Halle Berry is “controlling & vindictive” to Gabriel Aubry, say sources

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A few days ago, the news came out that Gabriel Aubry had filed court documents to be officially declared the father of Nahla, his daughter with Halle Berry. My guess is that since Halle and Gabriel weren’t married at any point, the custodial issues involving Nahla are a bit murkier than they would be with a standard post-divorce custodial arrangement. According to most legitimate sources, Gabriel filed the paperwork simply as a way to protect his legal rights as Nahla’s father, and to have access to Nahla through a formal, legal joint custody arrangement. Now Radar has a report about what is happening behind the scenes – and they picture they paint is not pretty. Lots of drama.

Don’t believe all those reports that everything is peachy between ex-couple Gabriel Aubry and Halle Berry — the reality is far from it. A source tells RadarOnline.com exclusively that Gabriel has been subjected to a number of nasty screaming fits by the Monsters Ball star, along with a number of angry meltdowns, and even believes that Halle has hired a private investigator to tail him.

The situation has gotten so bad that Gabriel felt “forced” to file a petition on December 30 for custody of their two-year-old daughter Nahla, to ensure his legal rights to visitation, something, the source says, the Canadian born model is anxious to establish.

“Basically whenever Gabriel doesn’t do exactly what Halle tells him to do, or if he does something she doesn’t approve of or like, she goes crazy on him, screaming and shouting,” the source says. “Contrary to public perception Halle has a particularly nasty temper, and she can be really controlling and vindictive. I’ve been with him when he’s gotten these insane calls from Halle — with her screaming at him and going crazy, when the poor guy hasn’t done anything!”

The source says the couple’s troubles really came to a head towards the end of last year when Gabriel started dating other women. He was photographed out in public on dates and a number of magazines ran stories about him dating and enjoying the single life.

“Halle was absolutely furious and had a complete melt-down. She basically gave him an ultimatum — to choose between dating other women and carrying on being on her good side. She was particularly angry that he had been so public, even going to a Lakers game one time, and she totally berated him, basically telling him that if he has to date, just date a nobody waitress that nobody will care about. Gabriel is one of the most laid-back, nicest guys that I know, but in the end he just got sick of being bossed around and told what to do by his ex-girlfriend.”

The source says that Gabriel is keen to legally establish his visitation and custody rights to ensure his future relationship with his daughter – and then move on with his life. But, although Gabriel has filed for legal custody he has no desire, or intention, to try to take Nahla away from her mother. In fact, despite his troubles with Halle he still maintains that she’s a good mother. He just wants to ensure he’s able to carry on being a good father.

“At the end of the day Gabriel’s just sick of being told who he can and can’t date by Halle, and he’s had enough of it,” the source says. “It’s like completely hypocritical as well as she has been dating Olivier Martinez since last summer. But when Gabriel brought that up to her he said that she insisted it was different and that her relationship with Olivier was purely for business purposes. The situation is completely crazy.”

And according to the source things could soon get even nastier — and crazier.

“Gabriel told me that he believes Halle is having him tailed by a private investigator, and trust me, he’s not just some paranoid dude with a wild imagination. He said he’s noticed a car following him a few times now and that he’s just got this weird feeling that he can’t shake of being watched. Judging by Halle’s past actions and threats it wouldn’t surprise me, if Gabriel doesn’t follow her rules she’s going to fight nasty. But, if she thinks a PI is going to dig up anything salacious or scandalous I think she’ll be sorely disappointed. Gabriel’s one of the straightest, nicest, bordering on boring guys I know.”

Meanwhile, you can expect Team Berry to go into PR overdrive when it comes to reports of troubles between the two, or of any bad behavior on the 44-year-old’s behalf.

Halle is very protective of her image and those around her have already gone to great lengths to say that everything is great between her and Gabriel, often twisting the truth to portray Halle in a better light. In fact, last year when RadarOnline.com exclusively reported that Gabriel had ended the couple’s five year relationship, a “source close to Halle” quickly fired back, claiming that SHE had in fact ended the romance months before it was announced, “kicking him out because he wasn’t able to pull his weight in the relationship” and that “she wanted to move on.”

But, the truth will out eventually, and the fact that Gabriel has felt the need to take legal action to establish his paternity rights certainly points to there being trouble in paradise.

[From Radar]

Okay, I cracked up a little with “her relationship with Olivier was purely for business purposes.” I believe Halle is being misquoted! I believe she said “My relationship with Olivier is all about my bidness.” Anyway, yeah – I’ll buy that Halle is a piece of work, and I’ll also buy that she wasn’t happy at all when Gabriel was hooking up with Kim Kardashian (no one was). I’ll even buy that Halle has a bad temper and that Halle and Gabriel probably still get into huge fights. But I dislike how this Radar report paints Gabriel as the innocent little victim to Halle’s path of destruction. It makes Gabriel “the source” seem really immature.

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  1. Sumodo1 says:

    Olivier Martinez is just arm-candy rebound “good-for-business” man meat. Well-done, I hope, Halle.

