Gerard Butler homewrecked some woman’s marriage & now he won’t return her calls

Gerard Butler is a HOMEWRECKER. Shout it from the rooftops. Create t-shirts to publicly pledge your allegiance to the wronged party. Slut-shame The Butler!!! According to Radar, Gerard Butler was sleeping with a married woman last year, and his Scottish dong was the reason why this lady filed for divorce. Scottish dong ruins everything (trust me), especially when the dong is being medicated with a steady stream of painkillers and coke (allegedly). This woman sounds kind of naïve, though. Pre-rehab, The Butler was friends with this lady AND her husband, and then Gerry seduced the woman and she was all, “I’m going to leave my husband for The Butler, because he is my soulmate.” And then she found out about how Gerry trolls for strange ALL THE TIME.

Before entering rehab last year, Gerard Butler was involved in a steamy relationship with a wanna-be actress/model that resulted in the end of her marriage, is exclusively reporting.

As previously reported, the Scottish actor recently completed a three week stint at the Betty Ford Center to deal with addiction issues. “Gerard has completed a successful course of treatment and has returned home in good health,” his rep said in a statement. “We will not be making any further comment at this time.”

The hunky actor became involved with the actress last year, and carried on an affair with her for several months. Butler was friends with the woman and her husband before becoming sexually involved with her.

“It was a very intense relationship. She had very strong feelings for Gerard, despite the fact that she was a newlywed at the time,” a source close to the situation tells “They would exchange heated text messages, emails and phone calls. She would drop anything to be with Gerard. The two would hook-up at his hotel when he was in Los Angeles.”

The woman’s husband eventually found out about the affair and threatened to divorce her but she begged for another chance.

“She told her husband she would end things with Gerard and he agreed to give her another chance,” the insider says. “However, the affair continued and she decided to file for divorce. She thought Gerard wanted to be in a relationship with her but then she found out he was involved with other girls, and hadn’t been exactly honest with her about what was going on in his life.”

According to our sources, “[The woman] began calling Gerard incessantly and he changed his cell phone number. She hasn’t been in touch with him since he decided to go to rehab. Gerard has obviously moved on but she is now going through a divorce and trying to support her son (from a previous relationship).”

Requests for comment to Gerard’s rep were not returned at time of publishing.

[From Radar]

Gerry “hadn’t been exactly honest with her about what was going on in his life.” Who needs honesty when you’ve got gossip blogs? Seriously, did this woman never check out all of the online information about Butler’s “conquests”? The man will hook up with anything and anyone. I used to think The Butler needed a girl with two legs and a pulse, but at this point, I’m even doubting that. God knows, he’s probably like Russell Brand and he has a thing for wheelchair and amputee pr0n. No judgment. Different strokes, etc. As for The Butler being a dirty homewrecker – sure. Call him out. But I’m guessing he doesn’t even remember this woman’s name. He wrecked a home, for sure. But at least he’s not pretending that she’s some great love. I don’t know if that’s better or worse, though.

Photos courtesy of WENN.

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  1. brin says:

    All she had to do was come on here and read about this dirty dog! He’s making it very difficult if not impossible to like, I’m turning off to his manwhore ways.

  2. Elizabeth says:

    Where’s the shock? She was naive and now unfortunately she has to pay for it. Too bad about her husband. Too bad for her – maybe she was just being young and stupid. But Butler isn’t the kind of guy who returns calls. I like his movies but its very clear he’s a manwhore.

  3. Astrid says:

    Poor thing must have been living under a rock to not know Gerard like we do!

    • Tapioca says:

      Well quite.

      “She thought Gerard wanted to be in a relationship with her”


      There’s “stupid” and then there’s “Gerard-Butler-is-my-soulmate-we’re-going-to-be-together-forever stupid”.

      I feel for the husband – if he was friends with GB that’s a line you do not cross. Bad Gerard!!

  4. Laura says:

    Kaiser, WTFFFFFF did you ever see in this guy??????

  5. C.Lynn says:

    I LOVE that first photo with Gerry giving a “WTF?” expression to his cell phone. Priceless!

