” of his dads work, as Telegraph put it, but none of his dads work.

      Do something, exactly! What on the heck is wrong with him?!

    • HuffnPuff says:

      So true, MRSCOPE. They are reaping what they sowed. They ran off the Sussexes because they were going to overshadow C&C and W&K. And now none of the “working royals” can step up. Cams did some work but it seems like she’s already run out of steam. Charles is going to be busy with treatment, Kate is “recovering” and William is showing everyone how incapable he is. If they had been kind to the Sussexes, they would have people to pick up the volumes of slack. But nope. Enjoy, C&C and W&K! You’re the victims in this real life sad fairy tale.

  7. equality says:

    If PW did something to cause Kate’s condition, this makes sense. If not, her recovery shouldn’t affect his job.

    • Harper says:

      @equality that feels like the missing puzzle piece here. If Kate had surgery and is on the mend, then what makes William’s position “unenviable” and “suboptimal.” WTH??? He isn’t the one who has cancer or who has gone missing, but his position is the worst? You could very much make a case that he’s facing consequences for the first time in his life that will affect his future and there’s no getting out of it unless he bolts and no one can find him.

      • Gabby says:

        And that bolting off to where no one can find him is what I think he’s spending all his energy trying to make happen. He’s not equipped for strategic planning though.

    • MsIam says:

      You know it was pretty obvious the queen was seriously ill for a long time but she still did engagements when she could. And yet William is the one acting like he is an invalid in this situation. The queen also had a seriously ill spouse. It seems like no one in the press wants to point these things out to William. Or talk about how strangely the situation is being handled.

      • Becks1 says:

        she was literally working what, a day before her death? two days before? when she met Truss at Balmoral?

        Now, I don’t think she should have had to do that, and I think Charles should have taken over officially before that, but it gives you a clear idea of how duty and work are valued in the Firm.* Charles is putting it out there that he is going to continue to work as much as possible behind the scenes while undergoing treatments. And William…….is just gone.

        *again, using “duty” and “work” as the royals define it, not as we might define it.

  8. Roo says:

    The fastest way to get this big baby back to work is to offer events to Harry. You will see Peg run back to work. 😂

  9. Jais says:

    What programme? Again, the issue is that William doesn’t even have his own programme right now. No one’s asking him to do extra. They’re just asking him to do something. One event a week while he focuses on his life partner??? See how he’s already lowered the expectations.

    • HeatherC says:

      Well you can’t expect William Will Not to take on his father’s appearances when he’s busy solving homelessness, bringing peace into the Middle East, and saving the planet.

      • The Hench says:

        And the School Run. For pity’s sake, don’t forget the burden that places upon the poor man.

  10. MsDoe says:

    Maybe I missed it, but I don’t recall hearing William remark last week how grateful Kate is for all the well wishes; he just mentioned that she has 2 nurses. I suspect that he’s unhinged and the establishment isn’t pushing him to do more because the situation with Kate is actually quite serious. They’ve been telling as much of the truth as they can — that she had post-operative complications. I suspect it was something quite serious — a clot, or stroke, a seizure, brain damage… that is the only “abdominal surgery” which would make her so invisible for so long (I speak from experience: colon removal, j-pouch construction, 2 c-sections… even after such major surgery, I was going on job interviews at the 5 week mark). Kate couldn’t sit in a car with her hair done and wave — she needs extensive physiotherapy if she is even conscious. Another aspect of this is what the original issue was, and how it happened, but for now, William is in meltdown. Taken with the situation with Charles, the monarchy is in a real predicament.

    • Mjane says:

      He mentioned it at the air ambulance event

    • MsDarcy says:

      I think he said “we” are grateful for the support and well wishes. That “we” could mean anything – it could mean him and Kate, it could mean him and the kids, it could mean the whole family, it could be the royal we and just Wills. I found the phrasing notable.

  11. Becks1 says:

    So I think there would be a lot less pressure on William to step up and fewer questions about his “commitment to duty” if he was actually working in any capacity. This article mentions how he can’t win if he “keeps calm and carries on with his own programme,” – but he’s not carrying on with anything. He’s hiding. He’s essentially been in hiding for almost a month now, with one hospital pap pic, one drunk investiture and one Tom Cruise event happening in that time frame. And honestly, I think he wanted to go to the event with Tom Cruise and was advised that he should do the investiture first.

    If he took a few weeks off while Kate was in the hospital (if she was actually there) and was seen visiting her every day (which he wasnt), I think most people would have understood that while also recognizing the privilege.

    But to just disappear for months? There’s a huge difference between the palace not wanting William to accept ambassador appointments and meet with the PM weekly and william just flat out not working for months (which it seems he’s going to do.)

    And also, what a weird line about “not doing anything about the future” – what can he do about the future? That seems to be a clear reference to either divorce or removing himself from the line of succession. Because he can’t really do anything else with his future.

    • WiththeAmerican says:

      Maybe Will’s “programme” is doing nothing. Will is very busy with his programme! Keeping calm and carrying on with his programme! Of doing nothing.

    • Jais says:

      Exactly! He is not working in any capacity. And will not for months until she recovers? From a planned and successful abdominal surgery. That’s what they’ve told the public anyways. And it makes no sense. That’s why there’s speculation. And yeah, what does he need to decide about the future?

      • HuffnPuff says:

        It’s so serious that he needs to stay home but not serious enough that Kate’s siblings can take vacations. This points to something is wrong with both W and K.

    • Shawna says:

      That phrase “about the future” really is the key here. It sounds like a tantrum-y direct rebuttal to something Charles or Camilla or BP has said to William behind the scenes.