  2. Marjalane says:

    Even though my lust for Gabriel was temporarily flatlined by his dating of the Kardashiwhore, I believe every word of this story, and I don’t necessarily think Gabriel was the “source”. Halle Berry has always given off the nastiest bitch vibe, and I’m confident she’s just as manipulative as the story paints her. Did you see her bitchface when Portman won the Golden Globe? heh.

  3. Lola7 says:

    I really dislike this woman.

    • lorjon says:

      I agree. And she is looking very hard these days. It’s not a question of aging. Her negative nature is showing through.

  4. mel says:

    She hasnt been photographed with Olivier lately. Maybe he realizes she’s a controlling-trainwreck too.

  5. RHONYC says:

    she’s crazier than a bedbug. 🙁

  6. brin says:

    They need to grow up and put their child first.

  7. tiki says:

    i’ve never been a fan of berry. she presents as sweetness and light, but her track record of relationships paints a dark and troubled picture. hope the little girl is able to emerge relatively unscathed from the drama.

  8. ra says:

    Don’t worry, we believe her relationship with Olivier was purely for business purposes. Half of celeb’s relationships are for buisness purposes.

  9. lisa says:

    I don’t understand why he had to file a petition to establish he is the father. What happened to birth certificates. It is public knowledge that he is the father. I think it may be more about him having access. It seems like he is the one that has to travel to see her. He is a model so he does have shoots in other cities and even countries. Halle may not be willing to pack up and go where he is working and one could understand why he would have a problem with that. As if her career is more important. But breakups and such just makes things weird. There are many divorced celebs with kids and they seem to make child sharing work.

    Halle has been traveling a lot to see or be with Olivier, who has the child when she is with him.

    just curious.

    @mel.. I thought I read she and he were together after the Golden Globes

  10. Mia says:

    I’ve always been on Halle’s side in things, but for some reason, something seems off about her. People have said she’s just really happy & dickified with Olivier, but I think there’s an underlying hardness to her right now.

    She’s also being hypocritical as hell about who Gabriel dates. She shouldn’t care unless the person is a bad influence on Nahla. Kim K doesn’t count because I never thought that went beyond a few dates.

    Whatever is going on with them, they need to nip it in the bud.

  11. nycmom10024 says:

    or as most wise single mom’s know, you leave the “Father” portion of the birth certificate blank for many reason, unless you plan to petition for child support.

    So his petitioning to have his name added now is to protect his rights as the father. Which shows he may not be as smart as he is beautiful.

  12. KLO says:

    I totally believe this story. My mother acts like that sometimes.
    She and Halle are both the type to play the sweet-faced little martyr in public and really be the one who’s emotionally/verbally abusive to her spouse in private.
    I’ve seen it happen and I know how it works.

  13. hstl1 says:

    “Basically whenever Gabriel doesn’t do exactly what Halle tells him to do, or if he does something she doesn’t approve of or like, she goes crazy on him, screaming and shouting,” the source says. “Contrary to public perception Halle has a particularly nasty temper, and she can be really controlling and vindictive. I’ve been with him when he’s gotten these insane calls from Halle — with her screaming at him and going crazy, when the poor guy hasn’t done anything!”

    WOW, sounds like my unmedicated bipolar sister….

  14. nycmom10024 says:

    @Lisa If he is petiioning now, he was probably not listed on the birth certificate. If you make a plan to be a Single Mother, and you are using a sperm donor known or unknown or adopt you leave the Father segmant blank. The reason is to establish sole parenting rights. If you list a father on the birth certificate, you need the “father’s” permission to travel and/or make life decisions.

  15. Scarlet Vixen says:

    @Lisa: It’s probably more about a formal custody and visitation agreement. My ex had a son from a previous relationship and they never had a formal visitation agreement–it was just verbal. So, if his ex ever decided she didn’t want C to see his son she could do so. If Gabriel has a court decided parenting plan Halle can’t say, “Well, I’m busy so you can’t see Nahla this weekend” or something.

  16. nycmom10024 says:

    @Marjalane Maybe she just couldn’t believe Portman won for that role. I give bithchface, rolled my eyes and called the those who voted for complete idiots. You would have thought I was nuts if you were in my living room. I truly thought the movie was awful, like Showgirls and Whatever Happened to Babyjane – campy and awful. Where were the GG for Gina Gershon, Elizabeth Berkley, Bette Davis and Joan Crawford for those respective movies? lol

  17. Hautie says:

    I will say it again, Halle is what we call a cracked pot here in the South.

    Though the pot might completely be normal looking, upon closer inspection you will see its cracks. And Halle is a big ole cracked pot.

    Recall her telling about her suicide attempts in the late 1990’s? She is not a real stable girl. Lots of highs and lots of lows.

    But there are alot of people who are the same way… so I am not judgy about it.

    But I completely agree she never put Aubry’s name on the birth certificate. And never intended to.

    So he has no legal rights to the daughter. And Aubry is now filing papers that will force a DNA test to establish Nahla as his biological child. So good for him.

    Though I suspect Halle is not pleased about it, at all.

  18. *-* says:

    I happen to know a person very close to her (work-related, for a long time) and she is one of the meanest, most unstable b***s out there.
    But ppl will always have hard time believing it because of her looks.
    I pity this guy..