  6. Amy says:

    Eeeyew. Just. Eeyew. And backs up my Art Museum Theory of Men. Which goes something like this: Yes, it does look spectacular on the wall of that gallery. But if you try to bring it home and hang it in your own house, it could well be a complete disaster. Best to just admire the hell out of it in the museum and go home happy that you got to see something beautiful.

  7. flan says:

    Women always get called out when homewrecking a marriage, so he deserves at least as much scorn.

    More since he was friends with the husband.

    • Kal says:

      Which in my opinion is unfair.

      She is the married one. She is the one who swore fidelity but cheated on her husband, and nobody forced her to do it.

      And it’s the same the other way around. If a man cheats on her wife it’s his fault and only his.

      • Kimbob says:

        I agree w/you. After all, this woman took vows, & “swore” to uphold them. The responsibility for this falls flat on her shoulders.

        Also revealing of her “character”….(I read the Radar Online article), that she’s asking for support from this husband even though they had a prenup, & have no children of their own, & (I believe?) married less than a year? She sounds like a star f*%#er, for sure.

        To think she’s now alone w/her kid from a previous marriage…and probably doesn’t have a steady income. How could she do this TO HER CHILD?! She sounds very selfish.

      • Miffits says:

        100% agree. The ‘homewrecker’ (male or female) actually hasn’t done anything wrong. It’s the spouse with the wandering genitals that has explaining to do.

      • d says:

        Yup. Agreed. She played with fire and got burnt. I mean, seriously, just married and has an affair? Her husband is well rid of her. And only a fool would think Butler’s worth ending a marriage for. That guy’s no where near ready to settle down and who knows if he ever will be. And that’s his business. He’s a douchebag for getting busy with a married woman, but it’s not like she couldn’t say no, and anyway, whatès that saying, how you got it is how itèll end up for you tooÉ

    • Zoe says:

      Sorry she’s dumb if she didn’t know it. I really don’t have sympathy when it involves stupidity. Even if she lived under a rock, her friends had to tell her. She’s in LA!!! Everyone gossips about everyone. He has a bad reputation in LA. Its why he needs to seek out girls not on the a, b, c, or d list. Any woman believing Gerry is relationship material is seriously delusional. He’s a very well known pumper and dumber.

    • Kara Ann says:

      They are both in the wrong.
      Her b/c she was married and him b/c he knew she was married.

  8. Agnes says:

    meh. she’s the one who wrecked her marriage by cheating. he’s just a manwhore she should have stayed away from.

  9. Esmom says:

    Sounds a little like Jessica Seinfeld’s tale (except for the kid part). Didn’t work out as well for the woman, though.

  10. Maritza says:

    With his rap sheet what woman would believe he wants to settle down with her? He only wants to fool around with any woman who comes along, he’s becoming a joke really…

  11. Blue says:


    She wrecked her own marriage because she thought she could become “Mrs.Butler”
    Serves her right.

  12. Jax says:

    Surely this MARRIED woman is the home wrecker – when she dropped her MARRIED knickers for the Scottish walking willy!

  13. NeNe says:

    I’m sorry, but I do not see the fascination with this guy. Am I alone here?

  14. blah says:

    Anyone who sleeps with this guy is asking for a raging case of scabie inflamed herpes. You may as well walk around screaming “Please infect me! I’m begging for it!”

  15. Cathy says:

    He’s a slut and chances are she knew it. But she’s no better cheating on two husbands. She has no reason to be complaining. I just feel bad for the kids.

  16. madpoe says:

    You bed the Butler, just get your shots and call it a day. j/k.

    I can’t recall where I heard the following from, but its cold: a woman needs a reason to (cheat/sex) and a man just needs a place.

  17. Lolaluvsu2 says:

    Had this woman been living under a rock? Did she not know who he was? Take it for what it was…fun. Nothing more.

  18. Hayley says:

    She wrecked her own marriage. I’m sure the words “no, I’m married” are in her vocabulary. She played with fire and got burned. Sucks to be her.

  19. Leikyn says:

    Takes two to tango. She wrecked her own marriage by sleeping with someone else. Methinks the “a wanna-be actress/model” tag had a lot to do with it.