      • Sunday says:

        Yes! It sounds like a direct rebuff to someone who asked what his plan was to deal with whatever’s really going on.

        I’ve said it before (and saw another commenter make the same connection!), but the problem here is that they’ve created Schrodinger’s Princess, and are now dealing with the confusion that causes. Kate can’t be simultaneously on a totally normal road to recovery after “planned surgery,” just going to the countryside with her children for a school break totally normal nothing to see here (literally) AND yet still, one full month after alleged surgery, be so “unsettled” at home that she can’t even take a proof of life photo from a semi-horizontal hospital bed and her husband needs to be by her side 24-7 even though she has multiple nurses.

        2+2 does not equal 5, even if you’re supposed to be King one day. That’s Will’s entire problem right now.

      • Becks1 says:

        @Sunday yes, I was going to say something similar to Jais right above Shawna’s comment. They have briefed themselves somewhere between a rock and a hard place by both downplaying her condition and then saying things like “william can’t work for months.”

        Either her condition is so serious that they can’t take a picture of her, can’t stage a shot of her traveling wherever, and william can’t work bc his wife is in a serious health crisis, or she is recovering well, able to travel to Anmer, she’s doing well, etc – in which case why isn’t William working?

        I can’t tell if their comms team is just totally incompetent, if said team has no idea what’s going on, or what.

      • Eurydice says:

        But William doesn’t have “to do anything about the future.” The future will arrive whether he likes it or not, just as the future “arrived” with Kate’s surgery and Charles’ cancer diagnosis. William is not prepared to be useful, whether as PoW, as a family member in time of need or as a future king with charitable plans. Instead, he’s is one of those people who become an additional burden in times of crisis.

      • Sunday says:

        @Becks1 completely agree with everything you wrote.

        @Eurydice you’re absolutely right that saying he has to “do anything about the future” is a strange statement. That’s the point, that someone (either Will himself or a courtier on his behalf) couldn’t control themselves and gave an incredibly defensive, revealing quote to a tabloid.

        It’s like if you and your spouse are supposed to be on a diet, and your husband sneaks out and gets a burger, and when he gets home you start to say “For dinner I was thinking…” and he cuts you off and says “Burgers are a good source of protein, they’re not even that bad for you really!” Like… the burger-eater doth protest too much, ya know? That’s how this quote functions in this article. Because yea, his future should be settled, that’s sort of the whole gig. So why on earth would he say that? What could possibly be unsettled about the future? It opens up an entire line of questioning that seems like precisely what they’re hoping we don’t ask. It was a slip, a huge mistake.

      • Eurydice says:

        @Sunday – if I were being charitable, I’d say this was just more unclear communication. Will can’t make new plans until he knows everything is OK with his wife and father. In the meantime, there are certain duties he’s obliged to perform, but he’ll put off the rest until his family issues are either resolved or settled in some way. This would be a perfectly normal approach to a family crisis.

        But the whole situation has become such a seething mess, with lack of communication between BP and KP, with secrecy about Kate, with the press desperate for content – and with Will seemingly being one of those guys who collapses when things get tough, so everyone has to rally around him instead of those who actually have the problem.

    • The Hench says:

      Yes, exactly @Becks1. The Media are saying he doesn’t want to overshadow his father by taking over the King’s duties but the point is that Wills has jacked EVERYTHING in. Other than Kate, he already had the lowest engagement numbers of any of the working RF and now he is saying he can’t even carry those out any more for an indeterminate length of time because Kate/school run. It’s as plain as the considerable Windsor nose on his face that William could easily fit a few engagements a week in AND garner maximum PR brownie points and acres of favourable “Wills to the Rescue!”, “Wills the Amazing Father, Husband AND Heir!” headlines.

      That he’s done a runner is both inexcusable and very weird.

    • BlueNailsBetty says:

      So, I firmly believe William is in rehab (probably at one of his homes) for chemical dependency as well as intensive therapy for his anger issues. If he is not in rehab and prohibited from working or being seen then his disappearance is baffling.

      Forget Kate’s situation for a minute, he is still a father of three young children. The official story is he is doing the school runs (pre-holiday) yet there are no photos of anyone, much less William, doing the school run. If William really was doing the school run he would have made sure some pap got a pic to prove it so he could get credit for being a good dad. But there are no pics of him doing the school run.

      In fact, there are no photos of him interacting with the children in any way. Now would be the time for pics of William helping the kids make get well cards for Kate. Helping the kids pick flowers for Kate. Helping the kids with their homework (pre-holiday). Walking or playing with the kids to help give them a sense of normality. Snuggling with the kids for movie night and popcorn and cocoa.

      Instead, there is absolutely nothing being reported about his helping the children with any aspect of this situation except “he’s doing the school run”.

      Remember his testing of the Single Dad™️ idea last year? He has the perfect chance to show what a great dad he is and he…doesn’t have interactions with his children. (we know there would be pics because he would want credit for it.)

      William is on lockdown, most likely rehab and therapy and this is being enforced, not voluntary.

      • atorontogal says:

        @BlueNailsBetty
        “So, I firmly believe William is in rehab (probably at one of his homes) for chemical dependency as well as intensive therapy for his anger issues. If he is not in rehab and prohibited from working or being seen then his disappearance is baffling.”

        Your comment fits into my theory that Wills did something really bad to Kate this time. Not just pillow throwing. If he did put hands on her, then it would all make sense as to no pictures, no definitive return to work date, Wills being MIA (in treatment). Even after weeks, the bruising could be still visible, thus she reamains in hiding.

        An awful scenario I know, but it would fit in between the lines we are being fed.

      • Christine says:

        This is the scenario that makes the most sense.