    • lorjon says:

      That’s not hard to believe at all. Gabriel is from my home town and he hasn’t got a hope in hell dealing with her and her lawyers and friends/”witnesses” who get paid big bucks to do her bidding.

  19. dread pirate cuervo says:

    I believe it. She’s used to doing the dumping b/c of beating or cheating & can’t handle that he left HER. My fiance’s ex is the same way. She’s bitter that he moved on (even though she was he one who left him) & treats their kids like her property. Both these women are sowing seeds they will not be happy to reap in the future. The kids might not call you on your shit b/c you’re ‘mommy’, but that doesn’t mean they don’t see it.

  20. lisa says:

    thanks for that info regarding his name on the certificate.

    Just shows to me he was an idiot. Most men in everyday life who want to be a parent are not going to let a woman not list them as the father of their child. What if something had happened to Halle.. where would he be. oh wait.. right where he is now.

    But if memory serves..and it falters some times.. but didn’t he film some legal papers not long after they broke up.

    I guess pretty does not equal smart.

  21. Lemuria says:

    It is sad, but a widely reported knowledge that Halle has mental and emotional problems. Totally bi-polar. Brilliant actress. Too many failed relationships. And now this one – her baby daddy bails. I hope she takes some time off and gets help somewhere. I hope she finds balance and ultimately a good man to enjoy her life with, someone who can handle her with humor and love and kindness.

  22. devilgirl says:

    I am also a believer of this story. While she may be beautiful, she has always struck me as a clingy, desperado, who will do anything to torture a man if she doesn’t get her way.

    IMO, she is also an overrated actress.

  23. KJ says:

    I think Radar, like some other tabs recently, have just taken innocuous details to spin them. But I’ll definitely buy that Halle’s nuts. There was a point in time when everyone was shocked that Halle couldn’t keep a man. Why do these men keep hurting her? Then it came out that she’s kind of fucking nuts.

    You never hear a bad word about Gabriel Aubry, which is actually kind of refreshing. Someone that good looking who is nice and “bordering on boring,” because he’s that down to earth.

  24. tapioca says:

    “IMO, she is also an overrated actress.”

    Actress?! Another Gothika or Catwoman and the Academy will be asking for their Oscar back!

  25. David says:

    She is scary

  26. Ari says:

    She sucked him in and spit him out – thankfully he left her before she could eat him :L

  27. l says:

    @ lisa

    I don’t think its a matter of him being an “idiot”, if they were not married he has ZERO say about what goes on with the birth certificate. The MOTHER fills it out.

  28. Tess says:

    Halle Berry had her moment. But she’s blowing it. I think the way she presents herself, now, as a sex object, reveals alot about her inner life.

    She came onto the scene as a sort of goddess, but she apparently wasn’t comfortable as a goddess. So, she found her comfort zone and as she demeans herself, she sells herself short.

    Well, as Marlon Brando (sort of) lamented: she could have been a contendah.

  29. REALIST says:

    This is a no brainer in Washington State. A Parenting Plan (visitation arrangement) that covers school days, vacations, summer, holidays, etc., is filed with the court once the parents (married or not) agree to the terms (not always easy) and all is done. Also, the child support is actually more like expenses shared by the parents proportionately based on their incomes and other (sometimes perplexing) variables.
    I’m sure there is a similar set up in CA for unmarried parents. So this is really nothing radical except it sounds like it would have been wise for ex BF to take care of this sooner. Sounds like Halle is used to having things with the child the way they are currently, AND she is used to having her way anyway.
    I am divorced with two (wonderful!) boys, and the Seattle court system requires all “applicants” for divorce to take a parenting class. My takeaway from the class: two major factors that screw up divorced kids: one parent keeping them away from the other, and/or one parent essentially trash talking the other. Sounds like Halle isn’t such a great mom after all.

    The telling him date nobodies thing-very warped, too. A little image conscious are we?

  30. WTF says:

    These comments are kind of unbelievable to me. What evidence do we have of this? An unnamed source? Halle’s ‘bitchface’ at an awards show? Come on people. I also find it entertaining to speculate about celebrities personal lives, but this just seems like character assasination. They had a relationship, it didn’t work out, now they are trying to co-parent. It can’t be easy, but this story just sounds like B.S. to me.

  31. Dannnii says:

    I dunno…..I mean, yeah, he does seem WAY more grounded than her, but is she a dramab^tch?

  32. OXA says:

    Team Gabe all the way baby cuz I have heard she is a beautiful,charming whack-job who discards people like trash. Just look at that poor India the kid she was raising with Eric Benet>

    Here is a link to a story where he comments on her claiming to love his daughter but hadnt contacted in years
    http://www.starpulse.com/news/index.php/2006/06/27/eric_benet_lashes_out_at_ex_wife_halle_b

  33. ReallyRosie says:

    “just date a nobody waitress that nobody will care about.” Are you kidding me? F-You, Halle! I believe she said this. I have read about how she treats people that are “beneath” her before.

  34. meilamon says:

    Just wanted to jump in here. Even if his name is on the birth certificate, paternity has to be established because they are unmarried. A woman could put any name she wanted on a birth cert, or not, if she is unmarried. My husband and I were young when we had our first child, and things got bumpy early on. We weren’t married, his name was on the birth certificate, but when we went to establish visitation rights, they had to establish paternity. That can be done either through a paternity test, or verbalization to a judge by the man that he indeed is the father.