  20. The Truth Fairy says:

    Sounds like she saw fame and fortune for her and her son and couldn’t think about anything else. The husband was just a casualty of this woman’s greed. “Wanna-be actress/model” says it all.

    Also, it’s pretty common for addicts (not just celebrities) to cut off contact with certain people when they come out of rehab. It’s about starting fresh and removing old influences and bad energy.

  21. aenflex says:

    Can’t wreck a home that’s not yours, I always say….

    • Jo 'Mama' Besser says:

      Yes, but if you see someone pouring gasoline all over that house with a clear intent, you’re still pretty scuzzy for handing that person a match. Where’s the honour in knowingly being an accessory to a crime? She’s more guilty than him, but ‘less guilty’ isn’t exactly innocent.

      These two skanks need to be placed in quarantine, who knows what they’re carrying? Or read a frigging book–it’s a new invention, but it’s quite good.

      ‘He said he would respect in the morning’. Sit in the bath and scrub, scrub and think. Make sure you don’t breathe in or try to drink all of that bath water, it’s not good for you.

  22. Jill says:

    She’s an idiot and he’s an effing jerk.

  23. samira677 says:

    This must be the dumbest woman in the world. If she was friends with Gerard before the affair she had to know he was a ho.

  24. Hautie says:

    I love how this girl, basically tried to up trade, with a known man-whore.

    And somehow… Radar knows all about it.

    I wonder how much she got paid for the info… and will this be a week long series about Jerry and his wandering dong.

    • Sigh. says:

      It is strange how protective Radar is being of the “wannabe,” isn’t it? Gossip blogs usually go out of their way to be the first to find, then name ALL parties involved. Radar is doing just the opposite, for once.

      *Someone* close is getting paid very well (in money? revenge?) for this slow roll out, so I’m sure it will be topped off with an “Exclusive: He Betrayed Me” feature, in 3…2…

    • Wendi says:

      Am I the only person here who “gets” that the anonymous woman doesn’t actually exist? Hello… None of you read the CDAN revealed blind a week or so back (it was Butler) in which it was releaved that he has a slight sexual problem with “being early” and has resorted to dating teens because they are so awed by who he is they don’t care?

      And then ALL of a sudden, he’s such a stud anonymous women whose names are closely protected are leaving their husbands for him?

      The woman, the husband and the affair probably never happened, but soon you’ll have some just divorced famewh*re who’ll “admit” it was her because of the publicity she’ll get.

  25. The Original Mia says:

    This woman was living in Lala land literally because what person over 20 doesn’t know Gerry Butler is a manwhore and not interested in settling down. He likes women. Lots of women. Of different sizes, shapes, and races. He ain’t trying to settle on one, when he can have a buffet.

    I feel for her husband because his wife is weak. I feel for her child because she ruined her son’s relationship with his stepfather. I have zero sympathy for her because she wrought this destruction on her own life. And…Carmen Elektra is cackling with glee.

  26. mel says:

    I wonder if he went to rehab because he realized how serious it is to help destroy a marriage…

  27. Sumodo1 says:

    Two sex addicts. It’s like the elephant in the room!

  28. Jayna says:

    Wow, no pity for her from me. Because a star wanted to F her she should forget the supposed reason she married her husband, love?

  29. Holden says:

    I love it, she knew what she was risking when she had an affair and now she’s facing the consequences. Since she’s a wanna be model/actress, its not like she’s going to be giving up any assets any way…

  30. Nanz says:

    I would think that the married person who cheats is the homewrecker (female or male). Not that the third person is blameless, but I don’t think homewrecker is the right title for them. I don’t know what you would call them instead, maybe amoral a-hole? This could also be interchangeable with the actual homewrecker. I just know (for me) if I ever bring someone into to my marriage, I’m the one who would be wrecking the home. I’ve been reading all morning, so forgive me for being antsy about the language.

  31. Julie says:

    poor guy and poor kid. having a mother that willingly trashes marriages and homes because she cant keep her legs together must suck.

    i dont know if butler knows the guy personally but you really should honor and respect other peoples relationships. yes the cheater is more to blame than the single but that doesnt make it right.

    i wonder why we have no name of the woman, we always get the craziest rumours about married guys but you rarely get anything with marrried women and women are not much more faithful than men, especially not women with lots of money and power.

    oh and girl, please get tested for STDs.