  12. seaflower says:

    I find this wording odd: Don’t expect W “to say or do anything about the future” until K has recovered. What and who’s future?

  13. sevenblue says:

    You know what, if they come out and say, Will isn’t doing good mentally and Kate’s illness triggered his childhood trauma (not saying, I believe, this is the real reason for his behavior), I don’t think people would react negatively at all. But, all their mental health work has been “just go out, do some sport, talk to other people”. So, it is obvious they are not able to talk about mental health in a more honest way, especially if you are still believing and trying to persuade people, you are better than everyone else.

    • Dutch says:

      That would be a display of weakness, which is something the Windsors go out of their way to avoid. And would run counter to all of William’s press attacks on Harry about him being sucked into the “cult” of therapy and such. Pegs has painted himself into a real corner in this regard.

  14. Lulu says:

    Has Anne been the only working royal lately? I haven’t seen Sophie or Edward but they get little

    • Lulu says:

      … coverage.

    • Becks1 says:

      Edward did a handful of events last week, but nothing this week yet per the court circular (only Tuesday though.) Sophie was in france last week attending a winter sports competition.

    • BlueNailsBetty says:

      @Lulu I know it was just a typo/hit submit by accident but the irony that the comment couldn’t even be completed while talking about the middle royals is hilarious. It’s almost like you lost interest before completing the comment. 😂

  15. Amy Bee says:

    When the news first came out about Kate I suspected that William was going to be off until she returns so this is no surprise to me. He only came out last Wednesday because Harry was in the UK.

    • Honeybee says:

      I have seen a video of harry and William with Diana. When diana called willy he refused to go. When she said “harry would have all the fun”, little William ran to his mummy shouting “No. No”.
      From very young age, willy needed harry to push him.

  16. garrity says:

    For all these years we’ve heard about how William “won’t” work. Most observers sort of assume he’s just a garden-variety spoiled jerk with a bad temper who would do better if forced to do so.

    I just keep wondering: what if, in fact, he simply *can’t?* And never, really, could? At this point it feels like it makes far better sense of this mess to understand that William’s ‘incandescence’ is actually a way of noting an irrevocable disability of some kind, one that renders his behavior so unreliable in public work that they have to keep a sharp eye on him, present him within a narrow frame, limit the number of engagements, etc. What if this has long been known to the Firm?

    Was this why Liz publicly praised and awarded “our good and trusty Catherine” — because she has helped manage his image and soothe him, and kept mum about the source of the problems? Is this why all those aristo girls turned him down flat?

    If William is, and has long been known to be, living with a disability of some kind, and the play is to pretend it ain’t so and force William into the crown anyway and make everyone else (even his kids!) fill in the cracks in public perception while also dealing with the challenges of his temperament . . . well. If that were true, the monumental cruelty of the Firm to all its members – William included – is yet more ghastly and breathtaking.

    • equality says:

      That would mean an awful lot of people keeping Will’s secret. He was away at school and with the air ambulance. Did he have keepers during all that time to make him look good?

    • Chaine says:

      I think that’s why there has been discussion for years on this blog about his childhood head injury. But I agree with others who have pointed out he was always an angry jealous person even as a small child. I think his personality is so unpleasant none of those aristo women could stomach being chained to him for life.

    • Shawna says:

      “Is this why all those aristo girls turned him down flat?” 100% Once they see incandescent Willy, they nope out of there.

    • Dutch says:

      If that were the case, then Harry is the main workaround to the challenge. I’m not ruling out deep denial by the BRF and their handlers, but if William were seen to have limitations on his ability to perform his duties, Harry would have been part of Charles’ vision of a slimmed down monarchy. So much of Charles plan hinged on the Wails taking a big role under his reign, the “fab four” nonsense. William has had a lot thrown at him at once and it would make a lot of people buckle. For someone was weak as William it’s paralyzing, and there’s only one person who can command William to get off his ass and that person has just as fragile an ego and doesn’t like confrontation, so William gets to hide as much as he wants

      • lanne says:

        but Harry WAS a part of the slimmed-down monarchy! The royal reaction to Harry’s leaving was so extreme that they inadvertently showed that Harry was critical to their future plans for the monarchy in a way that Charles’s siblings never were. The kingship was supposed to be a 2-person job: that was the plan, and along with racism, I think they royals hate Meghan so much because they view his affection for her (a nobody in their eyes) as “spoiling” their plans.

    • Becks1 says:

      I think if William had a disability that prevented him from fully carrying out his duties, then Harry’s half-in offer would have been accepted (since they would have known they needed Harry in a very real way), and/or I think Harry and Meghan might not have walked away.* If they knew that William had some sort of impairment that significantly affected his personality, I don’t think we would have seen Harry push back on William as much as he did in Spare because really, even knowing that Harry held back a lot, William came out looking a LOT worse than even freakin’ Charles.

      *this is a tricky one because you can know someone has mental health issues that account for their behavior and still not want to be around that behavior. My sister was mentally ill and I knew that and I still did not want anything to do with her for half my life pretty much. so I’m not saying that just because there may be something going on there that Harry would have stayed, bc at some point you do need to prioritize your own mental health (and that of your wife.)

      But i think if there was more here than just “William is a petulant spoiled lazy entitled ahole” the past few years would have played out differently.

    • Lizzie Bathory says:

      It does seem to be something like this, whether a disability, personality disorder, substance abuse issue or whatever. It’s most telling to me that he’s disappearing indefinitely while Kate cannot be deployed.

      Plan A: Harry does everything.
      Plan B: Abuse Meghan.
      Plan C: Kate twirls her hair in public.
      Plan D: ….