  35. nycmom10024 says:

    @meliamom Was this more than twelve years go? I think all states now require a paternity affidavit if the mom is unmarried at the time of birth of the infant. Otherwise moms would be able to declare anyone the father of their infants. I live in NY State and you cannot list a father if you are unmarried at the time of birth without the filing a paternity affidavit. I know this also exist in many other states if not all for at least the past twelve years.

  36. snarky_pup says:

    His dating Kim “gigantisaurass” really lowered my opinion of him. I believe someone here said that it must have been like going from caviar to fishsticks!
    I don’t know about this guy. Who was he prior to dating Halle? No one. A very good looking guy but still basically a nobody (the fashion industry does not carry the same celeb status for models that it once did).
    She may be vindictive and controlling but he is a famewhore and a social climber (as evidenced by the Kim K dates). I hope that they can put the differences aside for Nahla’s sake.

  37. Glyrics says:

    And we believe this BS why? I’d hate to think that one of the most beloved and respected actresses of our time can draw all this venom with one bit of gossip. That could be BS.

    Also, maybe model boy is trying to prove he’s NOT the father to get out from under something else. He seems like such a wimp.

  38. DGO says:

    I haven’t been able to stand her since she lied about adopting India, then became all “India who?” after she birthed Nahla. Gabriel appears to be the better, more stable parent. Sure hope Nahla hasn’t inherited Halle’s crazy gene.

  39. Gypsy says:

    Let see now, this guy is running around whispering horrible things about the mother of his child, all because he wants to extort money from her, very classy, very classy indeed.

    We all know the shelf life of a model is short and erratic, but if you need money go get a security guard job K-Fed!.

  40. Canuck says:

    Good for him. Regardless of whether or not she’s a nasty bitch, that’s his child and he should have the ability to interact with his child. Plus as someone above posted, it would prevent her from taking their daughter out of the country without his permission.

  41. lisa says:

    @l

    I said idiot because I think men need to be a lot smarter. They don’t get to decide if they are going to be a father. Don’t attack me. Women have that final say. Women choose if he will or will not depending on if SHE decides to have the child. If she does he has to support the child. If she does not then the man has no say. I think men with children out of wedlock need to start trying to change this system and get more rights to their children. Children have 2 parents. And if they are lucky to have a father that wants to be a father. Well it pisses me off when women deny those men their rights, especially when there are other men that walk away and never look back.

    Didn’t really care about them as a couple. Halle became a bit skanky. I knew this relationship was over the minute she let Jamie Fox stick his tongue down her throat and grab her butt at that awards show. It showed such disrespect for Gabe. I said it at the time he was walking after that display. FACT some men would have gone all kinds of batshit on her ass for doing that on TV in front of all those people. The fact that he didn’t says a lot. I lost the respect I had for her then and there. Just showed a side to her that she was hiding. A classy woman would not have done that EVER. but if he wants to be in his child’s life and Halle is not helping well shit on her and she will one day regret it when that baby wants her father. And their daughter from pictures seems very attached to daddy, as he does with her.

  42. Gypsy says:

    Why are you folks so invested in hating this woman?
    Is hate all that we have to offer to society these days?
    Remember hate tends to rebound on the hater 🙂

  43. JO says:

    Can’t stand her and haven’t been able too for years.. Going on Oprah with no bra and her nipples showing claiming Dave Justice victim story.. She is a basket case.. dated someone “john singleton” who left her deaf in one ear.. really bugs and… she is not that great of an actress. j

  44. DGO says:

    @ Gypsy – I hardly think he wants Halle’s money. He’s wealthy in his own right. Although some of you may not know who he is, he’s one of the top male models of the world and quite well off. He also could have pulled a hotter, younger woman than Halle any time. That’s why so many of us were puzzled that he took up with her in the first place.

  45. sapphire says:

    I’m going to guess this is less about the birth certificate and more about haveing an official determination of paternity via DNA testing. Trumps affidavits and certificates. Very useful if anything crops up in the future where he would need to establish his standing before asking for emergency relief.

    I admit I am biased. She is gorgeous, but snarky. And he is incredibly hot. Even if he banged the Sex Tape Queen.

  46. JenJen says:

    The ‘source’ sounds to me like jealous,desperate woman willing to do anything to help make this guy’s ex look bad and make a buck. Maybe Halle was a screaming terror and controlling but this only adds fuel to the fire. Nice friends/sources this gold-digger has. He is filing for joint custody/CHILD SUPPORT $$$

  47. mln76 says:

    Ok In Halle’s defense if my ex started dating a woman who has her own reality show I’d be making ultimatums too. I would shank any Kardashian who came with one of their camera crews within a mile of my kid. That being said I do think that Gabriel is of a higher caliber then the men Halle was with in the past and she should make an effort to at least be respectful of him.

    I hate all the idiots who think that domestic violence is a woman’s fault if a man beats you that man is sick in the head. And he should be called out. I think it’s great she talked about what she went through.