  32. wtf says:

    well rehab didn’t last he was blitzed last weekend and the flings rumoured name has leaked….she had a fling with Dave Navvarro….sarah Howard…..looks Gerards type

  33. ShanKat says:

    Whoa…this guy’s a scumbag? What a total shocker.

  34. MST says:

    Um, he may be a creep, but she is the one who was married. I don’t know what kind of wedding vows she took, but I’m sure that something like “forsaking all others” was in there.

    Is he friends with another famous Celtic manho’, Colin Farell? Just wondering . . .

  35. kira says:

    Gives new meaning to the phrase, “The Butler did it.”

    Homes wrecked?

    The Butler did it.

    Raging case of crabs?

    The Butler did it.

    Missing your underwear?

    The Butler did it.

  36. MissKiki says:

    I think that anyone who cheats within a relationship is foul, however I also think that the person that pursues/hooks up with someone that they know is in a relationship is equally as foul.

    HOWEVER The Butler looks like an absolute filthbox and he would still get it.HARD

  37. Was the word “no” not in this poor woman’s vocabulary? “No, I’m married.” “No, I love my husband.” “No, you’ve slept with 1/2 of Los Angeles.”

  38. boredsuburbanhousewife says:

    Oh Kaiser, I feel your pain, and even more, your disappointment and ANXIETY for this man!

    Like the skank in the story, I too was recently tempted by GBUT to stray from my longtime once and forever imaginary husband Sean “The Sex” Bean.

    How could one not love the man as he embodies the handsome romantic hero & oozes onscreen sexual chemistry! Especially prior to his overtraining on 300, he was truly a BEAUTIFUL man.

    But there is so obviously something REALLY REALLY wrong with him! Even famous manwhores like Beatty, Nicholson & Jagger engaged in serial monogamy even if they cheated a lot! Even Clooney always has one cocktail waitress per two year period on his arm! Some sort of committed long term attachment is crucial to career longevity and mental and emotional stability — clearly out of whack here.

    Kaiser, like you I also have a fondness for the classy British actors like Colin Firth — when you look at how his career is going and how happy and healthy he seems with his beautiful wife, why can’t an intelligent guy like GB use his big head for once and figure this out?

    Otherwise he is on track to continue being an object of widespread disgust and disdain, serial addictions, and bimbo eruptions for the rest of what remains of his career!

  39. Dirty Martini says:

    Girlfriend was married; girlfriend cheated on her husband. GB wasn’t married to the husband, and he didn’t cheat on marriage vows he took in this situation.

    Don’t get me a wrong, the man’s a horndog, karma’s a bitch, he can have all the single girl sex he wants I believe and then some so why go after another man’s wife?

    Nonetheless the biggest villian(ess) in this story isn’t GB. Except in that stocking cap picture. I hate those things.

  40. The Truth Fairy says:

    The photo that Michael K’s DLISTED puts with his coverage of this story has put me off Gerry forever.

    Manwhore? No biggie. Rehab? It happens. Homewrecker? Whatever. But that photo on DLISTED? Will never look at Gerry again. Ever.

  41. gobo says:

    Oh come on! She was the one who was married, she wrecked her own home.

  42. Kate says:

    Sorry folks Gerry STILL doesnt look too good here. With all of the single ladies available for a good GET DOWN he had to pick a married one? Yeah she was beyond foolish–ESP-cheating on a guy who was willing to marry you with a kid in tow! But just because you didnt rob the bank doesnt mean that you get off the hook if you’re the one who drove the get a way car! As great looking as Gerry is theres NO double standard in the matter imo. The ONLY way he’s not at fault is if she kept it hidden that she was married.