      • Jaded says:

        Someone mentioned on a thread yesterday that Willnot may be suffering from ODD (Oppositional Defiant Disorder) and when you look at the list of symptoms Willnot appears to be a walking advertisement for the condition. It typically appears in childhood and shows a pattern of uncooperative, defiant, and hostile behavior towards peers, family, and those in authority. Sound familiar?

    • Mrs.Krabapple says:

      If William is unable (not unwilling) to work, it must be because of recent developments (substance abuse, whatever). Because I think when he was younger, he was able to connect with the public, and make people he met think he cares about them. Sure, it was all an act, but he pulled it off, imho. He was actually better at it than Kate.

    • KD says:

      Exactly.

    • BeanieBean says:

      They let the man have controls of a helicopter! So no, I don’t think they’re covering for a disability that prevents him from working.

  17. MJM says:

    Given the way he was at the recent investiture I’m thinking there is a major problem with William like alcohol use disorder. As Kaiser pointed out in another piece he appears to be day drinking and stumbling around. It wouldn’t surprise me. As much as William is self important and craves deference he is a deeply unhappy person. Jealous of his brother’s popularity and global fame. Jealous that Harry has a beautiful and charismatic wife. Is trapped in his unhappy marriage and into the role he was born into. Angry and self indulgent he is uninterested in a life of service and finding his purpose. He drove the only person who truly loves him and treats him like a normal human being out of the family and is likely very lonely and deeply depressed.

    • Truthiness says:

      As much as I don’t like speculating, I’m suspecting an alcohol disorder too. Remember Mike Tindall coming out of left field to say “one pint Willy?” Why would you mention the heir to the throne’s alcohol use, especially since he can’t keep up with Mike and his friends. Tindall sucks up to Will.

  18. Bethany says:

    I don’t understand this situation because William appears to greatly dislike Kate when they’re in public to the extent that there are many divorce rumors. Yet he’s using “apparent devotion” to her to remain with her for an undetermined time until she recovers. That could be like how high is up! Which is it? He can’t stand her or he’s so devoted that he can’t leave her side?

    • seaflower says:

      You’re assuming he’s not staying somewhere else and just using her recovery as an excuse.

    • The Duchess says:

      It’s what we like to call an act. He has utter distain for her in public, but hides behind her ailments when he needs an excuse to not work. Many of us said he would milk this situation for as long as possible in order to avoid his duties, but even I am shocked at how far he is going.

  19. Izzy says:

    About the future of what? His marriage? His workload? Nothing about the current situation at the palaces makes any sense to me in the context given by the royal mouthpieces, and I’m not the only one who feels this way. And that’s why there are so many theories about what really happened.

  20. lanne says:

    So the Telegraph acknowledges the blinking at the investiture–what about the swaying? Will that be next? And no one, no morning show, no tabloid, no news program, is even mentioning Kate at all outside of William not working? Why not general, non-invasive updates to her condition with proof of life pictures? Even a picture of her laying in bed with nice hair and makeup and a bright smile isn’t feasable right now?

    No one cares about this woman at all, it seems. That’s so sad to me. I’ve said so many times that Kate made a tactical error in never establishing a network of powerful women to help her with her work. If she had such a network, especially a global one, there would be powerful women asking questions right now. If the situation were reversed, and Meghan had suddenly disappeared during a surgical procedure while still a member of the royal family, you can best believe that many, many people would be talking up a storm, asking questions, demanding reports. Kate is completely at the mercy of the royals, and that is terrifying to me.

    The silence is feeling like omerta. Even if in the end, nothing is terribly wrong, and she’s just recovering from complications, this spells bad, bad news to me. Kate is completely at the mercy of the royals, and they can do whatever they like to her. She has as little power as a Henry 8th wife, and if the royals want to “retire” her in any way of their choosing, they will. Really, they could say that she’s retired from royal duties and will live quietly in the country. From what we’re observing now, no one will even question that statement. Or seemingly even care.

    Where are all the Kate stans who claim she’s the Savior of the royal family? Yes, they were motivated by racism against Meghan, but surely some of them bought into their own idealization of her, right? Where are they now? Does she really have so few people in her corner, for all the ratchets spew about her being “the next Diana?”?

    The silence is deafening.

    • WiththeAmerican says:

      There’s a few of them out there saying she deserves her privacy and won’t take a photo because she cares about her image. It’s absolutely lackluster, frankly. They can’t be bothered to care about her as anything other than the white one who is “better” than MM.

    • SIde Eye says:

      Excellent post lanne.

    • Sunday says:

      Eh, I thought their mention of the blinking was actually really gross because in context it suggests Will was blinking back tears at God Save the King because he was emotional about his father/wife/QEII, which is so laughably removed from reality it’s almost offensive.

      And I’m also going to push back on “nobody cares about Kate” – we’ve seen what the tabloids do when they don’t value someone’s life, and that’s to publish every single detail – real or lies – they can find about the person, to bully them with nonstop coverage until they break. That’s not what we’ve seen here. We’ve seen an entire British media apparatus effectively close ranks and agree to protect the privacy of …someone. Whether that’s Kate’s medical privacy or the truth about what the Prince of Wails may have done to her remains to be seen.

      But these actions are not the actions of a rabid press, they’re the actions of a media trying their best to control themselves.

      And I’ll extend that to Kate’s “fans” online. We’ve all said that her fans are nothing more than Meghan haters, and we even know that a strong contingent of the derangers have a direct line to KP and the rota. They followed the Firm’s lead to troll and abuse of Meghan, and that’s what they’re doing here too. If their contacts told them to fuss about Kate, they would. They don’t want them to, it’s counterproductive to whatever has happened behind the scenes.