  48. l says:

    @ lisa

    Ummm….Just reread MY post, and not sure how I “attacked” you, but okay, I’ll apologize. Sorry. 🙂

    and I agree- men definately need to be smarter.

  49. Gypsy says:

    @mln –
    Have you ever had a man with no future career plans and his idea of early retirement is your money?

    Halle was very stupid, she had her pick of wealthy powerful men and she chose someone with no money and a limited career future, and now he is unable to ween himself from Halle’s money. He’s the new K-Fed.

  50. KJ says:

    @Gypsy – sorry but Gabriel Aubry isn’t some no name model who waits tables on the side. Many may not have known who he was before Halle but the fashion industry certainly does. He’s been one of the most in demand and highest paid male models IN THE WORLD, so please – don’t call him K-Fed. He had a very stable professional life before Halle and he’ll continue to have one after. The model shelf life may be short, but you can earn a lot of money when you’re as popular as he is. I can guarantee you he’s got enough money saved to last him two lifetimes. (Besides, there was nothing mentioned about him wanting money so that part of your comment was just a big WTF? They’re just establishing parental rights/custody. No mention of money, alimony, child support payments anywhere. Reading is fundamental.)

  51. MJ says:

    I like the cracked pot analogy. I see that in her, too.

    She seems completely narcissistic. Working so hard on your looks only leaves so much time in the day to nurture your inner beauty.

    And, I can never forget that this is a woman who committed a hit-and-run in her car (was it once or twice). . . not a sign of a person who cares for others.

  52. irishserra says:

    I buy it. Wasn’t she psycho to Jeter at one point, too?

  53. rispah says:

    Lisa, yes, I remember her disrespecting Gabe by feeling up on Jamie Foxx’s private parts, and kissing Jamie in front of a room full of her peers at that award show. Gabe was sitting right there. Indeed Skanky behaviour. I lost all respect for her that day.

  54. Jeff R says:

    I know a number of people in the Industry – models, agents and bookers (including those at competing agencies), photographers,stylists, et.al., and everyone has wonderful things to say about Gabriel. He’s considered “one of the nicest,” “most down to earth,””sweetest,” “most professional” guys in modeling. The only other model whose reputation comes close to Gabriel’s is Andres Velencoso Segura. Nuff said.

    Sources in LA have told me for years that Halle Berry is “high maintenance” and “difficult” at best albeit very beautiful and talented.

    Team Gabriel. Best, JeffR

  55. mln76 says:

    @Gypsy GB is successful in his field and makes a decent amount of money if not as much as her. But whether or not he does that’s besides the point he is her Babies’ father and they are going to have to be cordial whatever went down between them on a personal level, if she has some problems about the relationship she should take those issues to a therapist and not use Nahlia as a bargaining tool. And no he is not the new K-Fed that Natalies’ man.

  56. Alex says:

    Wow. Why all the hate? Funny how I’ve never heard anything but nice stories about her for years but a couple of (likely BS) b*tchy stories come out and everyone is ready to gun for her.

    I wonder how many of us would be all sweetness and light when figuring out custody details for our kids…

  57. Justaposter says:

    This story does not surprise me at all. We all know Hallie is a wee bit off. A cracked pot indeed.

  58. MYMY says:

    being a victim of an emotionally abusive narcissist does not make one immature. It makes one a victim.I believe he broke up with her. And I believe she only lets him see his daughter because it would look bad if she didn’t. That being said I so believe she try’s to still control him. Good move on his part. And even if your name is on the birth certificate you have to establish paternity in the courts. It is the law.He was way to good for her.

  59. Mshuffleupagus says:

    Dude, he’s a male model. They’re like low functioning toddlers. If Halle Berry wasn’t there to tell him to sleep on his side he would’ve choked on his own spittle years ago.

    Sidenote: I thought hot girls got to be demanding. No?

  60. devilgirl says:

    @Gypsy- Aren’t you doing the same “hating” on Aubrey? Do you know for a fact he is “whispering” about his ex? You seem invested in hating on him.

    Just sayin’.

  61. Whatever says:

    “She basically gave him an ultimatum — to choose between dating other women and carrying on being on her good side”

    This is a total bitch move on her part. Once you dump him, you have NO say in who he dates. She wanted to move on to greener dick, yet she wants to tell him not to date or dictate who he dates. She really is full of herself!

    As for filing in court, he probably wants to establish his rights and visitation in court, so she can’t get vindictive and make changes on a whim. She seems like the type.

  62. bluhare says:

    @Gypsy: So a man who uses your money for his retirement is bad? What about women who marry men and use THEIR money for retirement? What a double standard.

    Bottom line is he is that little girl’s dad and should be treated as such. If Halle Berry is telling him tough shit and taking the kid whether its her time or not, or whatever, then he should exert his rights, and Halle should take the frickin’ high road, get an agreement signed, and abide by it.

  63. Gypsy says:

    @bluhare

    That K-Fed is trying to use his sperm to get at Halle’s money, there was a time when men had dignity and honor, now they are just leeches.
    He needs to go get him a security guard job and contribute to his daughter’s welfare.

    I don’t hear Halle sneaking around creating rumors about him, actually she’s trying to build a new life without him – He needs to move on.