  43. weetiger3 says:

    Why are you assuming any of this is true? One notorious gossip site had this little item in which they probably found one little kernal of truth and rolled it in a coating of speculation and innuendo and then sites all over the web are repeating it. There’s so much that doesn’t even make sense. Every site that reports it changes it slightly. It’s a game of “Telephone” and another case of something becoming fact by repetition. I’m not a Butler apologist,nor am I one of his “mommies” wringing my hands about his “soul”, but this sh*t drives me crazy. Even husband #1 who broke the news that his ex cheated on him with Navarro didn’t know about Butler despite the fact that the ex was crying on his shoulder and they’ve remained close. The woman (whoever she is, I’m assuming she’s real and not fictional here)claims that she met Butler once at a premiere, a fact easily checked, especially if she and current husband were supposedly his friends. Now it’s being reported he’s named in the divorce proceedings. Next thing you know he’ll be the father of her child and she’s pregnant with twins.

    • boredsuburbanhousewife says:

      I am guessing she leaked it herself. Next she will be given a reality show and will achieve the “fame”, or at least notoriety, that she has been seeking all along.

    • Crystal says:

      ITA. This story makes no sense (and this is the most coherent rendition I’ve seen so far), from the random timing to why it’s even “news”-worthy. So the ultimate manslut banged a married slut sometime last year, but we don’t know who she is. It must be a slow day in gossip land.

  44. trillian says:

    I really don’t understand the concept of “homewrecking”. The people who are called homewrecker are not the ones who are cheating, are not the ones who are lying and are not the ones who are committed to someone or breaking a vow. So what exactly are THEY doing wrong?

  45. sup says:

    i don’t get his appeal. considering he has appeal, why is he getting roles again?

  46. Izzy says:

    Huh. My bad. I thought it might be Jaime Pressly, who I think modeled when she was younger, but Sarah Howard keeps popping up as the mistress in question here. Too bad Gerry didn’t also work on his sex addiction whilst in rehab!

  47. skuddles says:

    Bad boy Gerard! Oh well, blame it on the booze and the blow….

  48. Moi says:

    He seems to have major issues. With a lot of things. If you want an order of who’s to blame. It’s the woman who cheated on her husband, then Gerard Butler. They are both asshats. I feel sorry for her kid. That is, if this ends up being fact.

  49. Moi says:

    This comment from a poster on Dlisted about the pic MK put with the article made me bend over with laughter.

    “He looks like a crazy homeless man who just knocked over a Chinese food delivery boy and stole his moo goo gai pan.”

  50. Hmmm says:

    It’s amazing how much physical attractiveness mitigates the amoral asshole factor.

    I think that he perceives himself as a Casanova.
    But he will get old. Karma, baby. I can’t wait.

    I find him repulsive.

  51. sweetpea says:

    A friend of mine and I have renamed casual sex “getting Butler’d” – thanks to Gerard for keeping it real!

  52. Cait says:

    He gives me the damn creeps.

  53. Meanchick says:

    No angels in this story.

  54. amber says:

    One sex addict meets another sex addict. She needs rehab bad. More than. Gerard. She has a child.

  55. Renee says:

    It’s generally best to never believe anything a man tells you, especially in bed.

  56. Jordan says:

    LOL at the headline and that first pic! Wasn’t there another story about how this same woman also had an affair with Dave Navarro while he was married to Carmen Elektra? I agree with poster above, there’s no angels here. And if anyone should sue, shouldn’t it be the cuckolded husband? (YES! Never thought I’d work cuckolded in today! Thanks Gerry!)

  57. Beatriz says:

    Ugh, I hate the term “home wrecker”, it makes it sound as if the other woman doesn’t carry any responsibility in this. Last time I checked he didn’t put a gun to her head, she slept with him knowingly!

  58. kate says:

    Lol. I guess when you as beautiful as angelina or as handsome as gerry you can get away with anything short of murder. As i gather from these responses and past aj posts.

  59. Cara says:

    certainly this isn’t the first marriage he’s broken up

  60. SRT says:

    Wonder what Mama Butler has to say about all of this.

  61. lordy says:

    darn…he wasn’t homewrecking with the husband. that would have been hot, him and him ruined her marriage. that, my friends, would be newsworthy.

  62. Valentina says:

    She needs to suck it up for cheating on her husband… Butler’s single, he may try to hook up with anyone, but she was married! Do wedding vows mean anything to anyone anymore???