      • lanne says:

        So you’re saying Kate has no real fans, just KP gargoyles. That still sucks for Kate. What protection she’s getting right now seems contingent on William–maybe I didn’t make that point clearer. No one seems to care about Kate on her own terms. She isn’t being protected here–he is. She’s nothing but a proxy for William and what’s wrong with him. No one is asking if Kate is okay. Kate’s the mother of the future King of England, and no women’s morning show is inquiring even a peep after her?

      • Sunday says:

        @Ianne, pretty much. I agree with what you’ve stated, but again I view this silence AS protection from the British media. They’re not attacking her or demanding answers like they would from Diana or Meghan. That in itself is a different level of treatment. Maybe they’re being so hands-off because they can’t talk about what’s going on with Kate without implicating Will, or maybe it’s simply because he or she doesn’t want it talked about, so their pet press won’t.

        To be clear: If KP wanted the morning shows to talk about Kate, they would be. They have been directing the media narrative for decades. For whatever reason, the firm or KP or Will or maybe Kate herself doesn’t feel safe using whatever this absence really is as content.

        The British media is absolutely brutal. They have a literal body count. So, if they’re choosing silence instead of cover-to-cover sensationalism about the most private aspects of someone’s life, that is 100% because they’ve been told to lay off.

      • Giddy says:

        Someone will eventually talk. Some nurse, cleaner, cook, someone will talk. They could reveal what actually happened to Kate. The only definite fact is that the worst, most unprofessional, most ineffective comms team has completely folded.

    • Mrs.Krabapple says:

      Kate is an image, and her fans only care about her as that image — white, thin, hair extensions, fake tan, artificially whitened teeth, etc. Do they know or care what she’s actually like? No. Does she have a sense of humor? It doesn’t matter, what matters is that she’s thin. Is she racist? It doesn’t matter, what matters is, she is white. Does she have compassion? It doesn’t matter, look at her hair! Her own fans don’t know or care about HER, just her image. I suspect the royal family, including her own husband, feels the same.

      • Nic919 says:

        Not even her real image because the derangers love to use photoshopped pictures that don’t match what she looks like in person.

  21. HeatherC says:

    William will not do anything about the future because he will not do anything about the present. It has nothing to do with Kate and all about his inability to function as an adult in any capacity.

  22. Cessily says:

    “But they are human beings” falls a little flat coming from them doesn’t it🤔🤨

  23. Mslove says:

    I’m getting Michael Schumacher vibes. I really think we should have seen Keen by now. I do hope she’s okay.

    • Esquire says:

      100%, great call. I’ve thought that something was very wrong over the past 24 hours. I just thought it was their obsession with privacy before. I couldn’t quite place where I got this eerie vibe, but Michael Schumacher’s dire situation is comparable, if not anomalous. The public is being drip-fed banal updates that aren’t substantive. William looks very off. The whole thing is startling. Kate is a young woman, she isn’t monarch, so the whole cloak and dagger routine isn’t making sense. It was understandable when the Queen was terminal – she was, after all, the sovereign in all Realms. Kate is just married to William and in the grand scheme of things, not important in public life. She’s dispensable. The fact that King Charles has been far more open is telling.

  24. SIde Eye says:

    “Don’t expect William to do anything”. There, I fixed the headline.

  25. lanne says:

    A few weeks back I mentioned that awful statistic that 20% of married men leave their wives if their wives are incapacitated (cancer diagnosis, brain damage, paralysis, stroke, anything requiring permanent care)–that women are even counseled about that when they get diagnosed with serious ailments or impairments.

    Nothing we’ve seen of William demonstrates that he would stand by an incapacitated wife. Nothing at all. If she were really in that hospital he would have been by her side every day, getting seen going back and forth. He would be putting out heartfelt updates about him, the kids, and Kate, with statements of love and support.

    My mom is a 3 time cancer survivor. Her 1st instance occurred at age 29, when I was 4 and my brother 2. My dad was at her side every day, reminding her she had children who needed her, showing her he would be there every step of the way. he did that while working–I know he took some leave– and helping with the care of 2 toddlers (luckily my grandmother and aunt came to stay with us while my mom was in the hospital).

    I’m completely disgusted with Williams’ seeming lack of ability toi cope with all of this. For gods sake, Prince of Wales, step up and be a man! If Meghan were in the same position, I have no doubt at all that Harry would be at her side all the way.

    But that’s the point, isn’t it. Harry is a better man than his brother is, and always has been. No amount of media bullshit will hide that in the end. The British media put their hopes on a weak vessel who will never, ever live up to his responsibilities, and they are too weak, too cowardly to call him out.

    • Jaded says:

      He is pathetic isn’t he. At the first sign of Kate’s health problems, whatever they are, he runs and hides. That speaks to me of some kind of involvement in her mysterious medical issues, and as a result he’s doing what guilty people do — he’s lying low and avoiding the press to keep the truth from coming out. We’ve all seen how dismissive and rude he is to her in public, can you imagine what he’s like in private? We all suspect he’s been unfaithful to her so his behaviour up to now has proven what a contemptible jerk he is — without even knowing what’s really wrong with Kate, I think we can presume that he was somehow involved and is showing us by his cowardice.

  26. bisynaptic says:

    No mention of the back-and-forth swaying.

    • Interested Gawker says:

      No mention of DROPPING A MEDAL AND HAVING TO CROUCH DOWN TO PICK IT BACK UP FROM THE FLOOR as he was presenting it to one of the recipients.

    • Gabby says:

      No mention of the swaying, but calling out the blinking motivates people to seek out the video footage, where they will see the swaying for themselves. And I think that was the plan.