  64. Gypsy says:

    @devilgirl –
    I’m not hating on K-Fed, just trying to bring balance and sanity to the Halle hate-fest.
    Halle has apparently moved on and he seems stuck, and then we have people writing how much they hate her/despise her/how evil she is all on the basis of rumor, to me that a striking indicator of the lack good American values.

  65. ! says:

    Frankly, if my ex started dragging my kid around that trashy Kardashian family, I’d be embarrassed as hell and would probably have a similar reaction.

  66. sassenach says:

    Whatever. I knoew that these comments would be a big ass Halle hate fest. Always blame the women if she’s beautiful. It is obvious that Gabriel put someone up to this but every one will swallow it likes it’s gospel because it’s fun to hate Halle. BTW I seriously doubt she is calling Gabriel and screaming at him all of the time. When does she have time for it? When she is not with her daughter it seems she is being bedded by Olivier so I doubt she cares about Gabriel and what he is doing.

  67. Gypsy says:

    After seeing all the Aubry/K-Fed defenders I am thing that one of you is either Aubrey himself or someone hired by him to troll the boards and defend his K-Fed honor.
    I am not attacking Aubrey, I just think he needs to not use the press to negotiate with the mother of his child, it lacks honor/dignity/manliness.

  68. lila says:

    Jajaja, she left Aubry because he was not good enough and then she goes and mates to Martinez. Very good woman; you surely upgraded with this one, in the douche-bag department that is!

  69. Greyhound Gal says:

    I’ve never liked Halle Berry after reading about her hit-and-run accident several years ago where she left the scene, leaving the other driver trapped in the car. I believe Berry was sued by the other driver and they settled out of court.

  70. DGO says:

    For the record, Gabriel dumped Halle, and he doesn’t need to get a “security guard job” because he’s a mutli-millionaire model. Sounds like Halle’s camp is doing their best to smear a highly successful man because he had the audacity to break up with her crazy ass.

  71. Kim says:

    She has ALWAYS been a major bitch. I dont see a sweet public personna at all! She comes across bitchy with an ego in all her interviews so i dont know why this is a suprise to anyone.

    You know he only went on date with Kim K to piss Halle off which cracks me up because Kim K is so dumb i think she thought he actually liked her & you know it pissed Halle off royally.

  72. bluhare says:

    @Gypsy: You aren’t attacking Aubry (learn to spell his name) when you tell us he should get a security guard job and support his child?

    I’d hate to see what you do consider an attack. And as to him using his sperm to take all Halle’s money (as you imply), I believe she’s been on the record for a while talking about how much she wanted a child so you can’t play that card.

  73. Gypsy says:

    @bluhare – Once paternity is established Halle needs to take him to court and force him to pay child support, because each parent needs to contribute to the welfare of their child.

    Halle is such a stupid girl she always choose the douc*bags of the world to get with, but she really dodged a bullet by not marrying this guy, can you imagine the damage he’d have done to her bank account.

  74. Gypsy says:

    @bluhare – In honor of how manly I find him, I will now call him by his new name Audrey

  75. Lem says:

    omygoodness
    the comments

  76. Rachel says:

    Kaiser, love your site, usually I agree with your take on things. I think you’re wrong here.

    Halle obviously has serious mental health issues, look at what’s come out, imagine what hasn’t. Most people don’t really recognize that kind of crazy till it’s too late. She is obviously mentally unbalanced and most people don’t know how to deal with that so they try to ignore it.

    I think he’s a laid back guy, who is trying to do the best he can, after all that is the mother of his child. I feel bad for him.

    Halle has needed help for a long time, long before Gabriel came on the scene – I hope she gets it.

  77. Rachel says:

    @ WTF: Are you kidding clearly you don’t read/remember. Halle’s craziness is well documented, driving down the highway all cracked out, leaving the scene of accident, always being the victim. She is the common link.

  78. The Truth Fairy says:

    I believe EVERY SINGLE WORD.

  79. devilgirl says:

    LOL@Gypsy, thinking those that see Berry for the clingy, mental wreck that she is, are Gabriel himself or paid by him! AHAHAHAHAHAHA! Well, alrighty then, I guess my check should be arriving from “Gabe” soon.

    PUH-LEEZE! It’s a gossip blog, PEOPLE HAVE DIFFERING OPINIONS, and they do not have to be paid for.

  80. Aries_Mira says:

    I remember seeing pictures of Nahla with her mom and dad, both prior to the their split and after. It’s clear Halle and Gabriel deeply love her.

    I think it is a smart move by Gabriel to “file the paperwork simply as a way to protect his legal rights as Nahla’s father, and to have access to Nahla through a formal, legal joint custody arrangement.” He is her father, and he has just as much say in her well-being as Halle does. I just wish that they would think more of their daughter before airing all their dirty laundry out where everyone can see it.

  81. van says:

    So believe this one. If you read previous quotes from Halle herself, and guys that she has been with it is very, very clear that she is very damaged on the inside. I have always felt she has gotten lots of passes because she is so beautiful and people don’t want to believe anything negative about her. Also always felt her PR people work overtime to keep her on this “Goddess Pedistal”. There have been one too many negative stories about her previous relationships and they can’t all be the “men’s fault”.