  27. Lau says:

    Again with the Top Gun themed shoes ?!
    Also “Do not expect him to say or do anything about the future until his wife is recovered” is so rich because most normal people do get back to work while their spouse are recovering from any medical condition.

  28. Just Jade says:

    I can’t wait for the Rats to start dropping some nuggets here and there about what is happening with those two. William looked sick and distraught during his last outing perhaps he is the one who is sick and they are using Kate. Then again where are the Middletons? This whole situation is very confusing.

    • The Duchess says:

      I think the pair of them are very sick individuals, each with their long list of personal issues. That’s why they deserve each other. The only ones I feel sorry for are the children. Having two dysfunctional parents like that must be hard and I pray they find inner-strength to persevere and put their own well-beings first when they’re older. As for the Middletons, I mean, where are they? I refuse to believe these grifters are staying silent by choice… something big has gone down.

  29. Jensa says:

    This whole situation just gets more and more weird. It’s interesting that the press are letting their disdain for PW show. And where on earth is Kate? Why don’t we even have a soft-focus posed pic, with a message thanking people for their good wishes, as would be usual in cases like this? Can’t they show her face?

  30. Lady Digby says:

    Family and courtiers haven’t been blind sided by his inertia but everybody including Will has been playing it long as in he won’t be King for years. Now the goal post’s have changed and Will did look awful on Wednesday as if the truth dawned on him with horror that it could be SHOW TIME NOW and FOREVER. Given the amount of free time on his hands attending therapy would help him cope better now and help him make decisions about his future. It is all very tricky because as another poster up thread suggests, maybe he has just buckled under the double whammy of C And K being seriously ill
    and he just can’t cope?

  31. Lizzie says:

    Kate’s sister Pippa is in today’s Daily Mail enjoying a Caribbean vacation with her husband and kids. Looking like she hasn’t got a care in the world.

    I wonder if this was some kind of vying for attention with Charles’s camp and William’s.

    KC gets ill and gets attention/press. Then Kate does the same and gets more. Then KC’s gets worse. Honestly they are a charade and a pantomime.

    • First comment says:

      Pippa has a family of her own and I guess, after almost 2 months (since Christmas), she took a break with her husband and children…I don’t think she could do much about Kate’s condition…she can’t put her life on hold indefinitely… Anyway, the fact that she’s on vacations and it is published, means that Kate’s health issues aren’t so bad anymore? Who knows? Perhaps it’s Deflection?

    • Digital Unicorn says:

      Hmm, that story plus the one yesterday about James giving a journo some frozen dog food feels like deflection from the fact that they were not seen or heard from during all the hospital drama – which we know is unlike them. This could also be a deflection from whatever Uncle Gary has got going on with his supposed appearance on that celebrity show.

      Also are we sure those photos are recent???? Not the first time they have used ones from a whole ago and tried to pass them off as recent.

    • MsIam says:

      People have been asking “Where are the Middletons?” It wouldn’t surprise me if Pip and James were told to go out there to throw off the scent of the press bloodhounds, especially the European press. Plus if Kate really is in a coma/vegetative state then time is the only healer for that and they can’t stop living their lives. Only William can do that apparently.

  32. tamsin says:

    Does “settled” re Kate mean agreement on whatever the new situation is going to be- separation, official or unofficial, divorce, custody, alimony, etc. Nothing but some truth will stem this rampant speculation.

    • Mary Pester says:

      I did tell yesterday what was happening and had happened to kate, BUT I also said there were changes, BIG changes going on at the Palace and if you noticed, even in this article we have word from a “FORMER royal aide”,
      The rota don’t know which way to turn, they know what happened with Kate, they know William is a lazy bsd, they know that since a young age William is unable to cope when challenged, his go to response is to lash out, (Just as he did with Harry), William has only ever been told NO by the upper crust females he tried to woo. In the end it was the Queen who told him to put up or shut up when it came to Catherine and marriage, just like she did with Margaret (“, told her no to marrying Townsend) and Charles with Diana.
      William is stuck, his feet are in quicksand. He knows what he did and he’s stuck because of it. He isn’t capable of becoming king, and Charlie knows it.
      They had the answer to all willy’s problems, but allowed willy and wife, with the aide of the BM to drive the answer and his wife out to the US. See, all Williams life, Harry had been his protection from showing his real face and ineptitude. While the press were concentrating on Harry, they were ignoring willy’s shortcomings. Let’s face it, it was first obvious when Harry started basic, that’s when pictures of willy in nightclubs drunk with other females started to appear.
      The Palace fkd up and William will continue to fk up until the inevitable happens and he steps down. In my eyes, the Palace created the monster and they have lost control of it

      • Julianna says:

        @MaryPester

        Long time lurker but don’t get the chance to comment much. Could you please tell me what post title you commented in. I somehow missed your comment. Thanks. I always enjoy your comments btw!!!

      • Renae says:

        Yes, please Mary, Under what post did you comment. I also must have missed it.
        Ty.

      • Jaded says:

        @Mary Pester — was your comment yesterday the one you said got “disappeared”? From your take today I gather Willnot has done something so bad that if it gets out he’s in big trouble and the BRF will be tainted by association for covering it up. The fact that everyone has gone silent, including the Midds and Uncle Blowhard, speaks volumes and sooner or later someone’s going to leak. We know the press are sitting on a mountain of incriminating information — what will trigger them to spill?

      • Snuffles says:

        @marypester

        Hey Mary! Love and light to you.

        What would it take to get the establishment to remove Willy from the line of succession? Because I believe he’s not just incompetent, but dangerously so. Prone to violence and a stupid easy mark for people like the Russians.

        Here is my current working theory. Over the holidays, Will and Kate got into a horrific fight and William took it too far this time. So far, it caused Kate to require surgery.

        That it’s so bad it’s not a question of when she’ll get better but IF. There is serious doubt she will ever fully recover.

        That they are stalling for time until they can secure a back up plan. I think that back up plan includes Harry and Beatrice, the next two adults in line. I’m guessing they are trying to set up a regency for George until he’s old enough to assume the throne.

        With maybe Harry and Meghan dealing with the Commonwealth and keeping their home base in Montecito. And basically getting the half in/half out they wanted.

        And Beatrice (and maybe even Eugenie), taking up more U.K. duties.

        Am I getting warm?

      • Jaded says:

        @Snuffles — It would take an Act of Parliament to remove William because the rules that regulate the monarchy are decided by Parliament, not by the monarch. That being said, if a crime is committed by a royal family member with the exception of the monarch, they could be forced to abdicate upon being convicted.

        There’s definitely a big game of 3-D chess happening right now, but as in all things royal, it’s going to be a very complicated and lengthy game of musical chairs if, as many of us suspect, William is in serious trouble. I do think you’re getting warm!

      • Mary Pester says:

        @JADED, juliana, Renae and Rachel, yes jaded, it was the one where I disappeared from. The one where they lied about “Kate moving to Anmer to recuperate”

      • kirk says:

        Dear Mary Pester –
        Thank you for all your wonderful, insightful posts, with many full of hilarious British zingers. Really appreciate the effort while you’re struggling with your own illness.
        Please take good care of yourself 🌹🌹🌹

      • Allyn says:

        Jaded, there’s a simple option — William could convert to Catholicism and remove himself out of the line of succession. Even the revision a decade ago to allow a first-born female to succeed before a male heir didn’t remove the bar to Catholics.

      • Saucy&Sassy says:

        Mary Pester, a FORMER royal aide, huh. So, is KFC going to combine the press offices into one? He should have done that when he became King, IMO. Or, I wonder if Wont got in over his head with a female royal aide. So many possibilities.

      • Jaded says:

        @Allyn – I was actually going to mention that! I don’t know if he’s ready to leave the line of succession unless he is ordered to because of some misdeed he doesn’t want revealed as @Mary Pester is alluding to.

      • Claire says:

        @Mary Pester – without giving up your source (I think you said a former royal aide?) could you give more detail on how the source got this information (are they still in contact with those at the palace?). Also, does your source know of what she knows is also common knowledge amongst the royal rota and/or even aristos? I’m shocked there have been zero leaks so far! Can your source confirm how seriously ill Kate is, and whether or not William was involved in whatever happened to her? In my mind a suicide attempt would still be problematic as he might be indirectly involved if his actions drove her to desperation, but if he actually laid hands on her that would be another story and it’s hard to see how he could ever be king. Can your source verify if it was one of those items?

  33. samipup says:

    1. So W is STILL talking about his very special extra keen Top Gun slippers to Tommy.
    2. I keep wondering about what these people call work. Lay wreathes, play act oyster farmers, collect flower bouquets? How much does a job collecting flowers pay an hour?

  34. BlueNailsBetty says:

    “ …his life partner who he’s been with since university has had major surgery.”

    Not his wife, not the love of his life, not any romantic endearment of any kind. Kate has been relegated to a life partner** who he has been with since university.

    The rota can’t even pretend William loves Kate.

    **There is nothing wrong with referring to your romantic partner as a life partner. But William has never publicly called Kate that phrase. In this context, the reporter is creating distance between William and Kate and diminishing their relationship by not calling Kate “his wife”. It diminishes the intimacy of their relationship.

    • JULIANNA says:

      @ BLUENAILSBETTY

      I completely agree..

    • Proud Mary says:

      Not only that, I thought they said it was a basic abdominal surgery. Now it’s “major surgery”? His refusal to work until she’s well could be viewed one of two ways: (1) that it’s major surgery and he’s concerned for her; or (2) she’s in a bad way because of something he did to her. Not that he’s concern for her sake, but for himself, should she not recover. The William we all saw at his last two outings is a man who appears extremely unwell, troubled even. Is it guilt? Fear? So keep calm and carry on doesn’t apply to William? Why?

    • Beverley says:

      ITA, BlueNailsBetty, it’s the first thing I noticed. The rota rats know the divorce will happen and they are prepping the public for the eventual announcement. Because Kate and William will always be parents, they are in fact “life partners”.

      Such an interesting turn of phrase.

  35. Over it says:

    I definitely don’t feel sorry for the Windsors or the British media or the palace people. They created this lazy ass monster. Now live with him .

  36. ChattyCath says:

    I recall some years ago a ‘fellow student at St Andrews who said he was controlling and abusive to Kate and said student doesn’t know how she endured this.

    • K says:

      I have seen pictures of William.roaring into Kates face over the years , Kate.with her head down like a naughty child …..DM had a piece about Kate and Will , when she was preg with Charlotte that they had not spoken in over a month and that she was living at home with Mummy …..sadly l.do think though that William is v unhappy and has led to rage and anger

  37. The Old Chick says:

    Literally I’m trying to work out their audience.. They’re Al opposite and toxic.. So weird

  38. BeanieBean says:

    ‘…just 17 months into the job’. Oh, stop it. Dude’s been a royal all his life, and even if we push off ‘doing the job’ until he finished university–heck, let’s be generous & say until he finished all his various military training–he’s been doing this princing stuff for the better part of 20 years. Way to prolong adolescence, royal journalists!

  39. square_bologna says:

    My guess about Kate’s real problem: Complications from either a suicide attempt, or a beating from William.

    • Saucy&Sassy says:

      Square_bologna, or she had complications from the surgery which resulted in another surgery or a stroke. We simply don’t have enough information to be able to come up with one specific scenario. It will come out, because it always does.