  82. HotPockets says:

    Didn’t Miss Berry hit someone with her car and then left while unloading on paparazzi as she drove away?

  83. TG says:

    I always thought Halle picked Gabriel for his genes and maybe that he was willing. He is a fine specimen of a man. I never thought there weas much to their relationship.

  84. rett23 says:

    He’s such a bottom-feeder

  85. Camille says:

    Marjalane, van, Kim and Greyhound Gal: ITA.

    I buy this story. I think Halle is as crazy as they come. She has issues and I wouldn’t put it past her to be super controlling etc.

    Not a fan of either of these two btw.

  86. shofar says:

    THIS IS SUCH HORSE SHIT. Halle is a terrrifc person in so many ways – this guy is a fucking nut. Why would he need to go with a public statement to defend his court activities of December. He doesnt care about his daughter – he cares about his tragic public personna. Bottom line he is trying to hide being gay and wants to make sure that people are distracted with his “good dad image”. he a total failure and a sad person – obvioulsy why Halle booted him to begin with.

  87. candy says:

    Halle has crazy eyes which tells me she’s nutso. Maybe bi-polar or manic depressive. She needs to take her meds.

    The paperwork is a formality since they were never married.

  88. kelly says:

    Ive always gotten a clenched, controlling vibe from HB, something about the tightness of the fake smile and the lack of sense of humour about herself. Wouldn’t want to be her ex. That’s not hate because she’s ‘beautiful’- she doesn’t really spin my wheels physically; that’s just an observation about her behaviour, so you all can get off your randomly-assumed high horses.

    My assumption is that they’re both vain and highly invested in themselves and don’t appreciate having to answer to anyone personally. Duh.

  89. Kiska says:

    She seems like such a troubled soul. Gabriel was merely a sperm donor for her.

  90. TrudieT says:

    I have very little respect for a “man” who takes his family business to the streets.

    Halle did her usual stupid thing whenever she chooses a mate, she gets these losers.
    This guy Gabriel is going to be her personal leech for the rest of her life – Stupid Halle.

  91. Dea says:

    Hally recently accepted herself that abuse at her home in the childhood left her with many issues especially dealing with men. So I really don’t quite blame her if she behaves a little bit crazy sometimes in her relationships. She does not want to marry again she has made it so clear. Maybe Gabriel is a marriage material guy and then arguments might have started. Also to not forget that she was cheated in every relationship with the exception of Gabriel and she has trusting issues which might have led to arguments with Gabriel for no reason at all. And this guy is hot that any woman would feel threatened being with him.

  92. jo says:

    I never meant that it was her fault that she was at fault when Wesley snipes boxes her ears.. I just mean she has been quoted continually about how she had no self esteem etc.. telling Oprah she was going to kill herself… she also dated Eddie Murphy, and Shemar Moore who is the female version of her a complete Ass.. I worked on a soap with him jerk, jerk.. She is a huge Crazy..

  93. Lila says:

    This story is complete bs. And he IS a nobody. Who knew he existed before she did? And some of the comments on here are as crazy as you’d like to believe she is. You say she’s known for dating crazy low lives, but in the same sentence some of you profess the perfection of some random dude cause he real, real purdy? Please. You chicks are just crushing on this dude and you’ll look past anything negative.

  94. Mouse says:

    Yeah well, she’s always come across as a “particularly nasty” person. She always sounds unstable and so self involved.

  95. Aries_Mira says:

    @ Lila (#93) – Just because you haven’t heard of him before his relationship with Halle doesn’t mean he’s a ‘nobody’:

    “He appeared in a Macy’s commercial in early 2008 as part of an exclusivity with Calvin Klein alongside Mariah Carey, Martha Stewart, Donald Trump and Carlos Santana. He was the only male model to ever appear on the cover of L’Uomo Vogue while appearing in four different designers’ campaigns at the same time, in the same magazine. As well as Aubry’s many achievements, the number-one source website for the top models in the fashion industry declared Aubry the 2nd “Male Model Icon of All-time.” Aubry is also frequently listed on People Magazine’s ‘Most Beautiful People’ List.”

    (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gabriel_Aubry)

    Are you going to rag on Matt Damon’s wife too because she was a ‘nobody’ that you hadn’t heard of until they got together?

    You don’t like Gabriel – fine, that’s how you feel and you’re entitled to it. But to insinuate that every relationship in Hollywood has to be with someone who is a ‘some body’; a reality TV star, a model, an actor/actress, a musician, etc. that every body on the globe knows about is ridiculous.

  96. d says:

    One of the first bits of online gossip i read about 10 years ago – some little html text-based site, can’t remember, one of the first, early ones – was about Berry and about how nasty and controlling she was. something about a wacked-out dinner party. I mean, who knows the truth…but meh, I’m inclined to be on Aubry’s side. I think he’s just doing normal paperwork.

  97. Jacqueline says:

    In the first picture, it looks like she shaves lmao.

  98. crtb says:

    Obviously, the people on this thread who think that Aubry is/was a nobody are highly mistaken. He was and still is a very sucessful model who makes close to a million dollars a year.

    And if the tables were turned and Aurbry were female, And hallie male, we would all on his team.

    If he was a woman who had been kicked to the curb, was asking for child support, demanded custody, whose man took up with another partner as soon as the door hit her backside, we would all be screaming “You Go Girl!!!” So why all of the sexism? He deserves all of the same rights as a woman

  99. Naye in VA says:

    While i dont care for halle berry, i really think this is the medias doing.
    All of Halle’s very serious previous relationships were with Black maales who did her dirty in some shape or form. Easy target right?
    But in the case of Halle and Gabriels breakup, no clear easily defined target for the media to blame

    so the go with the stereotypical angry black female. plain and simple

  100. Feebee says:

    The discussion about fathers on birth certs I find interesting. I can’t believe in this century where many people decide to become parents yet remain (happily) unmarried that it’s not a legal requirement for the father to be listed, unless you have a bloody good reason why you don’t know who he is and that’s a whole other story obviously (or in cases of rape or incest).

    Why should a child be subjected to the (perhaps crazy) whims of a mother who just may or may not decide to confirm their full parentage.

    Of course I don’t know what the case is with Halle Berry, it’s just a comment on the general situation.

  101. Aries_Mira says:

    Thank you crtb! Absolutely right!

  102. anon says:

    @Feebee I agree with you. Also wonder how it feels to have to present that birth certificate for the child (when it grows up); when you have to get a passport or enroll in school or something. Might be uncomfortable not to have both names on it.

  103. meilamon says:

    @nycmom- yes it was almost 13 years ago. We were in NY then too. Both of our names were on the birth certificate, but we still had to go through that process.
    Anyhow, we grew up, ironed out those wrinkles, and have been married 11 years and five children later.

  104. Su says:

    #102 not uncomfortable at all. Less problem actually. I’m able to travel out if the country without the permission of the guy that wants no responsibilities. The best thing in the world. Why would I want his permission to live our lives. If your not married, and you know the guy is a prick and your not asking for child support, that’s the best gift you can present to a child. Not having a prick involved telling you what you can or can’t do with a child you are solely responsible for.

    Get off your high horse!

  105. anon says:

    how it feels to have to present that birth certificate “for the child (when it grows up)”
    Only someone without the fathers name on the BC can answer that. I am not judging mothers, mothers do what they have to do; just sometimes when children grow up they have a different experience of the choices their moms made and maybe a different opinion that is what I was wondering.

  106. argirl says:

    Last Saturday she was at a work event of mine to promote her latest perfume. She made a funny comment about how men tell us we’re crazy. It was funny at the time and makes me believe this story more than I would have before that comment. She was very funny, smart, nice and of course beautiful. I like her. Don’t we all have unfortunate drama at times….especially when we really care?

  107. Guest II says:

    Even though I know neither one of them, I wholeheartedly believe this story. While I don’t think Gabriel is innocent (he should have known that Berry was off), I’ve always thought Berry to be selfish with her “come hell or high water” determination to have a baby. She didn’t want the relationship, just the kid, and now she is in that situation. Poor thing should have known that he was dispensable.
    I hope he gets what he is seeking.

  108. lrm says:

    god-she is so flipping beautiful-i am just speechless when i see her-she gets more beautiful as she gets older…
    it’s insane. and him-yes, it has been discussed that he may be more beautiful than she is…
    it’s astonishing, really.
    as for the parenting thing, i believe they will eventually iron out their coparenting differences….i’m sure halle, in the end, is happy for nahla to have a stable dad who adores her and supports her. i don’t doubt she chose a genetic father for her baby-but i bet she considered his persona, as well. not just a hot dude. but a hot dude who is a down to earth guy and wants to be a father. big differnce. i dont know either of them, but i have a feeling they will work this out.

  109. Meanchick says:

    Okay, let’s see. Halle has a history of men who hurt her,came from a bi-racial background filled with abuse, won the 1st ever lead-actress Oscar for an African-American woman, had the child she’s always wanted while trying to balance a career and motherhood in the spotlight where she is constantly judged and slandered, so if she IS controlling, good for her!

  110. chessieboo says:

    Gabe does seems like a very sweet person. I lost respect for Halle after the way she treated India. I don’t know why so many people are fascinated by Halle? She is not and never have been the most beautiful woman in Hollywood. She have knobby knees and ugly toes, get a closer look. Have any of you asked yourselves this question? What if Nahla isn’t Gabe’s. It doesn’t cross some of your minds that Nahla is to dark with none of Gabe’s features? 75% white with hair that curly, plzzzzz. That child looks more like Michael Ealy than anything. Black/latino children come out with Nahla’s features everyday. Somebody needs to tell Gabe, because a child have blonde hair, light eyes, light skin, doesn’t make her white,lol. Maybe he knows and that is the reason for paternity test.

  111. Elizabeth says:

    Su (#104) I get what you are saying. But what is it with women like you who spread their cellulite-dimpled thighs for every Tom, Dick and Harry who comes along, without using birth control, and then accuse the guy of being a “prick” as you say? What were you thinking? Or were you thinking? Do you even think? (That’s a rhetorical question, but you wouldn’t know what it means, because you’re more interested in indulging your every whim and carelessly getting knocked up by a guy you have no respect for than actually learning anything.)

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