  40. Dylan says:

    Google “coercive control,” the new descriptor for domestic violence. It encompasses the mental degradation that accompanies intimate partner violence in addition to physical abuse. From everything I have read, William exactly meets criteria.

    • Mrs.Krabapple says:

      Screaming and throwing things at your spouse IS abuse. The tabloids tried to minimize it by saying all couples argue, and it’s just letting off steam, and they are closer afterwards than ever before, blah, blah . . . but never forget that what these two do (scream and throw things) IS technically abuse. That the royals stans try to normalize abuse, is despicable.

  41. QuiteContrary says:

    Until there’s some photographic evidence that Kate is OK, this speculation is going to continue. There are two possible reasons why that’s being withheld:

    — Kate is in no physical condition to be photographed.
    — Willy doesn’t want her to be photographed looking well enough for him to go back to “work.”

    Unfortunately for William, both of those things spell trouble for him.

  42. Libra says:

    William, it is ok if you do nothing except tell us where your wife is. She is the future Queen . We are waiting.

  43. BlueToile says:

    Whatever has happened with Kate (and Will) it is DARK. I cannot even begin to think about another generation of Wales kids growing up without a mother. I sincerely hope the UK will not be confronted with that. I also worry that whatever happened will somehow be blamed on the Sussexes. We have seen Kate treat Meg rudely in public, even IN CHURCHES, on multiple occasions, the Sussexes have been gone 4 years, but the harassment just won’t stop.

  44. Janice Hill says:

    It’s true. William can’t win. But that’s because, if you never try, you’ll never win.

  45. 411fromdownunder says:

    No doubt something huge happened. I suspect he’s def in rehab home rehab getting cleaned up. Why? Because something life altering happened to Catherine, the palace was like, oh f, this is messy, quick, get him sorted before going public. She had surgery and stroked out, or had an aneurysm… she could have picked up one of those superbugs and had limbs amputated… esp as they keep chatting about recovery and long term.

    • Esquire says:

      I truly hope it isn’t that catastrophic, I wouldn’t wish that on anyone. My best guess is it’s related to her ED.

    • Liz says:

      It’s all so odd. William being ‘bewildered’ by her illness – wouldn’t he be aware of any issues….

      And if they thought they’d get sympathy it’s backfired. They’re very untrustworthy.

      Maybe Kate was triggered by the thought of divorce and thought retreating would show what an asset she is. When all it’s shown is the opposite.

  46. Ohwell says:

    Pippa is on a sunny vacation while her sister is “allegedly “ in a coma?!?!

    The speculation is over the top but I suppose it keeps her name in everyone’s mouth.

    Lazy Billy will use the opportunity to take an extended vacay and drum up sympathy.

  47. MarqueeMoon says:

    I really hope it’s none of the scenarios above and Kate is ok.

    Knowing how important appearances are to the royal family, could it just be a princess Charlene situation where she has had plastic surgery of some type on her face and is waiting for that to “settle” before having Public pictures taken of herself.

    She knows how much media attention would be on her when she comes back into public view, so would want to have settled as much as possible before she is photographed
    She also seems to be pretty obsessed with how she looks hiring her own photographer to Retouch her pictures, and will see the comments about how haggard she looks (as much as, I’m not a fan of her I think these comments are cruel)
    Re-Williams behaviour, knowing that his dad has cancer, maybe what is causing his behaviour as he freaks out, thinking that he could possibly have to take all of this responsibility as king, given how long the monarch has worked in the past, it’s almost like a life sentence

    • Claire says:

      Highly doubt this is a plastic surgery scenario – the time they are saying she needs off is way beyond that timeframe and there are other times of year like over the summer when they usually take long breaks where she would likely schedule plastic surgery. Also, princess Charlene had some sort of mental breakdown, I don’t believe she disappeared for almost a year for plastic surgery reasons.

    • sevenblue says:

      On Endgame, Omid said his sources from KP were very careful with Kate and they understood how fragile her situation is, that’s why they wouldn’t push her too much. Looking at the long recovery time, I suspect there is a mental health component in this even if the abdominal surgery is not an outright lie. Kardashians changed almost every place on their bodies, even they don’t stay out of the public view this long. If it was just a PS, I am sure there would be better ways to handle this, like doing it during summer holidays as @Claire said.

    • Jaded says:

      Charlene was legitimately ill while she was in S. Africa — she was thin, wan and drained looking, and had several surgeries for a serious ENT infection. She may also have been experiencing some mental/emotional issues, we just don’t know, but to blame Kate’s disappearance on a facelift is preposterous. There are simply too many compounding mysteries like William and the whole Middleton clan vanishing and the press taking a completely hands-off attitude towards the issue.

      • Claire says:

        Yes jaded, I do believe the Monaco palace initial cover story that there were ent issues and surgeries involved for princess Charlene but it seems clear after the fact that there was more going on than just ENT issues keeping her from returning back to Monaco for so many months – once she returned to Monaco the palace basically admitted as such and alluded to mental health issues when they announced that she would need extra time off from public duties after returning to Monaco and I believe they even said that she was going to go for additional treatment, again alluding to mental health issues and asked for privacy. So they did eventually come a little bit clean that it wasn’t only the ENT issues that were going on the whole time.

  48. Thena says:

    I saw a comment from a deranger today about how difficult it must be on William having “so much on his shoulders at such a young age” between the King’s cancer diagnosis and Kate’s issues. I wanted to scream, “He’s 42! Elizabeth became queen at 25!”

  49. Kelly Kae says:

    @Mary Pester – what information did you write about that was removed? Dying to know.